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jasminer:
I hope you listen to me because I used to think like you when I was your age.

Now I'm much older and wiser too. My darling, it pays to be a good girl but the benefits of being good won't come now, Lai Lai, it will come years later at least in 4yrs time.
I will give you a few examples:
1. You can boldly tell your daughter how you made every dime, nothing to be ashamed of.
2. An amazing relationship with God, no guilt when you're praying and you'll even notice your prayers begin to work like magic
3. Men will chase you, the good, the bad, the rich, the poor etc. See the guys around you now aren't ready for commitment so they're avoiding you cus they know you can't be their hoe so they're taking their gifts to the girls that will open legs for them. (If you were a guy and looking for a lady to be banging steadily, will u go to the good girl who doesn't joke with her body or will u go for the bad girl u heard knows how to whine very well?)
4. A woman's body is like a flower petal, manhandle it and see it wrinkled. If you see how these f*ck boys squeeze the br**sts of the girls they're banging ehn, 1week the br**st don turn to slippers, everything don gel . These guys will go and buy Viagra and use it to bang these girls in different positions and for hours expanding their v*gina and they will come here and call the lady "community borehole". After her body has expanded, how can she have a good sexual life with her husband who doesn't take p*nis enlarg*ment pills? In a few years time, if you stand in a public bathroom with those girls, they'll want to use their eyes to pluck you out cus the "hustle" has taken it's toll, while you will be having matured curves with the almost same perkiness of a teenager.
5. STDs there are crazy sicknesses out there and c*ndoms don't give 100% protection. Many carriers of aids going on a sharing spree for revenge
6. Spiritual implications too. U heard yahoo boys use ladies for rituals right? Do you know that one of the popular things these guys do is to turn the lady into a funnel where the destiny of anyone she's sleeping with will be drained to them. Now imaging you're sleeping with a guy who is also sleeping with one of such funnel girls?
7. When you have nothing to hide, you can be honest with your future hubby and he will trust you cus he knows what u didn't do before he met you, you won't do in his house.
8. Unwanted pregnancy, u want to bear the risk of getting pregnant and having to do abortions? Or you want to damage your womb by popping abortion pills (the fancy name is morning after pill) every week into your mouth? You want to run the risk of barrenness when you're ready to settle down?
9.Bad name: Bad news doesn't stay hidden, sooner or later, everybody go hear say you be ashewo. Imagine the humiliation on your mom or family when they begin to use you to yab them.
10. Nothing you gain as a runs girl or bad girl is permanent. Few years time, iphone 13 pro max go don caste, the guys that bought you the phone have moved on to girls with perkier boobs who can whine more than you. Your bone straight done bone, your laps aren't smooth again, you don't look hot in them anymore, all the guys u we're dating are now married with kids, what did you really gain? The rent they paid today go expire in 1yr, how sure say Dem go pay another one?

So my dear stargurl20, being a good girl will pay you like it's paying me now but it won't be today, it won't be tomorrow, but it won't be forever either. Few more years and you'll be looking for me to thank me (if you take this advice today)

Teespice:
Are you being a good girl because you want to be one or you are expecting to reap the benefits of being a good girl?

Naughtysex:
Not only for girls
I have come to realize that in Nigeria, being good (male or female) has more than ninety percent disadvantages
Everyone will want to capitalize on your good side to cheat you or to benefit themselves.
I grew up believing that only good people can make it in life, but in reality, the reverse is the case
Most of my so called "bad ass friends" are balling great right now with their families (wife and children)

Another example is my two nieces
The one who ignored all my advice of remaining a calm and good girl is living the life of her dream with her husband and little child in one of the country in Europe , but the second girl who choose to follow my advice is still struggling to stand in life (this is a real life event, not fiction)

Been a good person in this evil country will definitely destroy your dream

missidy:
My dear I always ask the same question because it seems good girls mostly finish last. Most of the bad girls I know are all married to abroad based, rich men here while good girls like us still dey here. Worst part is they get pregnant so easily despite their lifestyle while the good girls ttc for years.

studentwriter:
hi can we communicate via WhatsApp

Johnnycastro18:
Point of correction, no sane guy would chose a bad girl over a good girl, men look for good girls to settle down with, the bad girls are only use to flirt, side chicks and curing of conji, no sane man would want to wife such

slickycee:
Bad girl , Bad boy, Good girl and good boy are just labels we put on people..

The person you think is a bad girl might just be daring and adventurous, but our olodo society might call such people bad. It's just a tag , don't let name decieve you.

That good girl you're thinking of , might just be a homely , shy and churchy girl.

All these traits don't make any one bad or good they're just different characters.

Good or bad is in the heart.
The more selfish a person is , the more likely vhe or she would do wicked things.

Secondly,
You need to remember life is not the same for all of us,
That girl did this and is enjoying life, doesn't mean you would do it and enjoy life too.

God would bless everyone according to his wisdom and time.

Don't envy people or compare, God sees the heart , me and you don't.

Thirdly.
You are not for everyone and everyone is not for you.
Even if you try to be a bad girl, the same guy that you think Is confused and always pick bad girls, would still ignore you.

You can't be for everyone !!!
It doesn't work like that.
Jesus Christ wasn't even accepted in his home town.
His own people asked for him to be crucified.

It's never personal, but everyone is not for you. And even if you do surgery to look like them , or change your name to theirs, they won't still accept you.

Just love yourself and be confident I yourself.
Don't let social media or Tv fool you.


Let me say this again,
A quiet person doesn't make them good.
A shy person doesn't mean a good person.
An emotional or cry baby is not always a good person.

Those are just traits, so don't mistake them for good and bad.
We know the personality types, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic and choleric.
None is good not is bad.
It's what people decides to do.


Lastly,
The grass always seem greener on the other side.
Humans are naturally ungrateful, and never know the value of what they have until they Lose it.

They're many people who think bad people are having life easy, but they feel cheated , being ungrateful for the peace and blessings they enjoy.
Like my role model , J Cole said.

There's no such thing as a life thats better than yours.

They would always be someone richer than you, finer than you, more talented than you.
Like your latest would always be someone outdated, your choice would be someone Godforbid.
But you would never be happy untill you learn to love yours.



So love yourself and the things you have and believe better days are surely ahead.
If you believe what you're doing Is right , and you feel it's something that doesn't compromise your peace , please keep at it

Don't let labels decieve you or make you question your beliefs.

Stay true to yourself.

DeathToAfonja:
Become a bad gurl quick so we can start eating you and passing you around


This small teenagers


Maybe your friend don go buy iPhone come tell you say na her sugar daddy buy am for her


E no the pass like that

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Anything way u like make u be..


Na ur CONCERNMENT and not our CONCERNM!


So no send any MANCHI or BANI, just do U!


Me I de NACK ASHAWOO and I de BLA WEED!


Na my CONCERNMENT be Dat!


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN!

Moloso:
Lol.. Body go tell you na, she you done dey envy your friends that are bad.

Enter first and see wetin boys go do with you.




Good girls are priceless, use Mercy Johnson amd Tonto Dike as a case study.

Who is now happy in there various home.

Find out the answer yourself..

Uzomacharles:
Everything With Advantage Has Disadvantage

zeuss:
Ultimate good always overcomes bad.

Sukkyy2010:
I beg shift

Sukkyy2010:
Why are you articulating this like you're exempted. Stop sounding like you're innocent of this emotional treason.

Raalsalghul:
Sentiments! Sentiments! Sentiments!

What is his business with if she cried in the Labor room for seven days and seven nights? How is it Op's problem exactly? Did he ask to be brought into this world?

She was the one that decided to be pregnant and should be responsible for proper nurturing of that child in the right atmosphere.

Failure to do that and she should make peace with whatever treatment is meted out to her.

Same message goes to men too. Every aspiring parent should think twice before releasing fluids and bringing in another being because me I'll be the last person to remind them that you are related by blood or you spent a month gnashing your teeth at Gbagada general hospital.

Raalsalghul:
Sentiments! Sentiments! Sentiments!

What is his business with if she cried in the Labor room for seven days and seven nights? How is it Op's problem exactly? Did he ask to be brought into this world?

She was the one that decided to be pregnant and should be responsible for proper nurturing of that child in the right atmosphere.

Failure to do that and she should make peace with whatever treatment is meted out to her.

Same message goes to men too. Every aspiring parent should think twice before releasing fluids and bringing in another being.

Smiles. Birds of a feather.
I wasn't talking to u. I was referring to all women seeing my comments. So pls, stay off my comments.

Magnoliaa:
Orishirishi something, my sister. Wahala no dey finish for this life o. Kai!

I'm just being thoroughly entertained at this point.

czarr:
Lies, big lies. Where is your source? Just because some women cannot keep their mouth close when they contribute during hard times, the world must know. that is not the norm.