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AmazonTopaz:
The thread is a nice one but the average Nigerian man feels threatened by a career lady who can make her own money .Their useless ego would not make them do all these.Only an enlightened and well educated man would appreciate a career lady who is ambitious and has focus.
Some of them(average Nigerian men)may feel emasculated,these men just need a homely or domesticated lady that believes her first duty is in the home,who is forever submissive and always ready to answer yes sir,yes sir all the time.

Yare! yare!! yare!!! don't worry she will download a baby too and install it at home.
Everything should have a limit, if you don't want to marry stay married to your job, relationship or marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend, it demands sacrifice.

PrincessB1:
She is and still fulfilling the portion of the Bible that say occupy till I come.

Congrats to them

Seriously, you know you are heading that way or even bigger than that.

Stop body shaming, fat people are human too and should be loved

TheGreenLand:
The only man that hid on top of a tree for 11 hours in a thick forest.

Dino: The Actor of the Year!

Point of correction, wilderness!

kamez:
anyone who gets aroused after watching this video should pls see a doctor..

Just because you don't find her attractive doesn't mean anyone who does is sick!

princfred:
Soo the truth still remains that[b] most guys have done it as well[/b]. Abi na the girls dey impregnate themselves?

Ok, I have watched as you keep throwing this argument around, this is not a virginity argument, nor is it about sex, NA ABORTION!

princfred:
Men nko? You how many pvssy have you licked? etc

hahah! you are just feeling guilty, I AM NOT JUDGING YOU, but please don't refer to me, you don't know me. Just because you may or may not have lived a reckless life doesn't mean everyone has.

And for the record, a secret as big as abortion is not something you keep from your wife or husband to be. That is the kind of secret that breaks families.

Saff:
You will never know unless that lady opens her mouth to tell you. It is not written on people’s forehead. It does not cause infertility, it’s not written on her vagina , you cannot go to the hospital to find out. Tell me how will you know? Don’t deceive yourself, you better pray that that woman opens her mouth to tell you, but most women take that information to the grave. Some don’t even tell their own boyfriends that they had sex with, goodluck you hear!

You are right about not knowing, I mean, many just put the blame on a lots of things, and we have miscarriages and other stuff, but you were wrong to say its does not cause infertility.

Most of the problems that marriages have can be traced back to what the man and the woman have done in the past. yeah nobody wants to admit it, but that is the truth.

Oh, women keep a lots of secrets, like how many dicks they have sucked, how many men have slept with them, if a man knows some of the things most of the woman have done, they won't want to sit in the next seat.

EMMAUGOH:
If you as a man has ever had sex with a girl without condom and released inside here. SAME question applies to YOU.
DO YOU DO DESERVED TO BE MARRIED?

The thing is men want it all perfect and holy but how many times have you had the urge or have sex with a girl not thinkING about the implication of that sex.

When shhiitt hit the fan, all of a sudden we start blaming the girl for not carrying the child for 9 months without care. Seeing the child get education and care like other child and also while living the guilt or prejudice of having sex outside marriage and being a lone parent.

Many Nigerians mind is like that of our President.

Is this guilty conscience or you just want to be argumentative? Nobody is talking about if they deserved to be married, Everyone deserves a companion, but will you chose a woman who you know has committed an abortion?

If you as a woman, cannot tell a man who is not your husband yet to use protection when sleeping with you, then you deserve whatsoever the outcome, yeah, if the child is born, the man will take responsibility. You can't say because someone put a snake in your house, you will burn it down. It's YOUR HOUSE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! it might be wrong of him to throw a snake into your house but you don't burn it down for that reason.

GoldHorse:
So castration and abortion are the same thing?

Oh! so you don't know you can castrate with herbal drugs, the man will still be there and even every other thing will be there, he will even be able to have sex but he can't impregnate a woman! ok now, you see, yeah! that thought you have now is exactly how it feels!


just take a look at some psychological effect of abortion, know a woman with all the different challenges, now add this!

Psychological consequences of an abortion


Unfounded and uncontrolled crying
Problems with later pregnancies, for example a higher risk of miscarriages and premature births; increased perinatal mortality (during and after the birth); increased risk of tubal or abdominal pregnancies
Severe mood swings and instability
Signs of nervous tension, like sweats, trembling, flushing, paleness and general nervousness
Restlessness and tension, possibly even hyperactivity
Concentration and memory disorders
Depression
Feelings of shame, repentence and remorse
Thoughts of suicide
Feeling of loneliness and inner emptiness
Death of feelings (“Robot feeling”)
Feeling of lonesomeness, exclusion and isolation
Feeling of emotional indifference
Feeling of being condemned or dirty in terms of a relationship with a higher power or with people
Decreased self-esteem
Self-aggression (nail biting, teeth grinding, scratching)
Medicine, drug and alcohol abuse
Strong reaction to noises that bring the suction curettage to mind (like vacuum cleaner noise)
Compulsive re-experiencing of the abortion in the mind
Multiple abortions (compulsive repetition) Wow!, just wow!
Strong emotional reactions at the sight of a pregnant woman or a baby
Stronger resistance during gynaecological examinations
Fear of “punishment” through serious disease or accidents of one’s other children (Niobe syndrome)
Relationship problems
Feelings of hate and disgust in relation to sexuality
Rage and hate for the child’s father, the abortion doctor or men generally now I know the source of Feminist tendencies!
Feeling of helplessness towards the subsequent children; increased risk for mistreatment, many of our mothers can relate
A feeling of loss of parental authority over the other children

[url https://samc-foundation.ch/abortion/consequences-of-abortion/]Source[/url]

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.

WOW!, I am not surprised by what you said, I am only surprised by the boldness and pride with which you said it.
AND you went ahead to add, "YOU SHOULD THANK HER!", NO, he should give her an award, these things are shameful, I get the fact that this forum is a faceless one, but at least show some form of morality.

tunwumi:
Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone. About 70% of non Virgins have had one abortion or the other. It may be induced or self. You can marry a virgin and still have child bearing issues. It has been proved scientifically.

Seriously, you have to use the bible to support this, You this is just a case of sex with another man, let me put it this way.

Jesus would have said, well let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone, and when there was none, he would say well Peter, you can take this woman and marry her. These things have implications, Child-bearing may be one of the issues but trust me, that is not the only issue.

highqueen:
Mtcheeeew. The guy that paid for the abortion or initiated it is marriageable while the lady isnt right?
You need wipers.

So, you will allow a person to pay for the destruction of your own body, I mean seriously what harm do you think has been done to the guy, he lost some thousands of naira to the event but the lady? she lost more, abortion is not sex or some weird statement of enlarged Virginia

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

The question is "will you marry a man if you know he has castrated himself?" this is not a blame game, you have the choice, he is not advocated that she should be shamed or kill.

Modarun:
Incase you dnt knw we have tons of similar projects in honour to Zik scattered across the South East by State govts. with the most recent done by Okorocha.
An Afonja cant decide for ibos whats more important. As you can see most Ibos say this is not important. The senselessness of this govt is legendary, so they expect Ndigbos to vote or support Buhari for completing this building? Hahaha. You guys are pathetic to say the least, so Afonja that rejected the renaming of UNILAG wants Ibos to maturbate on a senseless project like this? Hahaha

First, it is "masturbate", not "maturbate", what has renaming UNILAG got to do with the uncompleted project, who said anything about voting! You just have to stress yourself on inconsequential things, you really think Buhari needs your vote? you've got to be kidding me.

Wait when its time for the south-east to produce a president, then you will know how inconsequential the region is.

EVILFOREST:
This one na PROJECT...??
IGBOS are not fools, neither are they Poor.

Why would you project this forward for acknowledgment...??
...a PROJECT a single IGBOMAN in ALABA will erect and call Reverend Fathers to come and commission...

BUHARI is really wicked.

And yet it was abandon since 1995, maybe it was moved outer space, oh! no, it was rapped with an invisible cloke, better still ALABA MARKET was shut down. Oh no, nor of that is true. stepping on an already crowded forehead it's "ACKNOWLEDGEMENT", Not "ACKNOWLEDGMENT".

Modarun:
So if he did it out of great regards for Zik, question is why are the erats using it as a campaign tool? We rather be built a rail line from Onitcha to link the whole of the Eastern states then name it Ziks railline than an insequential building. They paid out $2.5billion for new port in Lagos, its this nonsense they want to use as a campaign project? These bunch of clowns think Ibos are like Yorubas who masturbated on their stupidity cos someone who marshalled a coup declared June 12 democracy day without senate confirmation? These Afonjas who have a problem with Ibos not being impressed by this nonsense post, should first off tell us why they rejected the renaming of Unilag by GEJ. #Clowns

I think your obsession with Yoruba is the problem, what has Lagos, and the rejection of GEJ got to do with a building that has already started and needed completion, or would you rather they abandon it and you have something to cry about. LITTTLE BABY, even if they build rail round you village it's not going to cure your obsession, GET HELP!

NwaAmaikpe:



I stand to be corrected.
Ndigbo will value a mausoleum built in Ibeku in honour of those killed by the Python Dance.

Who is Nnamdi Azikiwe?
A failure that didn't upgrade his people like Ahmadu Bello and Obafemi Awolowo did.

Be careful what you say, just because you monika looks ibo, doesn't mean you should say crap this!

Respect to whom respect is due!

freedomforall30:
illiterates...I said 40s, not old age 60s and 70s. Jesus

Wow! You have to finally show your foolishness here! Nnamdi Kalu is in his 40s, use the leftover brain to search Google.

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freedomforall30:
Igbo men and full white facial hair are like 5 and 6. I noticed Igbo men even in their 40s already have full white or gray facial hair. Like Nnamdi Kanu. You can never see this in Yorubas or Hausa-Fulani but you will see it in other Biafran tribes and African Americans too. Another proof we are not the same people with yorubas and hausa-fulani. I wish I had gray beards!

Maybe Wole Soyinka is an Ibo afterall, gay everywhere, must you display your stupidity everywhere!

24hoursreporter:
In every organization, there is that person that is almost irreplaceable. As a matter of fact, this person has made himself indispensable over time and automatically become a superstar employee.

It is important for you to know that it is the people in an organization that drive the process. As an employee in any organization, you can make yourself an invaluable asset over time. So, in this article, you will learn the things that will make you a superstar employee in any organization.

11 Things That Will Make You A Superstar Employee


#1. Always Perform Beyond Expectation

One of the things that will make you a superstar employee is performing beyond expectation. To put it differently, go extra miles to deliver quality job whenever a task is assigned to you.

Don’t just perform a task to remove it from your do list, rather perform it in a way no other person will do it. I must warn you, your colleagues may not be happy with you. They will definitely call you names like “ITK”, “Over Sabi”, but keep doing it, in no time you will become the shining star in the office.

#2. Improve Your Communication Skill

Superstar employees are always exceptional in their communication skill. They know how to pass a message concise without boring people with unnecessary explanations.

Furthermore, they send emails professionally and know the right word to say that will calm an angry client down. If you ever dream of becoming a superstar employee in your organization, hone your communication skill.

#3. You must be very Proactive

Proactiveness is one of the things that will make you a superstar employee. You must always be a step ahead of everybody. For instance, your boss call to assign a task only to discover that you have done it already. Mhen! this is a very good step, trust me every boss loves a subordinate that knows what to do at all time.

#4. Talk Less, Observe and Listen More

Superstar employees talk less, they do more of listening and observation. They don’t ask the same question twice and always take note of important content discussed in a meeting and start acting on them.

Due to their good observation skills, they always identify potential challenge or obstacle to a project and do the needful to avert it.

#5. Be Trustworthy and Reliable

Being trustworthy and reliable is one of the things that will make you a superstar employee. Once your boss notices that you are very reliable and trustworthy, you will get more sensitive tasks to perform.

In doing this, other deciders and influencers in the organization may be washing. This will definitely pave role for bigger roles within the organization.

#6. Always Think Outside The Box

Whenever you are part of a team saddled with a particular project, always think outside the box. Contribute meaningfully and suggest workable solutions.

#7. Be Very Friendly

Always be friendly with other people within and outside the organization. Also be positive, encourage people around you and be very optimistic at all time.

#8. Be Flexible and Adaptable To Change

You must learn to adapt to change quickly if you want to become a superstar employee. Whenever there is a new policy in the organization, adapt immediately without complaint.

#9. Don’t Be A Complainer

When other employees are complaining about a particular problem, seek creative ways to solve it. To put it differently, be a solution provider.

#10. Be Passionate About The Job

You can’t be a superstar employee if you are not passionate about your job. Learn to perform every task at work because you want to do it. Your passion for the job will naturally bring you to the limelight.

#11. Learn To Work With Little Or No Supervision

Learn to work with little or no supervision. Your boss may not be happy if they have to micromanage you every time. Always be a step ahead and don’t allow your boss to ask you before doing it.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2018/11/03/11-things-that-will-make-you-a-superstar-employee/

1. Who's expectations? Your boss? Don't waste your time, this is Nigeria, the only expectation is for you to work and say you don't need pay.

2. If you try to much, your employer will be like, you are proud or better still fake!

3. Proactive you say, have ever heard the phrase 'Don't assume anything', and if you just follow instructions you will hear, 'can't you use your initiative'

I can go on and on, bottom line, do your best, don't let anyone or anything make you feel less no matter what and be punctual!

Quality20:
Hey buddies! I recently met a lady whom I considered for marriage ,but what got me worried about her was her admission that she is very temperamental. Pls can anyone give a good advice on way to go? I am myself a gentle chap who avoid troubles as much as possible. And lastly, I believe temperamental men could be aggressive and highly sexy, could this also apply to temperamental ladies?

Don't! Do you hear me! Don't!

You won't enjoy a day in that marriage!

Peace!

nzeobi:
bro all state governors imposed their puppets even Oshiomole, those that failed were only those not smart enough.

Yes they did, but not their son-in-law for crying out loud!

yeyeboi:
If Tou Like Amaechi Cry From Now Till Forever Come Next Year Buhari MUST GO BACK TO DAURA


Amaechi Was A Traitor When He Was In PDP And The Good Part Was That Jonathan Knew , You Can’t Eat Your Cake And Have It , KISS The Truth .

Quote Me And Let Thunder Fire You


Road To Daura Loading

your name says it all!

ifeoluwa5050:
Please for the experience ones in Turkey rearing, Pls help me out, my male turkeys have stopped eating all the food I give to them Pls how do I go about this, and they are losing weight Pls help me out I don't want to lose them, what medication should I use Pls

If they are drinking water, add vitamin c to their water and they will be eating in no time, but if they are sick you should consult your veterinarian!

Favouragro:
we are located in delta edo and ph
we deliver nationwide

where in edo?

sexymoma:
Buh tall guys nor dey too get sense na
the wan wey dem suppose use get sense dem don use am tall finish

No let me swear for you oh!

which kind talk be that, Short people everywhere!

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

Man! You took this out of my mind!

when I tell them love doesn't exist they think, i lack emotion, or something, honestly, if you are a guy and you let a woman control your life like she is the boss, and play you around and laugh behind you, my brother you are a big fool and a shame to men in general.

To the OP, if after all these revelations you are still asking if you should leave her, then you have a problem, what do you mean by "I pity her", "I don't want to disappoint her"! are you kidding me, maybe until she fries your balls and eats before you will understand!

To all the Men in wombed-men clothes, Don't and I repeat Don't ever stay in a relationship because of pity, Most of those girls, if you know half of what they have done to guys like you, you won't want to greet them talk of dating them! If any man in this age is still be used as a backup, then that man needs deliverance!

GeeCee:
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