₦airaland Forum

28 years with all these wrinkles despite all the money.
Hmmmm

merits:
People from that region always take their widows for granted I don't know why.

Not just widows..women,generally.
People from that region have zero regards for women.

Nothing concern village people.
They must chop.
They will say it's tradition.
Na who die lose, unfortunately

NiceLegs:
That one is Tinubu's business.

My own now to find way comot from this country.

Thank God someone wants to help me secure fully funded Scholarship to study 2-years MSC Social Work in UK.

Atleast I will be in UK and won't pay any school fees.

Once I graduate, I get a good job as a Social Worker in UK and be earning fat salary in pounds.

I don leave una for Tinubu.

Since una talk say una no want Peter Obi.

No problem.

Tinubu till 2030.

I pray it works out very well for you.
I left 6 years ago.
My happiness now is that if I send £500 to Naija ,it's a million naira ,at least.
If you get a job and you are hardworking,you will be comfortable in the UK.
Don't mind the negativity you sometimes read on social media
It's still better than Nigeria

Hahahaha.

Men and sex.

To the point of raping animals.

What lack of self control will do to men ehn.

What manner of shamelessness!

Lucky they didn't kill her.
Nigerian men would have justified her death by concluding that she went for hook up and was murdered.

Many Nigerians are walking around with severe uncontrolled hypertension.

Most likely he suffered a stroke.

82 year old grandpa dies..
So sad?

Seriously?
Afgthkklgdwfg

Nothing but advice for a man who is considering choosing between 2 women he is dating.
That's a good one and there is nothing wrong with it

Let's keep up with this same energy when the table turns.

This one dey learn.

He thinks Nigerian men send you.

People that can abandon 4 children under 10 years and move on.

Dey play!

omooba969:
Ok cool. 🙂

Yeah..
Good that you Gerrit.

omooba969:
Excuse me Ma, you omitted your husband.

"Husband" is not constant.

Myself and my children are what I have.

Husband belongs to the streets.

horlique:
So you starved your Man since January..
Hmmmm People de this world hahahahahah
.. lol..

Is sex food? Water or oxygen?

Serves her right.
You don't have money but you have 5 children.
I have not allowed my husband touch me this year and the world has not ended

I have 3 children..and can afford to take care of myself and them.

You poor women be breeding like pigs with unreasonable men.
Tueh

wellmax:
No. It only happens in the SE. Children killing parents or their siblings over land.

You are free to dig the internet to look for one.

Even if you find it will be in ratio 1:10. You guys worship money and worship land.

The exact ratio I gave him in my reply.
I hadn't even seen this yet

DmonSlayer10:
Everyone on Nairaland was Expecting you#beerfraud# to say something like this;

You mean you haven't heard similar stories like this from Ogbomosho in Oyo state,from Ikare-Ekiti,from Sabo-gida Ora in Edo,from Kenkia in Katsina even from Zimbabwe or Kenya...

Why did you choose to narrow it down to "Dem Dem"?

Dem use these "Dem Dem" do you?

Self-respect is key to respect

For every 1 case of such occuring elsewhere,10 would have happened in "Dem Dem" land.

This disturbing incident of men maltreating their mothers is very common among developers.
Because men from there have total disrespect and disregard for women including their own mothers.

Any day my husband tries this ,I'm calling the cops on him.

Is sex food?
I'm done with childbirth,I can do without sex for the rest of my life

Not men

Everytime,they want to have sex.

Despite all the warnings on this platform,they are still spending their resources to marry.
And even getting scammed by their gender.
Tufiakwa!

LagosOrigin:
Na the wife dey front or the husband because I'm not understanding if the person is a man or woman

You know very well that the wife is in front but you just want to body shame the woman,in the usual way ,that young men like you disrespect women on social media platforms.

You have been noticed.
Continue.

jerrybabasam:
Nigeria men pls if you know that you don't treat your wife very very well in Nigeria, pls and pls don't take her along with you to abroad. Most of these women misbehaving overseas are doing so because of the manner and ways their husbands treated them while they were in Nigeria. A stitch in time saves ......

With all the bile they throw on social media,how many Nigerian men actually treat their wives very well in Nigeria?

Liazz:
Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.

We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.

Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.

I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.

This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.

You didn't add where she is denying you sex ?

This aspect is almost always part of your complaints.

How do I get 40 characters?
Udvafudlepavsgagso

bobonla:
How time flies. I was in form 4 when he died. I cried............ yes

I was in 200L in university.
I remember that night very well.
Girls in my hostel were crying as if he was their sponsor.lol

JovialJune:
Are these people high? Where did they see vaccine for cancer? As how?

Cervical cancer vaccine.

If you have not taken the vaccine and you are a lady,sorry for you.

RealGandalf:
Cancer vaccine? This is suspicious. I don't trust these people.

I guess you don't about Cervical Cancer.
Cancer of the womb,a sexually transmitted cancer.
A very preventable cancer,caused by infection with Human Papilloma virus..The only cancer with a clear cause,hence there is a vaccine.

The gender that says women are not worth it are going extra mile to impress women and dying in the process.

It's a pity

joebeckz:
That’s the difference between living in a place with working systems and one where everything feels like a constant hustle. In countries like Canada, the US, or the UK, your money actually works for you, there is structure, stability, and access to credit. You can plan, invest, and grow without being drained by random, unofficial charges or harassment.

But in Nigeria, even with millions, you’re constantly firefighting, insecurity, poor infrastructure, and unnecessary stress. It’s not about how much you have, it’s about what systems exist to support you. That’s what makes life abroad feel more manageable and productive.

Being a kidnap victim in port harcourt , and I was doing very well in Nigeria but I still left the country last year and I don’t regret it . I even wish I left Nigeria earlier . I am building a life here gradually and I can tell you that it gets better everyday cos I left legally and following processes . Currently In school to get the required certifications to earn better hourly pay and I will finish these courses soon . I already working in the field but they are waiting for my completion to offer a permanent position.

I can pick up a 2024 car today and pay Bi-weekly , but that I will do after school . Life na jeje.
I have access to free healthcare .
Kids don’t pay tuition .
Quality of life for family .
The advantages are endless . You can only understand it better if you get a chance to legally leave Nigeria to a good country and have the right skill or be ready to go back to school for it . You will be grateful for that decision .
I love Nigeria but the country lacks systems and basic infrastructure for survival or decent living .

I relocated abroad in 2019.
The following year,I picked a 2019 car..
I currently drive a 2024 car..
But in Nigeria,in 2019 I was driving a 2008 car.
And if I had not relocated,I'm very sure I would have still been driving that 2008 car in 2025.
Something is fundamentally wrong with Nigeria.

cr7lomo:
Pls what's pcos......... let me understand...at least to learn about it

Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome...a type of hormonal disorder ,common in young women.
A reason for infertility/subfertility.

cr7lomo:
Why cudnt she conceive.... hope its not due to past sexual encounters with different men...if that's the cas...then deserves what happened to her...when they tell them to close their legs...dem no go hear

She had PCOS, unfortunately.
And was seeing gynaecologists.
Had nothing to do with past sexual encounters.
Ladies that had numerous past sexual encounters with different men don born finish.

Porksupplyib:
It is well. If we continue on this journey like this only God knows how many Doctors will remain in he next 10years. Poor salaries, poor working conditions. The list is endless. And u say Doctors should not japa. It is well

My best friend from medical school arrived Australia lat week
I'm so happy for her

Bahamas95:
These women are the architects of their misfortune, most of them like posting everything on social media.......If Cuppy had kept the relationship private nobody would have given a damn about this big baby.


I dislike talkatives, most especially male talkatives.

That was how one of my cousins used to post her husband.
Hardly a day passes without her goshing over him on various SM platforms.

She was trying to conceive and everytime will be praising the man for his patience.

She got the shock of her life when she realised that he had 2 children with their former neighbor.

The man had impregnated the lady while she lived in their compound..relocated her,sent her to school and went on to start a family with her while she was deceiving herself that she was with an angel.

She attempted suicide but was saved.
Now,she is kinda mentally unstable

ARISHEM:
Divorce are one of the ways to destroy a man

Not true.
Man is the prize.
Divorce will help him remarry and change taste of soup