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KOVIC19COVID20:
Who recalls this list?
By 2024. This department will definitely shut down
Abi na oyinbo wan come full the courses?

If you can’t see well, Biko zoom in

Atk1nson:
I guess the important stuff is their passport, printout of the application form and payment receipt for any service booked with TLS.

Peacelois:
Good evening everyone.

Please I want people of vast knowledge about career to help me make a proper decision.

I am am HND holder with Upper Credit class in Computer science.
I graduated over ten years ago.

After graduation, I worked as an office administrator / IT for over 5years.

Got married, resigned and have 5 years of employment gap.

I started a teaching job as an ICT teacher over 2 years ago.
Now,
I wish to add more qualifications to my career.

I have these options but confused on the best career path:

1. Do an HND to BSC top up in any of the Nigerian university and after for MSc thereafter.
This might take up to 2years to complete.

2. Do a PGD in Education at NOUN since I've been teaching for over two years.

3. Apply for PGCE(post graduate certificate in education) UK to be a trained teacher
Or
4. seek for HND to MSC admission in UK.

Sorry for the long post
Thank you all
Cc. Lalalastical
STENON
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lavylilly:
it's about Nigeria teachers about to japa to UK, we need your help. Thank you

lavylilly:
Kindly join us here as we need your expertise https://chat(.)whatsapp(.)com/Jf2CxGbCsApGd9Bmcu3mMW

Thank you 😊

Delightsome2023:
hi ma'am.
please is there anyway I can reach out to you via email?

justwise:
This is what happens when you cheat yourself during visa application and claimed that you have the money to see yourself through your studies.

Teeroyzimma:
you don start with discrimination

ravensckar:
Back then in the University, I met a nairalander with the username Toyde. In our NYSC camp, I connected with a few others who were really nice guys. After my NYSC, I met Deji, Mr. Oyenekan, Miss Patricia, etc. All of whom I'm still tight with till date.

Several other monikers that I've had interactions or transactions with; Avicky, Stenon, initialize, Bobby, etc.

In all, nairaland is a great forum. It's not as faceless as some of you may think. Hence, I pity all those whose only mission here is to cause mischief and engage in tribal wars. They are missing out on the good things of life.

PS- I once worked for a former special adviser to Governor Ambode who singled me out because of my post here on Nairaland. She said the moment she heard those words, she knew immediately that I must be a nairalander. Since that day, son of man has become careful of what he posts here on nairaland. It's not as faceless as I thought.

naturalwaves:
Hahahahahaha

Teeroyzimma:
I hope you know that if inec didn't tamper with the results, Peter would've won the general elections. So this your statement is not valid.

Enemyofpeace:
wehdone grandma, we don hear. Now go sleep

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

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Meogom:
Will be driving on UK roads for the first time tomorrow, feeling kinda apprehensive, abeg any tips from the gurus?