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FamilyRe: thank you by soulglo: 11:12pm On Jan 17, 2015
https://www.nairaland.com/2096643/wife-user-advice-please



Interesting that dinachi had nothing nice to say about this man's wife who verbally abuses him. In fact he calls for him to divorce her. Dinachi you are a spineless, no ball having, insecure man. You are likely not married and if you are your wife likely stops herself from vomiting at the sight of you. Go and apologize to your parents. You're a disgrace.
RomanceRe: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by soulglo: 11:07pm On Jan 17, 2015
RomanceRe: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by soulglo: 9:32pm On Jan 17, 2015
Story story. This is pure fiction.
FamilyRe: Is It Right For Married People To Go Clubbing ??? by soulglo: 9:26pm On Jan 17, 2015
carefreewannabe:
Necessary? Clubbing is never necessary.

But people do it for different reasons, for example to meet up with friends, listen to some good music and dance.
All those I could do in a million other settings
FamilyRe: Is It Right For Married People To Go Clubbing ??? by soulglo: 5:30pm On Jan 17, 2015
I guess I always try to see the logic in things. I sadly do not see how it is necessary for married folks to go "clubbing"
FamilyRe: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by soulglo: 5:29pm On Jan 17, 2015
otokx:
This our extended family model in Nigeria needs rejigging. Does the lady not go to work? Those saying buy 1 get 1 free have a strong point.
Imagine!!! Responsible for a 36 year old woman. This has to be the joke of 2015. Even if he does get her a little studio he should only pay for like 6 months or so. She needs to take some responsibility for herself
FamilyRe: Is My Wife A User?? - Advice Please by soulglo: 5:21pm On Jan 17, 2015
Your wife and an abusive tyrant and you are a lazy, over grown baby. I'm not sure why you let her get away with all she does but I suspect that it is because secretly you believe that you are useless and you are not going to feel less useless if you cannot even hold down a simple job or have a steady stream of income. Do you plan to raise children in a home were you are constantly belittled and ridiculed? Your children will learn that behavior and carry it to their own homes. Grow a pair and get control of your home. She might feel like she earns a living and does not need to behave like a human being anymore. Maybe she needs to feel what it's like to have all the money in the world but not husband to help her out around the house. Let her spend only her own money for a while. SMH
FamilyRe: thank you by soulglo: 5:15pm On Jan 17, 2015
OP if he is that abusive I don't see him ever changing. The truth is I do not need to know what happened. If he indeed used a cane, belt and blows to the head on you then you two have no business together. Your combination is toxic. Please start planning your future. Put that rage and thirst for revenge you have now into planning a safer and healthier future for yourself. I wish you well
CelebritiesRe: Hon Patrick Or Wole Soyinka? Who's Got The Larger Vocab? by soulglo: 5:11pm On Jan 17, 2015
Hon Obahiangbon is not eloquent in anyway. He speaks with difficulty and his English sounds rehearsed. It's an embarrassment to put him on any level with Wole Soyinka when it comes to speaking English. Honorables English is horrible.
CrimeRe: 2 Men Fight Over A Girl In Lagos, One Dies by soulglo: 5:04pm On Jan 17, 2015
May his soul rest in peace.

All these men seem to be married with children. Seriouslyhuh? What would the unmarried, young, and directionless men do if the old married ones are getting drunk and fighting over girls. Agbayas. Priorities, people!!!!!
CelebritiesRe: Is TY Bello The Nigerian Female Celebrity With The Most Beautiful Natural Hair? by soulglo: 4:56pm On Jan 17, 2015
Orikinla:
Michelle Obama, First Lady of America has 100% natural hair and she keeps hers healthy without attachments, extensions or wigs.
There is a style for every kind of natural hair.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbFzpLgFcT4
Hmm. Are you sure about this? I find it hard to believe. Every time I have seen her she has a hair straightened. It would mean she is constantly using heat which would be severely damaging. I'll believe this when I see her hair in it's natural state like she used to have it in her younger years
CelebritiesRe: Jason Derulo Claims Jordin Sparks Is Lying, Pulls Out The Receipts by soulglo: 8:31pm On Jan 16, 2015
SuperMann:
When i dated nicki minaj,this same issue came up..i bought her a plane,she said i leased d shii..jxt imagine undecided
Ladies shaa..Lol
Yep I read about that in Ebony magazine. So that was you. I'm sorry grin grin
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by soulglo: 8:30pm On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
This one is just angry grin

Abeg vent your frustration elsewhere grin
You're right. Nigerian men like you irritate me. The nice ones do not talk and it's the ones like you that fill the Internet with your filth. Nigerian men have a reputation of being dogs both in Nigeria and overseas and it's exactly because of people like you. You have no self respect.
CelebritiesRe: Ebube Nwagbo Vs Mercy Aigbe: Who Did Justice To This Look? (pic) by soulglo: 8:24pm On Jan 16, 2015
Overall, Mercy did a better job
CelebritiesRe: Jason Derulo Claims Jordin Sparks Is Lying, Pulls Out The Receipts by soulglo: 8:22pm On Jan 16, 2015
She needs to move on and stop granting interviews about him. It's stupid. He started the whole mess too. How do you break up with a woman and then go on the radio and talk about it. It's just childish. She should never have responded. She needs to focus on her career because this back and forth will hurt her more than it will hurt him
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by soulglo: 8:16pm On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
This is simply something you ladies will not understand grin

There are guys that have girlfriends of four years but still bring their side chicks to their friends house to do stuff.

It's bad,,no doubt but it happens.

I'm not surprised at all that ladies are supporting the guy. grin

But the Op feels guilty that is why he created this thread.
What is sad is that you truly believe that this is normal for most guys. This is normal for you and the guys in your circle. There are guys who see this behavior as animalistic. It is not a woman thing to find it disgusting that you call your friends to bring a vagina to their house to sleep with. That is gutter water behavior. You should be ashamed and not slapping yourself in the back because you just found a corner to screw a vagina. You and your ilk behave just like every neighborhood dog that escapes from the confines of it's home. Find a female dog and an available corner. Gross. Seriously, what happened to shame?
CelebritiesRe: Is TY Bello The Nigerian Female Celebrity With The Most Beautiful Natural Hair? by soulglo: 8:02pm On Jan 16, 2015
Orikinla:
There are solutions for difficult hair.
Coconut oil or "Adi Agbon" of the Yorubas works wonders for having and maintaining natural hair.
Coconut oil for sure. I use it for my hair and skin everyday but I meant styling options. Styling our natural hair is simply more time consuming and expensive than just wrapping your permed hair. I had natural hair for a while and when I finally permed it most of my friends cried. I even had one that refused to talk to me meanwhile her hair was permed LOL. Natural hair is so pretty and even when I wear extensions now I wear kinky hair extensions.
RomanceRe: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by soulglo: 7:58pm On Jan 16, 2015
@OP, part of maturing is pruning your group of friends. It is time to drop the garbage. The fact that you chose this route simply shows that that type of behavior is not your cup of tea. There are men out there who would be embarrassed to pick up a phone and ask their friend if they could bring a woman to their home to sleep with. It is time to upgrade your friends. Some people were just not lucky enough to be raised with proper manners. You cannot change them but you can certainly improve were you are in life. You did nothing wrong. Move on bigger and better things. If he decides to hang around then fine and if he does not then good riddance. The saying "show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are" is usually true. Don't sleep in the gutter to please a friend when you have the option to sleep in a comfy clean bed in a luxurious room. Let him play in the mud by himself.
CelebritiesRe: HIV+ Kehinde Bademosi Is Gay, Was Married For 6 Years by soulglo: 9:19pm On Jan 15, 2015
PLEXPLEX:
God can only give me what i want....i do not want gay & that ll never come to me so long as i continue to serve the Living God. I know who i am & i am so covered not to be burdened about ur conjectures
God does not give you what you want, he gives you what you need
CelebritiesRe: Is TY Bello The Nigerian Female Celebrity With The Most Beautiful Natural Hair? by soulglo: 9:15pm On Jan 15, 2015
pretydiva:
I don't fink she has ever cut down her hair since she was born...mine is also biuriful n natural 2
The problem is most of us do not know how to treat our natural hair and also I have to admit that our natural hair is more difficult to maintain. The average Nigerian girl could have this length in 2 years but most will not stick with it and when you start out there are not that many cute styles to do so ...............
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Celebrities Speak On Sex Before Marriage by soulglo: 3:26am On Jan 15, 2015
Wasn't it this Foluke woman who was dating a man while he was clearly married and then married him. I'm I thinking of someone else. It's not everyday you call someone a LovePeddler but she's even an unrepentant one
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole’s Aides Beats Up Catholic Priest by soulglo: 11:27pm On Jan 14, 2015
chrisja:
The parish priest at Saint Denis Catholic Church at Ugboha even spoke of the incident during the Sunday mass pleading with the people to forgive. So stop supporting what you know nothing about
"When contacted on the phone, Reverend Father Stephen Okojie, Director, Benin Archdiocese Directorate of Communication, said he was yet to receive such information."
Father Stephen Okojie has no knowledge of anything happening. Maybe you should ask your parish priest what hospital his fellow priest is in so you guys can go visit him there. Are they hiding the priest?
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole’s Aides Beats Up Catholic Priest by soulglo: 11:24pm On Jan 14, 2015
chrisja:
Please stop speaking without facts. I was in my home town this weekend, it actually happened. They blocked the entrance to the town because they were commissioning painted Road as a project.
What are your facts? Did you see the priest being beaten to a coma? If you did not then you do not know any better then anyone reading here. All you know for sure is that a road was being commissioned. Sometimes you become a rumor monger without even realizing you are. You are insisting something happened when you have no proof. The church has even publicly admitted that they have not heard anything about it. Why is the hospital the priest in undisclosed? Why would the church not know that one of their own is in a coma?
FamilyRe: ***Southern Nigeria And Paper-Bag Marriage*** by soulglo: 11:13pm On Jan 14, 2015
Rapmoney:
I just wonder why most people from the southern parts of Nigeria, especially, among the Urhobos, Isokos and Ijaws engage in paper-bag marriage. For those wondering what paper-bag marriage means...it means co-habitation between a man and a woman; not legally married.

It is so annoying to see a man and a woman living together, with up to 4 kids! In the end, you will find out that the woman's dowry has not been paid! I once attended a marriage ceremony where I discovered that the couple's first issue was already graduating from the university!

Am not trying to paint any tribe bad, but it is very common among the above-mentioned ethnic groups. What am asking: is this part of the African culture? Why have these people so degraded themselves to this extent? The elders are there...they see how their culture is derailed, yet they do nothing about it. I still remember my former landlady, telling on a fateful day, that what am I waiting for? That I should just impregnate my girl and start a family! From that day, I started losing my respect for her!

In the eastern part of Nigeria, trash like this doesn't happen. Only a wayward Igbo girl would get pregnant for a man and start a family with him. In the Igbo culture, such is forbidden!!! Alu!!! Abomination.

Pls, what's your take on this?
So I guess "most of southern Nigeria" = some of Delta state
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Urgently Before Doing Something Crazy. by soulglo: 11:09pm On Jan 14, 2015
You are too unstable to get married. Are you even sure she knows you guys are getting married grin On a serious note, you need to get the hell of of dodge. You are already processing things in an unstable and unhealthy manner. Her behavior is abusive and you are definitely showing the symptoms of an abused person. This is your chance to make the right decision. Cut her off!!!!!
CelebritiesRe: Photos: That Buhari's Daughter, Zahra Is Not Really That Fine After All! by soulglo: 11:02pm On Jan 14, 2015
Contouring is real. It accentuated her cheekbones and nose bridge. She still has the features that make her pretty and knows how to use makeup to enhance them. Still a beautiful woman.
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole’s Aides Beats Up Catholic Priest by soulglo: 5:07pm On Jan 14, 2015
Mogidi:
We that live in that area know what transpired, the rev father has not denied it.
What does you living in the area have to do with anything? You are basically spreading rumors. Some people prefer to get all the facts and then make deductions. If the diocese has not even heard of the incident shouldn't that make you think differently? Even from a common sense view point
FamilyRe: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by soulglo: 1:37am On Jan 14, 2015
DieeDiee:
@Soulglo: No one is ganging up on anyone. Some people, such as carefreewannabe and mutter, are just so judgemental and to quick to judge they say such foolhardy things that they basically do the electric slide into butt-jokes. Additionally they are just making a noise; they have nothing to say really which is why their arguments/stances are all over the place and they don't make sense. For example, at first Carefreewannabe was going on about how OP must make this man suffer and was supportive, when called on about encouraging revenge she tried to back paddle and said she doesn't advocate revenge only criminals should suffer (if you go back you'll see she sounded quite foolish) then she accused OP of being foolish for sleeping with her husband and having a child by him, making the OP's pregnancy sound shameful and foolish although if I remember correctly is not only perfectly normal but also one of the reasons people do get married and also the main reason religions encourage marriage. Also, instead of doing what a rational person would do - that is, ask questions instead of making assumptions that land her in the foolish pile - she just shoots her mouth of based on the voices in her head. After that she foolishly went on to demonstrate her juvenile mind by making beyond childish jibes (I've heard 9 year olds come up with better jibes - and I'm being truly honest here, I have heard better one-liners from children. These children will like have me on the floor with their quick, witty minds). Carefreewannabe just comes across as a crazy, bored housewife with no life of her own. She lives vicariously through others and tries to justify her sad life by judging others so that she can feel better. Ewuro on the other hand, say what you will - he is cold hearted, uncaring, harsh whatever (it's your opinion) has a solid stance which he maintains and he reasons rationally, he doesn't jump all over the place and he doesn't sound crazy. All he is saying is that OP and her husband are adults who both made decisions that led them to this point and each should take responsibility for their role and that he finds it silly that some people are so emotionally invested in the lives of people they don't know and will most probably never ever meet.
Wow. Honestly there's no way I'm going back to read all the posts but I did see Carefree's comment and I felt it was misplaced blame and then saw Ewuro say the same thing but what was more glaring was you and Ewuro going at her. I was not aware of any previous issues. I honestly don't think I would put Carefree and Mutter in the same boat either. Ouch. I do see where you might be coming from. Let's just move on because I think OP has gotten the message loud and clear from different angles grin . She has more than enough information to make whatever decision she needs to make
CelebritiesRe: PHOTOS: Snoop Dogg Welcomes Grandson by soulglo: 11:07pm On Jan 13, 2015
After the mother carried the baby for nine months and spent hours in labor, this boy is lying with the baby like he is exhausted grin Wonders
CelebritiesRe: OMG!! Meet This Nigerian Boy That Has The Hips Of A Lady by soulglo: 11:04pm On Jan 13, 2015
softandsweet:
His Klinefelter's syndrome must be 49XXXXY...
He seems to be enjoying and embracing it with the painted and pouty lips. Plus the twerking pose et al. It's clear he has chosen the gender he wants to represent.., he can easily switch with no challenges whatsoever...
LOL @ 49xxxxy. I don't think it's Klinefelter's though. I think there is more to this.
CelebritiesRe: Buhari's Daughter Causes Twitter Meltdown. by soulglo: 10:52pm On Jan 13, 2015
Oklander:
Lol, ppl dey mad aswear, grin . That last tweet, nawa grin
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CelebritiesRe: BTW Two Obama Daughters..which One Is More Sexy Than(pics) by soulglo: 10:51pm On Jan 13, 2015
Akandu50:
I mean sexy
They are children huh Please hide your children from the OP

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