₦airaland Forum

enemyofprogress:
it was actually a baby boy, but the baby was switched for her in the labour room.

The most important thing is that she goes home to nurture a baby girl and not a boy.

In her shoes,if a scan shows I'm pregnant with a boy,I will abort the pregnancy

pocohantas:
I hate to say I was particularly happy for this.
😂😂😂

It's very important.
A girl child is EVERYTHING.

I would have been felt pained if it was a boy..the very gender that hates her with venom

ARISHEM:
The Feminist that don’t want husband but want their sperms.

You are so pained.

Sorry ooh.

Congratulations Toke.
Most importantly for birthing a girl child..Not a member of that toxic gender that are shaming you.

Na girl pikin dey remember mama.

Profezzor:
Why won't you keep the baby and live your life. The shame of having a child outside wedlock will not be there forever

I guess you have not met Nigerian men.
They shame single mothers forever

Lol

Serves her right.

It's definitely not the first time he was beating her but she endured ...wanted to answer Mrs by all means.

Good for her

Creamypie:
Only a rich man marries woman from broke home. A woman from broke home shuns man from broke home

Men marry DOWN(Age and social class)
Women marry UP(Age and Social class

KiNg0G:
As a man from a poor background struggling day and night trying to make ends meet in his early youth age is there any chances he can one day get to marry a wealthy lady in the future unexpectedly.

I mean we have so many wealthy people in nigeria, go to the north, the west and even the east. Generational wealths, politicians, companies owners, car dealers, rich rich folks like I can't help to think who do their daughter's marry to.

This baffles me so much, Will it be possible for a bricklayer to get married to the daughter of a senator Just for once one day in Nigeria. Or a phone repairer getting married to a daddy go daughter and more

I'm asking this questions for myself because of the dream I had few years ago about the wealthy family I married into, that's why I am still single waiting.
Pls advise me if I am wasting my time or it might one day come to pass. I should still hold on

Men prefer to marry DOWN because they want to CONTROL their wives
It's very difficult to control someone you are not feeding

So even if you meet an averagely well to do lady ,you will take her for granted.
Collect her money and flex with jobless hungry girls.

Then still marry a lady who is "lower" than you

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

He is not serious with you.
He is just using you to satisfy his sexual urges.
He is either married with children or has a serious girlfriend he hardly knacks, preserving her for marriage.

Use your common sense

By the time he turns you to baby mama,he will be the first to join his fellow men and insult all baby mamas as being wayward.

Eddodoh:
I have problem keeping a serious and committed relationship.

I always found myself keeping multiple partners & still maintain contact with some of my exes which add to the pool of women in my circle. I find it difficult to detach from them.

This really drains me emotionally and financially as I could get several demands from these ladies at the same time and it really stressed me. Moreover, age is no longer on my side.

In the past, I have lost good girls who were really committed but because I wasn't committed, as I had to juggle all of those girls together.

How do I do away with this problem? I will appreciate any suggestions or advice.

How is this a problem?

Age is a woman's challenge..and never a man's headache.

Men are polygamous in nature, aren't they?

Please enjoy your women.

callmeDDD:
Trust me, she will file for part or share from that money sighting that she contributed to the lottery success. She won't give up without a fight even if she will lose.
Just wait and see. No be American women again?

Haba ! I thought it's African women,Nigerian ,to be precise that love money
White women don't like money

Rich4god:
Ladies too need to learn how to stand their ground. They shouldn't allow any man to pressure them.

If there are no sex before marriage, more 80% of single motherhood will be reduced.

Many ladies are having careless sex because of lack and greed.

If as a woman,you have money and you are a contended person,you will find it easy to say NO to sexual advances from men

Proudlyomonna:
Lie

My Brother marry one poor girl,He fly her go UK now the banny just dey on fresh,she don change her poor family back in Nija life

Guy this Your motivational post no enter well jarey.

I thought they say there is no money in UK
That Nigerians in UK are suffering.
Lol

Please don't compare terrible odours with snoring.

My husband snores loudly.

We sleep in different bedrooms,so it's not really much of a problem.

I can't imagine body or mouth odour.
Nooooooo

Private hospital MDs will pay their doctors 200K/month with hard labour while their jobless /teenage children spend 500K on one night clubbing.

Footballers sha.

In their prime,they will be wasting money on luxurious cars,houses and women without planning for their future.

Imagine Victor Osimhen complaining that govt abandoned him later in future.

When they are advised to invest for tomorrow,they will assume the money is too much and can't finish

Kajaard:
I am sure I'm the only person that doesn't use twitter (X). I just find that place extremely toxic and stay away for my sanity

Nairaland is more toxic than X.

Nairaland is completely faceless while X is semi-faceless.
Lol

Let me go to X and see hot male tears.

They are so used to beating women and getting away with it...
And the way they believe a woman will end up single if she is a divorcee..
How funny

Very young man.
The most popular footballer to have represented Benin Republic in their history.
What could have gone wrong?

May his soul find peace.

kenn4rill:
So how then should you be addressed as? Miss or Mrs who? Because you can't be a Mrs and still retain your father's name because you are not a second wife to him, neither can you be a Miss and claim you are married, unless you are married to Jesus

I'm still addressed as "Dr ABC" ..my father's name.
I haven't changed my name.

People hardly call me "Mrs"..
They use my professional title instead

I have not changed my name.

It hasn't just occurred to me.

One of my senior aunts who is over 50 now has still not changed her name in close to 25 years of marriage


Actress Joke Silva didn't change her name.

There is no fast or hard rule.

No be change or no change of name dey bring peace and longevity to marriage.

So this wayward girl has a father.
Tufiakwa!

Her father claims he doesn't have money but his daughter carries 2 expensive iPhones and showcases luxurious lifestyle on social media.

The gap between her life and her father's status very wide.

I won't be surprised her mother is a peasant farmer or one petty trader on the street.

That's great.

If I had my way,I would have had 3 daughters..no son

cococandy:
You had the choice to stay in a country where they don’t have rights.

You chose to migrate. Don’t complain now.

Who is complaining?
Are you sure you are normal?

This gay thing ehn...Used to be shocking for me but somehow,I started adapting to them

I can remember my confusion when I asked a man about his partner and Baba told me his partner was another man.

I almost screamed but had to compose.


A teenage boy will come to clinic and be telling you how he is not happy because he can't express his feelings towards another boy.
Something that normally Oraimo cord on his neck would reset,you would be forced to speak with empathy,encourage and offer support.

The price of japa sha.
It's not easy tbh

luminouz:
Are you jealous you weren't mentioned in his speech?

If you are doing well, your hubby will also publicly say it.

Who cares?

After all the praises,MI will still divorce her and may even shame her.
I hope she has children,at least.
That's basically the only thing to gain from all these marriage entanglement

MI is lying.
He is trying to cover up.
Or he is just a simp.

Wives are evil.
Women are wicked.

Men have nothing to benefit from getting married.


This is how they continue bragging but eventually will spend their hard earned money to marry the same evil and wicked woman...
Lolz

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

You can have children without getting marriage .

You are not telling yourself the truth that you get married because of children

24 years with all these wrinkles?

Hmmmmmm

Okay na

Even if it's surrogacy or adoption,have a child especially a daughter that calls you "mummy"