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EventsRe: Groom’s Father Turns Michael Jackson At Son's Wedding by SSpeter(m): 9:50pm On Apr 21, 2024
Jennyclay:
Happy Man cheesy

Men like this don’t have problem. They can take very good care of a woman without stress.

Not all these broke depressed evil men that blames everything on village people and government!!

Shior!!
come and marry my grandpa, he would take extremely good care of you. You won't have to work a day.
Foreign AffairsRe: ISRAELI Weapon Damaged Iranian Air Defenses Without Being Detected by SSpeter(m): 8:12am On Apr 21, 2024
grin
smokinloud:
It's the one in the Qur'an it's related to ba?
grin
Foreign AffairsRe: ISRAELI Weapon Damaged Iranian Air Defenses Without Being Detected by SSpeter(m): 8:11am On Apr 21, 2024
femi4:
Modern day Israel wasn't formed until 1948

Old Israel was like 5 times the modern day Israel.

Is like saying the Oyo empire is the same as Oyo State

Or restricting Yoruba nation to western Nigeria
You said the present Israeli aren't the Israelites in the Bible, so I am asking where are the Israelites in the Bible today, who are they so that we can replace them and chase away the impostors. I am not talking about their size or when they were formed
Foreign AffairsRe: ISRAELI Weapon Damaged Iranian Air Defenses Without Being Detected by SSpeter(m): 6:45am On Apr 21, 2024
Agapeunit:
don't mind him,shebi they live in his village.
cheesy grin
Foreign AffairsRe: ISRAELI Weapon Damaged Iranian Air Defenses Without Being Detected by SSpeter(m): 5:40am On Apr 21, 2024
femi4:
FYI, this Israel isn't related to the one in the Bible cos I know your thinking capability
please where are the ones from the Bible
BusinessRe: ₦1,136 To ₦1,148: Naira Records First Depreciation Against Dollar In Months by SSpeter(m): 4:19pm On Apr 17, 2024
fitinwell:
There is something FGN is not telling Nigerians..

Why are we this greedy to ourselves.. why?

When Naira Appreciates no positive effects on Purchasing power , instead electric tarrif jacked up 150% high... PMS ₦750/litre..

Okro fruit now ₦500 per portion

One rubber of beans getting close to ₦3,000

What exactly is Bola Ahmed Tinubu , trying to achieve...?

We are too educated as a Nation to be getting this ill treatment as a citizen ooh.
the Naira did not appreciate due to market forces it did because the CBN was overvaluing it
BusinessRe: ₦1,136 To ₦1,148: Naira Records First Depreciation Against Dollar In Months by SSpeter(m): 4:17pm On Apr 17, 2024
garykoeman:
Official rate is higher than parallel market.

Can u explain how naira is being defended.
the weekly intervention by the CBN into the market is how you defend it. It was supposed to be a willing buyer and willing seller according to CBN but when the CBN comes in to sell at a lower price, they are overvaluing the currency hence defending it
PoliticsRe: Keep Your Dollars Closer! - Aisha Yesufu by SSpeter(m): 7:52pm On Apr 16, 2024
Wainey:
Seriously this woman does not have brain.
2months ago, if u have a $1000k, u can buy N1.8m worth of goods.
Now that ur 1k dollar can only buy N1m.
If u decide to take this advice, ur 1k dollar may only buy N700k worth of things in the near future.
No wonder Obi decided to take advice from a mad man instead of his supporters
she is not stupid, the value of things you bought at 1.8m you should still buy at 700k if your Naira truly appreciated and not fixed that is what she is explaining
TravelRe: Irukera Seeks Probe Into Foreign Airlines ‘Predatory Pricing’ Against Air Peace by SSpeter(m): 11:07am On Apr 14, 2024
Jogs1900:
If Air peace has the same opportunity these foreign airlines have, they will do more..They are shouting now because they can't offer better services..Can you explain to me why air peace is the most expensive to fly locally if that is not exploitation?
is not about opportunity is about protectionism from home their home countries. Airpeace is shouting because they want protectionism that other Airlines have from their home countries as well. Let me illuminate you a little, the US is planning to tax cars imported from Mexico to the US despite the FTA between Mexico and the US why? BYD et Al are already setting up factories in Mexico. So why don't the US government tell Tesla to compete with BYD on the US front? If you don't get it at this point I can't help you
TravelRe: Irukera Seeks Probe Into Foreign Airlines ‘Predatory Pricing’ Against Air Peace by SSpeter(m): 10:33am On Apr 14, 2024
Jogs1900:
Fact but some people are not seeing this...They still want to encourage the exploitation of Nigerians by asking them to increase their fare because of Air peace.
see how smart you are?? Did you know we had Arik flying to the UK and this foreign guys backed by there home countries frustrated Arik with prices and in less than four months of Arik exit I paid twice the amount to travel to the UK. If Airpeace leaves the market, what choice do you have when they go back to fleece you?
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 3:17pm On Apr 13, 2024
cheesy
Regex:
😂 😂... Omo I spend on myself like kilode...I be igbo but e no reach me where my money deh...
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 3:15pm On Apr 13, 2024
Gerrard59:
Hopefully, I get to see this description in action with time. Cos as I dey, I spend on myself first - the best thing money can buy. Looking tacky in the name of "the wealth of a man is seen in his wife" no follow. My Igbo no reach that level. Upon this spending on their wives, their daughters later become active feminists with a touch of lesbianism.

To what end?
if you take good care of yourself you spouse can never weaponize sex, women know when their man is attractive and stylish hence they tend to calm down.
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 3:13pm On Apr 13, 2024
pansophist:
Romance flows from men to women. When people talk about being romantic, it is men who are the true romantics. Just analyze the mechanics of romance, and you will see clearly that it's men who initiate it, and a woman gets on board.

A woman describing a romantic man is simply a man who does things she likes. Talks to her in a certain way, cares for her, buys her things, basically a giver and a doer. When men want to be romantic with a woman, it is also to do things for her.

My idea of a romantic woman is a woman who onboard, integrates, and follows my program. I tell her we are going to Accra for the weekend, then she is so excited, prepared her best dress and just follows me without drama.

This is the natural dynamic. You are a man, if you want sex, you should lead.
Definitely men should create the environment that will make intimacy thrive, then you relax and let your spouse take it up from there grin
CelebritiesRe: Churchill Acquires 2024 Brand New Chevrolet Blazer For Daughter, Amelia by SSpeter(m): 9:15am On Apr 13, 2024
UHLmoving:
Tonto rush go return bride price, now Churchill is living his happily ever after with a cool headed wife.

It seems Churchill doesn't even care about his son with Tonto.
No reasonable man will forget his son, unless the man was born a bastard
CelebritiesRe: Francesca Amewudah: Black Actors Condemn Racial Abuse Of Romeo, Juliet Star by SSpeter(m): 4:44pm On Apr 12, 2024
Tribalism is worse than Racism. It is better to sit at the table of a racist than to sit at the table of a tribalist.
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 3:17pm On Apr 12, 2024
Eunoiaa:
I don't know of a time in history when this was never the case, but believe whatever you will...
😲, Guys from a young age are always thought to take care of their families and no one talks about a man taking care of himself. Infact I know a guy back then that it was his wife who would buy his socks, cufflinks, shirts and even shoes. All he has been thought was take care of your family. Very few guys take themselves as priority hence they end up over worked, unkempt and undesirable. Infact that same guy, the wife will remind to go trim his hair etc. Guys need to look at themselves and spoil themselves grin
CelebritiesRe: Which Cell Would Bobrisky Be Locked? Male Or Female Cell? by SSpeter(m): 2:45pm On Apr 12, 2024
They have special places where people like that are kept, not everyone in prison are in a cell, infact if you visit the prison, there are quarters for seniors and that is where he would stay
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 2:44pm On Apr 12, 2024
Evolutionism:
Infact my immediate cute petite babe Estoreel really performed wonders with me.

Apart from the first time i teased and was very romantic with her. Afterall she was always the one taking the lead.

I dey do shakara sef sometimes, The shakara dey always sweet megrin

As a man, Just be cute, Have a good body and be very hygienic. Most of them would be so eager to eat you raw, believe me.
Oga this is for married people grin...
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 2:35pm On Apr 12, 2024
Evolutionism:
May God continue to bless my Ex Estoreel wherever she is now.

I have never begged for Sex all my life and will never. Just enough teasing and being romantic then i'm good to go.
💯...all you need to do is create the environment for intimacy and allow her Excellency proceed
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 2:13pm On Apr 12, 2024
Eunoiaa:
Lol... if you people's "rules" and setting up situations to initiate sex isn't constricting to you, good luck.
women have been using the seduction techniques for aeons. Guys should also know that they are desirable too. They should also take time to make themselves the priority grin
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 12:27pm On Apr 12, 2024
Fahvvy:
You fit do all this one finish make another man wey no do anything dey nack your woman steady grin
Vawulence grin, well the aim is to make yourself desirable and create moments that will make your spouse always want to be around you. Cheating is another topic entirely
CrimeRe: Boko Haram Slaughters 27 Fishermen In Cameroon by SSpeter(m): 10:50am On Apr 12, 2024
kereman1:
Y can't the military annihilate these guys
military is part of bokoharam
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 9:48am On Apr 12, 2024
Esthered:
As a nursing mum and mum to another toddler working 9 to 5, he knows that if he follows your ideology, our .....will suffer as I rarely initiate it. Child bearing and nurturing affects our libido sometimes.
Even if I do, it'll never match his demand.
Married men should do what works for them.
I have kids too, my spouse was in banking hence, hers was 5am-10pm including traffic. During postpartum period, hormones can disrupt the flow, however, as a man you have to make yourself desirable...and it works a few friends that I shared this with experienced an uptick in initiation from their spouses almost immediately
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 10:30pm On Apr 11, 2024
Nonexisting1:
The efforts you put in coming up with this nonsense post could've better used in moulding few blocks in my site. Every time, chochocho about sex. Mtchew. Ndi ara
vawulence angry
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 6:48pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
There is nothing wrong in a man initiating sex. Why will u even say this......??
Both man and wife should do it ..that's team work.....both parties will feel desired, loved and wanted.....
When u as a man always want ur woman to express need for something u both desire....check well..looks like u have worship complex ...u might be just a a sexual narcissist
grin grin .....
Vawulence!!!
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:52pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
Lol......ubare playing hard to get for ur wife inside house...lol...

u don't get it......
I ddnt say a man shouldn't all u suggested... I'm just telling u just because ur wife initiate sex doesn't mean every woman does.....some women sont initiate sex.... Just as u think it's not romantic for a man to do so...some woman also think what is obtainable and romantic is for a man to do so.....

Also..There are women who weaponizes sex..
There are women who always wants to have leverage when it comes to sex....
If u marry retired oloshó ..u will know what I'm talking about
I understand your point, remember you are not playing hard to get you are only reprioritizing your priorities and it becomes a way of life. You shouldn't initiate intimacy come on, create the right moment for it. Let us not delve into a dysfunctional home cos it will be too complex and we will end up discussing futility
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:37pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
Who said u shouldn't look fine and clean..
.a man should look fine naturally.....not becos of fvck.....

Look hot all u want....the worst some women will give u ma green light....ask married men here naaa....wife wey Dem dey smash for many years still dey form saint.....
I am married, and no I don't fall for green lights anymore ( greenlights were for the early days) . Create good moments and your spouse will serve you romance like a king.
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:34pm On Apr 11, 2024
toujurs:
You are a smart man, and knowledge won't depart from you.

I don't understand, how a lady tell you a grown up mumu, that she loves you. Only when you buy her gifts, or give her money.

And she allows to have sex, which you initiate all the time. So where is the love.

Most modern day men are just daft. To see what's happening.
💯. Guys are always chasing the wrong thing, take good care of yourself and get a career or learn a good skill and women will come around, focus on yourself and create good moments they will focus on you.
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:28pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
I ddnt say it will not work....too much wahala just to smash


Besides...What is life without a vawulence.....

Too much peace is not good
Na your spouse we dey talk about here, moreover, they are good practices for your personal hygiene as well. Your spouse sef go know say you hot took na grin
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:26pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
U go wait tire.....some women will die first than initiate sex....

So she won't be able to tell u

"is it food"

"I'm tired"

"I gave u sex"






Las ..las....Na paternity fraud go end all this ur ritual..... grin grin
Create the right moments for a lady and all those responses will be thrown in the bin. Women loves and enjoy intimacy just as much as guys unless the woman just dey manage you
RomanceRe: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:23pm On Apr 11, 2024
advanceDNA:
Na paternity fraud go end am grin grin
you go like Vawulence cheesy, but trust me it works! 😉
RomanceIt Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(op): 5:16pm On Apr 11, 2024
This is my personal opinion, as a man, all you need to do is create the right moments and allow your spouse to initiate intimacy. If your spouse is sapiosexual for example, try to be knowledgeable in the fields that triggers her or try to be knowledgeable about things that she might not be paying attention to. Furthermore, improve your appearance, carve your hair line, trim your beards, clean your nails, polish your teeth, always smell heavenly and most importantly try to have an A/C in your bedroom (this one works like magic) your bedroom should not exceed 12 degrees at night, always have a warm bath at night, keep the mouth fresh and wear good deodorant before going to bed. Trust me your wife will always initiate romance cos the environment is graceful. Your spouse initiating intimacy makes it more fun, if you know you know...so guys instead of focusing on your spouse, focus on yourself and your spouse will focus on you.

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