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I just lost my job. I have been praying for weeks now. A real Estate man that was counting money. Only grace can lift my soul!!!

NarcissistKing:
You set boundaries by building respect. When you're good to your extended family, it will make it easier most times. No family will respect a man that is dissociating himself and his immediate from them. Yes, some families are very bad but not all. Some men are the cause of the family disputes after tgeir death.

You can't expect a family that you neglected or you didn't support while you are alive to treat your wife and kids well after your demise. I always tell people that it's good to empower your family if you have the capacity to do it. Some men are just greedy and too proud that they prefer to be the only successful person in the family.

Are you expecting Davido's aunts and uncles to be fighting over his father's property after his demise? His father is not even the richest among his siblings.

Yes sir

DON'T LEAVE.

You expected her to be alone for 2years. You are a wicked man!!!
That place has to be greaced for better lubrication, so that it will not be a rusted roperty

How many goats yoruba indegenes have stolen? Discipline them and let them go please

somehow:
You hardly hear about anyone being killed in court here.

You also hardly hear about criminals escaping on their way to court multiple times.

But the killers were killed as well. In nigeria, they would have escaped!

I did my NYSC in that village. Initially I thought it was weird, but as time went by, I got to know much about the village. But kpekus available plenty...in fact, I tried no be small. The village is under Obudu. We refer to it as Inside Inside. Please greet Patience for me ooo!!!

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Leave technically, talk to ladies. God will set you free from bondage you have systematically locked yourself

Iyaebe:
Six months and if nothing meaningful is in sight then you go your separate ways.

you make sense

IS ALLEGRI TALKING ON THE RUNWAY?

IS ALLEGRI TALKING ON RUNWAY?

dragunov:
Destruction of Lagos or destruction in Lagos? This guy and his choice of words. Let me even put that aside. Pray, how did Twitter help in destroying Lagos o? I have heard a lot about you and your hunger to associate with power at all levels even the abominable ones.

Buses were destroyed

[quote author=MemoriesAndMe post=101417108]How did nairaland save you? Is it like you search for the name of the company and read about other people's experiences or how?[/quote
I just checked fake jobs and my interview venue came up.

God bless you bro. I would have attended such but nairaland saved me. Nairaland is my best friend since 2009

[quote author=lascos912 post=101251633]Na her toto dey hungry me [/quote
Magun is smiling at you.

You impregnated your wife, you still expected her to go and be farming for you. Lazy somebody, please don't kill her

Is becoming useless gradually.

Only this lady, after 20times, I discovered there was no love. I tried to but no way.

Heaven helps those who help themselves.

Very handsome boy!

URGENT!!!
A female ACCOUNTANT NEEDED@AJAH
dami_forreal@yahoo.com

Op. I had one. She almost destroyed my life.

So that south, west east can go and beg abijo for job. God will not allow him

Then, is no more NYSC. N STANDS FOR NATIONAL, NOT INTERNATIONAL

2dice01:
Your are the King your House

Tell wifey when her mom is gone
You dont condole families visiting from time to time
and if any of them wanna visit you must be informed first
Be serious about it

But if her family member come again with any notification

Don't come home till he/she leaves

Good

Please if someone helps you out. Help me too. This same thing happens to me. They are removing #900 from my acct from time to time. I did not see as a big problem until I saw your post. Please ooo

100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?

But Oct is still far. You can make adjustment before that time. I planned my wedding in last Saturday of August, I got married in first week of November. I delebrately used canopy instead of hall. I used the money for hall to buy land. Don't be in haste to cancel. Please

9Too:
These are secondary problems which emanated from the main cause. if you want to know the source of Nigerian problem search for Mr herold Smith and Mrs Carol Smith interview on fatherland tv...for the record, Mr Smith was a british labor senior officer in 1953 or thereabouts that presided over the first census in Nigeria and on how the first election was rigged by British and Mrs Carol Smith his wife was a secretary to MD B.P oil company if I'm correct.

You are of course

It's not his fault. It was a grammatical blunder. It's problem of expression. Enemies just began their campaign against 2023. Elliot should be aware.

Our problem is not the leaders. Our value system is faulty. We praise the rich so much. Even a pastor said is the richest pastor in the whole world. Religious leaders will always ask you to pray not to be the tail, but the head. Everyone always wants to be the leader for him to be celebrated. Sowore is fighting for himself. He should rather nominate someone else who has not contested and lost. Most of our leaders that failed to be president in this country fought for themselves. Allow people to nominate you. Don't nominate yourself.

The secret behind struggle for 2023.

Murtala in mind