₦airaland Forum

Thehumanlloydl:
Interesting, indeed the pandemic is a setback for us. The brain works with the mind so if the mind loses focus or motivation, no matter how we read, it won't be as efficient as when we're motivated. Have you tried talking with your fellow course-mates about studies?

PrimadonnaO:
After I had my first kiss, I began to feel pregnant. I legit thought I was pregnant... was 17, then. I started hiding from my mum, so she wouldn’t notice the “pregnancy” symptoms.

INCREDIBLE007:
you said men shouldn't generalize but you are doing same

not all men on Nairaland are scumbags o

Good evening

Stargurl20:
What gets me angry the most is; these men degrading women everyday like it's their profession, are worse. Typical Nigerian men would want to cheat with other women and still expect a faithful partner in return. Haven't they heard that what goes around comes around?. I'm not saying things being said about women are wrong nor right cos I know if people don't see, they don't talk - they exaggerate most times though...
But most men ain't innocent either.
There's this belief I hold that; you attract exactly who you're.
If men can just stop pursuing slayers like they're their careers, everyday countless post on cheating partners would wane. Yes, a lady who's intelligent, goal oriented would know keeping multiple men at a time wouldn't make her go far in life and would rather she sticked to one.
I hardly comments on posts like this, but I was moved to comment on this.
Never trust your girlfriends going for service, blah.. blah.. blah....
So, it's ladies who should trust guys, right?
In 21years of my existence, I haven't seen men as hypocritical as NL's men.

clevybrown:
other fantasies like?

clevybrown:
wats ur wildest sexual fantasy?

Raeheemwayne:
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Have you ever practised kissing in the mirror before? If yes - for what reason(s)?

24kmagic:
As soon as she's ready to start fvcking indiscriminately.

If she must move away from her parents house, it should only be because of her job. (For a working class lady). I'm not saying she should go and look for job outside ooo.


Because once a lady gets a little freedom, she'll want to fvck all the whole guys that are available. This is the reason why girls in tertiary institutions and corp members usually fvck like their lives depends on it.

No matter how old a girl is, once she's still staying with her dad, she won't bring too many men around, only serious/reasonable people.

But the moment she start staying alone, anything with a preek can visit her, even at odd hours.

My answer: No age! She should only move because of her job (for employed ladies). Or remain in her father's house till someone comes to marry her

bukatyne:
Do you regret some life choices you have made as you are growing?

Snaagg:
Am I lying tho?

Why not debunk what I've said in a logical manner instead of deflecting.

tasceige:
Just surround your self with positive and reasonable people. It will go a long way...

When life shows you complexity, you sure know you have trusted people you can lean on, hence, you would be thinking lil about the past.

cyndy1000:
The truth is that even if a girl works hard to be independent and leave her parents the society will still castigate her saying she is forming big girl no be man dey pay her rents and all that. We live in a society where all our actions are questioned no matter how right or moral we try to be. As a girl you don't have to be up to a certain age to leave ur parents house. You can leave when you like and feel you are independent enough. Funny enough, some parents will still be against their daughters living alone because in their mind they men may not see them marry

zexy2030:
dirty girl.

Chrisbella24:
I left when I was 18.
I've been Independent since then.

No help from any family members.

Life is hard tho with no one to help

Snaagg:
Lol. Are you seriously asking this question?

Not sure of those abroad o, but most Nigerian girls in Nigeria simply cannot AFFORD to leave home even if they wanted to

Many are jobless, depending on stipends from their multiple boyfriends, whilst the "independent and empowered " ladies that have a job are seriously underpaid and still expect a man to fund their lifestyle in one way or the other.

Nigerian girls are simply liabilities, waiting for a knight in shiny armour to come rescue them from their father's house.

Snaagg:
Lol. Are you seriously asking this question?

Not sure of those abroad o, but most Nigerian girls in Nigeria simply cannot AFFORD to leave home even if they wanted to

Many are jobless, depending on stipends from l multiple boyfriends, whilst the "independent and empowered " ladies that have a job are seriously underpaid and still expect a man to fund their lifestyle in one way or the other. I've been wanting to ask this question; what joy do Nigerians men derive in affronting the Nigerians ladies? It's still these same men who're worse and expect the ladies to be perfect and worship them

Nigerian girls are simply liabilities, waiting for a knight in shiny armour to come rescue them from their father's house.

bigiyaro:
in the African setting, a girl must remain in her father's house till she gets married, but I think at 23 or 24 a girl should be old,wise and smart enough to move out, given that they are more vulnerable and physically weaker.

Dew04:
To me, it depends.
I can't leave in my family home at the age of 21. I believe that i should be independent by then. But if i'm not, then i can live for a while with my mother till i'm self_sufficient.

Lyydia:
Twerk gone wrong

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