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Moving4:
Please house I have a family member who wants to send me invitation to visit him but he asked me to inquire about steps to be taken. I don't know how to go about it & i'm not sure i can go to the embassy to ask questions without an appointment. Tho i have visited d site, i saw a place for family visa & family permit

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted to you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know?
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building? And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?
Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?
When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No
Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?
Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care. Simple

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

TheGuyFromHR:
Those with imminent travel plans might want to expedite them where possible.
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/new-nigerian-covid-variant-found-23510030

olumanja:
Good afternoon, how long does it take to get a naric certificate?

Phenmeson:
Thanks for that but we all know Scotland & Olori Sturgeon always do reverse of wetin England and Ogbeni Boris Johnson do.
Will the Scottish hotels rule work? mind you Travellers from other countries can avoid the hotel quarantine if they travel down to England and get on Train or Bus to Scotland. That saves them £1750 for hotel
Na who come dey do who?

Nielbaba:
okay thank you, can u please explain how to go about the naric in details?

Phenmeson:
The measures, which come into force on Monday, apply to UK and Irish residents returning from 33 red list countries . Is for few countries. Some south American countries, Portugal, South Africa. Nigeria no dey their list
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-55995645

Nielbaba:
so for the naric , I don't necessarily need to write TOEFL? ,Please can u give the full details as well ?

graceodini:
1) Yes.

2) You will have to get both certificate and transcript from the school and scan them to NARIC by yourself including a letter of English language proficiency from the school as well.

Walle01:
Please could you help me with this seeing that you have recently processed ur naric comparability assessment. i want to ask
1. can someone use a student copy for naric?
2. Will I have to still get in touch with my school for verification from naric...as in; will NARIC demand a transcript directly from school following my application?

Thank you.

Irenenwaka:
Oh okay....budget wise, 1000 pounds for flight ticket. Then while she is at ours we will definitely be feeding her nd covering any miscellaneous expense.

Irenenwaka:
Thanks STENON for your response.... i have said she is coming to offer some support to me and my baby.
I put her travel date for april, she isnt coming now. My EDD is april 3rd as well.

I am gonna get a new accommodation as well hopefully before the end of February. Pending on when i find wats best suitable for me

Irenenwaka:
Good evening guys, I am about to apply for my mums visit visa (hopefully this week) for her to come and help with my baby when i give birth in April. For new members on thread, you can click on my profile and view my posts to have a full understanding of my situation including to view my mum's past 2 refusal letters.

I need an advice as regards accommodation please... at the moment my husband and i live in a shared house, but we have had plans to move out before my mum comes in end march. We are still searching for a place as it has been somewhat difficult to get a suitable place. I intend submitting my mums application tommorrow. I have included in my application the TA of my current place (which clearly shows it is a shared house). I have been completely honest with them and also stated in my inivtation letter that my hubby and i are stlll searching for a place and my mum would be staying with us at our new house.

is this honest approach good enough, will it be safe for me to proceed or would the gurus rather suggest i wait till whenever i find a new place so i can submit the new TA(the challenege with this is that i dont know how long this would take and i really dont want anything to rush me into settling for a place that wouldnt be very child friendly)

steadyMoving22:
Alright thanks.Can I use my statement of results for admission process and visa application as I'm yet to get my certificate?

awumen:
House, we are arriving the UK(Scotland) by 2nd week of February... I need 2 bedroom flat for family of 4, our budget is within 350-400 per month.
UWS (post code is PA2)
I will appreciate any assist.
Anyone already at UWS?

awumen:
House, we are arriving the UK(Scotland) by 2nd week of February... I need 2 bedroom flat for family of 4, our budget is within 350-400 per month.
UWS (post code is PA2)
I will appreciate any assist.
Anyone already at UWS?

babajeje123:
Yeah

babajeje123:
They haven't stop for tier 4 oh, they are doing random interview

bjprodint:
I saw this on this Facebook page

Dj2019:
You are right@STENON. I sent @kaylov12 several mails but no reply. I even try to PM, no reply. I pray God help with my application. Please I need your advice@Stenon and others gurus.


quote author=STENON post=97810741] Someone went through this same route some months ago, she was here asking all sort of questions before getting PGCE admission and during her visa process, immediately she got her visa, she kept quiet and never reply to my mentions here again. I have quoted her several times but she refused to reply.

Just few days ago, she came back to the same thread to seek advice from people about bringing her family as dependants to UK

You can search for her here @ Kaylov12