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The greatest gift you will give him is to make him happy.
An igbo man value what he can see physical and he will be remembering you with it. Give him a traditional igbo dress to match with a local red cap, neck and hand beads will also be appreciated. In Nigeria here, less N10,000.00 can give you all these things.
Whenever he wear it or see anyone wearing good traditional dress, he will remember you.

How?
Is it a general discussion or she is admiring the guy?
Something must have happened before it come to this no matter how it is been discussed. What is your relationship with the guy in question like? For how long has the guy been close to you first and your wife in particular? How relaxed are both of them when they are alone ?
Do you have kids? Most importantly, how is your love life with your wife like? Is there interference from your people in your marriage?
For how long have been living with this woman?
In fact, you have not told us any thing or do you only want to pull our leg?

Great.
I am happy to hear this.
Remain a good wife as you have been.
To God be the glory.

Yea, i can do it comfortably. It will even make her to have more regard for you. If you can wash your partners undies, clothes or ven bath him/her, you are building your emotional bank on each other. If you can cook for your wife (once a while), she will ever be tied to you.

We are all responsible for what we are passing through today. No one is exempted even me, my parents and relatives.

Bros, two of you can marry, this is the time both of you should show committment, care and concern for each other. In other word, it is time to show LOVE.
this is how it could be made possible.
- Make sure that both of u love each other as you love yourself.
- Option A (a short one) is agree with the girl and she will get pregnant for you. Accept the responsibility and take full care of her. Before she gets to 3 issues, you are already comfortably married.

-Option B is for two of you to remain single and make your relationship open to every one that cares. Her parent may hold on to her for some years but they will definitely call you and appologise to you. They will not only support the marriage but also sponsor it partly having seen the love their child have for you. Keep on loving and helping the girl and her parent as much as you can. This will convince them that love have not barrier. That you are for real and not chasing shadow. This option need endurance, trust and confidence.

To bolt away from the relationship because the parents and not because of girl is an indirect way of saying that you had only sexual interest in her.
Best of luck.

This lady is gradually gettig tired of you. She is erasing your picture in her mind as well. Comfort yourserlf and continue your life.

@poster,
Sorry for what u are going through. It actually hurts, take it easy and simple, you will win.
A man is very easy and cheap to get if you know the trick. As your husband, i do not know if you have tried some of these.
- Feed him yourself as a mother feed a child when you are eating (once a while)
- Bath together with him, bath him urself and persuade him to bath u aswell. Once a while, while u are bathing, suck his penis. If he desire give him sex in the bathroom if it is condusive.
- Butting him up as he is dressing up
- Ask him which shoe/sandal he will wear and polish it without request.
-Sleep together with him in the same bed and ask him to cover you (hold you closely) to enable you sleep well. Always hold him as well as you are sleeping.
-Get his food ready as early as possible.
- Buy him gifts especially inner wears
- Once a while, while you are in the bed, stay on top of him. And kiss him steadily. Not to motivate him sexually, it to show him u care.
- Once a while suck his dick, and breast feed him as you do to your child.
- Stroke him regulaly
- While in bed, allow him feel and enjoy your breast and other hot zone as much as he want.
- Try and make him suck your pussy as well.
- Always look attractive and clean.
- While making your head, ask him which style he want and even persuade him to accompany you there. Not to stay till u finish, just take you there and go his way.
- Naturally women alway wash their husband, cloth, go extra by ironing the cloth and admire him much whenever he dress to your taste.

In short, the list is endless. Try some of these and you will see, the love and care will gradually come back.
Best of luck.

Pls, shine ur eye.
This guy may marry you, live with u for few years, divorce you and marry the girl of choice (proberbly a younger girl).
I rather advice you to have him as a friend than a husband.
Save yourself from heartbreak.

My sweet sister,
Happy birthday and many more years of good life.

Elsewhere, democracy is governnment of the people, for the people and by the people, in Nigeria, democracy is government of the rich, for the rich and by the rich.
If they cannot manage us, they should allow us to divide.
Now, monkey dey work, baboon dey chop. God have mercy on us.

Ndi b'anyi, mma mma nu o.
Onye bidoro ukpuro okwu a dika ura otuwala ya. Nwanne, anyi g'enyere gi aka.
Ndigbo ibem, tunye utu nke gi ebea.
Chere ka m bia, abughi ujo.
Ka odi echi.

Bros, congrats
But come o , ur 1st post is to invite us to ur marriage,
my cap dey ground 4 u but make u no mtch am.
Happy marriage

Henchmark have said it all.
Count your teeth with ur tongue and stand like a man in your own family.

@ myomy,
If your text is true, i realy pity you.
I think you want to compound the situation instead of solving it. Getting a male intimate friend whom u can confide and share your feeling with is gradually getting a sexual partners beacuse, even if he did not demand sex from you, you will demad it from him whenever you feel sex starved you will demand it and if he says no, you will feel offended and that will remind you of your husband.
But wait, you did not tell us of your child/children, how long did u date him before marriage? what are you doing for a living or are u a house wife? Who is your role model?
If your husband happens to find out what is happening, do you think he will spare you?
You do not need a male intimate friend. What you need is to convince yourself that you are above your problem, have the confidence and pray your way out. It will not come easy but is the best way to get a permanent solution to ur problem.  If you insist on male intimate friend, you are gradually taking youself to the market to be made a laughing stock.

I will be scare initially but will ganner the courage to call him/her and talk with him/her. I will discuss with her as much as she can repond.

To barn once husband from her room is to give him licence to look outside. I do not think that is the best way to resolve family crises.

Oh Ette.
You left so late
It was so dishounourable
You would have stayed
To fight to finish
Are you leaving to fight another day?
Or are you rolling you political mat bit by bit?
Ette, oh Ette.


The fall of a shameless beautician
House of Rep is not hair dressing salon
E t t e e e e !

Bros,
You have nothing to fear about. I am -ve, my ex girlfie is +ve, my present girlfie is +ve. We sleeps together though protected.
I broke with my ex because i caught with other 3 guys at 3 different times and she denied it. She later came back and told me that it was temptation that put her into that not because she is +ve.
Health experts have told me how to get a child from her if i want. If the lady care and respect you much, go ahead and marry her.
I have seen such marriage and they are very happy.
This is when the lady need you most.
Who knows if God will hear her prayer of healing thru u?

If there is no other reason other than telling you lie on her birth day, take her back and take her out soonest. She still respect you as her prince.
My girlfie hid more worrisome things than that, but we are still together.
She will respect you the more if you reunite now before it becomes another Ettegate.

@ Seun.
I think marriage is not all about child bearing, though is one of them. I will even rank companionship over child bearing. I acn still bear children even without marriage.

Whoever is saying that is looking for a flamzy excuse. What if the man is impotent himself?

Well, make i try una.
My no is 08083096533
mail me with makualeo@hotmail.com
I am 33yrs and is working.

Ndi be-anyi mma mma nuo.

Ya diri gi ka isi chere m

@ guy,
I do not think u can get up to 150m in any micro finance bank. I went to a loan of 1.5m in a umuchinemere micro finance bank in Enugu and was told they that i cannot get more than 90k. I must register with a coprative society and we will come 4 the loan. The maximum we can get as a society is 500k.

I am not from Ebonyi but i know Ebonyi very well. Sam was a media governor instead of the action he claimed to be. He was advertised by media as the messiah but if you go to Ebonyi, you will see the opposite. While he was in office, Ebonyi was the the state in the south east without street light in the capital. One of the two governors in the south east that bought over the opposition 100% and have no challenger. Abakaliki is the smallest state capital in size and most underdeveloped in the south east. If not for Walter Feghabo, Abakaliki town would have been like a village up till now.
Egwu is a good PDP member who believe in the principle of in "Share the money". He did it and was not seen by EFCC.
The head office of widow care foundation, his wife pet project is comparable to Ebonyi state government house.
His church Assemblies of God is making the matter worst. They have never agreed that he looted a kobo from government even when the eveidences are there. Hope High school is there for every one to see. Who own grace court resort?
I still vote Ebeano far far ahead of him in terms achievement and delivery.
Oh, i have talked too much. Let me do other important things.

Professionaly she is a beautician. What do you expect of her? Think of it, the cost of plaiting hair. If your wife or girlfie visit a salon, how much do you spend? Her profession is not economic at all and believe in looking good.
She had believed that every body will understand her not knowing that all of us are not hair dresser.
She should step aside before she give the next contract of artificial nails and weavon running into hundreds of millions of naira

May His Soul Rest In Peace.

Cut,
thats great. I love that. Keep it up.

@ Nushi77
Hew, bros, i do not think u should loose control to this level. You are going too far. Calm down, comport urself and tell us what will help us.

Curled from Olanajim

If it is true they are having marrital problems. Wouldn't it been better to make the positive use of their findings on internet to strengthen their dilapidating home? If the woman had never said any good words to the husband at home, but said it on internet, what stop them from building their home on that positive observation. Both of them hate one another with intensed passion. I think they have attitude problem. Unless they change that attitude, they have a remote chance of being happy elsewhere. Nobody willingly enter into relationship with an individual filled with unforgiving spirit.

They had better seperate if they can't be persuaded.



You are 99.99% correct. There marriage is like sympathy marriage and not on love and trust. May God help us.