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I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

With all these comments that me am seeing, OP, na u go take your hand spoil the beautiful thing u and your fiancee share, coz by the time NL bittered guyz mislead u, u will begin to dispise ur fiancee for no tangible reason.

There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Vanzcharles:
You won't understand.

Pls, make me.

Nawa o... There's nothing fishy here. In fact, u should be thankful for the kind of woman God has blessed u with. There's nothing to worry about here, broda.

But why are men so unforgiving when it comes to women extra martial affairs? I'm not justifying this woman's act. I know it's wrong. Absolutely wrong, but isn't this same act men do with pride? Yet, female forgive them.

Well, it's the lady I blame. She could have sought God's forgiveness and conceal it from her husband.

Broda way mumu

To hell with his yeye apologies. Which kain apologies is that? After he killed the innocent beautiful child.

None. I'm just tired of these greed, selfish and cruel beings ruling us.

Mitchewww

BigBashiru:
I don't use any women so I'm not afraid of "karma"... I'm against women using men.... if ur not a d*ck taster of various d*cks then fine.... ur one of us.... but if ur looking for a retirement package then karma will make sure u don't end up with a great man....

Enough of bad girls trying to eat dia cake and having it....

Lol... U know why I'm not moved by your words? Coz I know who I'm which I feel no need to prove to u.

I'm not here to exchange words. But I so much believe that this wouldn't be what u would say if someone whom u care about is the one OP is making such post about

BigBashiru:
You are one of those evil women looking to use naive men as retirement package. Men now know that game so too bad for you!

It's well. Truth is bitter. Like I stated up there, I'm not convincing the OP. And if u do not know me, u have no right to say that trash of a comment u typed up there.

If u are among those guys who use women, and still be the first to badmouth and say evill things about them. Karma is awaiting u. That's all I've to say. Take care.

But what's with guys always saying single ladies in their 30s and above have done nasty things during their youths? This notion is so wrong. Majority of these guys saying naasty thing about ladies are evil. These same guys will say they cannot marry a lady without testing her, and the innocent and naive ones fall for this trick even for those guys with evil intentions.

Most guys body counts is nothing to write home about yet they criticize ladies as if being morally upright is gendered based. As if religion only preaches morality and emphasizes that only ladies is meant to be morally upright. I'm not commenting to convince u OP to marry the lady. U probably might be doing her a huge favor if u let her go coz this your mindset ehn .... However, a lady being single at that age doesn't mean she has rejected a lot of suitors or she has useless herself.

Nairaland's men, make una dey think before bashing women. U have sisters. If u don't have sisters, some of u will give birth to baby girl(s). What goes around comes around. Would u say the same for you girl child? Or will u happy if same is said about your girl child?

MikeWise:
Any news about FSB scholarship for those that applied last year?

Was it even last year's or 2020's application? I wonder why we haven't heard anything from them.

Charlesdock:
No be only alphamale it is omicronmale. Just tell us they just served you one hot breakfast.

Lol...

SarutobiEky:
she described every one of them including your brothers and father and uncles ba

Yes.

pocohantas:
Kanye West spotted with new girlfriend. Everywhere is quiet, redpillers are happy.

No one is telling us how it is too soon.

No one is telling us how his prick would soon reduce for fucking another woman.

Just good ol LOGICAL comments and well wishes.

A woman can even drop dead and the man would marry in seconds because despite claiming not to benefit from marriage, they are always quick to replace an ex or late wife.

Men are such strange and selfish creatures. Even when they don’t want you, they still do not want another man to want you. If they have their way, once you break up with them, you’ll be confined to a lifetime of posting crypic messages on WhatsApp . That is why they spend productive time monitoring their EXes, hoping the next man pumps and dump. So they can rush to Nairaland to tell us how their EX is 45, single and frustrated, while they are now happily married to a more beautiful woman, with two kids, a 6 by 6 bed, one Firman generator and a Toyota Corolla.

You described Nigerian men so well.

Why are you now telling us?. Na your life. Live it the way u deem fit. Just stop disturbing us or do u want us to convince u?

Goldbw122:
To know If anything have been damage by previous owner or if the car is Fresh one.

SMH.

Na we gurlz I dey always pity. Even guys wey no get any good intentions too go dey hide under this. If I've finally decided to have sex before marriage (which i pray doesn't happen), it will solely be my personal decision and not to make any fvcking guy stay. Not even when I'm totally in love. I will assume if he cannot stay, then he doesn't deem me as worth it and such man doesn't deserve an iota of my love.

Mercychen:
What makes it outdated? Is it because everyone is now having sex like chickens and dogs; which majority now see as a norm, therefore that makes "no sex before marriage" outdated?

Please it's not yet outdated. At least there still are few of us from very good homes with good home who still believe and abide by it, no matter the pressure. Not everybody lacks self control. Biko.

However, if it looks like it's fading away, then there's need to bring it on strongly, back to the society by constantly reminding our youth once again to see if we can still salvage what is left of the already dacayed society.

Premarital sex has caused a lot of damages eventhough no body is willing to say or admit it.

Be prepared. Guys hate hearing this. They're coming for u.

DenreleDave:
why should a woman close her leg and deny her legally married husband his right? if the man failed to provide for his wife, wud that make sense ?

No. It wouldn't. However, some men need to understand that women are humans too. We're not robot and we get tired as well.

Bluewitch:
See this crazy one...

Ain't you a human being...if you dont wanna have sex why dont you go to a convent.

First, I'm not crazy. Second, I'm a human, and I have urges as well, however, the rate at which men carry sex for head is beyond comprehension that they can even do anything. Like anything for it. Ahan!

Even when I myself is busy chatting someone else? I wouldn't even notice he's online.

When will men cease from discussing sex sex sex? Is there nothing else in the union called marriage aside sex?
It's honestly so annoying that some people have to even support rape in marriage. I'm not a feminist but It's high men started thinking of more important things in marriage aside sex abeg. Ahan!

Hmm... Irriz well.

Night0307:
Thanks for your lovely reply on my thread, this is so much me to now, no matter how I calm myself, my future always look so dark and bleak.

I plead that u erase such thoughts. Believe in yourself and your future. Never let go of your dreams, and work hard in achieving them. I'm certain that with prayers and hardwork, all your sufferings will become history.


Pls, never join bad gang. It may seem pleasurable from the start, but trust me, the end is always unpleasant.
Once again, I pray u get favored without having to deffer any session.

Too much muscle for me is a turn off. Be fit as man with little flesh. Not rock every where abeg.

Thread will be stating 'ladies' yet, nairaland's men with their busybody will be commenting. So annoying. Yet, they will be calling themselves red pillers.

That second guy isn't average looking. He's handsome. Btw, guys like Kunle Remi, with dem sexy k legs and body are my spec.

The rate at which ladies are been butchered like animals is beyond comprehension o. Within yesterday and today, I've watched videos where ladies are been butchered by their fellow humans and I wonder if those ritualists has even an iota of God's fear left in them. When I watched a video yesterday, it was traumatic for me.


I do not pity them a bit, and as far as the so called Nigeria is concerned, I'm fully in support of jungle justice except where an innocent life is concerned which I do not pray for. If those whom we entrust to be guarantors of justice are doing what they ought to do, people wouldn't be taking laws in their own hands. But unfortunately, they're the perpetrators of these cruel acts.

She for dey wait for u na. Nonsense!