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Oh Lord, have mercy on Nigeria.

Why did you buy sugar? 😂😂

Redflag �
Possible template for 2023 election.

Don't commit financial suicide please.
If your 2 months salaries can not pay your annual house rent comfortably, it is either you quit the house, or you quit the job.

Everything on social media. Young man if you know you can't cope please get out of the relationship and stop disturbing us. If you're confused go for counseling.

Get yourself a female bestie... Then watch her complain.

I thought you said she is you "EX". Stop the DECEPTION. what you SOW, you REAP. Remember the girl you'll marry also has an "Ex"..
My advice for you is to RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. Don't Create problem for yourself.

ours here is Tribalism, illegal detention, brutality, extortion, they want to even deny us the use of social media freely, just to mention a few. you can see we have to deal with here at home. you people should"take heart". at least 2023 is just three years away.

Photoshop, as they would have put it. I think the presidential broadcast yesterday did more "psychological damages"!

PriestDaniz:
I wanted to say something but unfortunately she's already stupid,I know someone will form saint,to tell me she's someone's mother and also older than me so therefore old enough to be my mother,she might even be older than my mother self but that doesn't except this woman from being a fool.

If you're in Ughelli right now, you'll see why I said all of that.

You are very correct.
FOOLISHNESS DON'T HAVE AGE LIMIT!

Trustwallet:
Hello nairalander!

Unknown someone keeps sending money to my diamond access bank, this is the second time am recieving money to my account, which is 30,290 & 30,136 naira and the text on the remark is a foreign name.

At first i got alert of 30,260 with remark "Stepan zemalek", at first i thought someone mistakenly sent money to my account, i said lemme wait if i will receive a call from someone claiming the money but nobody called to claim the money, not knowing that my bank have deducted 530 naira for sms fee nd 200 naira for stamp nd postal fee, i have to transfer the money the money to my rubies bank account with the hope somebody will call me nd claim the money.

Secondly, i got another alert of 30,136 with the remark saying "Jaonna LiebeltEtzler/18.9.20".

I dont remember giving anybody my bank details apart from my mom nd uncles, i have called my bank customer care to complain about it and to know who sent the money from my account but he said he cant disclose the information to me. i have complained to the bank and the keep saying their normal bla bla.

I need help on what to do next....below is the screenshot of the alert...

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Berryli:
Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen.

Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.

He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.

He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.

Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing?

Not your spec, BUT enjoys his company, Visits his regularly... plus other things both you did that you are not telling us..
How were you able to do that!?

The same way you Stylishly Enter his life, Also Stylishly Delete yourself from His life. We don't know how you entered, Why asking Us how to leave?

nku5:
If el-rufai becomes President eh, he will make Buhari look like father xmas

can it be WORST THAN THESE!??

SpatialKing:
FTC....
Data Scientist Data Analytics Monitoring and Evaluation experts Graphics designers Content Developers InfoGraphics expert Online teachers/Coach (elearning) Delivery Services Journalism

Presidential Task Force.

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earwhat I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

WOW.. This your testimony inspired my soul! Congratulations.

As for her, she will comeback begging! She still loves you. infact you people are still in love����

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

I honestly feel your pain sir. you admitted that you ignored all the warning signals before marriage, that was terrible! What I can advice now is this...

*If she claim she can stay for two months without communicating with you, Learn to stay for four months without noticing her presence.

*Try and found in something else other than wife supposed wife (am not advocating you cheat). something you enjoy doing.


*don't take everything to heart (like birthdays, anniversaries,..etc... sometimes, I forget my own birthday. those things don't count much. your wife is using that as a strong weapon on you.

*try and enjoy what you do for yourself, like cooking, laundry,.etc..infact, thank God you can do those things yourself.

*don't always be available physically, your presence Should be scare. this will enhance your value. but fulfill your financial obligations...


*pray and worry less.

Abolaji2709:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/donate-your-buildings-as-isolation-centres-minister-begs-nigerians/%3famp=1

I hereby move a motion that THE NATIONAL ASSEMBLY COMPLEX be used as isolation centre until the pandemic era is over, so that you people would have a justifiable reason to use 37 BILLION NAIRA for renovations. I SO MOVED!!


Those in support say "yeah" (like), and those against say "nah" (quote).

Abolaji2709:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/donate-your-buildings-as-isolation-centres-minister-begs-nigerians/%3famp=1

I HEREBY MOVE A MOTION THAT THE NATIONAL ASSEMBLY COMPLEX SHOULD BE USED AS ISOLATION CENTRE...AFTER THE PANDEMIC IS DOWN, YOU PEOPLE CAN THEN HAVE A JUSTIFIABLE REASON TO USE 37BILLION TO RENOVATION IT !!!

I SO MOVE..

ALL IN SUPPORT SAY "YEAH" (LIKE), IF YOU ARE AGAINST IS, SAY "NAH" (QUOTE).

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

ITS HONESTLY PAINFUL TO FIND ONESELF IN SUCH A SITUATION! SORRY BRO!

PLEASE NOTE, "THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN".. THIS SHOULD BE A MOTIVATION FOR YOU TO BE MORE FOCUS, MAKE MONEY, AND MAKE MORE MONEY (LEGALLY), AND YOU'LL BE SURPRISED THAT EVEN IF YOU LOSE HER NOW, YOU WILL GET A BETTER REPLACEMENT FOR!

DON'T GET DISTRACTED, DON'T LOSE YOUR MIND, DON'T FIGHT FOR WHAT IS NOT FIGHTING FOR YOU! SOMETIMES, LETTING GO CAN BE THE OPTION!!!

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Am very sure you are more confused now after reading through all the comments. It's not everything you post on public domain!
It's even obvious that you have not spoken to your man about this. marriage is about tolerance, believe me, you should also have certain behavior that your husband is trying to cope with on daily basis.

This issue is about the both of you, and only you both can resolve is personally. As a matter of urgency, you and your husband needs to talk about this before it leads to something bigger and worse.

Please apply wisdom in dealing with this, because we don't want to hear later that "my husband doesn't like having sex with me as often as I want it, am I loosing him!

[color=#990000][/color] CHURCH DOGMA...

"YOKE"



THANK GOD FOR JESUS
THANK GOD FOR GRACE.

modsfucker:
Why Bubu no go dere himself as the Minister ehn why?

HE MIGHT BE BUSY IN THE "other room"

Lacomus:
almost everyone studying medical lab science lost out on the medicine race

WAKE UP!!

11cows4sale:
Am a proud medical laboratory scientist
Thanks for creating this thread

THE BEDROCK OF MODERN MEDICINE!!!

NICE POST!!

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