₦airaland Forum

Tinamoore:
Yes, from my own experience, love is pain.wouldn't have married him if I knew what I know now.

Maybe u rushed in soooo early not understanding what were getting into.

Macgreat:
Are you married?

How old are you?

Are you concerned that the guys are going for younger women and leaving you old ones.

Lolzzz. Yes! Latest twenties. No! Just saying cos I would have fallen victim at a young age. But today, no regrets cos I built my career and I'm happily married with kids.

I have observed that most NL guys have paedophilic tendencies.(if there's any word like that) the way they clamor and support marriage at teenage and early twenties i.e. 20,21,22 and 23 amazes me.
Well, it only shows their intention for getting married- Which is the woman's body, if not what else Pls somebody explain to me

Chykeboss:
ure welcome.. hope u av got in touch with him?

Yea, sent him request on FB

Chykeboss:
I don't know if u av gotten an ansa to this ur question but u can reach out to Femi Gbadebo on Facebook he has an initiative that helps out on cerebral palsy

Kk. Haven't got an Ansa. Tnks a bunch

Coldfeets:
Is like your eyes is paining you?

Can't you see that she is very much older than him?

U sure say no be u eye dey pain?

Please o, does this lady f*ck through her. Nostrils? They are so wiiiide

OMG! Can't believe people are giving advice on how to go about it.

God bless u sire

When will power season 5 be out?

obiorathesubtle:
At 35?

Bro.. Her body count will shock you..

Forget all those good qualities she learnt last week when it dawned on her she needs a man to be stable in life...


Nigga.. Go and get a young bride you will enjoy..
Leave the old cargos and dinosaurs to marry old grandpas who are looking to remarry after their wives have died..

Oh my! Did u just say this about women?

LoJ:
They belittle the ladies that struggle and sell on the road.

They insult the slay queens. They despise the independent and successful ones.

It may seem as if they are confused, but they are not. What they really want is a slave not a great woman.

I love u jare

chyy5:
Useless Nigerians. God will p.unish all of u. This is how u go about defining marriage as if woman's life and destiny is tied in marriage. Instead of u all to mind your fvcking business and channel that strength in reviving ur dilapidated sh!thole country. Hopeless social media rats that sees women above 30 as if they have committed one abominable offence.
That was how you used your 10mb data, posting u.seless marriage above 30 this and that, cajoled my cousin, an independent lady and a breadwinner in her family to marry a monster.
Her offence is because she's 34, has a very good job and very wealthy.
Everyone on her Facebook will always ask, when are we having ur drink?
She got tired of such questions and have to settle for a sheep in wolf clothing simply because she just wanted to leave the house. Someone she just met.
The monster killed her barely a year into the marriage.
The same hopeless Nigerians went to her facebook wall to type pretentious messages claiming they are pained. Hypocrites!
Leave women alone. When they want to marry they will. Is it ur marriage? Does it concern u?
As for the ladies that will type same rubbish against their fellow ladies, I have nothing for u.
Just because you used pregnancy to trap a guy doesn't make u a wife. Most gals live with men claiming I am married. You are not married. Go home to your parents and stop forming married woman. I served in Akwaibom state, then I have d biggest mouka foam, rented selfcon, fridge was there, plasma, a.c and most Akwaibom and calabar gals I bleep then were doing everything to tie my destiny. In their mind they have seen a guy that's ready despite I'm receiving 19800. Some of them stylishly refused protection so as to get preg and that's how marriage will start.
No bride price, no introduction.
That's the same gals that will come online with their borrowed phone to talk ill of independent gals.
Igbo gals doesn't marry that way. They marry legally.
Society should stop talking trash concerning women and marriage.
As for the ladies above thirty, is not a crime. My sister works with KPMG, she's 34 now and very fine. Not that men aren't coming but you know what u want. Marriage is a lifetime stuff and not a vacation.
There are other successful ladies above thirty and they are doing great.
God will give u all the best husband.
Cheers!

Oh no, sorry about ur sister and thank u for making this much of sense. Most Nigerian men are broke and have low self esteem and that is why they support things like this and as for the ladies who agree, it's not their fault. It is what the society shaped them into.

LordKO:
Misconception and misinformation at its peak. Success can never make a good lady (person) to become bad. In fact, sane and sound people tend to become more refined as they attains greater heights in life.

It's obvious that the OP has mistakenly likened characteristics of aristocratic (successful/independent) ladies for toxicity - a small-minded person will surely do.

Aristocratic ladies and sagaciousness are inseparable, and nothing irritates a small-minded person like such. To be in the good book of a small-minded person you (as an aristocrat) must intentionally become either or both servile and subjugable to him/her.

Ur grammar plenty, but I think I understand and agree with u wholesale.

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

God bless u my dear. I also saw a thread about "well behaved women snatching husbands of..." and the comments I read made me come to this conclusion. men often say women dnt knw what they want, dt is not true. I think it is the other way round.

Beauty is mostly special to struggling guys..For at least averagely successful guys, beauty can be easily gotten, in different shapes and sizes...

Hmmmmmmmm word. I also think the immature boys who need approval of friends to boost their self esteem are the ones so particular about looks.

lwise:
Is federal government now part of Kogi state government.
FG will never cease to amaze me.

I wonder o

Where in Kogi please?

ikorodureporta:
...where's suen's pishure? I dnt even know him. Even Mark Zuckerberg is more popular here

Dnt mind the guy. He is forming Lagbaja.

Why is this not on FP yet. Becos it is not about the church I guess.

LegendKing:
This makes me remember my english teacher back then at sec. school. She liked me sooo much that she said she was going to name her son after me. And she did. I miss you ma.

Probably u were one of those students whose parents were influential and the teachers (even the principal sometimes) will compete to Favour them at the expense of the others whose parents were hoipolois in the society. God dey sha. I remember one of my uncles that year uncle Gideon (where is he sef)he might even be a Nairalander o make I come dey go.

Earthquake1:
Freeze don't try your sh! t with the Catholic Church you'll get roasted

Oh! But he can try with other churches and receive ur commendation right? This is why I call for unity of all christians regardless of ur denomination Becos if u think freeze is only out for "the pentecostal churches " u lie. He's out for the body of christ in Nigeria. Dnt get carried away by the fact that he is quick to call the name of Jesus and call him "high priest" he doesn't love Jesus. If he does, his approach to exposing the fake in Christendom will be different.

Gamesmart:
Yes, older guys go for small girls but as you will be a doctor try and incorporate knowledge of nutrition and exercise in your learning so you can compete with the small girls too when you are ready.

It is good you are aiming not to be a liability.

Lolzzz. It's no competition abeg. the fact is, when these small girls start sleeping with the old men and having children they begin to look old too. Except the very rich ones who knw how to maintain themselves.

Gamesmart:
I am assuming when you say there are no reasonable men, you mean maturity.

You also want a financially bouyant man, while you also plan to spend years in medical school.

All those point towards you marrying an older guy because they are the ones more likely to meet your financial and maturity expectations and you would be more advanced in age by the time you finish setting up your medical career.

Kk, I get u now. But funny enough, these older guys go for small girls. That's by the way.
One of the reasons I would want to be a Lil established is not to be a financial liability. So, if I, on my own I have money I wouldn't be looking so much for a guy with plenty money-cos I have the money already. I'd rather go for a hardworking, intelligent and any guy I knw I can do life with. And not someone who will bear all my liabilities. That's my idea.

I look forward to a day when if criticisms abt pastors make front page, only the haters will comment, with the children of God being quiet knowing that NL is only out to drag the gospel in Nigeria in the mud. My dear christians (not church goers o) Pls take note. Thanks.

Gamesmart:
If you want to go to medical school and afterwards find reasonable men who are financially bouyant, you might have to focus mainly on older guys.

I don't get u.

emmyw:
38??

Me sef surprise. She doesn't look it, and I commend her genuineness, if na some celeb them go dey form 25.

akeentech:
Who told you those who married early are not ambitious?

Most of them aren't. Just the few are and for that few if God does not help, the ambition will either die or be delayed.
And if the husband does not support. Let's be frank sir, most men who go for small girls are made and busy men who need to settle down and have their own kids, so they dnt need another busy or ambitious person in the house. They only need a WIFE not PARTNER

akeentech:
I married my wife @ 22 and that is the best age for every sane girl to get married. If you marry 30+ girl after 5 years her beauty will begins fade away reason why we see so many cases of cheating nowadays. My take.

So at age 22 when I'm struggling to go to medical school or law school I should go and Marry and dump school. And what if there are no reasonable men around? My dear, na girls wey no get too much ambition than being married and having kids na them be sane women be that o. Cos at the end of the day if the husband is not so financialy buoyant OYO is ur case.

akeentech:
I married my wife @ 22 and that is the best age for every sane girl to get married. If you marry 30+ girl after 5 years her beauty will begins fade away reason why we see so many cases of cheating nowadays. My take.

I guess after u have toiled with the heart of so many older girls. Watch out for ur daughter(s)

Omooba77:
Lalasticlala no be only tithes and offering church dey collect.....Please see some of our good works too.

We are not under obligation to show it sef

Find me toyota brand between 600-800k abeg. Not accidented o