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wirinet:
Married partners can't have their own privacy, their privacy then becomes joint privacy.

I hope when you decide to marry, you and your husband don't operate different privacy policies. That's a recipe for disaster.

They're not married, and even married ones respect each other's privacies.

But wait o, can't partners have their own privacy? See the way someone is been tracked like she's has done some forbidden.

teddybarz:
what do u have to say? Pretty gal?

Dark guyz rock for me. Not for their balls though... I think it's because they depict true African complexion with I admire in both genders.

Lol

msMonyei:
Education does not guarantee common sense. How young gainfully employed man go dey trip for who don near menopause?

Hm.... It's well

Babastrong:
Age, seniority, money, position etc, are not hinderance for me, if i am ready to woe any woman.
i will just close my eyes, ready to receive that hot slap, walk toward her and say" i love you"

Why would any lady even slap a guy because he said his feelings? Imo, any lady who's sensible wouldn't do that. If she's not interested, the best thing is to politely say no. Relationship no be war.

CsRockefeller:
Hello Mister.

I have followed your story from the beginning and at first, I thought you were just being too reactive. Further comments from you has shown that you are a very simple and gentle guy. I can tell from the way you write that you are easy going and detest drama.

I will advice you like a brother right now: WALK AWAY

Any other thing than walking away will bring you pain and trauma, I can bet on that. See, you will find someone who will stick to you forever. This lady isn't for you.

Walk away now that there's still time. Do it for your mental health and your self esteem.

Take care.

What will u gain from this comment, uncle?
Oh.... Ruining their beautiful relationship?

Kaleidoscopeman:
Dear All,

I have new screenshots on their conversation:

She put her status online and the guy says 'where were you' and 'who you go visit' in the pixx and she said when SHE was on vacation (only) whereas we were together.

Again the guy says you know I love you so much and she says 'I do'

Hopefully we can marry ....she says 'calm down now'

Guy says I dey here for anything ....she says 'sure bobo' ...'olori oko bam bam'

They had a video call that ended abruptly and she was worried and asked 'why he ended it but dude hasnt replied (TODAY is the dude's birthday cos she mentioned it in a voice note yesterday)

I think she likes the guy, his money and their possible intimacy they may have had

I will be posting more conversations hopefully....and I am hoping that we will be helping each other here

U better no kill ur sef. Baba, dey chillax.

Btw, Kunle Remi is my crush. Those sexy k legs and not so muscular, yet fit body gat me always

Not at all.

Congratulations, boss.

SmellySperm:
Question is for men

Same way majority of busy body NL men pokenose in questions meant for women.

shege45:
swear that you are not sleeping with all the eggs wey you say u no fit put for one basket. My dear gather more eggs

I do not swear, and whether u believe it or not, I'm not sleeping with any of them.

Wey job scarce like dis

Every single one who commented has commented well, and I've learnt a lot. Thanks. However, men should pls, develop forgiving spirit. Some women have casual sex with no string and does not mean u mean less to her.
Forgiving is Divine

I think yes. But to some men who are driven by what they see. To some men who sees nothing but beauty

Snow02:
lol personally I'm tempted to respect the op for being honest about her nature, all women do it and if she sees it as the best way to protect her heart then it is cool my problem is with the guy who invests his money/time/commitment to pay bills nd provide entertainment in hopes that she'll love him and remain remain faithful untill marriage aunty will carry same kpekus nd give a nigga who doesn't invest shiit all in the name of "flings" or putting eggs in multiple baskets
So now who loses in all of these?? Simple life hard

I hardly request money from guyz. Even if I'm tempted, it will be in subtle ways. So, pls stop emphasizing this billing of a things as if I wouldn't survive without guyz.

Snow02:
In other words he should trust you even though you haven't given him a reason to lmao

Of course! I've given him a lot of reasons to trust me.

Nothing, broda. Make una allow women matter rest. Wanna be redpillers always deceiving themselves to be indifferent about women. Yet, a single day wouldn't pass without making posts that has to do with women

CHoccolaTE:
Simple answer is that men are selfish, self centered hypocrites.

Same thing I've been thinking.

Snow02:
now isn't that what they all day?? Lmao
If only we didn't see them going back to recieve ex nigga dicc once in a while lol
And yes I'm talking from experience

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

Snow02:
ok but if I find out we're more than one in basket how can I trust that you'll change in marriage hmm??
Women who say this are the ones that refuse to work with a man to work or fix their relationship when trouble arises they just leave since they already have options
Lol wahala for who still deh take woman matter serious

Like I said, me not putting my eggs in a basket is to somewhat save my self from being heart broken and at the same time have nothing to call my own. If one of the men has now marry me, I do not see the point in keeping others

Myexdisturbs:
Let me tell u naw, I had an ex I paid a new house for to secure a job offer in Abuja,got her international passport and was preparing to register her for IELTS so we can both move to Canada. Can you imagine this stupid gal was having sexxx in that same house severally with another guy I later found out was the NYSC papa(all these Christain unions) and it made me flash back to the story she did tell me of how the guy use to go fvck one gal like that during their NYSC,not knowing she too is banging the guy.

How did I find out? A cheating girlfriend or wife is easy to catch if you as the man is observant . She came over to my house and started acting funny,denying me sexx and acting I don't care. The few times we had sexxx I discovered her pvssy was quite more widened than it used to be ,I couldn't feel anything. I quickly discovered something was wrong and had to target when she unlocks her phone. I learnt the pattern and opened it at midnight when she was fast asleep and saw the messages and pics of the guy giving her head,lol

I quickly gave her transport back to her base to make sure she's safe first . Then called off the yeye rship. She begged tire I no gree. If it's you Stargurl20 how would you forgive this kind person ?

I will forgive, Mr. Do u know we humans are worst than devil himself?
As for me, I will forgive and give another chance, however, if the said person misuses that second chance opportunity, I will know I've paid my dues and never look back.

Newboss:
The man pays her bills. Even dog must forgive the person that feeds it. Fūcking bìtches.

It's a very simple thing to understand.

Not all men pay bills. Not all ladies are dependent. Get that straight, uncle.

biafraisdead:
Even if u ain't married. Having more than one relationship these days is tantamount to having multiple sex partners(cos in the world of today there could hardly be a relationship without sex), so does that(sleeping with many men) not make u look dirty? Secondly, u will never open up to each of the guys u are seeing that u are equally seeing someone else, meaning u will be lying to them all, that is where the cheating is. This is why it is best to abstain from anything sex before u are married.

All right.

biafraisdead:
U think u made sense with @ the bolded? Not putting ur eggs in one basket simply means u are seing many guys, so what other thing is it called if not cheating? The problem is many people think cheating is only when u have sex with someone not ur husband or bf. Even as a married woman, there are discussions u will engage with the opposite sex that amount to cheating.

I am not married, sir. If I were, they wouldn't be need of me not putting my eggs in a basket or not.

WilsonBright935:
All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned

I've heard men are not as jealous as women, yet women still forgive.

9ton:
You're definitely cheating my dear

I'm not. If I were your beloved, would u advise me to put my eggs in a basket?

BadRadio:
e shock you !!!

Yes, your height of mumuism is shocking.

May sense be bestowed to some senseless women oout there. I no blame u.

emkz:
You are a murderer Sir. You killed a baby!

Not just a, two babies or more even

BadRadio:
open a new facebook account with a different name and random but rare picture of random dude, who's looking rich. Start by adding her as friends then send her a DM, if she responds, try to woo her from there and request to meet her... if she demands for cash send her some cash via a POS vendor because if you do so with e-transaction, your name will show and she will know its you.

After sending her the cash, wait for her response (as the facebook guy)...

If she's agrees to see the facebook guy, fix a date and go there... let the drama start on your meeting with her

On top wetin? Mitchewwww