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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 7:49pm On May 30, 2017
zaynie:



Common flaunt your boobies o...
Don't hide them.
Mother Nature bestowed them upon you.
Carry it with grace and pride kiss
Lol ok o il try

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 7:48pm On May 30, 2017
Damisinto:
My mummies In the house, from experience, how true is it that cold water is bad during pregnancy?
I drank cold through out pregnancy and my baby is fine.But it you having doubts don't take it.Just follow your heart

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Family / Re: New Born Baby Stuns Doctors As She Starts Walking Minutes After Being Born by StevensJojo(f): 8:58pm On May 29, 2017
grin what public holiday will cause

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Celebrities / Re: Nigerians Bombard Pia Mia’s Instagram Page After She Stole Phyno’s Song by StevensJojo(f): 2:08pm On May 29, 2017
EXLOVER:
When it comes to issues like this, you will know that the number of jobless people in this country is more than you can imagine. We have many pressing issues, yet this is what is off important to them. Where is Blackface?
Please stealing of any kind is despicable
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 2:00pm On May 29, 2017
Mamas what can i use to reduce my boobs o! They got humongous since i had mu baby.Im so shy of them i wear big clothes plus i read somewhere on this thread where someone talked about a woman who sells good bras in ikeja.I didnt take the description down and now iv been desperately looking for it.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 1:55pm On May 29, 2017
Damisinto:
Helllo my senior mummyz, please what soap and lotion is best for a new born baby. Hospital list at antenatal requested safeguard for delivery and coconut oil as lotion. How safe is it please? Also, what powder is best? Thanks
Iv been using coconut oil on my baby since birth and her skin looks good.
For the safeguard i guesa its for you

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 1:52pm On May 29, 2017
portable4real:
Stevensjojo

If you ask me I gat plenty story to tell on it.
Have took. shot of injection and it stopped for like 4 months. To tie wrapper when I want to back ds na war.to. breast feed na war.

I was told the incision is the permanent cure for it by three doctor hv seen.
Maybe I will go for it on Monday.
Wow i can't even unhook my bra at the back like before, i am now cautious when doing little things
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 1:50pm On May 29, 2017
jazzyjazz:


I've read that it goes with time. I'm 4 months postpartum and it's still there though not as severe as it used to be. I've decided not to be bothered about it anyway as they checked my calcium levels in the hospital and it was totally fine.
Ok. I hope mine goes too
Family / Re: Depressed Married Man by StevensJojo(f): 11:38am On May 29, 2017
fimi:
i dont have any problem with my marriage,why is that girls are d ones saying negative things to me?haba....
Thank God we all see through your ass

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Family / Re: I Don't Like The Way He Use Belt To Flog His Two Years Old For Refusing To Brush by StevensJojo(f): 11:35am On May 29, 2017
aureen:
Should adult belt be used to flog a two years old that do not want to brush his teeth?

As for me since I was born up till this moment my father and my uncle's who love me unconditionally has never used belt or anything to flog me, they only correct me with love.
Please lets visualize this thing- did he rub the belt on the child playfully on raise his hand like he was beating an adult?
Family / Re: I Don't Like The Way He Use Belt To Flog His Two Years Old For Refusing To Brush by StevensJojo(f): 11:34am On May 29, 2017
Xsem:
My dad use koboko, Cain, leather belt and hand to shape me and I did not die. Am everly grateful to him and mom.Stop sniffing into what is totally none of your biz OP.
where you 2 years old?!!! Geez.Op has a right to be concerned please

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Family / Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by StevensJojo(f): 11:33am On May 29, 2017
HardMirror:
I agree but it is troubling for a six year old to be singing of how she loves the way a boy touches her. Natural to love even from that age
Is it a song she sang or she said it outright.
If its a son then she is probably just repeating lyrics she heard.
If not men you have got to dig deep o.Its normal for a young girl to have crushes but which one is touch?
The mum has done the part she knows-beating her- that in itself has some good especially at her age but you or her dad neeeds to draw her closer befriend her, find out whats up and also direct her
Family / Re: How To Protect Our Children From Pedophiles by StevensJojo(f): 11:28am On May 29, 2017
liohan:
When Sani Yerima, a former governor of Zamfara state in Nigeria suggested Nigeria adopt thirteen years as the legal age for marriage, we all know that we are in for trouble. Earlier in 2003, Yerima had married an underage Egyptian, which ignite a lot of outrage. Yerima is not alone in this atrocity; there are millions of men and women, who are in the business of sexually exploiting underage children.
The former deputy Children’s commissioner in the UK, Sue Berelowitz remarked in 2015 that the number of offenders who abuse children sexually is on the high side such that if they are to be jailed would overcrowd UK prison with others yet to get a room in prison. For regions like Africa, which have unreliable statistics, an estimate would be hard to draw.
Now in the wake of these pedophiles prowling around looking for children, what can you do to ensure that your child is safe from these vampires?


Encourage your child to speak up

Few become known due to the child suffering a health challenge that is later linked to sexual activity.
Instead of waiting for an opportunity to tell your child about pedos, make sure to tell them now. Tell them to shout whenever that uncle tell them to pull of their pant, or the aunty who wants them to lick her private part deserves a yell.
Tell them to shout out no matter who it is. Most paedophilia cases are done by a close person.
Tell them the uses of the sexual organs. Do not beat around the bush, say it in a way that they would understand and do it with patience and confidence. When you allow others to teach your children about sex, you, the parent would suffer the consequences.

Avoid Bribing them

When you sense an uncomfortable association between your child and an older person, the worst thing to do is to promise your child something in return for telling you what’s going on. Maybe it’s biscuit that you promise the child or anything children like. It might seems efficient only when nothing is going on but if that’s not the case, it might interest you to know that the predator is giving that child more cookie in a day than you’d ever promise the child in a week.
Try to talk to the child in a way that he/she would understand, don’t be harsh but make sure that you aren’t bribing the child.

Shield no one

As the world’s madness increases, there is also a rise of ‘pedo-incest’. This happens when a relative starts to abuse the child sexually instead of protecting him. Many of such cases happens with the stepparent of the child. Some rare cases involves a closer relative.
When you notice something fishy about your child and a relative, on your own, take the child to a health facility and do all necessary test. If your fear is unfounded, fine. But, if it is justified, ask your child to tell you the truth. Then, you confront the person, tell him/her that you’re reporting the issue to a security agency and off you go.
If anyone want to intimidate you after you report, cry out. If you want to be daring like my friend James Shamsi, who ran a Facebook ad to expose someone who scammed him, you can also run a Facebook ad and for less than $10 you can get justice.

Avoid Lecherous jokes

A while ago, I visited a coastal village in the Niger-Delta region of Nigeria. While there at a house that doubles as a beer parlour, I noticed a girl of about 13. She was speaking with an elderly woman at the far western section of the house. One man who was playing draught asked the woman whether the girl was a child of a woman. She answered in the affirmative. Then, the man made a remark of how children do grow fast in this age.
In what was surprising to me, the woman grabbed the breast of the girl and said, “Can’t you see how big her breast is now?”, and the men all laughed.
Jokes like these might seem harmless but it does carry weight with a lot of Implication like the “Why did the woman cross the road” joke. In 2013, Thomae and co carried out a study that was published in the Journal of Social, Evolutionary and Cultural Psychology. In the study, it was shown that men who are exposed to sexist jokes seem to condone sexual abuse.

Avoid sexualizing your children

With every passing day, the world is becoming more liberal about what we wear. Clothes that are once regarded as too revealing are now going out of vogue as too conservative. It is not uncommon to see guys wearing clothes that show their penile map. For ladies, most can’t feel comfortable in clothes that don’t show their cleavage.
Nevertheless, as it would be, most designers are now making similar designs for children, clothes that reveal their shapes and their sexual organs.
This is not a defense for pedophiles, because pedophiles have been shown to suffer from mental disorders as reported by Biology Letters that a pedophile brain is wired to see immature children attractive. Sexualizing them would complicate things. Thus, it’s like saying that you’re leaving your house lock open in a thief-laden area. While, you’d disparage the thief, there’s no point standing in harm’s way.
Wear your children clothes that fit but not one that looks like a painting on their body. They can decide to wear revealing clothes when they reach an age where they are legally responsible for their action.
You wouldn’t be with your child at all time, ensure that you take basic steps to protect them as your first responsivility as a parent is to keep your child safe.

Honest Abisi Liohan
Thanks for this.This phenomenon is more common than we care to talk about.
A lot of women keep quiet and even shield the abusers because of "shame!
Family / Re: Why Is Everyone Not Believing Me by StevensJojo(f): 11:22am On May 29, 2017
Oyinlomobambam:



Doesn't know how to complain
But here you are complaining on nairaland smh

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Family / Re: These Resources Can Boost Your Marriage And Parenting Skills by StevensJojo(f): 11:20am On May 29, 2017
Are they ebooks odr paperbacks
shobam110:
Here are the list of books that can turn your marriage and family life around.





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~ Life without strife by Joyce Meyer
~ Making your marriage work by Joyce Meyer
~The purpose and power of Love & Marriage by Myles Munroe
~ Understanding the purpose and power of woman by Myles Munroe
~ Single, Married, Separated & life after Divorce by Myles Munroe
~ Waiting & Dating by Myles Munroe
~ Keys to living Single by Myles Munroe
~ The Woman question by Kenneth E Hagin
~ When Mothers pray by Duncan Williams
~ A ceremony of Marriage by Kenneth Copeland
~ Sex, God & Marriage by
Johann C. Arnold
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~ Why Men Love Bitches BT Sherry Argov
~ Men Are from Mars,
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~ How to Build a Happy Family by Bo Sanchez
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~ Sex is not the Problem by Joshua Harris
~ Boy Meets Girl :Say Hello to Courtship
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~ Why you Act the way you do by Tim LaHaye
~ Christian Marriage 101: Tips for a healthy marriage by Joey Bauer
~ Meditations on Christian Marriage by Stephen Kurtzahn
~ The five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
~ The Power Of Prayer To Change Your Marriage by
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~ You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis Chan
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~ Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken by Cindy Beall
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~ Devotions for a Sacred Marriage: A Year of Weekly Devotions for Couples by Gary Thomas
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Fashion/Clothing Market / Re: Urefined SHEA-BUTTER & Virgin COCONUT OIL For Sale by StevensJojo(f): 11:28am On May 27, 2017
erne:
It reliefs from cold and catarrh..
Please is delivery free?Location is opebi
Fashion / Re: . by StevensJojo(f): 10:28am On May 27, 2017
hairstylist:
Thanks to everyone that sent a message. Pls keep the order coming.

Order your wig today. From as little as 10k.

Please do lace braids wig?
Family / Re: When U Finally Beat Her She Will Run To Social Media For Sympathy by StevensJojo(f): 12:29pm On May 20, 2017
I don't believe this story.I dont think any woman would do this kind of thing.Women that are willing to sell their blood and souls to take care of their children
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 12:14pm On May 20, 2017
jazzyjazz:


Hmmm if the doctor says incising it will stop the pain then you should do it. I had (still have) carpel tunnel syndrome after pregnancy. The first 2 months were very tough. In fact one day I almost dropped my son after picking him up from his rocker. I went to the hospital after that. What I'm trying to say is that I'd it's so bad that you can't carry your baby then follow your doctor's orders
Please are you saying it does not go? How long ago did you have your baby? Mine is getting worse instead of better
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 12:10pm On May 20, 2017
portable4real:
Good afternoon mamas in the house.
please I need a candid advise on this issue of mine.

two months after delivery I had this severe pain on my left wrist tendon. it was so painful that to Carry my ds was a problem. I googled it and the condition was de quervain. I and hubby tried so many things like cold compression, hot compression, use of analgesic cream n drug. my hubby is a physiotherapist. but none work. I went to visit an orthopedic surgeon and he advised I took steroid injection around December which knocked out the pain since then. he told me like wise Google that it might go completely or resurface.

And that if it resurface they will have to incisce it to release the sheat causing it.

now it is back with full force even with pepperish pain sensation.
went to see another orthopedic consultant and said d best thing is to incise it.

but my problem now is hubby is saying what is wrong with me that I want to incise dat is d pain not bearable. And I know say not because of anything just dat his profession and orthopedic na cat n dog.

me I want to go for the incision and forget about the pain but am confused and am in serious pain...

please advise a confused mum: zaynie,feddy,jayamama,jazzyjazz,, ahnie, all sabi mamas

and if anyone has had dis condition before..
I currently have it o!
I have been bearing it but the thing is getting worse.i read online that it may go on its own but my baby is now 3 months and the pain is worse than ever.I periodically let out a short scream when i twist my hands in certain ways.
Pls how does this incision work?

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Family / Re: The Best Legacy To Give Your Child by StevensJojo(f): 9:28am On May 10, 2017
Knowledge and love of God.Not on list but that is the most important thing you can give your child
Family / Re: I'm Worried. Pls Help! by StevensJojo(f): 4:53pm On May 09, 2017
dingbang:
Why can't u mind ur business
Lol but its his compound.If the police finds something he may be roped in grin

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Family / Re: Have I Disappointed My Unborn Child? by StevensJojo(f): 4:50pm On May 09, 2017
Ahijo1990:
I'm a troubled soul.

Here's my story in a concise form.


I am 27, working graduate and dating a 27 year old working graduate too. 5 months into our relationship, my girlfriend became pregnant.


She expected that I come see her people ASAP as they will lose their heads on finding out. But I'm not just ready to settle down yet... at least not until the next 2-3 years or so.

Meanwhile she has someone disturbing her ever since we started dating. The guy claims to be madly in love with her as he wants marriage according to him. Now my girl told him it can't work based on her condition and he still persisted he doesn't mind and will marry her and take care of the baby as his'.

I swore to my girl that I will never be alive and see my child growing up to think another man is its father; so she said she will have to terminate the pregnancy. After some thought, I felt guilty at the prospects of the baby losing the chance to live because of my ego and strong-headiness. So I asked her to keep the baby but I will be in its life and she agreed. But the baby will grow in the foster parent's house.


Baby will be due in January 2018 and the new guy is planning to settle down with her. I haven't told my Parents and don't think I will because they won't take it lightly as I am the only son plus my mom has been pushing me to settle down since but I don't want to rush into marriage as I will definitely rush out frustrated if I marry when I'm not yet ready to do so.


I just feel like I failed my unborn child already by denying it the opportunity to grow up properly under its father's tutelage. I really wanted to be 100% involved in any of my child's life and early development moreso my first child.


My girl said she's ready to wait till anytime I'm ready but she's a woman with a biological time ticking down furiously. I wouldn't want to waste her time really so I advised her to give the new guy a chance and eventually she will grow to love him.



Nowadays, I walk around feeling like the world is hanging on my shoulders. embarassed embarassed embarassed




Any mature advice will be immensely appreciated.




Thanks in advance.
I dont think you want to be with a woman who is so willing to casually choose between you and another man.
What Nigerian guy will be willing to get married to a woman pregnant for another man?
What self-respecting woman sleeps with two different men without protection?
Don't let anyone force you into marriage.
From your write-up,i deduce that you need to involve older people so she does not stop you from having a relationship with the child when the baby is born.
What a schemer!
Marry her and watch her turn your life upside down.Then do a DNA test when the baby is born to ensure it's yours.
Once ascertained give the child all the love and attention in the world.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 4:30pm On May 09, 2017
zingy:
My one year and 2 months old (i.e. 14 months old) baby girl enrolled in creche today and i thibk she may have been fingered by the caretaker. As we returned from the creche, i bathed her and as i raised her leg to diaper her i noticed the vaginal opening appeared wider and red with a flappy skin below. I tried to touch her to know whether she feels pain around but nothing really. But my mind hasn't been at rest since. Should i tell her dad? Should i take her to hospital tomorrow. I am just confused.
Please take her to the hospital.You know your husband better follow your heart but use wisdom.
Dont take her there again until youv cleared all doubt.All is well IJN
Romance / Re: Help! I Am 26 And A 41-Year-Old Prophetess Wants To Have Sex With Me! by StevensJojo(f): 11:31am On May 09, 2017
praisekeyzz:
Hello NLs....

I've been so disturbed about the strangest thing ever happening to me for the past one month.

I met an elderly woman early April at my barber' shop where I do come to charge my phone at night whenever there is no power supply(same as the woman). I went the 2nd night, still met this same woman on the same mission at the shop. She noticed my hairstyle and asked me what style it is, I was like it was just a partial dreadlocks but I haven't locked it fully to make it firm. And she was like she likes it.

And she went on to ask my name and some details about myself which I did. And when I told her i'm an igbo guy she was soo happy and told me clearly that she likes me more.

I was already admiring her as a mother(meanwhile we already exchanged contact) not until she called me on the phone 3weeks after we met and asked me to come to her house. After entertaining me with dishes, she moved close to me and started showing me videos on her phone...while scrolling through the videos i saw lots of matured porn and I was so shocked. She asked me what was wrong? that I should relax. I told her this is not right! I told her she could be my mom. She was just like it doesn't matter.

The most shocking part of it is that this woman claims to be a prohetess and a minister. Even on her facebook timeline, she addressed herself as a prophetess. I could disclose her facebook account but something inside of me tells me it will be too cruel and unjust of me...please people all I need is advice I don't wanna fall into temptation. She lives on the same street with me. She's new there......Please I need advice!

Please dont listen to people encouraging you to sleep with her.They have no insight to life.
If she were an ordinary 41 year old i wouldn't care less but you said she claims to be a prophetess.You better run! RUN RUN RUN.Let the heels of your shoes behitting the back of your head as you run.Run o! Hmmm!
Prophetess that wants to smash a 26 year old can only mean one thing-she is diabolical. You know earth hath no fury than a woman scorned.Dont give her an opportunity for her to use your destiny to charge that her phone.
A word..

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Webmasters / Re: Help, My Alexa Ranking Is Dropping Very Fast by StevensJojo(f): 9:35am On May 08, 2017
skales67:


Visitors per day and Pageviews per day are 2 different things o!
i know please
Webmasters / Re: Help, My Alexa Ranking Is Dropping Very Fast by StevensJojo(f): 8:06am On May 08, 2017
GoodYYor:
As of Sunday last week, my alexa ranking was @ 3,162,415 then i used to cheack it some days during the week and it was dropping small small... as of now, my alexa ranking has entered 7million......

pls webmasters, whats the cause of this

Here is the screenshot of my ranking and the dropping

Years ago someone once told me that alexa is a bitch.
Lol.
Has your traffic reduced.Stop chasing alexa and focus on your traffic and building your website.I used to do that till i noticed that there are gross discrepancies with the way alexa ranks sites.Some sites with higher traffic ranks lower than sites with lower traffic.
I have a site that gets over 10k pageviews per day.It is rank is not as good as another that get less than 5k pageviews per day.
Stop letting alexa give you hypertension.
Family / Re: When Your Joy Is Not Complete by StevensJojo(f): 8:06pm On May 07, 2017
Acidosis:


It isn't arrant nonsense bro... It is arrant fu.ckery


All you've said is a bitter FACT.
What is "bitter" about that fact? Are all the men in the society suddenly useful because they are men?

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Family / Re: When Your Joy Is Not Complete by StevensJojo(f): 7:59pm On May 07, 2017
Blissquare:
If u condemn urself to this extent, why should ur husband not condemn u? You both have the same mind set. As a woman, u knw what it is to carry a baby for 9 months and both mother and child survive. Still, u are disatisfied cos u love a useless man more than ur offspring. Take ur time b4 the people praying for just one would come after u!
God bless you.

I was about to say same.OP How you see yourself already defeats you.
Work on your mindset.This is 2017 please.I hope you are financially independent and have something you are doing.Show your children the utmost love and live your life.
Please don't stress yourself over this.I have a girl and even my demeanour alone is enough tp stop people from talking trash.Only ignoramuses still think gender is an indices for success.
And please you already have 4 kids, don't "keep trying" just because you are looking for a boy.
We married women have really suffered in the hands of these naija husbands..I just can't.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 10:31am On May 05, 2017
olubankemi:
Hmm, good evening Mamas, I appreciate all concerned mothers and your inputs.

The Doctor said we should first rule out abuse and treat it as infection and rash, hmmm. He never had anything like that before going out.

I really coudnt face her to challenge her cos I don't want to accuse her wrongly, however I called her and asked if she did touch him and she said no.

The girl has so many bad vices that if not that am just trying to see her like a daughter I would have since driven her back home. When she came initial she plays with his P.enis and I rebuked her immediately, this girl will do things you have repeatedly instructed her not to once you bleep your eyes. Am so fed up of her.

He is a okay today, atleast no cries when I wash him this morning and this evening.

If I begin to narrate all her nonsense attitude am sure everyone will say then why am I still keeping her. Maybe cos am just pitying her mum. And keeping her in my place is like helping the mum.

I have sat her down and talked to her, make her feel good and free but chai, on Tuesday I was so saddd when she turned her ownself madam when I was away! My house became like a house of dirt and left them to cry and cry.childrenn that don't ever cry. I no send her, she go make amala for them, I wan craze, when I already served their cereal before leaving- she kept their food in the freezer and made amala for them! As in undone amala (I saw the left over and I wept), these little ones ate this thing? I have never asked her to cook for me or the kids, never, so I don't know the gut she got to go make amala for them. She made them stay in the kitchen too, what I never allowed when am around, what if an accident happened? And she also fried meat on top! Haaaa.

E tire me, I no fit to narate again. Her issues too many.

Well, she's got the last warning!


Please i beg you send her away.I don't care for the funny cooking she did or her dirtiness or maybe she even steals or lies or is even lazy.The red flag is she was playing with your baby's privates.There will always be a reason for them to be alone with her.You can be even sleeping in your room and they will be with her.You are not omnipresent o.Don't joke with that.Please send her away.Boys are also molested and it affects them.Don't gamble with this o.Better safe than sorry.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 10:11am On May 05, 2017
sugah:


Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize.

If you check back some pages, some mamas listed what has worked for them. Personally, Dove soap and E45 moisturizer works for us.
Thanks! I did it for a couple of days now and it is clearing.All i did was rub in coconut oil as the moisturiser.Thank you

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by StevensJojo(f): 7:58am On May 02, 2017
Hello mamas.Please help me o.My daughter suddenly had a dry patch on the side of her forehead.It looks like baby exzema
What can i put to clear it off.When i touch it if feels like paper.The skin there is a little discoloured like exzema.Its very dry.Please help

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