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Politics / Re: What Was The Greatest Lesson For You In This Election ? by STENON(f): 2:11pm On Mar 01, 2023
naturalwaves:

Hahahahahaha
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Politics / Re: What Was The Greatest Lesson For You In This Election ? by STENON(f): 2:10pm On Mar 01, 2023
Teeroyzimma:
I hope you know that if inec didn't tamper with the results, Peter would've won the general elections. So this your statement is not valid.
Congratulate our only Jagaban cheesy
Politics / Re: What Was The Greatest Lesson For You In This Election ? by STENON(f): 12:48pm On Mar 01, 2023
Social media is not a polling unit grin grin

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Politics / Re: MC Oluomo Celebrates Tinubu's Presidential Win (Video) by STENON(f): 7:57am On Mar 01, 2023
Such a good news, Even me sef dey celebrate it for here. This is the era of renewed hope for Nigeria. Congratulations to the President elect , in you I trust and hope for a better Nigeria cheesy cheesy Jagaban of our time!!! Congratulations sir. Victory well deserved cheesy cheesy

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Politics / Re: Jonathan, Mahama, Kenyatta Visit Bola Tinubu by STENON(f): 7:33pm On Feb 28, 2023
Congratulations My President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

As e dey pain dem (LP), e dey sweet us ( APC) cheesy

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Politics / Re: 2023: Nairaland Latest Poll For Atiku, Kwankwaso, Peter Obi And Tinubu (Photos) by STENON(f): 6:41pm On Feb 27, 2023
Enemyofpeace:
wehdone grandma, we don hear. Now go sleep
Hope you are alright now ? I am just trying to check on you grin cheesy
Politics / Re: 2023: Nairaland Latest Poll For Atiku, Kwankwaso, Peter Obi And Tinubu (Photos) by STENON(f): 9:42pm On Feb 21, 2023
Tinubu for President 2023, 2027 and 2031 ××




All the underage students wey no sabi vote in real life but got to vote through online polls go dey make LP happy with the number of likes grin grin

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Politics / Re: 2023: Nairaland Latest Poll For Atiku, Kwankwaso, Peter Obi And Tinubu (Photos) by STENON(f): 9:41pm On Feb 21, 2023
Tinubu for President....


All the underage students wey no sabi vote in real life but got to vote through online polls go dey make LP happy with the number of likes grin grin
Romance / Re: Lady Turns Down Lover’s Surprise Marriage Proposal In Church(video) by STENON(f): 7:03pm On Feb 09, 2023
It is Better to say No than to say Yes.

Not every proposal should come with a Yes.

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Properties / Re: How Lagos Land Scammers Lure Nigerians Abroad To Buy Fake Lands by STENON(f): 6:49pm On Feb 01, 2023
Na Oponu dey buy such online land cheesy.

In this E world ...na E land you go get grin cheesy

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Crime / Re: Panic In Ilorin Over Rumoured Abduction Of Mohammadu Buhari Jamiu (Photo) by STENON(f): 10:01pm On Jan 13, 2023
Uhmmmmmmmmm !!!

Uhmmmmmm !!! grin grin
Family / Re: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by STENON(f): 5:12pm On Jan 13, 2023
Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED


I think the Girl is a good girl but you are painting her to be bad.
Best is to accept her true nature now than to marry an angel that would eventually turn to an evil woman.
Your Mum should never have asked her to wash your clothes. It is better the way she refused it instantly cos next would be for your mum to ask her to wash your Parents clothes.
Concerning her Pregnancy, Just give her time to make a decision by herself. Don't say anything yet until after this month, just relate normally, Don't force her to keep it and don't force her to abort it.
Also, don't use the pregnancy as an excuse to marry her cool
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:18pm On Jan 02, 2023
Meogom:
Will be driving on UK roads for the first time tomorrow, feeling kinda apprehensive, abeg any tips from the gurus?
Avoid driving on motorway for the first 3 days grin
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:17pm On Jan 02, 2023
rezzy:


I remember this name way back 2017 or there about on one teaching vacancy thread.

All these UK students sef, did you answer him/her?


Yes o, I told her to start watching Nollywood movies on Netflix to have a glimpse of our mansion in Nigeria cheesy

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:15pm On Jan 02, 2023
Peerielass:


Hello, I’ve been to Nigeria with my daughter who is mixed race and her Scottish dad yearly except for 2020 when Covid was rife. We returned in July 2021 and also visited last Oct.

We usually stay in an Airbnb in Lekki that's centrally located, secure and with all the modern day facilities to make their stay comfortable and we’ve had no issues (touchwood) in any of our previous stays. Most of the Airbnb accommodations have the Cway water dispensers so you would need to refill this from time to time.

The best thing to do regarding vaccination is to visit your GP or local travel clinic. The travel nurse will tell you which vacs are compulsory for travel to Nigeria and which ones are just recommended. Your hubby would definitely need a yellow fever vac for sure. I’m not sure about your son but it will depend on if he is travelling on a Nigeria passport. I think they may ask you to get tetanus, rabies etc but some of these jabs have long validity so you don’t need to get them that often. I find that the most expensive element is the anti malaria drugs as they tend to push for Malarone which is very dear. In addition to the Malarone, I use to buy jungle formula/deet creams for use but always end up not using them and haven’t had any malaria incidence.

For food depending on what your two year old fancies, I usually take a lot of food with me, mainly breakfast stuff and snacks because my daughter is fussy. This last trip I took a polystyrene cool box full of Aberdeen Angus steak, fresh haddock, sausages and salmon. It was still very frozen when we got there. I used to just buy from shop rite but my daughter and hubby always complained that the steak was too ‘toug’h’, chicken too ‘hard’, too much ‘bones’ in the fish and sausages tasted ‘funny’ so I resorted to taking my own.

Last October, my daughter and I ventured to the East for the first time in 10years while hubby returned to UK. He didn’t feel brave enough but said he will come next time after the elections. You will need to be vigilant and take all the necessary precautions you would normally take when visiting a foreign place.

Also just to add to what Chreze said about boundaries, be prepared to see people come up to you in the mall to stroke your child’s hair/face etc. You just need to shine your red eye for them and they will run away. They will also constantly ask your spouse for money in the airport.

Get travel insurance too.

Let me know if you have any specific questions you would like answered,

Thank you so much for your comprehensive explanation. I am very grateful for sharing your good experience with me. I actually do not have any specific questions yet but would definitely reach out once the time is nearer We move in 2023 cheesy smiley

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 2:17pm On Jan 02, 2023
hustla:



LOL

I believe they ask intentionally foolish questions. They literally have the internet on their mobile phones
Yes, but they don't use the Internet to search for knowledge except for playing games and all that cheesy

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 2:16pm On Jan 02, 2023
Ok
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 2:05pm On Jan 02, 2023
hustla:


What kind of questions do you get? Trying to learn here too
I was once asked by my Student, Do you live in a house or under the trees in Nigeria cheesy
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 2:03pm On Jan 02, 2023
OK.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 1:56pm On Jan 02, 2023
Ok

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 1:36pm On Jan 02, 2023
Ok
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:51am On Jan 02, 2023
Ok

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 3:30am On Jan 02, 2023
Happy New Year to everyone smiley

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Does It Mean To Be A Teacher In The Uk? by STENON(f): 12:32pm On Dec 27, 2022
Really !! cheesy
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UK Opens Door For Nigerian Teachers by STENON(f): 11:56pm On Dec 15, 2022
NiceTheDev:



Na you get am pass boss. This is my case. Im an Agric Science/Animal Husbandry and Vocational studies Teacher and I have a B.Agric Tech in Ecotourism and Wildlife Mgt Now i have a PGDE (Agric science) and fully registered and licensed with TRCN...over 2 years work experience too. I just dey patiently wait for February 1, walahi money for processing necessary stuff go komot. I was made for this.


It's not hard to understand.
Agric science is not part of the UK secondary or primary school curriculum . My best advice is for you to enrol for a course in home economics, chemistry or Biology science
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UK Opens Door For Nigerian Teachers by STENON(f): 6:22pm On Dec 15, 2022
Idaytesj29:


The BSc will always have a subject specification. PGDE is an Teachers educational course.
I rest my case!!

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UK Opens Door For Nigerian Teachers by STENON(f): 2:39pm On Dec 15, 2022
Idaytesj29:


Those with BSc plus PGDE will also fly
maybe or maybe not!! but our PGDE in Nigeria does not actually have subject specifications undecided
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UK Opens Door For Nigerian Teachers by STENON(f): 2:15pm On Dec 15, 2022
GrammarNazi1:

If you read the article, you would realise that the TRCN is not needed.
I am just here to tell you the fact !!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UK Opens Door For Nigerian Teachers by STENON(f): 2:07pm On Dec 15, 2022
BSc(Ed) or BEd, then TRCN


Naija Teachers should go and apply for TRCN first as that is going to be the most important requirement.

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Politics / Re: Worshippers At Shiloh 2022 React To Peter Obi's Presence (Video) by STENON(f): 7:40am On Dec 09, 2022
Peteru abeg come my Church o ...The Apostolic Church of Nigeria at Lawna territory, Lagos.

Such a pathetic and deceitful way of scoring his political goals through alatenuje Pastors and arindin people sad undecided
Family / Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by STENON(f): 11:59pm On Nov 26, 2022
ravensckar:
Is this really who I think it is? cheesy cheesy
Goodevening my Boss cheesy

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