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Ajibam: Bro!
Is not our job here to put thread on the front page

Secondly..we should have locked the one on fp Now and linked your Own to it..but I Didn't see it before they chose It..my apologies sir..it Won't happen Again,,

Its not your job to put on the front page, but it is your job to suggest/recommend to the supermod, cos that's part of your job being a mod, and that's why we have a link for threads worth gracing front page, so bro, you are found wanting afterall you locked some similar threads and posted a link to the first thread cos that's the way it should be done. That was why i was surprised to see a different thread on the front page and the more reason i demanded an explanation, anywae apologies accepted!
Btw, i am not a male, ama female, although, that's not your fault, cos i did not indicate that on my profile

princess chloe: Easier said than done.

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Seriously the mods need to give an explanation as to why a thread created at 9.29am today will make front page before the one i created yesterday. Here is a link to my thread- 'https://www.nairaland.com/1432172/pastor-kumuyi-does-not-recognize' and the one on front page https://www.nairaland.com/1433012/pastor-kumuyi-disowns-prophetess-claimed#18017600.

I seriously demand an explanation?

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The General Superintendent of the Deeper Christian Life Ministry, Pastor William Kumuyi, has refused to recognise the controversial videos of a 'prophetess' and others who claimed to have died, gone to heaven and came back to narrate their extra-terrestrial experience.

In the controversial videos being sold all over Nigeria, two women and a boy claimed they died, went to heaven and came back to narrate what they said God showed them.

One of such CDs is that of a Sierra Leonean woman, simply called Sister Linda Ngaujah. Linda said she died and was shown happenings in heaven and hell and that many of the members of a large church on the Lagos-Ibadan expressway are on their way to hell and that the founder of a leading church in Lagos should repent as he allegedly acquired his powers from the devil, saying that a Bishop of another large congregation and his members are not even recognised in heaven.

The 'prophetess' added that women who used rubber and wool to plait their hair will go to hell as it is a sin and that the only way for people to be prepared for heaven is to go back to the old Deeper Life Bible Church's method of dressing.

The video CDs released by Linda is causing serious controversy in the church of God as some women in Deeper Life, who plait rubber hair have vowed never to do so again as they want to get to heaven.

Some female worshippers have even shaved their hair in one Christian Assembly in Ikorodu, saying that they don't want to have anything to do with attachment as they want to get to heaven.

Another person who claimed to have gone to heaven said she saw the late wife of Kumuyi, Biodun, in heaven and narrated her encounter there.

Other CDs were released by Margaret Amure from Church of God Mission, who also claimed to have gone to heaven and another 10-year old boy from Edo, named Samuel.

Reacting to this development on Sunday during the church service, Pastor Kumuyi warned members of his church not to have anything to do with such CDs as these are the last days where many people would come up with different things to deceive the church of God.

Pastor Kumuyi urged members of the church not to waste their money on such CDs, saying that the church should not rely on purported CDs of people who claimed to have gone to heaven to come back to produce CDs to sell to people narrating their encounter.

He referred to Linda's CD which said people need to dress like Deeper Life to get to heaven, saying that "if you dress like Deeper Life without salvation and sanctification, will you get to heaven? These are the last days."

The man of God emphasized that dressing like Deeper Life would not take anybody to heaven but that righteousness and holiness of heart are the keys to getting to the kingdom of God and warned members to desist from watching such CDs.

Pastor Kumuyi further said that one of the people who claimed to have gone to heaven said they saw Mummy Kumuyi in the kingdom of God, saying that he did not need such CD to know that his wife was in heaven and that the word of God has told us the criteria for getting to His kingdom.

According to him, such people were merely deceiving the people, saying that when Apostle Paul was translated to heaven and came back, he did not produce CDs about what he saw in heaven and began to sell them.

"When Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, Lazarus did not go about telling people that this was what he saw in heaven. We should rest on the word of God to tell us what we need to know about heaven and how to get there. How do you know that they have actually gone to heaven? These are the last days. Don't waste your money on buying these CDs," he stated.

http://m.naij.com/news/46626.html

Do not agree with all the points above

The former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria and Miss World is on the cover of the September Iconic Edition of Genevieve magazine. Stunning cover!

A Berlin man has become the first in Germany to give birth to a baby.

He identifies as male, but has a female reproductive system.

The baby boy was born on March 18th this year in a home birth, as hospitals are required to write the name of the mother in their records when a child is born.

It was delivered with the help of a midwife in the Neukölln area of Berlin.

On government records the new father, who is transgender, is registered as a man.

This makes him the first male in Germany to give birth, Berlin newspapers reported on Monday.

He reportedly became pregnant through a sperm donation.

Officially the child does not have a mother, only a father.

The case is reminiscent of transgender Thomas Beatie who has given birth to three children in the US.

Transgender people are able to give birth to children because even when a woman undergoes hormone therapy to become more physically masculine, they can retain female sex organs.

http://www.informationng.com/2013/09/german-man-gives-birth-to-baby-boy.html

Popular Nollywood movies stars recently visited the house of President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan’s mother in Bayelsa State....

The courtesy visit was led by Desmond Elliot & Emem Isong.

Other movie stars who visited Madam Jonathan include Mbong Amata and Belinda Effah.

The movie stars are currently in Bayelsa state on the set of a new film titled Children of the Niger Delta...

This news is false, he is yet to be released, it is his co-abductor that was released.

Very nice pix

ileobatojo: At least the man confessed while he was still alive. The most annoying ones are the ones where they have no clue whatsoever till the second family shows up for the man's burial! Chei! Very painful because the wife would have been denied the pleasure of dumping his trifling arse!


As for the children, yea, you feel hurt and deceived initially but you have to eventually move on as long as he has been a good father all along.


With the maid though? Tufiakwa!

Exactly my point, the man confessed before he dies, probably due to the fact that he knows death is looming. I remembered the case of former GTB bank manager and founder, now dead dough, MR. Tayo Aderinokun. He was like the perfect husband, father and boss while he was yet alive, indeed he was a role model and was very successful, but in death, it was revealed he fathered a child, his wife and xhildren never knew about, i am very sure the woman (his wife) would wish she can wake him up and ask some questions, she was greatly agrieved then, it was a bitter pill for her to swallow...

Guess, your friend and his family should be glad that he revealed it to them, embrace d ugly truth, L♥√ع your new step family and move on, you never can tell what the child(ren) will be in future. A mistake is a mistake, but some men can be wicked!

“…I’d like to know what makes you cry, so I can always be the one that makes you smile” is a famous line from Joe Thomas’ popular song “I wanna know” which is all about treating a woman how she deserves to be treated.

A gentleman you will all agree with me, is that man who is well cultured, educated, sensitive and well –mannered. In a relationship, the same applies… a gentleman is exactly what the name suggests…a gentle man. A man who takes care of his woman and treats her with utmost respect because he knows so well that it is because of a woman that he is in existence in the first place.

Every woman wants to bag herself one of these rare species. A gentle one. So what does every woman want from her own gentleman? Below is what you will find in every woman’s “my ideal man” list. Maybe worded differently but the same altogether:

1. Respectful – A respectful man understands a woman’s worth hence he will always give her what she needs and deserves and will always appreciate her. He will always be sensitive to her feelings.

2. Loyal – Just the way a man will be faithful to his football team; women crave a man who will be loyal to them. A man whose eyes don’t wander from woman to woman hence is loyal to his female specie. Defends her, loves her, brags about her, treats her right…

3. Attentive – Attentiveness will always improve communication and eventually the bond of two people. Women are attention seekers, if you make a woman feel like she doesn’t have to fight for your attention because you constantly give it to her then you’ve found yourself a long lasting healthy relationship. It also helps to be a good listener.

4. Responsible – knowing what your role is in a relationship helps reduce stress for your significant other. A man who plays his role well will encourage his woman to play her part just as well. A woman doesn’t have to feel like she’s responsible for two people just because her man is not playing his part.

5. Fighter – Like I said women love attention and even more from their man. Therefore there’s nothing else that will show your love for your woman better than fighting for her and her love. Fighting for her love assures her that you love her.Being the bigger person after a bad argument and not letting things go to the dumps because of a fight…women love this!

6. Ambitious – There’s nothing as sexy as an ambitious man. A man with ambition in a relationship just goes to show how much he is willing to take care of you and other things and keep them in check to make life easier for both of you. The ambition rubs on and you make her want to be a better person.

7. Trustworthy- A man you can trust is a man you want to keep in your life forever. I mean, a woman doesn’t have to worry about so many things like diseases or wondering if he is part of a gang or if he is a wanted man. Women already have so many things on their minds to worry about.

Women love to be treated like those priceless pieces of China. A little bit of wining and dining. A little bit of an exotic trip to wherever. A good surprise every now and then… You might ask what you’ll get in return. Well, just remember that good deeds attract reciprocation.

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dont understand y some pple said he should get married, the truth is if
he gets married, thats not the solution cos he has over 90percent
chance to cheat on his wife when she is not there to satisfy his lustful
desires.

He needs to adress the main issue, dis guy has a lustful heart, marriage
will never be the solution, mayb d immediate solution but not a lasting
solution, he needs to focus, have a strong resolution and get
distracted from evry lustful tots. BTW, i support the fact that age does
not matter in getting married, maturity does and also as a man he
should be able to stand on his feet financially not crawling that which i
doubt in a typical Nigeria Setting for a 21 years old boy, he better focus on his studies

Nah! its very wrong. When he starts sleeping with other women outside, she'll grief more. Settle issues with your spouse amicably, not in bed.

I wish her goodluck, but i think the title of this thread is misleading. Replace woman with Dog/b1tch, that sounds better

provided there is no strings attached, and do not let emotions becloud your judgements, cos you might be re-igniting old flames. kip in touch once in a while, but not so frequent, be friends i'll say.

It depends on how much you earn, her income to but lemme say about 30perc. of your income is o.k

O.k, congrats!

This sounds so weird and unbelievable. Eight month old baby? All i can say is you have to find a means to correct the child from that behaviour, and be frugal in who handles/cares for the baby, cos pple are difficult to trust!

Not yet married, but i'll av 2 drop my fathers name, my privacy 2 some extent... and i'll have to face the new challenges ahead!

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we need to start teaching sex education to our kids cos if u dnt, he/she
is gonna learn it else where. And in a way u might not like[/quote]C'mon spikes not at 8years that's too early, maybe pre-teen ages 11, 12. when he/she is about to attain puberty stage, i thinks thats the ryt time, i remembad when i was in jss, some of my female classmates in jss1/2 dont know what apund to them in regards menstruation, many funny stories i dont wanna delve in, tanx 2 a female teacher we had then.

My question is why should you explain condom to a 8year old. I understand children are so inquisitive but its not everything they can know, the good thing is they can easily be manipulated, just divert the question to something more captivating to him.

At the right age and time, he'll find out wat it means

what has hapund has hapund. But you made a very big mistake in your past. It is very obvious he is a player and he is just fooling you, toiling with your heart and d fact is dat d man neva loved you, has no respect for you nor value you, forget all he did to get you back or how he acted, you should have followed your instincts, cant count the number of times you guyz broke up in ur write up, i thinks its better you move on cos dis guy is just wasting your precious time or pray to God for a change of heart!