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Ralaji:
Please I was introduced to this forum by a brother.
Please kindly read my story and drop your advise.
I met this lady 6 years ago immediately I broke up with my last girl friend, she agreed to visit me after a month and we began to have intimacy on her 2nd or 3rd visit. By 4th month she started disturbing me that her parents want to meet me meanwhile she was a free giver whenever she visited,atimes she sleeps over in my place. There is this cool headed girl I was about sealing her deal then that she spoilt for me. On my first plan visit to her place she was not around I guessed she had a date with one of her guys which I got to know through our conversation over the phone, the guy actually camped her for 3 days but she lied to me that she was with her brother. Eventually I went to her place and I met with her mum and dad her dad had health challenge while her sister is staying in their house on the excuse that her husband works in another town but later got to know that she's having issues with her marriage. On that day its as if I was jazzed because I started doing anything herself and her mum ask me to do. While visiting she used to tell me about getting car that it would be nice and being someone that is so trusting and believing that she will do same to me, she also asked whether I have landed property which I said no. At my place of work there some cars that were place for auction then I applied for one and I was grant
She complained about my apartment she said the area is bushy I had to look for another apartment I even run to my mum for financial assistance over this.
While preparing for our wedding I funded most of the expenses they were able to do all these because my people do not stay in the city where we are.
After the wedding I was already in debt and she lost her job when it was like 2 weeks to our wedding.
After the wedding she told me that she had bought a car and that it was with her brother.
I began to spend on the car immediately her brother brought the car starting form number.
Some months after the wedding there was an occasion in their family and they share money I carried the highest being that her elder ones are jobless except 2 of them that are managing, she is the last among them.
Six months after our marriage we had our son. She stood on my neck with her mum that we should do all the shopping for the baby being the first born I eventually spent around #250k on this still in debt. Some of those things are useless today.
Around the time we had our baby she said her colleagues in school have started paying for school fees I said she should defer it till following year but her mum started begging eventually I put up my car for sale I never knew that her car is problem on its own which is sold to her by one of her boyfriends. The car is actually a used Nigeria car package for her like new at #600k being fanciful at that time and very presentable than my own we put mine for sale and his brother stylishly bought it from us to clear her school fees.
When she went for exams she came back with some new clothes which I knew were bought for her by her boyfriend.
She got some money from her uncle like 2 years ago she said she wants to travel abroad she spent all the money on the processing which eventually failed.
Around this time I lost my job too, but was able to get some money which I gave to her to go and get her result in school.
She help me get one temporary job which I did for 3 months but before I left ihelped her secure another job this is after 4 years of our marriage I also helped one of her brothers to get job too.
I got another too but lost it around may this year it is a deposit mobilization job so we were all asked to leave when we could not meet up with the target.
Around June my wife started misbehaving I started noticing that she's sleeping around I felt so bad I had to turn to God for serious prayer still hunting for job but God has been faithful in settling some bills.
I got a financial assistance from someone recently through her to pay for rent and children bills when she said she cannot help with the bill.
I feel so cheated and I even think divorce will be the best when I eventually get my life back on track but I don't want my kids to pass through what I went through because I'm a product of a polygamous settings.
Please don't mind my grammar kindly advise me, the did is done already.
Meanwhile the men of God have told me repeatedly that God says I should not revenge.

Please advise. Thanks.

i want to reach out but what i want to discuss is with you no offence.i may not be in the best position to make suggestions,but i am sure my little input may go a long way. lets discuss steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

kentblues:
PLEASE HOW DO I MANAGE MY WIFE AND MY 1 YEAR OLD BABY WITH 35K MONTHLY SALARY..

i see only possibilities. i dont know what you see. pm me lets talk. two options. invest or you step up.send me message for details

eazy07:
U mean u can pay me back in 55 days? Because the year is almost up

sorry just wanted to ask if the option is also open if one has a credible proposal and is capable of returning the facility with interest even before christmas. Pls im waiting for your reply.

shophut:
Please fellow nairalanders help out a brother.
I have been thinking about the type of business to venture into with the above amount
I will be grateful to read your kind suggestions
Thank you all

send me a message steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

Addictedtodrugs:
Hello guys !! I have 10M Naira I’m planning of starting up a business that can be making me a lot of profit every month !! Please all your ideals are welcome !! Help a brother before I finish the money

send me a pm.would send a proposal.steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

Swargu:
Dear Nairlnders,

I know that we can be savage most times, i however need advice from you and i will keep it short.

I came to Lagos some months ago in search of a job and God did it, i have one today although not as high paying yet. I need a kind of side hustle too, that might not require all my time and probable not alot of attention, i have been thinking about this for quite some time, my capital is about 200k, please i need kind suggestions from buisness gurus in the house, you advice are appreciated.

i have a proposal. steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

Faber:
Hi good people,
One of my fellas just won #560k on betking last week. We don burn like 50k from the money in celebrations with friends. Presently he wants to quit betting and invest the money in a business. Two businesses came up namely ; Recharge card printing biz and setting up a bet shop either betking or bet9ja.
We humbly seek ur advice on the best biz that will be risk free and at the same time lucrative, at least to transform him from a gambler to a self-employed guy. Your suggestions are welcome!

Thanks and God bless!

Have a great Sunday y'all!

send me an email.check my signature

PanickMode:
I have been struggling over the months doing menial jobs and saving up the little I can because I took a decision to be self employed by the early phase of this year i.e being an entrepreneur although I have no experience whatsoever. My total savings sums up to about 700k and I need an advice on what will work for me with that amount without regrets..No advice is too little for a brother without experience.

still on top of the matter.just wanted to know if you have invested in any of those ideas.you can pm me for biz proposal.contact me through my signature

badboygood:
Im looking for business ideas requiring start up capital of 5m or less. I made some lucky investments in cryptocurrency, but I think my luck is beginning to run out. I have an 8 to 5 that takes up most of my time, but I need to start doing my own thing, so I'm looking for ideas. I also will not mind partnering with anybody who is bringing something to the table too (capital, experience/knowhow, hustle), etc. If I like your idea, I will likely reach out to you for further discussions.

are you still open for proposals. Send me an email at steppingup4lyf@gmail.com let me forward a biz proposal

bigsam75:
What business can someone do without been tied down in a shop or money not tied down and ROI is certain.Any idea will be welcome and appreciated.

hope you have successfully started something. You can pm me for biz proposal if interested

MissNifemi:
Your tribe,
Age,
Location in Warri,
Whatsapp no.

im igbo, 28, im not in warri sorry. And im not on whatsapp. Although this are not your criteria but if interested in biz i can leave you my contact

MissNifemi:
Hello,
I'm a working class babe, a graduate living and working in Warri.

I need a good looking working class guy earning good salary so we can plan good life together and build a promising future. In short, let's invest.

This post isn't for everyone plz. If you're qualified, kindly send me an email or leave a notification here.

if interested email me for a nice and life changing biz proposal. The returns will wow you.

Lilmusbibabanla:
Hello my fellow Nairalanders,

Please i have a spare 200,000 which i will like to use on running a business that can fetch me more money, am here to seek for your ideas on what type of business i can venture in with no regrets at the end.

Please am open to anyone opinions while others will also benefit from this.

Best Regards.

if interested email me for a nice and life changing biz proposal. The returns will wow you.

winkmart:
I am a prospective investor though. No problem

invest with us and make 60% return on investment monthly

wunmi590:
Good morning great Nairalanders,

For those who never had access to my first thread, please find it below.

It is with regret i announce to you all that i will be leaving my abusive job tomorrow 31st of October, being the last of the month, without any backup.

I have taken the bold step to tender my resignation letter, the abuse is too much, and is unbearable for me (though some other staff have been taking the abuse like that), most times, i am always scared of going to work, and my heart would be beating so fast, as if i went on a race from Lagos to Abuja.

I have looked so lean, that even people are asking if i am really working and i earn 6 figure salary, due to the abuse and pressure of the job, we work from Monday to Saturday, and even on public holidays, which means no social life for us.

I recently fell on the bike while coming back from official duty, the only thing they could render is just an x-ray (7,000), that was only what they paid for me, i had to take my hand to the local massagers which i paid 15,000 myself to get better, i was told i would bear the cost myself, which i did.

Thank God i am better now, and no fracture or whatsoever after the x-ray.

But even with that, i still get abuse, that i am mentally retarded and i am useless due to my one hand, but i just had to put a stop to all these abuse, and move on, what is the essence of working and earning money, and you have no rest of mind, its better you just leave the job.

I am begging well meaning Nairalanders, and Nigerians, to please help me with a job, i have two years experience as an administrative officer and a year in facility maintenance manager.

I am an HND graduate of microbiology.

I am willing to relocate, as i have a house in Abeokuta, I had my introduction on the 1st of September 2018 and my fiancee is currently working in Abeokuta i travel there every Saturday, after the close of work and come back to Lagos on Monday morning.

I will appreciate a prompt response from you all, as i so much believe in nairalanders.

cc: lalasticlala



https://www.nairaland.com/4793785/what-most-painful-hurtful-thing

hello my friend.did you finally leave?no mind me o.i believe more in action rather than talk. That choice is not easy. But things get tough before they get better. Im in no place to judge you. Nigerians are mostly concerned about job security and all its benefits,so dont take it personally, they all mean well except some extreme comments.but what i wanted to say is that. While waiting for something to do,dont spend all your savings.invest some of it in diversified portfolios such that they keep on generating income for you no matter how little on weekly and monthly basis. Or you can invest in other peoples established biz and still profit. You can reach out for any enquiry at steppingup4lyf@gmail.com. But the main things is dont eat all your seeds until something else come your way. I personally cant work for anybody and you too can succeed if you choose to. Things out there is rough. But God will see you through. I salute your courage,brother

azibatoreal:
location

asaba

Im expanding my bread and egg distribution business to accommodate growing customer base. Those interested can key in and enjoy the proceeds. Very lucrative. You can request for your funds after 2 weeks. You can reach me through the details on my signature if interested .

danye8:
disregard the comments here for I can see majority are speaking out of guess but he who wears the shoe knows where it hurts and as someone who has digestive issues too I can relate to your pain.......about 70% of gastric ulcers are caused by h.pylori bacteria.This bacteria can become resistant to antibiotics and making it difficult to eradicate hence,the use of alternative medicines like mastic gum,manuka honey,probiotics etc.......as someone who has digestive issues and have tried some of these alternative medicines I can guide you on what to do on taking drugs and also doing the right tests in hospital to tackle this issue.......contact me on (WhatsApp 08187046053) or 07083315403.....let's talk and let me try to see how I can help you.

pm me.

Kvngfrosh:
When i was little i had an abnormal growth on my head then my dad took me to our family doctor and he gave my dad a chemical to apply it although the growth went away it resulted to a scar how do i get rid of the scar

can you take a pic of the scar and send it to steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

homealone00:
pls dont mind my grammar.. There is this new girl i just meet, we made love but what i noticed is that she never felt anything she later admitted to it even when i came into here, she never felt anything and she never even knew. i found out that she has been battling with this, she doesnt know who to say this to and how she can get help. she trusted me and that is why she let me in on this i told her it was a health/psychological issue because i had to say something so she wont feel depressed pls any help will be appreciated and pls help me get this to the homepage someone happiness might depend on this. N.B She is 21years

send a private mail to steppingup4lyf@gmail.com. i did not say bring money ooooo.

Samfitz:
I tested positive last year September and since then I've not started treatment cause I don't know how to go about it.
I live in Abuja and I'm in my mid 20's
Help me with hospital recommendation and the department of the hospital to visit as well as the price.
Please help me. I'm not disturbed that I'm positive but starting treatment has being my night mare.

i am not here to tell you stories. antiretroviral therapies are offered at government agencies. but ive also got something that can help you.its better,its faster and its costly but its results will suprise you. if interested lets talk. steppingup4lyf@gmail.com. God is your strenght

Victar:
Take 8 tablets of digoxin..

You'll definitely thank me later

see wickedness

Duckmannn:
Hello nairalanders

I need your candid advice on what I can do, I lost my job about 3 years back, while working I had a business of distributing milk which I was doing with my job, so when I lost my job I just took the milk business serious then started living on it, but all of a sudden all my capital was lost everything all went down the drain, so this forced me to acquire a loan from a microfinance bank, things went on like that till present, presently am now owing seven microfinance banks and several individuals which the total sum of the debt has now summed up to over five million naira, which I don't even now am going to pay up the debts.
I have two children which I cater for pay there school fees and feed them, feeding in the house has now become a problem, i hardly go out because whenever i go out am going to meet somebody i owe who is going to embarass me, I got married to a very irresponsible husband who doesn't care about his family.
Please I need your candid advice to get myself out of diz mess am into presently and possible business I can do that can fetch me huge profit, I have a mercedez Benz jeep I can sell off to start life all over again.

Please matured comments only, thanks in anticipation of positive comments

Steppingup4lyf@gmail.com

Duckmannn:
Hello nairalanders

I need your candid advice on what I can do, I lost my job about 3 years back, while working I had a business of distributing milk which I was doing with my job, so when I lost my job I just took the milk business serious then started living on it, but all of a sudden all my capital was lost everything all went down the drain, so this forced me to acquire a loan from a microfinance bank, things went on like that till present, presently am now owing seven microfinance banks and several individuals which the total sum of the debt has now summed up to over five million naira, which I don't even now am going to pay up the debts.
I have two children which I cater for pay there school fees and feed them, feeding in the house has now become a problem, i hardly go out because whenever i go out am going to meet somebody i owe who is going to embarass me, I got married to a very irresponsible husband who doesn't care about his family.
Please I need your candid advice to get myself out of diz mess am into presently and possible business I can do that can fetch me huge profit, I have a mercedez Benz jeep I can sell off to start life all over again.

Please matured comments only, thanks in anticipation of positive comments

its a long shot.but its possible.send me an email.you would see my email below

chukwuma0000:
Am a guy of 23, studying marketing in one of the federal
polytechnic down the eastern part of Nigeria, am currently doing
my compulsory one year industrial training in one private firm
here,
But am confuse due to the situation of this country and my plan
of going back to school for my hnd,
During my IT I saved close to 400k though am independent, no
helping hand from my family or relatives, i strongly believe I
have a bright future, Infact many things on my head in other to
achieve my predetermined goal,
These are my plans ;
I want to build career in marketing but don't know any skills
that will fetch me money in the future because I really want to
be self reliance,
If you are a graduate of marketing, please I want to know the
opportunities and threats in marketing, as an amateur in this
area of discipline I need your advice on this,
As an undergraduate I want to invest 1/4 of my saves on any
recommended side hustle business ideas from you guys,
Please no insult, just your advice..
My present state is the cause of my blunders only if you spot
any misspelt sentence.

whats your location. Send me an email

Duckmannn:
Hello nairalanders

I need your candid advice on what I can do, I lost my job about 3 years back, while working I had a business of distributing milk which I was doing with my job, so when I lost my job I just took the milk business serious then started living on it, but all of a sudden all my capital was lost everything all went down the drain, so this forced me to acquire a loan from a microfinance bank, things went on like that till present, presently am now owing seven microfinance banks and several individuals which the total sum of the debt has now summed up to over five million naira, which I don't even now am going to pay up the debts.
I have two children which I cater for pay there school fees and feed them, feeding in the house has now become a problem, i hardly go out because whenever i go out am going to meet somebody i owe who is going to embarass me, I got married to a very irresponsible husband who doesn't care about his family.
Please I need your candid advice to get myself out of diz mess am into presently and possible business I can do that can fetch me huge profit, I have a mercedez Benz jeep I can sell off to start life all over again.

Please matured comments only, thanks in anticipation of positive comments

its not that easy.i feel your pain. Whats your location. Send me an email. Lets talk about viable options. It is not over until you give up on life.you truly can rise above the situation. I dont judge because life is a school.just always remain positive. When are you due to pay the banks

Dannychukz:
Hi, Nairalanders!

Please I need your help on this issue

So, I just finished this session (200l Comp. Engr. ) in school and now I'm on holiday till around next year February. I don't want to be idle (like my previous one) so I've been thinking of what to learn or dive into this holiday so I can make some money before I resume but I don't have a direction or guide to follow...

Thoughts of fashion design, shoemaking,gadget repairs,photography and art come to my mind but I need other ideas if y'all can help...

I'm also sound tech-wise, if there are any options from there I'll really appreciate it. Thanks in advance
#And also I reside in Benin

send me an email

OladimejiRufai:
Hello! Good Evening!

Please, I need your help. No, I am not going to beg for money and I do not even want to beg. But please, I do not have a job and I want one urgently. I want to start doing something to fetch me income.

Please, I want a job. I want to work and I want to eat and spend from what I earn with my own hands. I do not want to beg for money. I am keen on earning for myself but there is no chance. And that is why I am reaching out. Anybody, please help if you can.

I am a SSCE holder if you care to know. But I want to work for some time and save up money and decided afterwards what I want to do, whether to go to school or school part-time while still working. But now, I want to work.

Please, anyone! I am in Lagos but I can try coming to any other state in Nigeria if I am capable of travelling over and if I can be given accommodation.

I have computer skills as well if you care to know. I once attended a computer school and I once worked in a law firm as a secretary. And I am nineteen. But that does not mean I only want to do any work pertaining to using computer. Even if it sales boy, or to mop floor or general cleaning in a company, or any other work, please tell me about it.

Please somebody help me. I want to work! Please help!

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if you are ready to work send me an email at steppingup4lyf@gmail.com