₦airaland Forum

Eunoiaa:
Semantics as far as I'm concerned.

Like someone who's just trying to make the best of the end of the short stick of the patriarchal deal they got. Like "stooping to conquer" and "men are the head, women are the neck" kind of thing. It sounds so soullessly transactional to me. Not to mention the points being all over the place.


And like, how do you "quantify" stuff you do for each other and make it match? So sex is the "payment" for being taken care for? And when a man takes care of you, he's entitled to sex? 'Sacred sex' seems wildly contradictory to 'I can't give you free knack if you don't take care of me.'


What the bride price is also doing there, I don't know. If bride prices doesn't give the man access to A and B and C, what's the point? 'Just because you paid bride price, you can't...' for something that runs into millions based on cultural dictates is just so laughable lol. You cannot demand someone be a piper and also want to tell them how to play the tune nau lol.

@pocohantas, this is also coming from a lady . Marry your class, ask your girlfriend what they do for a living gauge her salary with yours ( difference shouldn't be much) push each other to earn more, create an expense account that you guys can draw from as well as have personal allowances and an investment account as well. This way you and your spouse will never argue about money. Finally sex is overrated! As a guy, if you take good care of yourself, and create good moments, your wife will continually beg you for sex. Always keep the A/C in the room @ 12 degrees, exercise when you are opportune, bath at night floss and wear cool deodorant before going to bed...na your wife go always initiate sex. Infact 9/10 of the times my wife does. I create moments

dahmie2013:
All I see is peace. Glory to God.

Owerri used to be a sweet destination with lots of babes good night life all of a sudden Unknown gun men and kidnappers prohibited us from going down south a

LilMissFavvy:
Why would a rich single mother who has her own money run after a married man ? It is only poverty that would cause a single mom to chase married men. All these ladies mentioned are rich. May Edochie, AY's wife etc are successful women.

I can tell you for free that they go after other people's husband. It has happened in my presence, I visited Nigeria last year and lodged in a hotel around Magodo, a single mom Nollywood actress (make I no mention name) was lodged in the suite next to mine and the Daddy that carried her, , these women are coming for your husbands or fathers if they can foot the bill. You think they are successful? They already have large lifestyles and it will take more money to sustain. Is it the single guys earning 500k, that will sustain them?

Richtaiwo:
Necessity is the mother of invention. Back to land. Even highly industrialised countries are seriously engaged in commercial farming, but here in Nigeria, anyone that has managed to complete secondary school sees himself too big and educated to farm but be screaming no job, high cost of food yen yen yen. Proudly a farmer.

In developed countries, government provides subsidies for Agriculture

blowjohn:
No it's not na. Before chicken will full ur Belle u go need to eat like 3 full chickens na.

But eba and soup, u go belleful after 3 wraps of eba

, I done mark your moniker, when I go dey around, you go finish 3 full chickens 🐔 for my presence

blowjohn:
How meat take be food? Unless u be Chinese wey dey finish full lamb or pig

so if you grill chicken and eat with a drink, or if you grill pork or beef is that not food?

Clinghton:
I will eat to my satisfaction, but remain. Meat no b food.

why would you say that? Meat na food

Jayhome24:
Epain am

Keep crying.

Wear your shabby uniform enter borno na

Jayhome24:
You cry and sorrow just started uou go die of severe heart pain soonest..

😂...I have showed you soldier slayers, bandits etc and you are yet to make a move?? Omo ale

Omihanifa:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zF6ohcXN59g



https://dailytrust.com/anger-as-bandit-flaunts-ransom-on-social-media/

Jayhome24, look at how army killers are celebrated,...ode oshi

Adammamon:
When i see some of you idiot comment on muslims, i do laugh. You people forgot that your religion came from your slave master, people that took your land, murdered the men, rape women and shipped excesses of them to europe England and america as slave. The same peoples that unleashed hell on your ancestors are the people that preached to you about God, they took everything from you and gave you Bible, sincerely Christianity is the religion of the oppressor to subjugate their oppressed, your bible support killing of innocent, taking from the poor and give to the rich, which is the exact text your your slave master acted on. I am so much thankful to God that am alive till this 2024 to see hamas and isreal fight, have learn a lot about the african christianity, before i only blame muslim but now i know that Christians are worse.

Arab slave traders were more brutal than the Europeans. Till date they still see you as subhuman

nairalandkachy1:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-army-set-to-release-200-detainees-cleared-of-ties-to-boko-haram/?fbclid=IwAR38I0OVIvraEhaYm_qOWHTh8tZu0xDe6DfdZb66UkXndIlUgcH-6JUMQio#google_vignette

Jayhome24, come and see your soldier family releasing terrorists, but you are looking for villagers to burn in Delta... slowpoke

LocalFARMERS:
Fulani Bandits in full Military regalia and armed with Ak47 Riffle.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lFLm2uNCoQ

Jayhome24, look at a bandit and army slayer...oya go arrest am na...he even put him pictures and videos....ode!

Duplik8t77:
mad people just full this nairaland. This weyrey thinks he is on the table. Smh

That guy thinks he is apprised with what is going on in Nigeria. He posts investment about Lagos and thinks he owns a square meter in Lagos. The happy rich Lagosians in Ikoyi don't even carry Lagos the way the pauper does. I often tell people, the elite class is all about capitalism and capitalists only look out for their personal interest

@Jayhome24, you were spewing trash yesterday, look at your mates in Niger, tell the Army to go there and level Minna, mad man! It is on in the riverine region that the army becomes vengeful

Jayhome24:
Hello Mr man go and do what I said if you are a man? Shey you get mouth and strong head ba? Then do it.

Thanks

there are consequences for committing murder why would I think of killing someone? But there are people slaughtering the so called soldiers twice on Friday and you are giving them pardon then you are here capping. What do you want me to attack the soldier with? The BH who are a good match are raping the spineless army back to back and you are here facing me that have never seen a gun before.... please channel your energy to borno

Jayhome24:
Hahahha see coward talking.
F u c k and f u c k that your marauder bitch.

the funny thing is the BH and their sponsors are using the army for shooting practice and they are not even hiding it. You are just jumping up like a cock on heat. With all the swears one would think Borno would have been levelled by now, rather the marauders are beating you guys blue black and twice on Friday. Don't worry the marauders are closer to the spineless army. I know the army shivers at the mention of BH. Only unarmed civilians Una fit terrorise...

Jayhome24:
I dare you plssss go out there and kill a soldier or are you no longer a man? then do it and let you be identify as the culprit and let's see. Try it I'm challenging you do it or rot in hell. Thanks.

see you can threaten people in the riverine areas, go to the desert north, there are lists of bokoharam sponsors what is the military intelligence doing about it? You are as foolish as the organization concerned. Wait the marauders are coming for your head

Jayhome24:
Sorry tok early for your stupid epistle of buulabu bulaba. F ck to hell go ad look for work to do and stop crying like a slowpoke.

Shey you get mouth ba? if dem born you well I dare you to go out there and kill a soldier and you are identify as the culprit that is all I have to say. Do it if na your papa wella I dare you now.

I won't respond to you till you do it, be a man and do it.

They are killing soldiers day and night in Kastina and nothing is happening, stop your useless threat make we hear word. After killing soldiers you guys will still give them amnesty... idiot

Jayhome24:
You are the one talking nonsense because you lack sense and don't read newspaper or hear news, anyway I can't blame you when all your life you here throwing insult on everyone defending Gringory bitch.

Na people like you make innocent Okuoma people dey suffer right now and you dey under your bed dey type shit. If you get mind fall any comrade and I see you or know you wallahi you will be dead, do it first and let's see.

The more you all talk shits the more you put Okuama people in my danger so shut up and
f u c k off.

You are the stupid one, go and kill them, while the Fulani militia is raping the spineless army day and and night and you are here threatening innocent civilians, bunch of emasculating paedophiles whose is only happy shooting innocent civilians. Cowards and tactless sense of morons. The army should have leveled sokoto or borno. How many soldiers have died in borno? Sokoto? Niger? Kastina? They are slaughtered and nobody says phemmmm....when they get to the fisherman's colony the spineless army will want to teach civilians how to use force... nonsense

Jayhome24:
God bless young man for saying the truth to those idiots bloody civilians.

I said it two days ago I came from entirely millitary background and a trained armoury if you fall any millitary comrade for trying to defend our nation you must collect, if I know you I will personally open fire on you and I won't feel remorse about it.

I don't bloody care it happened in my region or elsewhere if you fall any comrade for no reason you will collect for your stupidity.

I stand with the military and will forever stand with them....

you guys just talk nonsense, everyday soldiers are slaughtered in the North, how many have you opened fire on?

mariahAngel:
I guess we are.

You know, it is perfectly okay for people (particularly women) to want what they want out of life without others (especially men) emotionally manipulating/blackmailing into accepting less.

but the same woman will come to the UK, with children plus husband and mother and squat in a room for months. No one is manipulating anyone, my point is there are one rooms that you may not be able to afford

Jewessgratitud3:
Mtcheewww

there is nothing wrong in acknowledging that it is not every one room that you can afford. It is called self-realization

Jewessgratitud3:
That place is different. At least the weather is cold and you won't feel it even if it's overcrowded but try it in naija if heat no go finish una.

you are shifting the goal post, one room is one room anywhere in the world. If it is cold, put on the heater. If you cannot get married in one room in Naija you shouldn't stay in one room when you get to London or Toronto, because there are people who can't stay in one room even in this places. You think you can or should get more in Naija and that is what shaped your belief. When I stayed briefly in Abuja, I was paying 895k (in 2018) for a boys quarter in Maitaima. There are places this room will be located and you will not be able to afford it so relax

yesloaded:
No no no

At least a room & parlour is fine if you cannot afford a flat

Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person

naija4life247:
Any girl that marries a senseless man in this one room is nothing but a cursed vagabond

Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person

Elohorp:
Getting married in such room will affect you as a man
And you will only end up spoiling your kids

Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person grin

TheWinterBird:
It looks claustrophobic (maybe due to the narrow shape). It's too closed-in and not enough windows. How will somebody breathe in that room? Can that window be opened for air? Lols

Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person ...infact it will turn claustaspacious

Jewessgratitud3:
Lol.. me too I like a very spacious apartment. Can't marry a man living in this kind of room.

Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person

mariahAngel:
The space is not big enough to live in with a woman, so NO!



😀
Poshest nne, you didn't answer the question.

It will cost you around #1,100 pounds in London and #1200 CAD in Canada to rent this room. When I visited Canada, I saw Nigerians that own average looking duplexes living in a single room with their families. No complain! I guess you guys are judging from Naija perspective

TempUser:
No they're not.

they are

TempUser:
It's not called English teacher unless the teacher is from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿. It's called teacher of English, capiche?

both are correct