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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 10:31pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mimzyy:
I can’t remember who it was that suggested Lemonade finance on here. Whoever it is, just wanted to say a massive thank you to you. Downloaded the app this morning, funded my wallet and initiated a transfer. I kid you not, the money was in my GTBank account in less than one minute. I’m very impressed. The rate is also very reasonable. Merci.
Let me also say thanks to that person. Lemonade is very good. I used exchange of 727.50 to send to Naija about 3 weeks ago and it was very good.

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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 5:24pm On Dec 08, 2021
Goodnews from University of Strathclyde wink

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Family / Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by STENON(f): 10:11am On Dec 08, 2021
novia22:



Don't try It oo....Don't try inviting her mother because she will never leave your house I promise you....
Make she no leave at the expiration of her visit visa !!! Best is for her Mum to taste the evil that her daughter is planning for another person. The man's mum would never enjoy her stay with such demonic wife.
Romance / Re: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by STENON(f): 10:08am On Dec 08, 2021
ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.


Don't ask him online. Next time you are meeting him, ask him all these questions and tell him you don't expect any answer till next time you would be meeting him. His reactions after that day would tell you more about him.
Family / Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by STENON(f): 9:54am On Dec 08, 2021
50pseamer:
I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.

I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.

I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church.
I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming.
We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit,
She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused.
In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.

Now we are living like neighbours in the same house.
Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?
Oh Dear !!!

Invite her mum and treat her same say she is planning to treat your mum.
Also start calling her Mum a witch ooo



I am raising my Baby now and I can't count the number of sleepless nights I have had plus the number of poo nappies I have changed cheesy

After all the stress of raising a Man like you, One wife go start calling me Witch. Na dat witch I go use kill her oo

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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 11:03am On Dec 07, 2021
Just my piece of one kobo advice, I was processing my sister's student application and I realised some Bank Managers or agents are parading themselves with a cheaper package for POF calling it "BackDate". It would be so stupid for anyone to pay tuition, visa and IHS Fees and just because of a cheaper amount you are buying yourself "10 years ban" by using fake bank statements called Back Dating as proof of fund. lipsrsealed

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 7:59am On Dec 06, 2021
Omicron999:



Or reciprocate covid flight ban restrictions
Omicron get behind me grin
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 1:37am On Dec 06, 2021
justwise:


Yes I'm currently in Nigeria, buried my mum yesterday so could not act quickly to change my ticket, wouldn't have got the test done today and get morning ticket for tomorrow,

The whole thing is a big headache to me now ,

Hopefully by Wednesday there will much clarity about this,
Oh!! That is really sad to hear. I am so sorry about the loss of your Mum. May her gentle soul continue to rest in Peace. We are hopefully the ban won't be long as far as Naija Government don't inflate the Covid statistics ♥️

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 7:54pm On Dec 04, 2021
Domistic:
Nigeria added to UK red list !
Just nawa ooo
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by STENON(f): 9:59pm On Dec 02, 2021
TOM208:
$1000 fnf PayPal funds is available now.
Legit funds

what is your rate ? I sent you a pm.
Thanks
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:08pm On Dec 02, 2021
omopapa and Mamatukwas Please do you change naira to pounds ? If yes, please what is your exchange rate. Thanks
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 8:40pm On Dec 02, 2021
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 8:35pm On Dec 02, 2021
OrchestraMin:


I have 1000 pounds
What exchange do you want in pounds ?
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 8:01pm On Dec 02, 2021
OrchestraMin:


how much?
I have above 450k in naira, How much naira do you need ? Thank you
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 7:55pm On Dec 02, 2021
If anyone has pounds but looking for naira to buy, I have naira but looking for pounds. Thank you.
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 7:53pm On Dec 02, 2021
Please If anyone want naira, I need pounds
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by STENON(f): 7:32pm On Dec 02, 2021
Giveter:
$200 usdt for sale
Come with We se90 as escrow only
WhatsApp 090-20423325
how much?

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by STENON(f): 5:23pm On Dec 02, 2021
idowuh98:
$1,700 FNF from balance available
how much per dollar ?
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by STENON(f): 5:10pm On Dec 02, 2021
If you have pounds for selling, I have naira with me to change to pounds. Don't send me pm, just mention me here and I will do my investigation. Note: I will be using escrow
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 1:35pm On Dec 02, 2021
PLEASE HOW DO I CONVERT MY NAIRA IN NIGERIA TO POUNDS IN UK ACCOUNT?
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 8:48am On Nov 20, 2021
asadex004:

YOU ARE THE ONE BUYING POUNDS FROM UBA, UBA IS SELLING TO YOU AT THEIR OWN SELLING PRICE 564
thanks very much
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 10:26am On Nov 19, 2021
Goodmorning,
This is for UBA today. Am I buying or selling? Assuming I go to UBA bank with Naira and ask them to pay in pounds for me �

Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 1:28am On Nov 19, 2021
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 1:27am On Nov 19, 2021

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 9:38pm On Nov 18, 2021
justwise:


How much did you send the first time?

There is a sending limit from my understanding
£500 yesterday . Today I sent £1500 but it was a sad story. I have verified my documents so as to allow the daily limit of £2000. They have apologised and please kindly unquote this post and I am going to delete my previous post.

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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 6:52pm On Nov 18, 2021
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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by STENON(f): 10:02am On Nov 17, 2021
I have £3k to change to naira. Please give me your best rate. Scammers stay off !!

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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 2:47pm On Nov 13, 2021
AOI2016:
Banks have different rates.
please mention the banks with good rate. Thanks
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 2:07pm On Nov 13, 2021
Please How much is £ to naira using form A in Nigeria now ? Thanks
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 8:03am On Nov 13, 2021
Please how much is £ to naira right now at First or UBA bank. I have checked online but yet to see the perfect answer for the rate of exchange.
Thank you. wink
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 7:58am On Nov 13, 2021
Ejay88:
Yes, try Univeristy of the West of Scotland.

Ebalafaa:


I confirm that University of Abertay Dundee does.

Thank you very much for your reply. She applied to UWS and got admitted for MSc. She also applied to Strathclyde and got admitted so she is happy to go with Strathclyde which is one of the top 10 in UK.
Plus she also got a scholarship of 4k from them making it cheaper and more affordable than UWS��
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 6 by STENON(f): 10:46am On Nov 03, 2021
Please how much is pound conversion to naira using Form A from Nigeria ?
Thanks

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