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Wilgrea7:
I've looked, and found no evidence of a god. That doesn't mean to imply that I know how everything works or where everything came from.

Frankly I don't, and I have more questions now than when I was a Christian. Nonetheless, I've found no evidence for what people refer to as a god, at least in the classical sense.

LordReed:
Why can't we be the result of natural processes? Have you seen a god making anything the way you see humans making paintings, buildings and so on?

MrBrownJay1:
yeye nonsense from an obvious ignoramus hypocrite ...
look at him with his trimmed beard while his holybook is very specific about it.

Leviticus 19:27
“‘Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard.

plastic surgery is the same as going to the dentist... if you have no problem going to the dentist and fixing your teeth for convenience, then thats exactly the same as someone doing plastic surgery.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Why are we here?
Please don't say we are here to serve God. We could have served him in other places instead of earth..

Why are we here?

DkJay:
Lol. These ones are lost. Fornication is not a sin? Bible said a man will leave his parents and be joined to his wife. And they twain shall become one flesh.

What other joining is more obvious when something came out of you was used to create your partner, whom God himself approved of and brought to you?

That's the highest form of commitment and it's a covenant (as all marriages are covenants) that God himself put his stamp on.

This man is saying they were "dating". People just choose to quote the Bible out of context.

So because Adam said "woman", it means she was not his wife? So as a married man, if you go out and someone asks you, "where's your woman?" that would be politically wrong, or would you assume he was referring to your girlfriend and not your wife?

Omo. People are completely lost.

helinues:
So you have been working for years, saving for years and decided to buy a brand new Ferrari, are you not going to test drive it before paying?

Immortalzbon:
Genesis 4:1; and Adam knew his WIFE eve.....

Fortruth:
Very mature response to a very immature original post LOL
The OP may even be pass 45 years of age self...

ibkonekt:
Sex IS marriage..

Siberia01:
lol sorry

blazingyou:
Sometimes, people don't understand why they act the way they do, they just felt it normal.

Do you know if you're the Joseph among your siblings...

It is well

lululovesblue:
I won't lie, it seems to me like this is a strawman argument. As in, you're grasping at straws. They were still at the dating stage? So did they do white wedding at any point in their lives before death? God himself had recognized their union, giving Eve to Adam as a companion. So they were still dating?

You said they were in the dating stage when Satan got them to fall. But in Genesis 3:6 it says "And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat"

Adam is referred to as her husband in this verse by most versions of the Bible. So what exactly are you talking about?

Oga, if you want to sleep around before marriage, do so. It's your body after all. But don't use the Bible as justification.

Tallesty1:
What actually marries a man to a woman is their vows, not just parental consent. The moment a man asks a woman to marry him in good faith and she agrees in good faith, they are as good as married, but I think that is beyond the scope of your question.

Since you talked about consent, let me ask you: which consent is better than God's consent? Adam and Eve didn't have parents. God saw what Adam needed and gave him one, so what else do you want? A wedding with God as the officiating priest and animals as guests?

Also, things change. There was just one law in the garden and there is no sin without law. You do know that marrying one's sibling was okay and legal until the law against it came much later? Adam's children married each other, etc.

Goodlyhrt:
Then you have confirmed it that not being a sin till when they don't marry. Or caught.

Not a sin against God but to humans, to be punished by selfsame humans not God.

Was fornication expressly written in the tablets as a sin?

blazingyou:
I don't know you but I will tell you one thing....

Pray for the spirit of love in your family... Tell God you want Him to come in and dwell in your family...

God is love and that's why He sent His only son Jesus so, that we can be able to give out love through the power of the holy spirit...

If there's love among yourselves, there will be care, understanding and support...
That's what family is all about.

papikushz:
Growing up as the last my siblings always don't wanna hang with me, the would rather be with their friends and tell me to get lost. I am grown now they wanna talk with me but I don't even know how to act around them or even know what to talk about while with them. It's like we are trying to force it but nothing most times I spend and express myself amongst outsiders than to then.
I learned to do things on my own, I only seek help when it's so bad, I don't even know how to ask them for help when I need, I just keep going till am stuck (being too judgy is part of why I just keep to myself and bear my cross and while at it I blame no one but sometimes it gets so heavy.
I just want to unwind here.
At some point I felt so isolated

blazingyou:
Uhmm

Mine is 9 years difference... It is bad

If I discuss serious matter with him, he won't even encourage me, nothing

Very annoying...

I don't even say anything anymore.... I've gone COLD
He face his family and I face my single life

My advice to you is that ... You shouldn't have any bad blood ... Family is always family and siblings are always going to be part of you for life...
They'll always come through for you only when you're at your lowest...

My brother can not leave me to die but that's only when he see that I'm dying. LOL

So OP, whenever you need help let them know, they will always come through big time

Abegi; I sell fabulous Ankara fabric

okoroemeka:
correct me if I am wrong,when the offsprings of Adam and eve we know as Cain and Abel,Cain went off to another land and took a wife,who created those people?who are Cain's inlaws? Can they be black men created by a black God?

Goodlyhrt:
Fornication is not a sin of course but breaking a vow 'see adultery' is sin..

God is not interested in your sins anyway not like it will stop him from being God, no! But he listens to the cry of the downtrodden and visits parents sin even unto the 10th generation.

Summary is to not break any vow to him or to any human. That is the only sin.

Sin include:
*Not acknowledge God
*Idolatry
*Disobedience to God's command or parent's wise counsel
*Adultery
*Lieing/false witness
*Stealing
*Murder
*Pride
*Greediness/covetousness
*Glutton
*Drunkenness/abuse of everything
*Not keeping to convenant/cheating
*Dehumanizing your fellow man; because that man will cry unto God and his wrath will fall upon you

Not a sin but erroneously perceived:
*Fornication
*Gambling/lot
*Masturbation
*Laziness
*False pretence for a good course 'see story of Abraham and king Abimelech over Sarah Abraham's wife'
*Drinking alcohol
*Eating all types of animals/food

The sins I mentioned will make you a direct enemy of God.

While the other, though not much offence to God but might be an offence onto YOURSELF so you better be careful and understand that moderation is key in life.

I rise!

MythAngel:
Your Answer:
Genesis 2: 22-24.
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. 23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his Wife: and they shall be one flesh.

I am sure sir. That this answered your question.
Adam and Even became married from the moment God brought the woman to meet the man.

Thank you.

Siberia01:
the same beetle wey dey struggle to do 120

immortalcrown:
Any proof to back up your claim?

Testiebobo:
Is sex before marriage a sin?
Because Adam and Eve didnt marry and they had sexual intercourse with each other. And God didnt forsake them because of that. So what is really the superstitic idealogy of sex before marriage as a sin? Do you think it is actually a sin?
Marriage experts and geniuses

Siberia01:
Gap 504? beetle?
Be like you no Sabi wetin be 504