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ravensckar:
Look who it is! It's the runaway STENON.

Oya call me sharp sharp, I have a few questions to ask you. I'm sure as hell you still have my number.

hahahaha... bro Ravensckar... longest time sir o...

I changed my phone and lost most contact. You should still have my number bro... You forgot your daughter since ages ago...
How is wifey?

dadebayo1:
Good evening, read through your post, thanks so much for the hint and information shared. I presently work as an education officer with OYSG MOES&T .. Is it possible to cross over to the UK through the tier 2visa?

Yes, what is your discipline?

obawinner:
Hi Stenon, I like to ask what are the opportunity available for someone who graduated with BSc (ED) Geography

You can try your luck too but I am very sure of Physics and maths

greatmutt64:
thanks sis, they don't pay private school teachers well here in Ibadan unless if you have connection to enter big schools those are the ones that pays well. Am also trying to get better one but none is forthcoming. It was even increased to ten thousand ni. They started with 8500 in 2012 when I first came to Ibadan. But at the end of the term we will share 7200 for lesson fees because the school and teacher will share the lesson fees 50% each

Hmmmm.. true. Same thing happened to me too some years back.
What is your/ husband qualification?
Your discipline? Do you have Teachers Registration council of Nigeria licence ?

I am interested in this offer, as an appreciation to God.



Since year 2000, I was always begging for xmas clothes, shoes, money and joy to celebrate xmas/ new year . But this year, God greatly surprised me , gave me a new testimony all around and answered all my long time prayer requests.

The heart of human is purely more wicked than the devil ...

You can purchase xmas clothes for the girl as xmas gift. Just be monitoring her keenly as your madam is likely to frustrate your househelp.

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Wow... see these likes mehnnn !!! ;

Anifaza:
Please pardon me for using a new moniker as I am quite known here.

Friends and family, I really need your sincere and matured input on this matter.

I have been married for over 10 years with 4 kids. My hubby is a great guy save for this area that we will never agree.
 
 I have sisters-in-law who have vowed never to give me peace despite all my efforts to give peace a chance.  Most of them are all older than him and sort of influences his decision that affects my marriage greatly.

From the beginning, it has been if I am in their good books, my marriage will work and I will be happy, then if not, reverse will be the case.

My husband has refused to see all their manipulations and always tell me that he grew up with them and so he is indebted to them. I have never tried to cause a separation between them but they usually see me as an intruder to their unity.

For these 10 years plus, it has always been the issue,  I have begged, used gifts,  apologised ,sought for forgiveness from them  for sins I have not committed just for peace to reign yet, the next problem will be bigger than the previous.

Some are married while some are not. The worst that affect me most is the married ones with children.

Now, they all don't talk to me and this is affecting my marriage. Hubby gives me cold shoulders, no sex asking me to mend the relationship with his sisters  of which I am fed up with the whole thing and I don't want to beg again.

My mind is made up that everyone should stay on their own. Hubby is the only male, seems to be the only one doing well  and parents are no more
 
Please what do I do?

Mods front page please for more inputs.

Updated

Thanks for your input. I truly appreciate. It all started in my ist year of marriage when I had my baby and still in school. My mum came to look after baby and few months later, I took in again of which I left baby with mum while I continued schooling.

They accused my hubby of allowing my mother to be the only one taking care of baby and not them. That in their tradition, mothers of wife have no say and influence in family affairs. This was a major issue and still is. While in my culture, nothing of such as we see nothing wrong here. They disrespect my mother till date because of this. I have caught one twice giving my mother bad eye.

2ndly, a distant relative came with high risk pregnancy with fibroid and I asked she comes to seek medical help and go back, when she came, it was war in my house that it is forbidden in their culture for a pregnant woman to come to another man's house which she's not pregnant for. She later left but loads of issues after this.

My in-laws come anytime even with their children .Every other week and weekend is in my house.
My husband will not take us out unless they are around.

Hubby's lil sis but older than me lived with me for 5 years and that's where the whole wahala persisted with her giving information. I began to see their collaboration through her and frustrated me to the very letter.

We had a fight and hubby asked her to leave. They all ganged up not to talk to me or hubby again which hubby is feeling alienated.
Hubby said his position is threatened in his family and I am the cause. I took care of his older sister who had complication in her surgery for 6 months in my house, non of them came to visit her in my house nor call me. Rather , She got well and told others that I didn't give her food that was why when one called her and she said she was in a restaurant to eat. Hubby and I had issue on this.

I am so fed up . I work and I contribute significantly in the family.
They see me as the one who eats their brother's money alone.
Hubby takes great financial care of them. I am just tired.

1. You should also be visiting them every weekend instead of them to be coming to your house always.

2. Not everyone that knock on your door, you should open door for. Let them come once or twice and pretend as if you are away from home, they will turn back and go to their house.

3. You and your children should go and spend xmas and new year holiday with them so as to know how easy it is for someone to be taking care of their responsibilities.

4. Take good care of your husband and children and progress with your career/work and have fun. You won't even have time for all this gossiping talk .

5. Pray that God should guide you and also be wise. Do not report their actions to your husband or anyone.

Chimpretty:
thanks

please edit your post. I am deleting it ASAP

Busiayomi:
Nice one!

Checked the form and saw a couple of organisations i can work with.

I'm interested and will appreciate if you can be of assistance.

Can i send a mail to you as well for your perusal?

I didn't mean to intercept please. I have been longing for an opportunity like this.

My apology, Please I am an online somebody, I don't do PMS. What is your discipline ? You can write your mails here and then I will proofread it.

Chimpretty:
my client refused using azimo/worldremit ,he says its paypal or pioneer.what should i do

ok

Chimpretty:
no i dont have

okay, I was thinking of assisting with Teaching opportunities but I am incapacitated without the teaching licence.

Please Download the form on this link and search for the company name related to your discipline . Search on google for each company name and look for their email address... compose a mail with your qualifications and working experience. Tell them you are looking for job and you are from Nigeria so you will need tier 2 work visa sponsorship. Wait back for their response and let me know what they say.
Wishing you all the best

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/register-of-licensed-sponsors-workers



You can send me a format of the mail before sending them by using acronym xyz to block your details.

Chimpretty:
yes i was teaching chemistry before i stopped in may this new year

okay. Do you have Teachers Registration council of Nigeria licence?

Chimpretty:
pls why do you ask

lols..I just like your sense of humour and was looking for a way to also assist in my own little way.


Do you like Teaching?
Have you ever taught in a secondary school before ?

This is my own giveaway to nurses.

I got this from a friend .

You can as well try your luck !!


We are very proud of our nurses who have entered the United Kingdom and have achieved their career goals through our unique services. Our reputation of being able to deploy nurses within 4-6 weeks of interviewing is growing and attracting a lot of interests from the majority of care providers in the UK. Our 2-4 weeks process to NMC pin upon arrival is making our work even more invaluable not only to the providers but also to the candidates.



We are now a well-sought immigration firm, nursing agency and OSCE training provider and our website has monthly visitors of thousands of employers looking into the success stories of our candidates and talking to us about you!



So we are launching a candidate page on our website in January 2020 where we will feature 10 eligible candidates weekly and aim to find these nurses their ideal jobs in the areas they wish to work in. We are therefore looking for the first 10 candidates from all nationalities that we want to feature in our nursing page launch. If you would like to be featured in our website and attract your desired employers and be in the UK in no time, please reply to this email so we can send you the information you need to know.



Imagine employers coming to you rather than you running after them? This is one way of doing it, and start seeing how your new year will look like with this project.



I look forward to hearing from you.



Yours sincerely,



Jinny Chungpaiboon

Marketing Executive



Immigration And Nationality Services Ltd

SOLICITORS | RECRUITMENT | TRAINING

869 High Road

London

N12 8QA



Tel – 0203912059

I got this from a friend .

You can as well try your luck !!


We are very proud of our nurses who have entered the United Kingdom and have achieved their career goals through our unique services. Our reputation of being able to deploy nurses within 4-6 weeks of interviewing is growing and attracting a lot of interests from the majority of care providers in the UK. Our 2-4 weeks process to NMC pin upon arrival is making our work even more invaluable not only to the providers but also to the candidates.



We are now a well-sought immigration firm, nursing agency and OSCE training provider and our website has monthly visitors of thousands of employers looking into the success stories of our candidates and talking to us about you!



So we are launching a candidate page on our website in January 2020 where we will feature 10 eligible candidates weekly and aim to find these nurses their ideal jobs in the areas they wish to work in. We are therefore looking for the first 10 candidates from all nationalities that we want to feature in our nursing page launch. If you would like to be featured in our website and attract your desired employers and be in the UK in no time, please reply to this email so we can send you the information you need to know.



Imagine employers coming to you rather than you running after them? This is one way of doing it, and start seeing how your new year will look like with this project.



I look forward to hearing from you.



Yours sincerely,



Jinny Chungpaiboon

Marketing Executive



Immigration And Nationality Services Ltd

SOLICITORS | RECRUITMENT | TRAINING

869 High Road

London

N12 8QA



Tel – 02039120590

penurypredator:
Nice alternative tbh if not cos of naija bad network.

Try lyca 150 minutes for 10 pounds or register and download rebtel application and buy 5 to 7 pounds, it's for 73 minutes or so

Lexusgs430:
Haba, after buying them data, you would also engage them to a one month compulsory talking contract? Madam, you harsh o..........

Before nko?

1 pound ain't easy to come by in this country na

Chimpretty:
am into writing

Okay, that is good. Just be original in writing the articles. Wishing you all the best.

One more thing please, what did you study?

Chimpretty:
am grateful

You are wlcome. What aspect of skills do you want to focus on the freelancer?

Chimpretty:
ok, i tried editing my profile but i cant ,

You can. Try downloading the freelancer application from google playstore.

Chimpretty:
thanks

uwc. Not all jobs are writing jobs.

Please Always write an average bid, and write a message along that you have recently done something like that for someone before and you have the experience.

[quote author=Chimpretty post=85020883][/quote]By typing as text message and sending as mails. some jobs are just assignment like maths or physics.

Chimpretty:
stenon pls how can i withdraw my money if i successfully bided(must i have paypal/pioneer account or can i use my nigeria bank account) also must i join their free membership trial , pls your response is highly needed.

I used pioneer at first and it was a shortage for me as I got only half of the value of the money which made switched over to paypal with the help of a nairalander but 99% are scammers who will collect the money and start yarning stories.
Best is to inform your client to send money through other means via azimo, worldremit, etc. Tell them to download the application and choose Nigeria and then send the money directly to your account.

I joined free membership trial and my account always go on negative meaning I was owning them, the day a client mistakenly sent money to that freelancer account, everything was debited by the admin. I fought for it but couldnt get it back because I was owning them, so I always negotiate with my client to send directly to my account before starting the job .

Lexusgs430:
The only problem is, the person you're trying to reach could have turned off their data.........

Remember, they throttle data like a combination of NEPA, PHCN & DISCOS........

You would eventually use Gsm to call, and find out they have no data subscription.......... So to call them via WhatsApp, you must buy them that data bundle.........

Yes, that is true. I don't mind paying 1pound for their data bundle so far we go talk for a month with that 1G subscription than buying 10 pounds airtime which start counting immediately the phone starts ringing and you won't even finish all your gist before the thing go finish

Okay

penurypredator:
Good morning everyone
Any recommendations or suggestions on how to call naija cheaply.
Currently using an EE sim card and about to buy the £15 pack but not sure if I can call internationally with the 1000 mins I'll be getting.

WhatsApp voice and video call is the cheapest

manlawal:
Did you know similar thing happen to me, I wanted to woo a girl and any attempt I made to reach her was rebuffed to the extent that she doesn't reply my Facebook messages I sent 2017 , last 2 months I snap a picture and edited the background, it looks like abroad. Only for this girl to message last 2 weeks asking me where I am And even send me her number.

lols. I have witnessed it too and th recent one was with one of my student during my NYSC who was poor but ambitious, ugly but have successful future. So to cut the long story cut, he tried all his best to woo and be in relationship but he is always rejected or ignored. I told him to try scholarship with his good grade and of which he got full funding to Germany, today he will post one picture, 100 likes and many comments from those girls that rejected him them... some of the girls are even putting him on their dp and sending him so many messages to show interest ... but we just joke and laugh it out loud

Teaching

Christmas gifts and cards everywhere ....

Not sure I have ever celebrated Christmas this way before...

To God be the GLORY for the new dawn!!!

Travel out and start uploading your abroad picture... She will propose to you by herself. Just be extremely careful at this injury time so as not to get audio preg...

Lexusgs430:
A bitter lesson..........

I retire where i spend my working life........ NHS + social care packages, be ready for multiple comorbidities, from this patient.........

Lols..I am still not sure how I can ever cope with the lifestyle in Nigeria after spending just 1 year here...


E go better o

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Please run for your life.

Do not stay with a man that has no control over his mouth or temperament. They are meant to marry someone having same trait as them and not a good lady like yourself.

Thank me later in the future