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Numero9:
Cheating is for whoever decides to cheat. I personally do not care if my partner cheats. Shes serving. Na her life (and body) not mine. I choose to live my life the way I feel is right and embraced by the society.

Las Las there are implications to whatever decision we make in life.

Do you know that one can pay for another person error? Imagine a lady who committed 12 abortions, she got married but no issue. Both husband and the wife will pay for it heavily. So mind you, her life is your life.

God bless Mustapha

OmoAlakija:
You forgot to mention her being so private with her phone , or fixing nails and lashes when y'all not planning on going out and a few hours later , she gives you excuses that her mother is sick or someone died in their house ? So she can go out with other men

You forgot to mention how disrespectful she might start becoming

You forgot to mention how her timing no longer adds up , or when she disappear for hours ?

I've been there before and its so painful when the person u loved the most and trusted the most has been going out with other men behind your back and she acts so sweet to you , always swearing to you that she'll never cheat even when you don't ask her , giving men head..

I forgave her and we moved on , she's changed ever since then but guess what ? She woke the devil in me coz I've screwed over 12 girls after she cheated so I'm also pretending to be real now she's just noting but a sex object , my love playing role is A +

You will soon be a family man but that your later behaviour might not help.

DenreleDave:
Must they tell us?


Concerned professor salary in university
https://www.nairaland.com/5867181/salary-nigerian-professor-after-ippis

I think I support the govt on this... Most of our Nigerians professor spends research grant on frivolities....

B4, govt employs first class student to lecture but now, even PhD student don't av a job.. Why?lecturer have take the space, imagine 1 professor lecturing in 3 universities. What happened to PhD student dt need jobs, first class needs job..


I just need a connection to Canada, I will be gone for good.

But I can't start with Ghana first coz their currency better pass our own

Don't mind them.

humilitypays:
Only foolish men will argue this or start defending ladies. The op is right. If you feel your woman is different then STFU and wait for time, stop defending what you dont know. Most corpers fuckup a lot...I always advice guys, don't marry an undergraduate girl or a girl going for NYSC, wait for her to finish and whatever she is then accept it, don't put yourself on a tight corner girls don't usually have sense until they have made several mistakes in their life and by then, they are done with schooling, done with NYSC and their stay at home wondering what next for them in life brings their senses back and draw some closer to God.


Undergraduate girls are for fun not for marriage; don't say you were not warned!! Guys telling you these things are the same guys fvcking these undergraduate girls and coepers for free, listen to them and learn, you are not Puyol or Sergio Ramos that must defend everything you see, learn and move on

I like people who don't deceive others. You are one of them.

You did not commit any error.I saw with my eyes, ladies enjoy prix alot during NYSC.

Coldie:
That's how when I served in delta state I know a corper that was engaged but was living with a boy in the same room during the nysc.

After them blow blow am back and front she go come back dae tell the mumu engagee why is that girl calling ur phone.

And the engagee was a naive, all these anambra semi illiterate businessmen, way want marry graduate.

You were correct! Where I served there was this lady, very decent in appearance, and a very gentle boy. They did not greet each other outside, but one night I just discovered that this lady was laughing around one a.m. I then sneaked out of my room to check through her window. Lo and behold I saw the two of them "enjoying life". The fiancee of the girl used to come from a very far place after two months interval to satisfy the lady but the useless boy did not know that the lady cohabitated
With another boy.

jazon:
This man is upto something.......

The next Governor

Pugochi

People that are not affected will always say It's a Scam

The first day I was in Calabar I thought I was in uk

The car to be used for B and C

You are a man

Freshiest Nigga ever liveth

Reasoning being

Try all the connections that have to secure a good job. Take care of your mother

Welcomme:
Take your mum back to the village. You guys should gather money for her let her start a petty trade. Don't allow the irresponsible father of yours to know all the moves you are taking.

Obviously good

You did well. You acted right. I stayed with my uncle, the wife bought clothes for everybody. Very unique woman. Your problem did not start today, she has been suspecting you concerning womenhood.

You have done honourably well.

Juliusmalema:
Why sending them back. They deserve the right to be in Lagos with their cows and cattle.

They should rather be quarantined for 15 days and if no sign of covid-19 then they should be released to the society and Lagos at large.

The constitution guarantees them that..

Hope you stay in Lagos, give them the address.

Type532:
I really hope the prediction of Melinda gates doesn't come to pass in Kano.

When she spoke people thought she spit rubbish. Those people are aware that We don't follow instruction.

If the woman is mentally ill, nothing could be done.

Kobicove:
OP, answer this question honestly...

If you marry this lady will you be able to provide her with the level of comfort she is already used to since she was born?

Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage these days, money is the main ingredient required!

Love is for the young boys, responsibility is for the adults.

meetme01:
Op, to be sincere, if you don't upgrade before you get married to that lady if eventually things is sorted. You would have issues in your home.

See, it's not a curse. Married folks can attest to this.

Her standard is much higher academically, financially etc than yours. You have been seen as a gold digger. She would want to reside in Lagos due to her job. Not mainland Lagos but on the island. Can you afford accommodation in Lekki or or VI.? She would have much say in the home because her income is much higher and her parents would be supportive. If you're not careful, your home would be dictated by her parents. Before you know, you would turn to their houseboy. At the long run, a hit or foul language on the lady will end the marriage.

Please, yoruba would say, ile ola niyonu. Another says, iyawo burku se fe, ano buruku o se ni (You can mange a bad wife but the in-law should not be harboured).

If you like yourself, make her your best friend and remain best of friends. She would love it that way and any request for support or assistance, she would be glad.

Marriage is not only about love o.

You nailed it! You are a realist.

You supposed to have cried earlier, today is not a day to think you have lost her. When she was going for her Msc, why didn't you go for your PGD? Let me tell you, in marriage people consider economy first even before God. Don't be deceived. Their child is their future, you are a future of your parents. Go and find your level!

You cannot satisfy human beings. A leader must be wicked. Ingrates all over!

Ask her to bring him home for sex in your house, tell her that you will excuse them for five days in your matrimonial bed. Tell her that you will give her 5days to enjoy herself in your house. Ask her maybe to leave house for both of them. Be serious about it. Maybe she will sense danger

You have started digging your grave. Your own grave so to say

That's arassment

Okoroawusa:
This is murder!... which kind yeye drowning be that?

The last and the older among them made me suspect that something is fishing.

wallex1983:
This story is much. Simple answer is:

BUHARI IS WEAK

That is the amswer. Enough of too much story.

Melinda was right.