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on a norms I can, if he's infertile. But the typical Nigerian man cannot stay with his woman through hard times, so why should I do that for a man. The man who would make me marry him even when he's sterile must be really worth it o.

maxysmith:
she should continue slaying in book......who dat one epp

Lmao, you are one funny girl. the worse thing in life for any woman, is to be unsuccessful both academically and still not be married. I can see you yelling people it can never take long for you to get married, but really you never can tell what the future holds for you. just be happy for her that's all am saying. it's just terrible when women bring each other down. at least it's understandable if all you're saying is coming from a guy.

maxysmith:
NO b her fault too....nah because she no get aunty wey go wear this kind shoe come her house

nawa for you ooo, and you're a woman. is it not better to slay in book, that to slay on IG. nawa

tosyne2much:
So, now that you're an adult, you haven't seen any man that has proven to you that all men are not the same?

lol, I have jor, I'm still with that same guy that proved to be good

jhudit:
They see this one as a norm. They'll even say the woman deserves it for bringing nothing to the table.

well till now I don't really know what a Nigerian man wants. all I know is when you see one that doesn't see you as threat cos you're richer or doesn't treat you like dirt cos he a richer than you, then go for it.
This Nigerian men matter don tire me. Glad I've been able to meet the a good guy when I was younger, at least he's taught me not all men are this same.

tosyne2much:
Well, you made a very thoughtful comment. But I have never supported men who treat their wives like rags and I will never do that

well nice, thumbs up .

tosyne2much:
That's very true. Most women always misbehave and ride on their husbands when they are the breadwinners. Only a minute percentage of them still main their loyalty and humility.

there many women who get ride on by their husbands too because the husband is richer. how come no one sees anything wrong in that, is what baffles me. let me tell you it takes a very very good person to be rich and still be humble. I've heard of many men who threaten to throw their wife's luggage out. why? because they own the house. why is it that you never see men come on here to preach against it. this issue of a breadwinner being proud is not a woman thing, it is a general thing, very common depending on who is richer. which is very very wrong.

I know a woman who can't put on the generator when her husband is not home because her husband might even send her packing of she does, why? because he owns it and the house they live in. there are several cases have heard, where a man threatens to send his wife packing and when I found out it's usually not even about attitude. let me state a scenario here, he wanted to send the wife packing cos one of the kids got injured during inter house sports.


so I want to know are you against a man who belittles his wife cos he's richer too? or you see it as the norm.

Tearless:
Thumbs up bro. Leave the dinosaurs. The conservative cretins. They're bound to go extinct. If female emancipation gives them such etiolating quivers, they had better go back to 1652 and remain trapped there forever. Their insistence and irritating persistence on the imbecilic and retar_ded demand that the female Homo Sapien must forever remain docile and mentally sluggish is way past the point of embarassment. I'm going to have a daughter at some point in the future, and I ain't raising no slave!

I, however, despise extremist feminists too. Misogynistic chauvinists and misandrist feminists are the same set of people in my book, and I totally denounce them, no holds barred.

lol, I hate those set of people too. why hate the opposite gender because you want gender equality. anyway chimanmada adiche, beyonce and I can go on and on and they are feminists how come they still have their marriages. most men who trample on women always forget they'll one have girl children lol. nice points bro

deenee:
First and foremost it woman and secondly...this is very sexist.....why focus on women alone?

I just don't know it's beginning to get really annoying, he as well write it normally without putting gender. like outling guideline down because he feels women are stupid. this society if just bleeped up big time. this are one of our thinking we need to change for progress in this country.

DirewolfofStark:





If you're good, you're good. We should stop this mindless obsession with gender politics.

I'm just fed up of all this gender issues, even me that I'm studying estate management, final year. some people won't stop asking me if I can enter Bush cause I'm a woman, it pisses me off , because a course was dedicated to safety precautions during construction. I just wish people would shut up about this gender issues.

Deeypeey:
Can I meet u?I wanna avenge ur brother...on MK

Lmao, you can't avenge him. no way. ordinary kitana I use finish am.lol

TarOrfeek:
Female gamers.
Yeah Candy crush try for them sha.

my favourite is GTA, played vice city, liberty city, San Andreas. uncharted, assassin's creed , God of war and lots more, San Andreas is the only one I mentioned in the above that I haven't finished. I whoop my brother's ass in mortal combat, and I'm fucking stylish and it doesn't mean I'm some geek. It's funny with the stereotypes. and I've met many girls who hate candy crush, which includes me.

most people's comments here are so .... infact I smh. now lemme explain this to you, women go to church more than men because of pure societal pressure. I've seen most guys condemn me for not going to church in school according to them "a woman is meant be more spiritual". like say Jesus, his disciples na woman. smh once again.

sinaj:
Oga I don't support the lynching part plsssssss!


My post is about the raising of alarm! u guys should learn to read to comprehend!

I think some guys just mentioned those people knew the soldier, from what I heard it was more of an assassination. Aluu 4 comes to mind.

Jarus:
I have always feared group road travels, especially students'.

No superstition attached to it, and not that what will happen will not happen, but I just dread it.

same here, I'm always afraid of that thing, I'm still trying to talk my departmental mates out of this final year fun trip they bout to go for. if they won't listen I'm definitely not going with them.

ireneidiva:
smh. It is 'bachelor' not 'bachelor's'. I think Nigerians should stick to their local languages. I give up!

it shouldn't reach that level na, you can simply correct her. one cannot know everything.i made the same mistake too until I saw people correct her now I know it bachelor.

dangotesmummy:
Bachelor's of science- B.sc
Master's of science-M.sc
Doctor of philosophy-PhD


Even the ones criticizing and mocking her aren't any better like they know


Even market woman who doesn't know the name of her local government chairman or the responsibilities of her local government to their community will be judging and mocking. Shioorrr
Bad wagon mentality

Everyone wants to feel or pretend to be better and more knowledgeable than the other

B.Tech - bachelor of technology. thank God it's not Tboss, the internet for break.

KemjikaEme:
Lol! True sha. Most Housemates are currently engaged in one venture or another.
Efe is about to shoot a music video.
Bisola has released a song.
Debbie and Bassey collaborated on a song.
Bally is doing charity work.
Miyonse is giving catering lectures.
Others are doing pretty well and engaged in different activities.
What is Tboss doing?

she acted as a journalist In one film like that with eniola badmus

Angel196:
People. it has some sad sick people.

no it has some sad sick men, if you had followed her comments you'd have realised she's referring to r he guys blaming this lady for her death when they know nothing about her.

Anusiemgood:
but when all you looking for in a woman, you find it her but she disagree not to associate her self in my church.. what will you suggest on that.

then truth be told that's not the woman for you, you'll always find a woman who would not only love you for who you are but wouldn't mind changing her religion or her belief

dingbang:
I know but my mum wasn't catholic when my dad married her but now she is very much involved in the catholic faith.. So its not a new thing..

your mum is different you have to know that, what works for one woman wouldn't work for the other that's the truth. even if at all you'll probably make your wife become Catholic, it's better you ring it in her ears while dating so she'll know.

dingbang:
so what if I love a girl who is not from d catholic church? How do I go about dat?

wouldn't it just be better if you just marry someone from Catholic to avoid unnecessary fight every Sunday morning with your wife. You can also fall in love with someone from Catholic very possible. I as a person cannot marry a man from certain churches it can't just happen, because what's the point , when I can get to marry someone with the same belief as mine

I dated a jeovah's witness years back and I hated myself.

in order to avoid trouble you can just marry a Catholic.

Fukup:
This is almost the exact thing that happened in the series "13 reasons why"

We should really be contious of how we treat others...The things we say to others matters alot

You've watched that film too, that film is a very sad film I swear. it reminds me of my past. people don't know there's power in the tongue.

Imstrong:
Not everyone can handle humiliation, that painful moments when you are saying the truth and no one wants to believe you including family members so sad

the people insulting her never jam wicked roommates, I had my own experience, three girls against they all knew themselves before I joined them. it got to a stage ehn, I call my dad in phone con begin dey cry say life don tire me. what kept me going was the encouraging words of my dad and my bf, maybe I could have ended like her too.

tosyne2much:
Brother most of these ladies grew up with bad upbringing.. That was how an Igbo man told me he will only give her daughter out for marriage to the highest bidder

I'm a sister actually, well you've said it all.... bad upbringing.

sexybbstar:
I've been coming across a lot of threads these days that has to with ladies admonishing fellow ladies to desist from dating broke guys.This is absolutely ridiculous.Your parents are financially okay?Who told you your mum married your father as a rich man?She stood with him through trying times and now ,you as their daughter is reaping the fruits of her patience.
Below are the reasons why the theory "DON'T DATE BROKE GUYS" is totally wrong!

(1)You asked him to buy or get you something and he couldn't afford it and u decided to leave him for that?If you could afford it ,why didnt you get it in the first place?Though,a man is suppose to carry out some certain duties but dont heap your burden on him ,he is a boyfriend ,not your husband,go meet your parents,they gave birth to you and should be able to take responsibilities on you as long as you are not yet married.

(2)Struggle with him ,work hard and ensure to give him your support .When the story changes ,you are sure to be given the credit.You want an already made man?Then you should be happy hearing this statement from him"I WAS RICH BEFORE I MET YOU".

(3)Obviously,most guys (not all)dont ignore ladies that stood with them during their struggle to success.I hope you know that 2face wasn't rich when he started dating Annie,despite his flaws he still got married to her at the end of the day.Sanyeri(Afonja Olaniyi)a yoruba actor,got married to his girlfriend that was with him before he came into limelight.A very good example is Odunlade Adekola,some of you abuse him for having a ugly wife.Where were the bleach queen actresses when the wife was suffering with him?.Support him girl,you will get the credit soon.

(4) We have so many cases of broke guys who became rich and rich guys who became poor.That broke guy you embarassed today may have another story to tell tomorrow and that rich guy you followed may later dump you for the lady that stood with him during his stuggle.NOTE:Rich guys hardly appreciate a lady they met after their success.Some rich guys are out there without girlfriend ,not because they see no lady but because they doubt if there will be true love.Its believed that Rich guys hardly find true love which is truly embedded in that statement "DONT DATE BROKE GUYS"That means you dated the rich guy for the money not for love.

(5)Several ladies are single out there all in the name of searching for a rich dude.Work for your own money ,rich guys will flock around you,you wont have to search for one again.

(6)Many ladies are in the grave because they wanted a rich guy but unfortunately for them ,they fell victim of ritualist.Do you know how many ladies died because of Iphone4......now we have Iphone7.........Iphone10 will soon be knocking at the door in few years time.


Do you know Iphone8 will be launched soon?So please double your Olosho hustles,so that you can use the latest gadgets.Don't mind any guy that wanna fall in real love with you,they are all heartbreakers as love is dead,Jump like frog from one yahoo boy to another to a married man,and to a sugar daddy......They are the ones that can pay your bills.Don't mind any guy professing love to you ojare.Bleep LOVE!!!!This world is very sweet my sister enjoy and enjoy and enjoy and dont listen to anyone or take up any preaching from anyone.
But I have a good news for you my sister,When that guy you wasting your life with is ready to settle down,he will marry a very decent girl who has a good future ambition,properly trained,well cultured and mannered and he will use you as a testimony in the Church.By then you will be above 30years and your big boobs and ass would have sagged,wrinkled with heavy stretch marks all over and you will be looking extra-ordinarily older than your age because your beauty would have faded off,..Even MaryKay,BlackOpral,Sleek or classic will not stay well on your face again.A word is enough for d wise


Ladies ,be independent .With that you will earn guys respect.Stop being a GOLD DIGGER!

*ATTACK IS 100% ALLOWED

babe be ready for attack, I remembered I created a thread like this last year, come see curse on top my head. some won't listen but you've said absolutely the truth. I was talking to a girl like that last week just normal discussion and she was talking about how she should just finished school marry rich man, men I was boiling... You wanna know why that's because this gal has a crazy Cgpa 3.98 or so, she still aiming for first class. so what she's telling me now is once she finishes school she'll waste the certificate and marry rich man.

lindaikeji too na woman like us na. babe thumbs up.

i'd prefer getting advise like this from a womanthan to get it from a man.

Lashort:
Oh jesus christ! Smh

Where in my post did I say that a man needs to support me?? Please enlighten me

okay ooo, sorry. You don't have to take it out on me tho. there are up to 30 people who quoted you with insults, funny I've approached you in a sensible manner yet you're shaking your head.


on a second note, you said if your want to be poor you'll stay in your nan's house, doesn't that denotes you waiting for a man's money to be rich

Lashort:
Be with a guy who's broke? For what? How old is he? What was he doing when his age mates were saving (The Bible condemns lazy people)

No I'm sorry I cannot!!!
If I want to be poor I'll remain in my nan's house and stay single Be with a broke guy? (Godforbid)

sorry. sister, but don't vex for me, lindaikeji is a woman like us na. she isn't waiting or depending on any man before she marries. You can be rich without depending on a man na. these are reasons why most men don't respect us. No I'm not waiting for validation from any man but truth be told it's kinda weird to say such, everyone has there choices but the statement you want to be poor you'll stay in your house. a rich guy shouldn't be a stepping stone for we women, a rich guy should be a jara.

as for me I'll make my doe, before thinking of getting married, rich guy or not



even though we know black men are confused people, when they see a broke girl they trample upon her, when they meet women like lindaikeji they hate her for her success and call her feminist.

when they see a girl who stays with them during hard time they profess love, immediately money comes they dump her for a girl who was never there for him

Berbierklaus:
You are the only one who got emotional today by throwing insults up and down because someone's opinion is different from yours. The thing pain you gan fa

lol very funny, when you see a man laughing in an argument, just know you're already getting to him. in a man's mind when a woman has a contrary opinion to theirs she becomes feminists and then start name calling of all sorts and threats of how she'll never marry lmao.

pocohantas:
Or they threaten you with marriage, call you ugly, olosho, wide toto and all those rubbish...those things no dey don't move me, if only they know. Finally, I can't be bullied, I am highly pachydermous and strong willed.

men, those human creature I'll never understand, he couldn't even get a good argument lmao, he just had to start name calling.

very very predictable set of beings, when you're predictable why won't you be easily manipulated

pocohantas:
Lol. They reserve the right to send PMs. If a brother here gets my attention, I will send him a PM or reply if he sends .

I don't have a problem with their opinions, my first post even supported the OP. My annoyance is directed at those who insult a sister for not agreeing with them.
One is still here crying about feminist...chai.


Thanks sis...I appreciate.

he's been all about feminism since I started reading this thread, such a shame. instead of them making adjustments in their lives... they won't. men are so predictable ehn. when you have different views or you independent they call you feminist.

when you don't and you broke, they'll call you olosho, very predictable set of humans, black men smh

wristbangle:
Don't be a coward love. Post the damn PMs lets see.

Feminists seem to be having a field day. Make una no worry when una reach 50 years, Una go fast tire dey pray for husband. See as dem dey flex muscle like chimpazene. Na the yeye boys I pity whey dem dey give these brainless ladies attention.

I think pocohontas was kinda right o, so you can't even make an argument without referring to women whose views are different from yours as feminists or olosho. there's no longer this wow element in guys again.


pocohantas