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Evolutionism:
Infact my immediate cute petite babe Estoreel really performed wonders with me.

Apart from the first time i teased and was very romantic with her. Afterall she was always the one taking the lead.

I dey do shakara sef sometimes, The shakara dey always sweet me

As a man, Just be cute, Have a good body and be very hygienic. Most of them would be so eager to eat you raw, believe me.

Oga this is for married people ...

Evolutionism:
May God continue to bless my Ex Estoreel wherever she is now.

I have never begged for Sex all my life and will never. Just enough teasing and being romantic then i'm good to go.

💯...all you need to do is create the environment for intimacy and allow her Excellency proceed

Eunoiaa:
Lol... if you people's "rules" and setting up situations to initiate sex isn't constricting to you, good luck.

women have been using the seduction techniques for aeons. Guys should also know that they are desirable too. They should also take time to make themselves the priority

Fahvvy:
You fit do all this one finish make another man wey no do anything dey nack your woman steady

Vawulence , well the aim is to make yourself desirable and create moments that will make your spouse always want to be around you. Cheating is another topic entirely

kereman1:
Y can't the military annihilate these guys

military is part of bokoharam

Esthered:
As a nursing mum and mum to another toddler working 9 to 5, he knows that if he follows your ideology, our .....will suffer as I rarely initiate it. Child bearing and nurturing affects our libido sometimes.
Even if I do, it'll never match his demand.
Married men should do what works for them.

I have kids too, my spouse was in banking hence, hers was 5am-10pm including traffic. During postpartum period, hormones can disrupt the flow, however, as a man you have to make yourself desirable...and it works a few friends that I shared this with experienced an uptick in initiation from their spouses almost immediately

Nonexisting1:
The efforts you put in coming up with this nonsense post could've better used in moulding few blocks in my site. Every time, chochocho about sex. Mtchew. Ndi ara

vawulence

advanceDNA:
There is nothing wrong in a man initiating sex. Why will u even say this......??
Both man and wife should do it ..that's team work.....both parties will feel desired, loved and wanted.....
When u as a man always want ur woman to express need for something u both desire....check well..looks like u have worship complex ...u might be just a a sexual narcissist
.....

Vawulence!!!

advanceDNA:
Lol......ubare playing hard to get for ur wife inside house...lol...

u don't get it......
I ddnt say a man shouldn't all u suggested... I'm just telling u just because ur wife initiate sex doesn't mean every woman does.....some women sont initiate sex.... Just as u think it's not romantic for a man to do so...some woman also think what is obtainable and romantic is for a man to do so.....

Also..There are women who weaponizes sex..
There are women who always wants to have leverage when it comes to sex....
If u marry retired oloshó ..u will know what I'm talking about

I understand your point, remember you are not playing hard to get you are only reprioritizing your priorities and it becomes a way of life. You shouldn't initiate intimacy come on, create the right moment for it. Let us not delve into a dysfunctional home cos it will be too complex and we will end up discussing futility

advanceDNA:
Who said u shouldn't look fine and clean..
.a man should look fine naturally.....not becos of fvck.....

Look hot all u want....the worst some women will give u ma green light....ask married men here naaa....wife wey Dem dey smash for many years still dey form saint.....

I am married, and no I don't fall for green lights anymore ( greenlights were for the early days) . Create good moments and your spouse will serve you romance like a king.

toujurs:
You are a smart man, and knowledge won't depart from you.

I don't understand, how a lady tell you a grown up mumu, that she loves you. Only when you buy her gifts, or give her money.

And she allows to have sex, which you initiate all the time. So where is the love.

Most modern day men are just daft. To see what's happening.

💯. Guys are always chasing the wrong thing, take good care of yourself and get a career or learn a good skill and women will come around, focus on yourself and create good moments they will focus on you.

advanceDNA:
I ddnt say it will not work....too much wahala just to smash


Besides...What is life without a vawulence.....

Too much peace is not good

Na your spouse we dey talk about here, moreover, they are good practices for your personal hygiene as well. Your spouse sef go know say you hot took na

advanceDNA:
U go wait tire.....some women will die first than initiate sex....

So she won't be able to tell u

"is it food"

"I'm tired"

"I gave u sex"






Las ..las....Na paternity fraud go end all this ur ritual.....

Create the right moments for a lady and all those responses will be thrown in the bin. Women loves and enjoy intimacy just as much as guys unless the woman just dey manage you

advanceDNA:
Na paternity fraud go end am

you go like Vawulence , but trust me it works! 😉

This is my personal opinion, as a man, all you need to do is create the right moments and allow your spouse to initiate intimacy. If your spouse is sapiosexual for example, try to be knowledgeable in the fields that triggers her or try to be knowledgeable about things that she might not be paying attention to. Furthermore, improve your appearance, carve your hair line, trim your beards, clean your nails, polish your teeth, always smell heavenly and most importantly try to have an A/C in your bedroom (this one works like magic) your bedroom should not exceed 12 degrees at night, always have a warm bath at night, keep the mouth fresh and wear good deodorant before going to bed. Trust me your wife will always initiate romance cos the environment is graceful. Your spouse initiating intimacy makes it more fun, if you know you know...so guys instead of focusing on your spouse, focus on yourself and your spouse will focus on you.

Eunoiaa:
Semantics as far as I'm concerned.

Like someone who's just trying to make the best of the end of the short stick of the patriarchal deal they got. Like "stooping to conquer" and "men are the head, women are the neck" kind of thing. It sounds so soullessly transactional to me. Not to mention the points being all over the place.


And like, how do you "quantify" stuff you do for each other and make it match? So sex is the "payment" for being taken care for? And when a man takes care of you, he's entitled to sex? 'Sacred sex' seems wildly contradictory to 'I can't give you free knack if you don't take care of me.'


What the bride price is also doing there, I don't know. If bride prices doesn't give the man access to A and B and C, what's the point? 'Just because you paid bride price, you can't...' for something that runs into millions based on cultural dictates is just so laughable lol. You cannot demand someone be a piper and also want to tell them how to play the tune nau lol.

@pocohantas, this is also coming from a lady . Marry your class, ask your girlfriend what they do for a living gauge her salary with yours ( difference shouldn't be much) push each other to earn more, create an expense account that you guys can draw from as well as have personal allowances and an investment account as well. This way you and your spouse will never argue about money. Finally sex is overrated! As a guy, if you take good care of yourself, and create good moments, your wife will continually beg you for sex. Always keep the A/C in the room @ 12 degrees, exercise when you are opportune, bath at night floss and wear cool deodorant before going to bed...na your wife go always initiate sex. Infact 9/10 of the times my wife does. I create moments

dahmie2013:
All I see is peace. Glory to God.

Owerri used to be a sweet destination with lots of babes good night life all of a sudden Unknown gun men and kidnappers prohibited us from going down south a

LilMissFavvy:
Why would a rich single mother who has her own money run after a married man ? It is only poverty that would cause a single mom to chase married men. All these ladies mentioned are rich. May Edochie, AY's wife etc are successful women.

I can tell you for free that they go after other people's husband. It has happened in my presence, I visited Nigeria last year and lodged in a hotel around Magodo, a single mom Nollywood actress (make I no mention name) was lodged in the suite next to mine and the Daddy that carried her, , these women are coming for your husbands or fathers if they can foot the bill. You think they are successful? They already have large lifestyles and it will take more money to sustain. Is it the single guys earning 500k, that will sustain them?

Richtaiwo:
Necessity is the mother of invention. Back to land. Even highly industrialised countries are seriously engaged in commercial farming, but here in Nigeria, anyone that has managed to complete secondary school sees himself too big and educated to farm but be screaming no job, high cost of food yen yen yen. Proudly a farmer.

In developed countries, government provides subsidies for Agriculture

blowjohn:
No it's not na. Before chicken will full ur Belle u go need to eat like 3 full chickens na.

But eba and soup, u go belleful after 3 wraps of eba

, I done mark your moniker, when I go dey around, you go finish 3 full chickens 🐔 for my presence

blowjohn:
How meat take be food? Unless u be Chinese wey dey finish full lamb or pig

so if you grill chicken and eat with a drink, or if you grill pork or beef is that not food?

Clinghton:
I will eat to my satisfaction, but remain. Meat no b food.

why would you say that? Meat na food

Jayhome24:
Epain am

Keep crying.

Wear your shabby uniform enter borno na

Jayhome24:
You cry and sorrow just started uou go die of severe heart pain soonest..

😂...I have showed you soldier slayers, bandits etc and you are yet to make a move?? Omo ale

Omihanifa:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zF6ohcXN59g



https://dailytrust.com/anger-as-bandit-flaunts-ransom-on-social-media/

Jayhome24, look at how army killers are celebrated,...ode oshi

Adammamon:
When i see some of you idiot comment on muslims, i do laugh. You people forgot that your religion came from your slave master, people that took your land, murdered the men, rape women and shipped excesses of them to europe England and america as slave. The same peoples that unleashed hell on your ancestors are the people that preached to you about God, they took everything from you and gave you Bible, sincerely Christianity is the religion of the oppressor to subjugate their oppressed, your bible support killing of innocent, taking from the poor and give to the rich, which is the exact text your your slave master acted on. I am so much thankful to God that am alive till this 2024 to see hamas and isreal fight, have learn a lot about the african christianity, before i only blame muslim but now i know that Christians are worse.

Arab slave traders were more brutal than the Europeans. Till date they still see you as subhuman

nairalandkachy1:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-army-set-to-release-200-detainees-cleared-of-ties-to-boko-haram/?fbclid=IwAR38I0OVIvraEhaYm_qOWHTh8tZu0xDe6DfdZb66UkXndIlUgcH-6JUMQio#google_vignette

Jayhome24, come and see your soldier family releasing terrorists, but you are looking for villagers to burn in Delta... slowpoke

LocalFARMERS:
Fulani Bandits in full Military regalia and armed with Ak47 Riffle.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lFLm2uNCoQ

Jayhome24, look at a bandit and army slayer...oya go arrest am na...he even put him pictures and videos....ode!

Duplik8t77:
mad people just full this nairaland. This weyrey thinks he is on the table. Smh

That guy thinks he is apprised with what is going on in Nigeria. He posts investment about Lagos and thinks he owns a square meter in Lagos. The happy rich Lagosians in Ikoyi don't even carry Lagos the way the pauper does. I often tell people, the elite class is all about capitalism and capitalists only look out for their personal interest

@Jayhome24, you were spewing trash yesterday, look at your mates in Niger, tell the Army to go there and level Minna, mad man! It is on in the riverine region that the army becomes vengeful

Jayhome24:
Hello Mr man go and do what I said if you are a man? Shey you get mouth and strong head ba? Then do it.

Thanks

there are consequences for committing murder why would I think of killing someone? But there are people slaughtering the so called soldiers twice on Friday and you are giving them pardon then you are here capping. What do you want me to attack the soldier with? The BH who are a good match are raping the spineless army back to back and you are here facing me that have never seen a gun before.... please channel your energy to borno

Jayhome24:
Hahahha see coward talking.
F u c k and f u c k that your marauder bitch.

the funny thing is the BH and their sponsors are using the army for shooting practice and they are not even hiding it. You are just jumping up like a cock on heat. With all the swears one would think Borno would have been levelled by now, rather the marauders are beating you guys blue black and twice on Friday. Don't worry the marauders are closer to the spineless army. I know the army shivers at the mention of BH. Only unarmed civilians Una fit terrorise...