₦airaland Forum

Woman born
Men dey cry

Na wa o

Foo.lish man
Why is he even going to marry in the first place?
Marriage that does not favour men.

Ladies that are sleeping with their (numerous) boyfriend(s) for nothing are now talking about morals.

Sex is sex.
As long as you are having sex with someone you are not married to,no difference between you and her.

Tomorrow,they will say the mother turned the child against his father

EmperorCaesar:
Feel sorry for your region instead

What kinda institute employ people into critical roles like this without thorough background check?

Shame

The reality is many private hospitals owners do not check or verify credentials or certificates ..
Some don't even want to sight them.
They employ doctors with words of mouth.
A lot of them don't go through standard employment processes.

I worked full time in at least 6 private hospitals in Nigeria before I joined govt and eventually relocated abroad.

Only 1 of them conducted interview and checked my licence.

The rest NEVER sighted any of my documents.

They are more interested in getting cheap labour

MaziObinnaokija:
that Madam always shouting men are SCUM beta find somebody to marry/ev3n just to get belle and born b4 she reach 45plus and starts going from one mountain to another

Is it 45 now?
Thought it was 30

UK say COS is free
But Nigerians choose to pay for it.
Serves them right.

I didn't pay a dime for COS.

Wow..so men can write epistles on cheating like this.
Same cheating they run on women's faces .
Interesting

SAMBARRY:
All this girls with itchy legs wey their legs no gree stay for one place una no just dey Hear Word. With all the psychopathic men,r@p1st,kidnappers and werey alasho all justifying femicide,pedophilia and rape una still dey go visit online strangers.

If you want to see the level of hatred and disdain naija men have for naija women just enter social media .infact nairaland is enough and as for those meeting up with men on nairaland you do so at your own risk

Don't mind foo.lish ladies.
Despite the level of hate and disrespect Nigerian men spew about women on social media and various stories of men killing ladies ,they won't still listen.
Serves her right.

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

It's amazing how people still have unprotected sex in 2025 with people they are not even married to.

I'm sorry for the future of Africa

A fool.ish 3rd wife loading.

realguyremzy:
I know a lady who said she wants to come to Nigeria for IVF treatment. Dunno if she is serious about it tho

Yes..she is serious.
The reasons are...
1. IVF is cheaper in Nigeria

2. Multiple embryo transfers that can result in having twins,triplets,etc can be done in Nigeria

3. Some facilities in Nigeria accept to do sex selection.
Unlike overseas where (2) and (3) are illegal.

4. If she is advanced in age,say 40+,some IVF centres will still try using her eggs for the procedure but overseas,many do not.
They insist on donor eggs.

FCmome:
Hello Nairanders , am in severe pain because my wedding was called off, because both Families are against the union, am devastated, i don't know what to do, how to start where to start... I've throw away everything that reminds me of her but i still couldn't get myself to move on.. 😰

Pls if anyone had similar experiences let me know how you deal with it

Why are you in pains?

You are a man.

And on social media, especially this platform,men have concluded that they have nothing to benefit from marriage....Marriage is for women.

So you should be happy that you have been stopped from entering into a union that clearly has nothing to offer you.

Wallade:
Oh I see, your mama too dey mad abi, no wonder she birthed a lunatic like you.

Idiot.

Cry baby Cry!
Use.less child of a mad mother.
Bas.tard!

Wallade:
E remain small wey your madness go enter street

As your mama dey roam for streets.
Shame!

"His chosen one" Annie in the mud.

When this lady got married to TuBaba,Nigerian men were hailing her for sticking by him despite his promiscuity.


The moment Nigerian men start hailing you,just know that you have done something very stupid.

Now,they have turned against her,calling her names..Typical .Serves her right!

How can you meet a man first,then he goes on to have 4 children with 2 women, you still go ahead to marry him such that your first child is his 5th and you think you are special.


Women will consciously make bad choices and blame everyone except themselves,for it.

Next to be embarrassed ...Chioma Davido.

Useless ladies with zero self esteem

Okoroawusa:
Wow! For a girl her age that's too bad. However there have been cases where obese women deliver babies safely. Her death is quite unfortunate.

Of course.
Very well.
Obesity is not a cause of maternal mortality but can be a predisposing factor .
It's quite unfortunate
May her soul rest in peace.

Okoroawusa:
So you are saying that this her size is normal?

That's her size.
Where did I say it was normal?
She was obesed.

A lot of people associate obesity with the state of affluence and wealth.

So it's not surprising that the daughter of a deputy governor was obesed.

Mercy Chinwo should just agree to conduct a DNA paternity test for that boy and kill all doubts.

I don't understand why my gender gets so uncomfortable and worried about this test,if they are innocent.

If anyone ever raises an eyebrow over the paternity of any of my children,I will be glad to have a test and "shame" such person,instead of plenty shalaye.

Okoroawusa:
She wasn't necessarily fat. She was pregnant while the wedding held.

She was not pregnant during the wedding.
She even doubled in size with the pregnancy which was only 4 months old.
She had a miscarriage and developed complications.
My cousin is a nurse in the facility where she was managed in Port Harcourt.

GeneralOjukwu:
Thank you for the correction.

But that fat girl looks more 40 than 29 ---- no offense meant to her

Because obesity makes people age more than their ages

tishbite43:
29 years and she looks like that?!
R.I.P Deputy Governor's daughter

Obesity makes people look older than their ages.

GeneralOjukwu:
Late maternal age too....

She is a Senator and a PhD. With her face...she is likely in her 40s

She was about 29.

The other 2 pictures are that of her mother ,the deputy governor.

He has time.
At least,he is making money from creating content.

abdsamad:
Problems that will start to reduce with a salary of 500k minimum.
If you pay interns 500k and others higher, i estimate 10 to 20% will stay, or strongly consider staying.
If you give other incentives like improved conditions of work and pathway to housing, that number will go up to 30 or 40%.

Uneducated senators earn how much per meeting again?
As long as a fresh consultant is earning less than 1m, we're just joking. We're not ready

No amount of money is worth staying back in Nigeria...
The higher doctors earn,the faster they will japa.

It's lack of funds that's still keeping a huge number of medical doctors in Nigeria

Almiron:
Why are you pained? Did I mention you?

Shame! This is all you can type as a reply.
Real shame!!

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Na real keg of gun powder dis country dey ontop so. For a population of over 240 million people, you have less than 6000 medical consultants. 🤔

Twitter(X) people say Agbo cures all ailments.
Just few days ago,Nigerians were rejoicing on this app that other health professionals will be called "Doctor".

Nothing spoil!

Almiron:
My doctor friend arrived a few days ago. He’s staying with us at the moment for the next couple of weeks until he sorts himself out. I just showed him this thread, and he’s just laughing. Any doctor still remaining in Nigeria has serious loyalty. 6,000 doctors for over 250 million people, yet Nigerians are more concerned about what Trump is doing in America 😂😂😂

"Any doctor still remaining in Nigeria has serious loyalty "... This statement sounds condescending.

Your friend had serious loyalty until he left few days ago.

Once Nigerians leave the shores of the country,they behave as if they never lived in Nigeria.

Many doctors still in Nigeria are there because of the following: Process of writing foreign exams or lack of funds for japa which is capital intensive.
Not because they have serious loyalty.

Port Harcourt style.

You are lucky they didn't kidnap you or kill /maim you in the process

6 children...
I'm sure the abuse didn't start today.

Women in abusive marriages like to have many children

Jorussia:
You really believe they are being owed 6 months salaries?

Why not? It's very common for "state" govts to owe salary for months.

During my housemanship,I was owed 8 months salary by Rivers State govt.
My colleagues in Akwa Ibom didn't get theirs until 6 months

By the time that money was paid,most of us were in huge debts

Imagine working for 6 months without receiving salary..in the FCT..where cost of living is sky rocketing.

Well,Nigerians will still blame the doctors.
Let me relax and read comments