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PoliticsRe: Obi Approves Advisory Council For Obidient Movement As Hilda Dokubo Opposes by stepriho(m): 1:31pm On Jan 30, 2025
Is obedient movement a labour party thing? Or about peter Obi? Kwankoso has his in the north Obi should have his around the world.
PoliticsRe: Return Home, FG Begs Nigerians In Diaspora by stepriho(m): 11:58am On Oct 21, 2024
Man102:
Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/return-home-fg-begs-nigerians-in-diaspora/
This woman is wicked, only here in Cameroon that I am, I can't come back to Nigeria to stay. I can only come to visit.
Foreign AffairsRe: See Kamala Harris Rally Crowd Sizes So Far (Wisconsin, Michigan, Arizona) by stepriho(m): 5:45pm On Aug 10, 2024
WorldRichest:
Cry ooooooo
Weep ooooooo
Wail ooooooo

After crying blood, then tell us how many votes your 3rd Class Philosophy graduate got in all the Core Northern states which have the highest voting numbers. Now I understand why your candidate studied Philosophy, to add 1 + 5 + 2 is difficult for him and his headless mob
You prefer a drug baron! Someone with questionable identity, someone with questionable educational qualifications to rule over you than someone with a third class? And you are happy that a particular region is ignorant and populated? I don't get our reasons for bitterness at times
PhonesRe: My SpaceX Starlink Internet Experience In Lagos, Nigeria by stepriho(m): 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2024
Aruos:
I paid my subscription with Chipper Cash yesterday and it went thru successfully. Tried payday couple of other Cards though, including my Dormicilary Dollar Mastercard which was also declined. I see shege for this one. Even my Chipper Card was declined. It was my friends own that went thru for me.
It not a funny experience I must say....
Good day bro I will be using chipper cash for the first time, please I need clearity. Can the naira virtual card pay for the starlink subscription?
FamilyRe: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by stepriho(m): 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2023
Please bro never get married to a lady that don't honor and respect you. N ver marry a woman who don't have anything to offer apart from sex.
FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
SportsRe: Italian Journalist Marika Fruscio Pleads With Nigerians Over Osimhen by stepriho(m): 1:13pm On Sep 29, 2023
preekahantas:
This is where you can find Nigerian men active in abusing women and public disgrace.

In bed they cannot perform and they never have enough money to run a home responsibly.
I am very disappointed in your sense of reasoning. Bringing gender issues into what is not called for. Do you have an ideal how this whole thing began?. I am happy that Nigerians protected their own, if you are not a Nigerian go and protect your fellow citizen and stop saying things u don't know.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Govt Inherited Terrible Economic Situation - Oshiomhole by stepriho(m): 4:46pm On Aug 16, 2023
This idiot that was the chairman of that party that was in power is putting the blame on Buhari now.
Racoon:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/15/tinubu-govt-inherited-terrible-economic-situation-says-oshiomhole/
FamilyRe: Blind Woman With Triplets Receives Online Gifts by stepriho(m): 6:28am On Mar 31, 2023
SultanOfPuna:
Blind girl wey dey fix eyelashes shocked

How she go see who dey knack her??
I pray that in your next life God should make you human.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi: The Worst Thing To Happen To Igbos Since Independence by stepriho(m): 12:36am On Mar 19, 2023
naijapips04:
Peter Obi has single handedly pulled the Igbo nation decades back.

His singular irrational ambition has enthroned APC for at least the next 8 years if not 16. It has enthroned Muslim domination. Igbos have lost our at the center with no clear path of finding our way back.
What is this one saying. If they warn you people to stop taking fermented garri u won't hear now see the cause.

Obi is the biggest loser in this election. Alex Otti in Abia state would have won even if he contested under Sowore's party. LP will only take Anambra state backwards. Soludo would be fighting more to stay then concentrate on working for the people. Obi is a dangerously ambitious he goat. There's greater polarization between Igbos and Yorubas. The worst since 1967.

It pains me because I'm igbo. No strong Igbo alliance in APC, PDP. The SS are taking our rightful position. The elections are over. We would go back to screaming marginalisation and Biafra while others reap from Nigeria.

Obi should never have happened and he should be taken down. His continued ambition is doing nothing but harm to the average igboman.
PoliticsRe: Obi Rejects Insinuations His Loss Is Divine by stepriho(m): 10:37pm On Mar 13, 2023
LeoDeKing:
Whoever told this 3rd class illiterate Nigerians voted him. Foolishness is when you think 5 SE states and few SS states with low winning margin plus few christian dominated northern states will make you the president of Nigeria.

Or is the clown by any chance assuming he won Adamawa, Katsina, Sokoto, Jigawa, Kano, Ekiti, Oyo, kwara, Ondo, Osun etc?

Gerrarahia jor.
People like u help us know the difference between the sane and insane I
CrimeRe: NDLEA Intercepts Heroin, Skunk, Arrests Traditional Ruler, 36 Others by stepriho(m): 1:00pm On Mar 12, 2023
Nemere2020:
Ex-Boko Haram fighter, traditional ruler, 35 others arrested for drug trafficking



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0v1GejSLTtXsTFhiTgTD38yyUuL8QPMLiKDn98HHACtFp5ygcqQPDyRRw6ogfuqg3l&id=100069123281551&mibextid=Nif5oz
Where is Abba Kyaris picture and his offence. Stupid people only the poor face the law in Nigeria
PoliticsRe: EndSARS: I Was In My House During Lekki Tollgate Shooting - Governor Sanwo-Olu by stepriho(m): 8:15pm On Mar 08, 2023
onthehill:
https://igberetvnews.com/1440288/endsars-house-lekki-tollgate-shooting-governor-sanwo-olu/
Lie Muhammad come and see, finally someone has accepted that there was shooting.
PoliticsRe: Peters Mbah Erects Billboards Asking Enugu Obidients To Vote For Him (Photos) by stepriho(m): 7:13pm On Mar 07, 2023
PoliticsRe: 10 Reason Why You Shouldn't Vote For Sanwo-olu by stepriho(m): 11:15pm On Mar 06, 2023
1.He is a product of Godfatherism
2. A puppet to the president elect
3. He contributed to the murder of the End SARS protesters
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Youths Are Sharing Ahmadu Bello’s Speech About Igbos by stepriho(m): 10:43pm On Mar 06, 2023
ekolobaba:
The battle for Lagos don start. Na wa oo.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_odAy4rVz8
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Yorubas are fools, igbos are the only reason Lagos is what it is today, they contribute over 90% of Lagos revenue. Take igbos out and loose Lagos as the economic hub of the country. How many Yorubas are into reasonable businesses. Let them continue to be in Tinubu imprisonment. Fools
HealthRe: Please How Can I Handle This Infection by stepriho(m): 7:14pm On Mar 03, 2023
Get two full card of Doxycycline 100mg and take two in the morning and two in the evening. Within this period don't have sex and wash all ur inner wears.
Thank me later.
AdvertsRe: Dye Clothes In Abuja by stepriho(m): 7:27am On Jul 25, 2022
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PoliticsRe: Orji Uzor Kalu Mocked By Radio Biafra London Group Members by stepriho(m): 8:51am On Dec 06, 2019
unbitchable:
There's always a shared trait of falsehood, lies, bandwagon and a twisted sense of history in every ipob. Ordinarily, ibos would have cried of witch hunting as they usually do whenever one of them is picked up by EFCC. Ipobs celebrate because you regard Orji Kalu as a caliphate slave who defected to APC against the interests of Ndigbo. Even at that, y'all still call it a grand plan against Igbo presidency.. shame on all of you.
I shade tears for Ibo's, with this sense of reasoning why won't u guys have the worst roads in the country. Even though these contracts have been awarded long time ago. But ur elites know u don't need them yet u don't complain. Ibos are the problem of Nigeria,take them out and this country will have the best image. Who are the criminal both home and abroad? Who are the drug dealers, etc. You guys just love creating problems you can't solve, kaduna nzeogwu, started every problem in Nigeria, Ironsi came in and couldn't punish him, because Ibos lack decipline, then Ojukwu made it worst. You guys are d problem of Nigeria. Former governor of plateau state is in Prison for years now no one have complained. Dasuki, Alzazaky and d wife are in detention heavens have not come down. But if it happens to an Ibo man it's witch hunt or Fulani this Fulani that. You guys should wake up.
CrimeRe: Importance Of Having A Car Tracker In You Vehicle with just by stepriho(m): 8:12am On Nov 14, 2019
[quote author=pickatyou post=83829919][/quote]How much will It cost me to learn this? Pls email me @stepheniortyomt@gmail.com
AgricultureRe: Are You Into Buying And Selling Of Agricultural Products? Kindly Join Our Group by stepriho(m): 9:12pm On Nov 05, 2019
puredigital:
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SportsRe: Hugo Gatti: If Messi Wants To Be The Best, He Has To Go To Madrid by stepriho(m): 1:49pm On Oct 31, 2019
[quote author=obembet post=83616471]Former Boca Juniors goalkeeper Hugo Gatti has claimed that the only way Lionel Messi can prove he is the best player in the world is to move to Real Madrid and show that he can achieve what Cristiano Ronaldo did.

Although Messi produced a spectacular performance in Barcelona's 5-1 win against Real Valladolid on Tuesday - scoring a brace and assisting another two - his compatriot isn't convinced that he can do the same against big clubs.

"It seems as if I am anti-Argentine, but until Messi plays in the big games, he will continue to be a player of home games," Gatti told the TV show 'El Chiringuito de Jugones'.

"He has to have balls to go to Real Madrid and prove everything there like Cristiano [Ronaldo did].

"Otherwise he will be just one more [player].

"Cristiano went to the best club in the world. Messi plays at home, on his pitch with everything [that comes with that in terms of home comforts].

"Let him play in the Champions League and the World Cup, otherwise he will always be one more.

"When he plays there, he will fight with [Johan] Cruyff, [Diego] Maradona and Pele.

"Messi plays when they let him play. It's very easy to play with everything in your favour at home."

See this one, most you talk? D whole world know say Buffon pass u him play for Madrid? How can someone be a USA citizen and what to apply for Nigerian Citizenship?
SportsRe: Football Rules When We Were Kids by stepriho(m): 11:42am On Oct 25, 2019
[quote author=ss1930 post=83447121]You got these right... Wow.... Just like yesterday. I atill love my childhood da

Any back throw na foul play
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Blames FG For The Death Of His Mother by stepriho(m): 10:53am On Oct 22, 2019
gidgiddy:
Dont pity Kanu's followers, not everyone has accepted slave mentality. Kanu's followers seek freedom
Freedom! To stay in Europe and be deceiving people in Africa? If this is freedom I don't want it. I will want to go into battle with my king or leader in war front leading me chanting war songs to motivate me.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Blames FG For The Death Of His Mother by stepriho(m): 10:00am On Oct 22, 2019
[quote author=tfelicityk post=83327224]This guy is exhibiting attitudes of patients in yaba left..

I Pity his followers, at his age Kanu has no career, a jobless man. Ojukwu was a general with a proven career. I imagine how this guy succeeded in deceiving his people. Only career oriented people lead revolutions. Omoyele Sowore is the owner of Sahara Repoters with a proven record I can blindly follow him. He is in Prison today but a million times will not run away and live his followers. If KANU is a man let him come for him mothers burial.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Blames FG For The Death Of His Mother by stepriho(m): 10:41am On Oct 21, 2019
PoliticsRe: Buhari Approves Upgrade Of Akanu Ibiam Airport Enugu At N10 Billion by stepriho(m): 9:47pm On Oct 17, 2019
ifiokjohn:
Did you tell buhari supporters this when they where insulting Jonathan as President?

If not then you are a cow and ur president is more than Useless
I envy ur high level of irresponsibility. U need help. Stop insulting people Fathers. Change begins with u and I. I am not partisan. And its obvious both of us are coming from different classes of the society
PoliticsRe: Buhari Approves Upgrade Of Akanu Ibiam Airport Enugu At N10 Billion by stepriho(m): 4:38pm On Oct 17, 2019
id911:
Buhari should work and spare us this sermon. Old man wey lie pass pikin...useless President
Just imagine this! No amount of hatred should make you insult a sitting president useless. This is how it start. A word is enough for the wise
SportsRe: Super Eagles Rated Second Youngest National Team In The World by stepriho(m): 9:22am On Oct 16, 2019
Slawormir:
You are not a real niggarrr!

We have no young shit that we are actually grooming
This young lad pretends to be young now and talented but actually they have no talent. Years later they will be flop

That was how we all rely on Bros Mikel only for him to turn into a "back pass master"
Who go believe say na Mikel obi and them Fernando Llorent, David Silva, Cesc Fàbregas, Roberto Jimenes, Lionel Messi, Sergio Agüero, juanfran, radamel falcao, Felipe Luis were age mate and even played youth ball together

I dey shame for that boy i swear
The back pass master achieved things most of these names u mention here have not achieved. Obi have won every European club trophy. Success is not measured this way.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy For Teachers In Abuja by stepriho(m):
Hopez456:
Vacancy!!!

PHE, CRS, Music and ENGLISH Teachers are urgently needed in a private school around games village in Abuja.

NCE holders (strictly)

The PHE teacher must be a male

If interested or knows someone who is, quote me for more details
Please I want to apply for PHE. But it's BSC (Ed) PHE that I have. 08060137853
AdvertsRe: Library of ebooks for sale. by stepriho(m): 2:02am On Dec 02, 2018
uchmann:
Will be in the east in a few days. Email is mr.kontroll@aol.com; number 08082537267. I will call you.
. For your Cameroon pepper and quality cow skin contact me on 08060137853. I am in Taraba state but supply nation wide.
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu Is An Unrepentant Liar, IPOB Reacts To Abia Gov's ‘attack’ On Kanu by stepriho(m): 7:34pm On Feb 21, 2018
victorvezx:
U are sick in d head, a whole governor visit Kanu? Who does he think he is?
Ipob are very funny, Governor visit kanu!! Haha its funny who is kanu? They say the governor is using Kanu to regain strength, just the way kanu used ipob to revive his life after a failed estate agent hustle in uk. Who is folish you say some one is a hausa fulani yet he is ruling you and your people that shows how senseless these people are. He kanu the other time made a video calling Rochas hausa and the hausa man won election for two tenures to rule over them and they could not do anything yet they want to pullout of an entire country. I pity them.

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