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That is wrong.She should sue the mofos.Such animalistic behaviour.

I'm confused.Are we not supposed to give out of love.When did God become a money doubler?

cassyrooy:
12. Iwobi jetting back to the Emirate Stadium after scoring twice to down a Messi-less Argentina.

Hello please can i have a means to reach you?Like a phone number or email?I need to speak to you on something

Some men can make a woman look older than her age

Lol.Fanaticism.She couldnt wait to do it the right way.
She had to apply hot iron on her own flesh.Seems like a demonic act to me �

Whatever you do ensure you get evidence.Its very important.A video evidence is best.Dont let her face show for privacy sakes.If you don't get evidence, the table will easily be turned against you and the neigbhour. To do this, don't let the molester suspect anything and keep the girl in the dark as she can easily be brainwashed.Also when you get this evidence, keep a copy somewhere safe, maybe in the cloud- Google drive is a great option.The law enforcements agents in Nigeria are not trustworthy.Even if they don't do anything, an evidence like that is enough to start a social media movement that will deal with him and help the little girl.
You need to help that girl. Pleaseeee!

Gulderbottle85:
Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

Skipuru:
A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria so it would be difficult to find a hospital that you would trust to follow the best/standard procedures.Aside from that,she is not even willing.
I know its heartbreaking to see your little sis ter who you had such great dreams for practically ruin her life.Leave her be my brother.Leave her be.Let her face the consequences of her actions.The painful part is she doesnt know what she has done burdening herself with the responsibility having a child at such a young age.Just leave her to have the baby.What you need to do is ensure she has another chance.
Please dont force her to marry that guy to cover the shame.After she has the baby,let her get her education.Educate her so she doesnt get pregnant again by mistake.Help her take care of the baby when she needs help.And all will be fine.Get law enforcement agents to ensure that man does not defile her again.Isn't that peadofilia?
Geez

yachal:
I really bless God for His mercies endureth forever. I live very close to that area. I was abt to go to total station but a friend held me down with gist

Some minutes later while i was locking my door, i heard the first explosion. Mhen,the whole place lit up like it was 12noon. Out of curiousity i went closer( was close to the taxi park/shashee area) I stopped wen i saw a lady sitting on the floor crying,obviously she ran from the makert after the first explosion

I stood down n tried to ask why she was ceying?what she saw,or if any of her family was affected.That question increased her tears, she laid her head on my knees n wept bitterly like a little child. 5mins later low n behold the second explosion sounded.Where i was i could feel the heat.Before u could say 'Jesus is lord' everyone started running. I ran bare-footed towards the shashee area for hours in the rain (come see the way oloshos dey run)

Their was a power cut,many oloshos fell into gutter while running. The heat from the inferno can still be felt.I was so scared, i asked myself 'is this how i wud just die just like that?'

We adviced ourselves to avoid filling stations cos the gas might link up...A good samaritian driving a pick up van offered to give us a ride to adenta estate. We where just sooo many, only abt twenty of us could get itFrom the back of d van we could still see the fire.So scaring.I just wonder how hell fire wud be. Lord please dont let me go to hell.

Am presently at a strangers house at adenta, cant sleep ,very wet n cold .And am still trying to recover from the shock..

Lord have mercy!! Thank God for keeping you.

tosyne2much:
When you marry a morally disciplined woman, instilling these safety practices in her child won't be hard for her

Also, parents should learn to discipline their children never to be staring at visitors when they are eating or become clingy to them the moment you serve them food. I hate that shit

Haha ha the second paragraph got me rolling on the floor

soberdrunk:
Hahaha! So the gist about this lady and her 'overhyping' attitude is true. See the way she wants to deceive the 'average mind' as if Cnn did a 'special' report on her and Amanpour hosted it, do not be fooled, she was simply featured on "Cnn Marketplace Africa' that has featured so 'many' Nigerians and Africans who own businesses, they have even featured shoemakers, farmers etc.......

Have you even been featured in the marketplace section on nairaland? Stop trying to undermine a hardworking woman's achievement please

I need a social media manager to work with me.

You don't have to have experience .The candidate should have
Spend a lot of time on social media and online generally
Be witty and Smart.
Must love sports
Be a fast learner.


Youl work remotely.
If you are interested,drop your contact in the comments and il reach out to you.Thanks.

Giddyperson:
Choi this is so hard. All the semi-semi questions.

What next after cheating.
If it's texting and sexting and all the other emotional stuff but no actual fuckery then I'd forgive him after some initial drama. And only after he's managed to convinced me he's stopped.

If he actually gets and keeps a side chic that he sleeps with then I'm out. Might take me months to move out but I will, life is too short to be married to a guy who sleeps around. He would never let me take his kids so that has to be done while he's away. I might later agree to let him take them on some holidays

What constitutes repentance? For social media affairs I'd have to be given all your passwords and access to your phone, login to all your sm accounts. For real life cheating I don't care about repentance. Once a cheat, always a cheat. We might make up again in ten years or something tho, if you remain celibate and beg me

Logistics: I know they say keep a stash of money so you can always leave if a marriage goes awry. But I find keeping a 'running away' money to be almost as deceitful as cheating. You'd have to cheat first then I'd start saving my exit money so that next time you do it I'd be ready. I believe there would always be a next time for the cheat. Besides it's easier to make a case for yourself when he's done it twice than just once.

For all these randy chronic cheaters that you keep finding text messages from other girls on their phones, girls panties, other girls calling me, me calling other girls, you beating me. I've never been able to befriend, date talkmore marry such men. If I ever find myself in such a situation, I'd full scale move back to my parent's house and never go back. I'd make all my independence plans from under my parent's roof. Again I'd still let him have the kids for holidays.

If he's not ok with the time I allocate for him and the kids then we'd do the whole divorce court thing. If not then I'd live on my own until he initiates divorce. I'd never remarry neither would I initiate divorce because did you know there are some government positions you can't hold if you ain't married and Nigerians are just too bush to handle divorcees. I'd keep the name, I'm not gonna be stigmatized just because someone couldn't control his preek.

Why won't you remarry?What if you fall in love with some else.

delishpot:
What relates to Egypt in that photo? Women, learn to support your kind.

Comment of the month!

Jesus.May his soul rest in peace.What will make a young guy slum p and dies.God!
Me and every memberof my family will live to ripe old age.In Jesus namr amen!

LilSmith55:
Did it happens everytime?

I'm so sorry but this is super hilarious�.The op posted this 2 years ago.Are you saying that the guy at 20 may still be bedwetting?

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

You are a busybodu.You just dont want to admit it.

Iduatei:
You sound like my neighbor and her son, this woman would defend her son ehh. Even if e is caught in the act she would still defend him..... In her words wen e was caught stealing, na small pikin na you no go blame ham at age 17 oh

She's breeding an Evans.

Monstertrucks:
Thanks all!!! Ifyalways arthurshelly jingiss and the rest of everyone who showed support. He has refunded the money thanks!

Thank God!

helinues:
Seriously, i do not know may be their great great grandfather kept some money with me that made most of them to believe I have money. Fine things are going fine but I am still looking for more better life. Need to save a lot in order to achieve my dream.. A friend borrowed $400 like 2 years ago, he never even talked about it. I have dodged others but this particular person has been on my neck for months now. He needs N500,000 .. Just imagine..

My problem now is " Never lend money you can't afford to lose" . N500,000 no be wasa.. How should I handle the situation without hurting his feeling cos I am not even sure of lending N100,000 talkess of N500,000

What i do in situations like this is to dash the person a fraction of thr money.Like i say i dont have that money but let me dash you this.
It works all the time.Both your money and your relationship is saved.You can dash the guy 10k or whatever you can afford

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Philpham:
Men will always have a way to paint their wives bad and look like saints when they are actually the ones maltreating women and cheating.
OP must be the cause of the wife's problem and the cause of his broken home. He should stop crying like a menstruating woman on NL and go and solve his problems. Nonsense.

Most menstruating women dont cry.Silly allusion.Sit down

africandollar:
I wanted to say she should go and marry but remembered she already been there and done that...all the same, madam please go back to Maje.

Why should she go back to a man who did all sorts of horrible things to her.You think you are being funny?Wow.

Im so loving this.Just what i need.Iv been conflicted recently.

evansjeff:
I always wonder which Glo people are talking about because over here in Benin, Glo remains the best and fastest network for browsing.

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smithsydny:
I am a sabbatherian till date.. From childhood I got the right orientation I needed to life spiritually and physically..

Am forever grateful to my parents..

But there are those who didn't still learn anything from there. Its still the first approach our parents gives us that determine how we understand life and reason to it..

Your last paragraph is do deep

Please I really need your responses on this one.
What church did attend as a child when growing up.How did it impact you?Would you want your child to grow up in that same environment or what would you like to change about the church?

ITbomb:
Yeah, superheroes, it not easy to open your legs for someone who is unwilling to pay your bride price

Do you know a widow is also a single mother.May God forgive your judgemental soul.

Richy4:
Hmmm!!!!! That was an Ajegunle treatment....The guy you were advising does not reside in Nigeria...Let him try it, he will be cooling off in prison for 3years or more....People don't get away with it easily like the way Nigerians gets away with anything in our father land more especially domestic abuse like the one you mentioned.....And you know that ignorance is not an excuse in the court of law....

Like i was shocked when he narrated it with such gusto.Besides the girl seems wierd to.Like a tout.They seem compatible.lol

flexxyworld:
Smiles

Hellp please can i have your contact.I need to reach you.