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Gone too soon

I am still looking for the T-Shirt though. Some of you quack bloggers need to to to school first.

This paragraph cracked me up so good. Hehehehehehe

"Since the return to democracy, Abubakar has contested in all the elections."

He is an idiot. He's lucky that he's not rotting in jail.

What do you expect from someone with a name such as Bodmas?

Life no go just balance for am.

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

your suspicion is correct.
she's popular at that spot for dates or known with someone there already.
she's either a public dog or simply cant move on in the same area where she had once dated someone.
if it's the latter, then understand her and move the venue elsewhere. if unsure, go to that spot with her pictue, you will get all your facts there.

What is wrong with Igbo people?
There are more than 250 tribes in this country nah.

How do we move forward like this? All the EndSars protests by young people of this nation becomes useless with this tribe this, tribe that. Seems like we gained nothing from the lessons of the protests.
We are back to tribal warlordship. Smh

Arrewa:
Bachir my broh!

See as Bashir press their mumu button

The lady is not even an igbo lady!

My baba just shake table... And some bigots don carry am for head.

Our people hardly marry from the Igbo tribe.

We have smart, beautiful and hard-working ladies in abundance.

I have dated different igbo ladies... I mean ladies of capacity not runs girls.

Igbo ladies love fulani boys especially when you're handsome and have big buraa!

Na only ipobs hate us their women like us die... They use to convert to Islam once you show any intention of marrying them.

We have many of them that have willingly converted to Islam through their boyfriends.

Believe me... Fulani maidens are the best!!

Very intelligent...smart and hardly cheat!

Fulani maidens Any day... Any time!

Just drop the digit of a good educated one, and we will be brothers in law.
Preferably 30-45

Zane2point4:
If bad wife do you something you go retype this.
There some people that you cant simply live with,not only women sef,man too.

Live with?

Are they living together?


Too many kids on NL these days, time to leave this forum for them

gozzy121:
if u ask me na who I go ask

We know your type. Na dem.

Im very less busy today.

Let me read

gozzy121:
my friend some women are evil and very manipulative my prayer for you is never to encounter such a type of woman in your family.also never you argue with Bottom power

How does this justify childishness and silliness?

wirinet:
See me, see trouble o. I never see where simple happy birthday dey cause world war 3. If the person you consider yourself enemy greeting you good morning everyday. You either grudgingly answer good morning in return or you ignore. Which one be anger again?

Exactly.

He's like a baby. He's got to live with his brother's choice and deal with it. We all have in-laws like that, but we deal with it maturely.

The remaining children should know by now that to jakpa na him sure pass. Disown the family and run to an unknown place like Nigeria to hide and live the rest of their lives peacefully

festacman:
Every year Lola sends Peter and Paul a birthday message on "whether they like it or not" basis. Every year Paul replies her with the same hostility, accusing her of being manipulative. Every year, they repeat this sh*t.

It is obvious that what is happening in Okoye family is complicated. Paul's wife and Lola Omotayo are friends so much that Peter's daughter Aliona models for Paul's wife fashion brand. Yet Peter and Paul are not talking terms.

However, they are comfortable in their homes and even making more money. What do I know?

You're right.

The problem is Paul and Jude. This recent outburst shows to me a lot of immaturity and pain. I can only imagine the worse that we don't even know about.

If she congratulates both of you, wahala, only her husband, wahala, none at all, wahala. If i were in that woman's shoes, I'd do the same.... Cut off ties with troublesome immature family members, but wish them well.

I do same in my own family life already.

If you didn't read to the end, then it's silly to make any comment like those above.

You will just not make sense, if you are a lazy reader. Read, read, read

Mods, can we please move this thread to CHILDREN SECTION already?

Smh

sexdoll:
I don't even know the point you're trying to make.

but in summary, I think you're a fool.

you expect the young man to come and carry your wahala for head, just to show you that he cares abi?

you be mumu.

Hahahaha absolutely.

I've told her same. She's either a kid or a dullard. Lolz

CalliDora1:
Who's talking about keeping up a convo here? This is just one those things that occur in a relationship and it has nothing to do with not being an expert at maintaining good conversation.

You guys should refrain from using derogatory words in your bid to airing your opinion. Biko.

It's a faceless forum, i say it as it is.

You don't have to say it, it's apparent that both of you can't keep up a convo.

And for mentioning that you didn't say it in your long story plainly buttresses my opinion on your IQ.

The implication of your long story is obvious.

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

You both are not intelligent enough to keep up conversations. Imagine, "have you eaten?" What the fvck is that?
Both of you dont have wide interests, exposure to talk about? If you did, there would be no need for assumptions or false expectations, and there would be normal natural flow.
I have to conclude that you both fit each other. Otherwise, you would have blocked him long ago. If he couldn't keep up a conversation, what about you?

I love Umahi
I love Joe Abah
I love abakaliki rice
i love Ebonyi State.

Hardworking people who thinks out of the box and do not follow the crowd, like their other brothers.

Wonderful people and distinct. Outstanding!

Onepeople:
bro nobody cares.

And you think anyone cares about your comment? Lmao

Bkayyy:
Is Ilorin north not also part of kwara south? Ilorin North has the highest established fulani settlement in the whole of Kwara, infact they use camels as means of transport there.
And don't think of lying to me, I know Kwara very well and most traders learnt hausa while trading in Ilorin because the fulani only care about Hausa not English

You are such an unfortunate and confused person. It's like you're doomed spiritually and physically. Your negative energy is attracting to you misfortunes. Your end is near. You will soon be consumed, like you never existed.

Ebonyi is the only SE state endearing to me. I love the people too, very different from the mainstream SE.

Where are you guys watching it?

I've searched through all my GoTv, nothing

drlaykay:
Only few people get that expression correctly
The use of past participles of sing and run

And drink

Has sung songs, not has sang

This is easy. There were pictures of people who climbed it and tried the glasses on, during the protest.

She should be probed for distributing raw cash. That's money laundering esp in a cashless economy. Also, she is not vindicated yet, she has skeleton in her cupboard.

Distributing raw cash is a corrupt way of embezzling money without trace.

I dont want to see Person Missing topic later o.

You chase clout intentionally for now, later you pay for it.

Present-day youngsters have no respect for anyone. Everyone in this country is angry and frustrates, the military im particular. I'm not saying he is right, but it is wise to have looked away. I have utmost respect for nigerian soldiers for their sacrifices despite not provided with adequate welfare, gears and equipment

Still available

rottenegg:
He has been arrested at the 9th Brigade! Vex no dey help anyone in these days of phone camera and quick fingers.

And when he is released, we no go hear of Ada-oma again o. 6ft under is possible.

Always give army, navy, airforce in uniform priority in public places... they dont have the time. They deserve respect.

She is a b!tch, no better word to describe her.

Her name spells mischief. Na dem clout chasers

Owerri1stSon:
Shut up. I will say it anywhere I like, I have been saying it before and I will continue saying it, Lagos is no man's land. No body is praying for trouble, it is the Yorubas that have been threatening Igbos and drumming ember of war but guess what? No Igbo Man give a damn and if you guys try shit, what Hausas are doing to you guys will be child's play. Nonsense

A fool spotted.

Stay calm and stop beating war drums. You are not your tribesmen spokeman, so this chestbeating is childish and unwise.

Let's refrain from childishness and provocation that will affect many lives. It is unnecessary. Your comment or response to the guy is not only read by him, but by thousands of NL members and guests. It is not foolishness to be quiet.