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MaShaa Allah

MaShaa Allah

Wow! First class in philosophy? Congratulations, lady. More power to your elbow. I'm glad u eventually achieved your dreams.

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People should just ignore that boy. Yes, I called you boy! Cause only a teenage boy will have such ill mentality. He's not worth the time spent in explaining things to him. Don't worry, reality will soon set in.....

jawalis:
I ain’t Alakada. I just told you I boarded a bus. A public one at it. Meaning I couldn’t afford Uber. So it’s no forming thing. But I’ll be there someday so I take your comment as a compliment. African are expected to be dark skinned but I do not think my preference should bother anyone. I detest fatty babes. Simple

Your preference isn't bothering anyone, oga. Just stop forcing it on others. Using a case study to generalise the entire dark ladies out there, is one huge shortcoming u should endeavor to curb.
Stop body shaming dark girls; no one is coercing u to like them. Stop critising your fellow being if u can't even create a living ant.
The worst part of it is; most people who critise people on faceless platforms like this are the ones their appearances are nothing to write home about.
And as it is.... You're just confused. Yes, I believe not all men like fat ladies. But there u mentioned dark skinned ladies stink down there. Be specific Mr. White man

jawalis:
Unlucky? Honestly I never tried a dark skinned, fat or short lady ever since I was born. I don’t even make friends with them cos i see then as nightmares. But you won’t deny smelly Vj gas lots to do with fatness right. Damn.
Those beans bag can shock someone.
I was in a bus with a fat girl sometimes before lockdown from Ikeja to Berger. Omg. I had to take mint when I got down.

Sorry ....o Mr. Alakada. Ain't Africans expected to be dark skinned?

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Yes, bad people have increased in general. But I wouldn't lie, women do have it worse in some circumstances.
The issue stems from us deviating from Allah's law and not inculcating the pristine religion in our society.
I don't know where you live but if one lives in an environment that encourages wrongdoings then it will be even harder to find good men.
But if one lives in a region where they practice the religion pristinely, I mean a place where they use the religion to establish justice not foster injustice (because there are places like that too), one would truly find peace and happiness amongst good people.
But in general, the increase in evil is a terrible thing for good people because evil begets evil and then one day you (as a good person) so have no choice but to partake in it.
But the first step in make the world better is bettering ourselves first.

Although I would have loved to hear those experiences and maybe we could discuss how to avoid being afflicted by such evil. But it's fine too if you don't want to. afterall, it's personal.

Do have a nice day ma.


PS: The fact that you understand is the happiest thing that has happened to me today. May Almighty Allah keep on increasing you in understanding.

Allahu Mo Ameen. May Allah also increase your knowledge. Thanks for the piece

Oladayo12:
Exactly, some of them will even say that they don't want 1st class, they are ok with 2.1

Lol... Which ever they want, their beeswax. Not mine.
All I know is ... Even if one desires just the cloud, aim and work the stars

ModestGal:
Thanks darling, you can't understand how sweet TECH is for me, and how it can easily bring money on days one least expected. I won't advice you to relent ma, but for me, I will always regret it. Its been long I finished both Bsc and MSC, now I know I wasted my precious life during my Bsc days.

Hm.... May Allah ease our affairs and Grant our heart desires.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Well, That's where you are wrong. Where the notion that gender is some sort of hive in which they are connected still confuses me. Wouldn't you say your experiences are unique from other women, therefore a unique individual yourself? Wouldn't a man put himself between danger and his family? Regardless of what gender this danger is from? Wouldn't you protect your son from danger, regardless of the fact that it is being inflicted by another woman? The idea of collectivism can never make sense. This is because the family unit wouldn't exist if it did, humanity would have been extinct a long time ago. I do not feel within myself to defend someone solely based on the fact that we share a gender, I would assume you do not as well. This is not about whose experience this is ( if you could share them, I would really like to listen ma), but the fact that condemning an entire subspecies is completely wrong. If you had said that some men are evil or better still, some people are evil, I wouldn't even bother quoting you. But I know someone else might have made a similar explanation to you but you still didn't buy it. But I am happy that you put Allah first, it means you believe His words as the absolute truth and that you will obey his laws over your desires.


So I feel I should let you know that Allah says in surat Al-ahzab verse 35 that: "Indeed, the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men and believing women, the obedient men and obedient women, the truthful men and truthful women, the patient men and patient women, the humble men and humble women, the charitable men and charitable women, the fasting men and fasting women, the men who guard their private parts and the women who do so, and the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so - for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward."
In that verse, Allah affirms that there are indeed good men and so do we have good women. So if my words do not count as anything, sister, shouldn't Allah's words do? I'm very sorry for my mansplaing but our belief is a very vital aspect in our definition of a Muslim.

Thanks for making me understand, Sir. I truly believe in Allah's words. So, if Allah said there are good men, so there are!
But, don't you think the numbers of the bad ones has oversurged the good ones immensely? And it's seriously frightening

Oladayo12:
Lol, don't mind them. some will even refer to you as being la cram la pour, as if to la cram la pour na beans.

Lol... If cramming is easy, tell them to try it

Steve0979:
Is first class degree a ticket to getting a job in nigeria

It's not ticket, bro... Infact, you shouldn't focus on that. However, that shouldn't stop one from obtaining good grades - my opinion. It also opens doors of opportunities.

Malik1338:
when there are some first class with empty brains�

I doubt if there are first class graduates with empty heads. It's just a myth to water down others. Having a first class comes with sacrifices - not just reading alone, discipline, prayers, consistency...name them
In a nutshell, having first class isn't moi moi

Oladayo12:
I doubt, no lecturer will ditch out 1st class to any student who doesn't merit it. No student can bribe his/her way out of sch with 1st class.

Exactly!

ModestGal:
Thats one of the mistake I made in my life and still regretting it till now. First class is a waste of time and thoughts. If you are connected, not an introvert, then you have a chance, if you are not, please I beg you, while in university, concentrate on things you can do that would bring you money and make you happy in life. Just make sure you don't go below second class upper.
Nigeria is a failed country.
I wish I did this when I was in the university, I was busy making sure I was doing well in academics, I also registered for a 4years Arabic course which I finished. I wish I knew my advisors were merely myopic, I wish I had concentrated my energy on learning TECH skills.
I wish I had used my school fees to purchase Tech equipment and learn the skills, some of us fall into the category of bad advice. I regret the day I saw my result and it was full of A's in 100level first semester, that was my motivation and every body started telling me I would made a first class up and down, and telling me not to relent. I wish I had relented, but I was stupid to keep pursuing nonsense

Ma'am, it's too early to regret. Yes, you may not have complement your good grades with a skill, but that doesn't mean having good grades is useless. What is worth doing is worth doing well. I'm still an undergraduate, and by Allah's Grace, I wouldn't settle for less even though I haven't achieve it at present. Having good grades is a thing of proud it doesn't necessarily mean everyone will secure jobs with grades.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
It seems you must have some bitter experiences. Well, I'm just here to say that is not true. Even though I do not know your experiences. Men are not evil

Well.... You're a male, so defending your male folks is expected, isn't it?
Lol... The experiences aren't my personal ones, but my beloveds.

I'm learning more from comments.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I like the fact that you put Allah first. Implicitly, you accept Muhammad as his messenger, and by default you must love him. So how come you say men are evil when Rasul is a direct mercy from Allah.

Anobi Muhammad (S.A.W) is a perfect being and shouldn't be compare to men of these days. Or better still..., Men of today are evil. So, beware!

So pathetic

Good afternoon everyone.
Pls, what are the factors that makes one lose motivation? I'm aware that doing what one isnyt feel like doing is maturity. However, motivation makes one wanna do more even when one is tired.

Allah comes first before anything, endeavour to make mama proud, limit your expectations in people to avoid stories that touches, learn to be financially independent, all men are evil, so beware!

Alhamdulilah

Dottore:
It's normal for kids to have more affection for a parent of the opposite sex.

Your only concern should be that it doesn't escalate to Oedipus Complex

Electra complex, you mean?

Allahu Akbar!