God bless our troops

fuzzywuzzy:
lol, Of course. I think the story is fabricated though.... No mentally mature person will actually force his wife to swallow his semen even after she gags. Unless he is tired of the marriage and wants her to get tired as well.

How can you say it is fake when there are people on this thread who are advising her to swallow it just to save her marriage. Obviously there are people who feel think this way. Anything to save your marriage seems to be the idea

SMH

Chienex24:


Go & live in the US where perversion is practiced in broad day light due to the way they handle their kids! What do u mean by he has no right to flog them?
He has every right to discipline them & still report them to their parents! This will paint a clear picture in their minds that what is bad is bad, because It is possible that their parents might not punish them. They might want to see their children committing the act before they believe!

And for you to say that flogging them is jungle justice suggests you might have lacked home training!

This is the problem with Nigerians. He has no right to touch them. Even in Nigeria it is illegal. Before you jump down someone's throat maybe you should educate yourself first. If she walked in on someone beating her child and she beats she crap out of the person, there's nothing anyone will do to her. Legally she has the right to protect her child and you have no legal leg to stand on to assault a child. Further more, this happened in Nigeria so your argument that these things happen in broad daylight in other countries is at best ridiculous. This one happened in Nigeria and many more are happening because the typical solution would be to beat the children and move on as if that had done anything for anybody.

Nigerians are so ignorant of the law it brings me to tears. The woman is bragging that she was not the one who brought the girl from Lagos but only purchased her from the kidnappers. She is not even aware that in Nigeria she could get a death sentence for that. It's like people just think that Nigeria is a place were you wake up in the morning and scratch your arse and then proceed to do whatever the hell you want. I cannot wait for a time when people will start taking advantage of the laws that have already been set in place.
I am hopeful for this girl because she is old enough to know exactly were she is from. I am hoping she will find her way home one day. Parents need to educate their children about how to handle situations like this. The same way many parents do emergency drills with their children. Parents should start educating their children on what to look out for. What information to give out and what information they should not give out. Code words etc. This is the reality of today. Not just in Nigeria but all over the world.
Times have changed. Everyone is not your Aunty or Mommy as people in Nigeria condition children to think. Tell your children not to walk up to random strangers simply because it is an "Aunty". These kidnappers and baby thieves are usually women because people would least expect a woman to harm a child. Parents need to be more vigilant. Sending your child to school and not even checking in for weeks is ridiculous.

Redoil:
Inasmuch i am against the beating and touture of people who are called witches ishilove, if you have the opportunity to hear what the evil and wicked deeds this children witches commit and are confessing you will shed tears uncontrolably for 365 days. Though a lot of people who have never come in contact with their evil and wicked deeds will just wave any discussion about them with their hand. Children witches are very distructive to the extent that if i am having the opportunity i will pass a law among all the evil coven arround the world to up there ante and only allow people above the age of 20years to join them.
If you know that children witches is not a joke to be taking lightly share my post.

There's nothing like child witches. Go and repent. You heart is evil

What did he use on her? This is horrible

SmartChoices:

What kinda woman goes to take pix after spousal quarrels

Go sit in a corner. What the hell is wrong with you

mozele:


this is Naija. To hell with jail!

I hear the jails is Nigeria are the real deal. I can guarantee you that if you touch my child I will make sure you lick the floor of a Nigerian jail.

Holywizard:
if on a very gud day i touched de kids when they're on de right path eeeh...and they reported it to their parents. Hell will loose on the entire street because dey will nt try 2 hunt me down only, but make sure everybody start seeing me as a child abuser

You are doing the right thing by worrying about the kids but you were wrong to hit them. You've already said the parents are the type that might cause trouble for you. Just because it is Nigeria does not mean that the parents cannot come after you legally. If you run into this situation again you tell the parents and let them discipline the child.

He called her Charly Girl LOL. Nothing like a father's love

brito:
World worst husband's day on Nairaland. My sister endure your husband is a saint compared to the one that asked his wife to swallow his fluid to prove her love.

ROTFLMAO

Holywizard:
they re nt siblings.

So they are children from two different neighbors? I still think you should tell the parents. It's funny how you have no problem hitting someone else's child but you are afraid to tell their parents of their behavior.

cococandy:
well...to me admiration is allowed.
Saying how pretty some TV ladies are doesn't count as offensive to me because I say that too about some cute male actors.

Lust on its own is a natural thing that catches most of us unawares.
But If he finds himself lusting after a babe,he better not keep dwelling on those feelings especially not in my presence.

Saying it once is enough. Repeat it and I'll give him the evil eye.

I Had an ex who was so hung up on Megan Good that he started seeing her in me.
I don't even know if there's an inch of resemblance between me and the lady but he thought so obviously because he was subconsciously using me to make up for not having her. He kept harping on it. And the way he would rush any movie she acted and get so lost in it? Hmmm
Plus Plenty Pictures of her in his phone and laptop too. His own celebrity worship of her was too much.

Most uncomfortable date I ever had.
Was I going to try to be Megan Good?
Or accept that I'm like her to please him?

The thing Didn't last jare.

This is more like an obsession. Lust on steroids

Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

Why do you feel that you could put your hands on someone else's kid? Not only could you go to jail for that, you might end up with your own ass whooping before you go to jail

OP, what exactly did you see? I'm just asking because many times people do not think before they speak.

Ekywisez:

Please tell him to
Please tell him to try n stop it...its a very bad habit and its not right in the sight of God...tell him to confess it to his pastor who will tell him the steps to breaking the habit.I hope it helps....

What part of your bible tells you to confess to your pastor SMH

donpeey22:
Okay! That's an expensive joke shaaa ooo! But to each his own.

LOL. You sound so possessive. Please marry accordingly or you might run mad

cococandy:
admiring is not the same thing as lusting after.

This is true but if it's just someone on TV he is lusting after then should it even be a big deal. Many people have celebrity crushes but how many of us will ever actually meet them and then get a chance to act out those feelings.

oghalesluv:

Who said?

Nature said. And even the ones who have hymen do not have it intact by the time they hit puberty. Your hymen can break from just doing physical tasks that have nothing to do with sex

mutter:
My dear I honestly believe that your husband loves you but it doess appear he has a problem.

Self -pity

You see we are so used to using this word that it has become harmless and indeed a bit of self pity does one good but
Pity for oneself; especially exaggerated or self-indulgent pity where you believe that you are the victim who has done no wrong and is deserving of condolence from everyone.
Self-pity is the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is v addictive and easily becomes chronic.
You end up pitying yourself and believing you have done no wrong and someone else is responsible for you problems. You also loose thouch with reality of the situation.

This is also one condition that is largely ignored and most people would never admit the have this problem.

I think you need to observe it more and ask an expert, he might need help.

baby124:
Mental health is very important in your choice of partner. If it does not make sense, it does not for a reason. And if the person cannot help how they behave, then maybe they need mental help. He has to admit he has a problem and you both should seek help. I am serious. A lot of the spousal abuse that is verbal, physical and emotional stems from deep mental health issues and unresolved problems of the abuser

I agree with both posts. It's either an emotional or mental issue or it falls somewhere in between. I have seen were a man obviously cares for his wife and they live well together but his sisters are in bad marriages. When they start bad mouthing his wife he does not defend her. In fact he feels bullied to agree. I think it comes from years of having two overly pushy older sisters and a dad not being around but what the heck do I know.

Oh please. What the heck is a blood membrane. Not all women are even born with a hymen

bugativeron:
@OP MouthAction itself is not bad. but forcing to you swallow his semen is mean and demeaning. I am a man i will never support that. Please resist it as much as you can and if he fails to reason along with you, report him to some body that he listens to and respect. You are not a LovePeddler and dont allow yourself to be treated as such. If on your on volition you want to do it, good. But for you to be forced is cruel and I suspect something is mentally wrong with your husband. Watch it

I agree that his behavior is completely unreasonable but I just have such an issue with this reporting your spouse thing. Especially when it is things that should be your issue alone. I think that's why I support using faceless forums like this one to get opinions. There has to be some sort of compromise. Is she even willing to perform MouthAction? I'd prefer they talk to a sex therapist than take the "reporting" route. I feel that issues should always be kept within the marriage but I understand that that is unrealistic for many marriages. Telling a pastor or a family member tends to backfire. Maybe I am just too protective of things that matter to me. What if we work it out and then whenever I see this person I will wonder if he or she is wondering if I swallowed cum today LOL. Please it's too much

I couldn't care less

tpiah01:
perhaps as a sex addict, you find my post offensive.

Shouldn't you be frying plantains or something

mutter:


This pain is different from other pain.
It announces the coming of a child.
the first contractions are shorter and not so painful. As the contractions get intense, the stomach tightens up more you get excited because the baby is almost there. There is no pain in between the contractions. Then at the end you can be active pushing the baby out yourself. Feel it passing through , feel the relief when the baby pups out and the pain is gone completely.

Be able to yell at the kids and tell them how you suffered to bring them to the world

I will confidently yell at my kid if I need to. Even one minute of nausea gives me that right

tpiah01:




i dont know where you are from, but traditionally, older women are not supposed to be sex sirens. Its probably a taboo or something.

leave that for the younger ladies who still have to find husbands and boyfriends.

Perhaps things are done differently in your area?

if you must have the sex, then do it with your age mate or someone closer to your age.

Traditionally women should be in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. Why are you not there?

mutter:
I can understand that most women are scared. Most women now shy away from a natural birth because of the pain and there is no point trying to convince anyone otherwise.
If you cannot approach a birth as a natural process you are bound to stiffen up and have so much pain.

I had all my children natural and I never had to scream or yell and throw myself around, like you see in the movies and films

Another advantage of a natural birth is that your movement is not restricted. I like walking around, squatting or even entering a bath tub.

I think that most women are scared by what the hear and see and that frightens them. You need to inform yourself more about natural births. In some countries it is an occasion and the whole family is in attendance for a home birth.

I don't think it is a matter of being scared. It's more of the logical approach. Why should I feel pain when I do not have to? I don't understand why the pain part has to be experienced? What does it add to anything. Does it ensure that the child is healthier? Does it make the woman stay sexy forever? I mean what is so important about the pain? Also most women feel the pain before epidural. For many they have already labored for a while before they get it. No one wants to give you epidural when you're not at a reasonably progressed stage of labor. So it's not like you get it when you are 5 months pregnant pending when labor kicks in. Labor has already begun and in many cases pushing is near before epidural comes. I just don't understand how the pain of pushing the baby out and feeling your vagina being cut by a scalpel adds anything to my womanhood.

Demainman1:
For Abroad, men apologize to their wives even when they are right (except dem no want peace )

For Nigeria, men find it difficult to apologize because they know their value

Just change the topic to Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologize in Nigeria?

Actually that does not show value but lack of manners. This idea that apologizing or even saying thank you to your wife or your children is belittling is so backward.

chibic:
this is a dumb post! Now I know why women are so promiscous and cheap these days.look at the way you reason.enjoy her self by shamelessly opening her legs for a boy same age with her son.what happened to her agemates? So promiscuity is now called enjoyment?

How did you conclude that she is promiscuous?

I just can't with some posts.

bellong:




It happens especially when you are not interested in the convo and you wanted it to end ASAP...... or When you think objecting will create a long argument, you just play along and deny the discussion later.... Many reasons sister soulglo



Amen....

LOL. That's obvious but I will not carry on a conversation I don't want to have so I will not be nodding my head or pretend to be interested. As far as long arguments goes are you trying to say women are trouble makers