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https://www.nairaland.com/2096643/wife-user-advice-please Interesting that dinachi had nothing nice to say about this man's wife who verbally abuses him. In fact he calls for him to divorce her. Dinachi you are a spineless, no ball having, insecure man. You are likely not married and if you are your wife likely stops herself from vomiting at the sight of you. Go and apologize to your parents. You're a disgrace. |
Story story. This is pure fiction. |
carefreewannabe:All those I could do in a million other settings |
I guess I always try to see the logic in things. I sadly do not see how it is necessary for married folks to go "clubbing" |
otokx:Imagine!!! Responsible for a 36 year old woman. This has to be the joke of 2015. Even if he does get her a little studio he should only pay for like 6 months or so. She needs to take some responsibility for herself |
Your wife and an abusive tyrant and you are a lazy, over grown baby. I'm not sure why you let her get away with all she does but I suspect that it is because secretly you believe that you are useless and you are not going to feel less useless if you cannot even hold down a simple job or have a steady stream of income. Do you plan to raise children in a home were you are constantly belittled and ridiculed? Your children will learn that behavior and carry it to their own homes. Grow a pair and get control of your home. She might feel like she earns a living and does not need to behave like a human being anymore. Maybe she needs to feel what it's like to have all the money in the world but not husband to help her out around the house. Let her spend only her own money for a while. SMH |
OP if he is that abusive I don't see him ever changing. The truth is I do not need to know what happened. If he indeed used a cane, belt and blows to the head on you then you two have no business together. Your combination is toxic. Please start planning your future. Put that rage and thirst for revenge you have now into planning a safer and healthier future for yourself. I wish you well |
Hon Obahiangbon is not eloquent in anyway. He speaks with difficulty and his English sounds rehearsed. It's an embarrassment to put him on any level with Wole Soyinka when it comes to speaking English. Honorables English is horrible. |
May his soul rest in peace. All these men seem to be married with children. Seriously ? What would the unmarried, young, and directionless men do if the old married ones are getting drunk and fighting over girls. Agbayas. Priorities, people!!!!! |
Orikinla:Hmm. Are you sure about this? I find it hard to believe. Every time I have seen her she has a hair straightened. It would mean she is constantly using heat which would be severely damaging. I'll believe this when I see her hair in it's natural state like she used to have it in her younger years |
SuperMann:Yep I read about that in Ebony magazine. So that was you. I'm sorry ![]() |
naijaboiy:You're right. Nigerian men like you irritate me. The nice ones do not talk and it's the ones like you that fill the Internet with your filth. Nigerian men have a reputation of being dogs both in Nigeria and overseas and it's exactly because of people like you. You have no self respect. |
Overall, Mercy did a better job |
She needs to move on and stop granting interviews about him. It's stupid. He started the whole mess too. How do you break up with a woman and then go on the radio and talk about it. It's just childish. She should never have responded. She needs to focus on her career because this back and forth will hurt her more than it will hurt him |
naijaboiy:What is sad is that you truly believe that this is normal for most guys. This is normal for you and the guys in your circle. There are guys who see this behavior as animalistic. It is not a woman thing to find it disgusting that you call your friends to bring a vagina to their house to sleep with. That is gutter water behavior. You should be ashamed and not slapping yourself in the back because you just found a corner to screw a vagina. You and your ilk behave just like every neighborhood dog that escapes from the confines of it's home. Find a female dog and an available corner. Gross. Seriously, what happened to shame? |
Orikinla:Coconut oil for sure. I use it for my hair and skin everyday but I meant styling options. Styling our natural hair is simply more time consuming and expensive than just wrapping your permed hair. I had natural hair for a while and when I finally permed it most of my friends cried. I even had one that refused to talk to me meanwhile her hair was permed LOL. Natural hair is so pretty and even when I wear extensions now I wear kinky hair extensions. |
@OP, part of maturing is pruning your group of friends. It is time to drop the garbage. The fact that you chose this route simply shows that that type of behavior is not your cup of tea. There are men out there who would be embarrassed to pick up a phone and ask their friend if they could bring a woman to their home to sleep with. It is time to upgrade your friends. Some people were just not lucky enough to be raised with proper manners. You cannot change them but you can certainly improve were you are in life. You did nothing wrong. Move on bigger and better things. If he decides to hang around then fine and if he does not then good riddance. The saying "show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are" is usually true. Don't sleep in the gutter to please a friend when you have the option to sleep in a comfy clean bed in a luxurious room. Let him play in the mud by himself. |
PLEXPLEX:God does not give you what you want, he gives you what you need |
pretydiva:The problem is most of us do not know how to treat our natural hair and also I have to admit that our natural hair is more difficult to maintain. The average Nigerian girl could have this length in 2 years but most will not stick with it and when you start out there are not that many cute styles to do so ............... |
Wasn't it this Foluke woman who was dating a man while he was clearly married and then married him. I'm I thinking of someone else. It's not everyday you call someone a LovePeddler but she's even an unrepentant one |
chrisja:"When contacted on the phone, Reverend Father Stephen Okojie, Director, Benin Archdiocese Directorate of Communication, said he was yet to receive such information." Father Stephen Okojie has no knowledge of anything happening. Maybe you should ask your parish priest what hospital his fellow priest is in so you guys can go visit him there. Are they hiding the priest? |
chrisja:What are your facts? Did you see the priest being beaten to a coma? If you did not then you do not know any better then anyone reading here. All you know for sure is that a road was being commissioned. Sometimes you become a rumor monger without even realizing you are. You are insisting something happened when you have no proof. The church has even publicly admitted that they have not heard anything about it. Why is the hospital the priest in undisclosed? Why would the church not know that one of their own is in a coma? |
Rapmoney:So I guess "most of southern Nigeria" = some of Delta state |
You are too unstable to get married. Are you even sure she knows you guys are getting married On a serious note, you need to get the hell of of dodge. You are already processing things in an unstable and unhealthy manner. Her behavior is abusive and you are definitely showing the symptoms of an abused person. This is your chance to make the right decision. Cut her off!!!!! |
Contouring is real. It accentuated her cheekbones and nose bridge. She still has the features that make her pretty and knows how to use makeup to enhance them. Still a beautiful woman. |
Mogidi:What does you living in the area have to do with anything? You are basically spreading rumors. Some people prefer to get all the facts and then make deductions. If the diocese has not even heard of the incident shouldn't that make you think differently? Even from a common sense view point |
DieeDiee:Wow. Honestly there's no way I'm going back to read all the posts but I did see Carefree's comment and I felt it was misplaced blame and then saw Ewuro say the same thing but what was more glaring was you and Ewuro going at her. I was not aware of any previous issues. I honestly don't think I would put Carefree and Mutter in the same boat either. Ouch. I do see where you might be coming from. Let's just move on because I think OP has gotten the message loud and clear from different angles . She has more than enough information to make whatever decision she needs to make |
After the mother carried the baby for nine months and spent hours in labor, this boy is lying with the baby like he is exhausted Wonders |
softandsweet:LOL @ 49xxxxy. I don't think it's Klinefelter's though. I think there is more to this. |
Oklander: ![]() |
Akandu50:They are children Please hide your children from the OP |
? What would the unmarried, young, and directionless men do if the old married ones are getting drunk and fighting over girls. Agbayas. Priorities, people!!!!!