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Crime › Re: Comfort Uwakwe: Lady Missing During Visit To Boyfriend In Epe (photo) by spiceadole(f): 9:41pm On Jan 23
Berankis:
See this fine girl. Women are now endangered species in this God-forsaken country.
Who established that money can be gotten from the killing of another human being?
It's all these lunatic believes that have kept this country in perpetual suffering and underdevelopment. What nonsense!
Organ trafficking is lucrative.
It's not money ritual.
I really feel sorry for young girls in the dating /relationship phase.
Romance › Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by spiceadole(f): 5:31am On Jan 23
GenFunction:
The girl sef
36 nd 51. E suppose show na.
Abi the man na Pharrell Williams?
Williams may not look 52 but he definitely doesn't look to be in his 30s.
Additionally, he completed secondary school in 1991. That information clearly puts him in his early 50s.

That lady isn't just smart.
There are many ways to know people's ages apart from looks
Romance › Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by spiceadole(f): 5:26am On Jan 23
There is no type of genetics that will make a 51 year old man look 34.

Additionally,looks is not the only way to know or guess someone's age.
In this era , it's very easy to have a good guess of someone's age.

In our every day interaction with people, we get to know their siblings, educational achievements, career achievements,their friends, choice of music, even certain stories they will tell us or childhood memories they remember can give a good idea of how old they may be.

Some years back I think around 2017, I was discussing with a colleague and he told me a story that happened in 1990 .. and I was like "1990? And you are narrating the gist so well?".
He replied " Haba! I don finish secondary school that time sef".
Gbam!
I quickly added 16-18 years + 27/28... I had a rough guess of his age and knew this guy was a "senior man" even though he didn't look like in his 40s,he didn't look 20s.He could actually pass for late 30s

We were not dating,no intentions to.
Just colleagues interacting and along the line,I knew his age range.
How much more someone you are intimate with.

The lady is not smart..Her mathematics is even wrong.

As young as AY and Bovi look,they don't look 20 years younger than their ages.
Even Teju Babyface who looks so young ,by the time you see his friends and the circle he rolls with,find out his life achievements,see his siblings ,you will know he is not in his 30s.

Mumu lady got played.
I can imagine the pain of getting married hoping to build with a young man only to find out he is a papa and he is broke/struggy at 51 abi 54.
Lol
Travel › Re: Can Someone Help With European Countries With Good Amount Of Jobs by spiceadole(f): 11:00am On Jan 22
obonujoker:
Good afternoon House.

Please can anyone help with good European countries where someone can study and also get job without waiting for so long.

I intend to pursue a PHD abroad, but I want to be strategic, while studying I can work. I intend taking my wife and 2 kids along...

I already have a masters and bachelor in Mechanical engineering, but I have never practiced with these certificates, I have been into Real estate and Education.

My wife has a Bachelors degree too... She will be a dependant.

We are looking at Portugal, or Finland , but we want where we can get jobs easily.

Canada is too expensive for us, except there's a scholarship.

So please help out..... Thank you
You want to take your wife abroad.
I thought you guys said wives should be left in Nigeria.
Or you say one thing online while doing another offline?
Crime › Re: He Died In His Room, Rot, Turned To Skeleton And Nobody Noticed For 4 Years by spiceadole(f): 3:06pm On Jan 20
victorVIC1:
You are trying. I did that for few months, I couldn't help it. It felt so lonely to the point that I was staying back at work till night. I eventually fast tracked my wedding to same year.
Fast track wedding for the same marriage that men benefit nothing from

Lol
Romance › Re: How Long Can You Stay Without Sex ? by spiceadole(f): 1:13am On Jan 19
I can stay as long as I want to

Left for me, I no longer need sex .
Sex is for procreation and I'm done with child bearing

I have never seen /felt the pleasure in sex.

I just squeeze face and manage it once In a while, for sake of marriage.

Sex is not food.
Romance › Re: Gay Nigerian Man Marries His Oyinbo Lover In USA (Photos) by spiceadole(f): 3:06pm On Jan 18
A bold man
Unlike the lots of them who spend all their energy and time complaining about women yet desire same women.
Romance › Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by spiceadole(f): 8:08pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
How come patronising prostitutes is no longer a flex?

How come steady knacking is no longer a boast of sexual prowess?

Oga, please continue oh.

Don't stop.

It makes you more manly.
Man was meant to sleep with as many woman as he can possibly lay.

As long as you can afford the women, continue.
Brotherhood is proud of you
Crime › Re: Married Woman Got Stuck With Another Man In Her Matrimonial Bed (Video) by spiceadole(f): 8:20pm On Jan 16
ibrutex:
Wetin this man dey yarn huh Juju dey abeg

Ask yourself why it always happen to Men with another man wife , i have never seen the case of husband and wife before....


Have you heard/seen a man die while having sex with his wife in their home?
As compared to men dying in hotels with their side chics/pros.titutes
Romance › Re: Lady’s Desperate Attempt To Reconcile With Her Boyfriend by spiceadole(f): 5:37pm On Jan 16
This is the low self esteem that comes from having sex with a man who is not your husband.
You end up feeling worthless when he leaves you.
You feel ashamed and less of yourself.

If not, if he never saw your tow tow and decides to leave, you will be walking around happily with your shoulders raised up high.
Celebrities › Re: Anthony Joshua Shares Training Footage Weeks After Friends’ Tragic Deaths by spiceadole(f): 4:44pm On Jan 16
brain54:
Idi trauma crew...


Would not be able to box again due to trauma. Gather around, come and see something!
Don't mind them

Excessively emotional funny people.
Celebrities › Re: Anthony Joshua Shares Training Footage Weeks After Friends’ Tragic Deaths by spiceadole(f): 4:43pm On Jan 16
Way to go.
Your life doesn't revolve around anybody.
Everybody is replaceable.
Romance › Re: If I Marry from This Family I Might Regret The Rest Of My Life by spiceadole(f): 6:58pm On Jan 14
ufotunang:
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Just get a career lady..a lady that is already working.. to date and marry in future ..she will not stress you much and not depend on you much for financial help and be a much burden to you...since she has her own job or businesses...but all this girl's that are idle and unemployed will stress you and over burden you and put you in financial pressure in which you will regret later
Same career women that you guys always attack?
Can't cook
Too busy
Denies you sex
Cannot be controlled
Not submissive
Not respectful,etc

Lol.
You are just confused
Romance › Re: If I Marry from This Family I Might Regret The Rest Of My Life by spiceadole(f): 6:53pm On Jan 14
eventainment:
Well sex is of mutual consent and it's not like both parties are not benefiting from it, it's just that one is more open about it than another. And any investment on a sensible family member gives possible returns and increases family wealth but any investment on a lady not wife might be investment on someone else's property
Sex is of mutual consent but when a lady says NO, men are not happy.. Some use money and investment to coerce/convince her into it.. Others even go as far as raping her.
Yet , sex is of mutual consent.
Okay ooh
Health › Re: Canadian Police Arrest Nigerian Caregiver Over Assault On Vulnerable Adult by spiceadole(f): 1:22pm On Jan 14
It had to be a black male, as usual
Romance › Re: If I Marry from This Family I Might Regret The Rest Of My Life by spiceadole(f): 1:19pm On Jan 14
jattopeter:
How much have you invested in your sisters , This is ridiculous , wasting money on a lady that you are not married to.
Is he sleeping with his sisters? Or are his sisters giving him BJ?
Romance › Re: If I Marry from This Family I Might Regret The Rest Of My Life by spiceadole(f): 1:18pm On Jan 14
GloriousGbola:
and the fables continue

you a grown man decided to look for a poor student to go and invest 1.5m in

rather than find an actual adult working woman - you went to look for a child in a family of paupers.

it is the boys who swallow your fabu i feel sorry for. a circle jerk of jobless banger boys wasting their lives away
Adult working woman will most likely be more than 25 and not submissive.
Romance › Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 7:08pm On Jan 13
Sirseedorf:
Is it a crime, or there is something you want me to know.





spiceadole
Men don't need to marry as they have nothing to benefit from it , at least that's what is been advised on social media or you wait for 7 women will fight over you
Politics › Re: 'God Don't Let Me Grow If I Make Odili To Cry' - Wike (Throwback) by spiceadole(f): 2:00pm On Jan 13
God doesn't answer prayers.
So it's okay to use the name of God to make promises or even curse oneself.
Nothing will happen.
Romance › Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 1:03pm On Jan 13
Lamanii22:
I feel for you bro, this is so wrong, it feels as though you're asking girls of 18-22 years old out
People that say it's under 18 they should be dating and marrying?
Romance › Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 1:01pm On Jan 13
Sirseedorf:
Same thing is happening to me, in fact your age is exactly as mine, I'm very tired honestly, all the girls have boyfriend, then am like who am i going to marry, not that am lazy or wasted my time, I just have to put things in order before bringing in a wife, now the wife is like a commodity and am still searching for it.
Why are you searching for a wife?
For what exactly?
Romance › Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 12:58pm On Jan 13
SAMBARRY:
Everybody with wetin dey do them grin

As e dey do woman e dey for man grin

What a Time be alive grin I no know say e dey pain men when them side boyfriend them or use them as option c grin

Suddenly una no fit have a taste your medicine grin

I like this generation of women. They sabi mirror men back grin so when una dey side chick or baby mama zone women e dey sweet una so a time will come when women will flip the script on you grin

Wonderful grin

I thought there are plenty fishes in the river grin so when it's now time to look for the Mrs right there are no longer plenty fishes grin

No naija man ought to ve complaining of being the side dude,abi the fishes for river don finish? grin
Apt!

E shock me too.

He ought to be happy with himself and shaming the ladies he is sleeping with .. surprised he is lamenting being kept as second option.
I thought women had no value.
7 women rushing 1 man.
Maybe he is a goat and not a man.
Lolz
Romance › Re: At The Age Of 34, Girls Still Prefer Me To Be Their Side Boy Friend. Please Help by spiceadole(f): 12:40pm On Jan 13
Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist


help for wider opinion please
Simp!

He sounds worse than a lady whining.
What do you want to do with connection?

In social media , especially this forum and even offline, it has been agreed that women are useless and are only for intimacy . You are getting the intimacy , so what's the complain?

Men say it's women who crave for connection, serious relationship, companionship and marriage..
But in reality, they also have same cravings and feel unhappy when it doesn't work out for them.
Romance › Re: Man Narrates How Girlfriend Dumped Him After He Sold His Car To Send Her Abroad by spiceadole(f): 12:31pm On Jan 13
MarketDispatch:
The man lost his bet. If he had sent his own Sister abroad...there would be positive contribution into their family.
He won't send his sister because he is is sleeping with her .
Men can be foo.lish because of tow tow.

God forbid evil
Crime › Re: Soldier Kills Teenager For Challenging Him For Making Sexual Advances At His Sis by spiceadole(f): 11:29pm On Jan 11
laivwire:
I made a comment during crossover about the dangers of being outside by midnight during crossover when elements of the devil know people will be wandering at ungodly hours. Here is one result
Nothing in this world can make me attend crossover night.
Normally, I don't even attend church
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Wife At River Valley Estate; Suspect Commits Suicide In Ogun by spiceadole(f): 6:36pm On Jan 11
Women who continue to live with abusive men .. Una dey try oh

Like I can't even imagine it.

The kind of hatred and bitterness I will have towards that man ehn, if I don't poi.. son him, I no be woman
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Wife At River Valley Estate; Suspect Commits Suicide In Ogun by spiceadole(f): 6:30pm On Jan 11
Denalarian:
Nawa.. I just hope he didn't kill her because of infidelity cos that would be too retarded for him to commit murder..
What reason do you hope he killed her for?
Romance › Re: How Many Years Did It Take You To Save Before You Japa by spiceadole(f): 12:35am On Jan 11
6 years of labouring and saving for multiple exams and other expenditure
Literature › Re: Adichie Releases Account of Son’s Death, Accuses Euracare Hospital of Negligence by spiceadole(f): 9:07pm On Jan 10
Flangelo12:
Quack.
No need engaging you.
You are not a medical doctor so you don't understand the ethics of the profession
Literature › Re: Adichie Releases Account of Son’s Death, Accuses Euracare Hospital of Negligence by spiceadole(f): 5:39pm On Jan 10
Flangelo12:
Isn't hee husband a medical doctor?
So?
My husband and I are medical doctors.
We don't treat our children, home and abroad
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Christianity Etc › Re: Police Transfer Rape Allegations Against Chris Okafor To Force Headquarters by spiceadole(f): 7:38pm On Jan 09
Women dey marry oh.
Imagine a new wife who should be enjoying honeymoon reading all these crap about her husband.

It's not easy.
Kudos to his wife.

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