Marriage is not and has never been a reward.

Women will never stop embarrassing themselves. All these just for a man, and u want men to think u have something to offer outside ur p***y. I'm sori no way!

[quote author=pozehnani post=100141371]Cool.

When he married her, she was tiny but now see her and their love is still waxing stronger.

These are the loyal and sensible husbands of yesteryears. Not the overgrown babies we have as men these days Comparing their wives to other women.

God continue to bless and keep your marriage, sister Omotee.[/quote

I sight u!

OMG! Women we are in a deep mess in this part of the world. A man compares his wife with another woman, something I know that even the man will not take from his wife, and all the advice I see flying around is- men are moved by what they see, u no longer burst his brain,he just told u the truth bla bla bla. Only few persons adduced health benefits as good grounds for weight loss.

Madam, that man doesn't love u again. He is crushing on ur pastors wife and other women out there. He saw u fat before he married u, and I suppose he should know that a woman at her reproductive stage is most likely to become a little or very fat.

Sadly, its a mans world a woman will be expected to stick to a broke man and dares not compare him with her "pastors husband" else...

My advice, work on ur weight for ur health not for him. Get something very lucrative doing with ur life. Mingle with important people and get connection. Disconnect from him emotionally because he has, but pls play ur wifely duties religiously and just do what will make u happy and give him peace. He will yet complain about something else, that will not bother u again because u are already disconnected. Just make sure u are also at peace within u.

Women, oh! my fellow women

Hmmmmmm

[quote author=SouthNigerian post=99706920]Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.


HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.[/quote
] thanks for this. Made my time on NL worthwhile

Women Will never learn, a man is divorced for at least twice ( I think) u went ahead to marry him expecting that u will last abi what point were u trying to prove by marrying him? He has dumped u. and the kids, u can keep them for now, but whether u like it or not they bear his name.

I'm sure another woman is there waiting to marry him- and this is why these men don't value us.

donbachi:
Na e make i like naija marriage...shishi she no go see.

My fellow women, shebi Una see wetin them dey talk. Make Una use Una head b4 Una marry. Don't depend on any man for anything please.

Almunjid:

Some people will just smoke weed and then come online to insult their mothers. So ur mother is only good for sex too? No wonder ur father impregnated and abandoned ur mother.

GBAM!

cassyrooy:
Legend!

I just love Reno because on the days I don't like his nuggets, I eventually find something to like about him on the next ICBM he drops, whether on Politics, Relationships (or Marriages), Social and even Economics.

Baba is well grounded.

Keep enlightening the dullards that litter about in Nigeria.

Happy 47th Reno!

Lolzzz @ dullards that litter about in Nigeria.

Righteousness2:
Life and all that comes with it are Gifts From GOD.
You don't Struggle for a Gift. A Gift is Given.

Money has wings! When you throw yourself all out for these things, they fly away and make you keep pursuing and pursuing until u go down.

There are Principles given by the GOD for wealth. There are Principles given to Secure your Wealth. The principles answers to anybody irrespective of who you are.
Gen 8:22, Proverb 3:6 Luke 6:38 , Malachi 3:8-11

It is GOD that Blesses!
It is GOD that Connects
It is GOD that lifts
And HIS Blessings are without Sorrows

Any other way used to get these things Ends in Super Premium Tears..

Selah!

Regex:


I admire the composure.

Why won't she be composed? See the number of likes she has attracted. Most nairalanders support her view and this makes her more confident and calm. Had it been the other way round you will see her tantrums.

JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

God bless you. I dnt know the cave she came out of.

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Pst. Funke Felix Adejumo
Bishop T.D. Jakes
Joel Osteen

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Thank you sir! Respect

Bad accident? Is there a good accident?

Cocao:
The responses here shows that men are very uneducated about this, intentionally ignorant or simply too grossed out.

Just know that you don't have to respond

Thank you my sister/ brother, how has this innocent writeup got to do with comparison between male and female gender. See them passing ignorant comments na wa o.

Righteousness89:


Sir/Ma, I have Carefully noticed you on this Noble platform. I must say, Your Challenges are Spirtually Modulated and Orchestrated . But in The Name of JESUS, I Break the yoke! I Command Great Deliverance on you in the Name of JESUS..

I am Praying for you! Don't worry, you will be Fine.

Hahahahahahahahahabahahabhaha

Has he finished condemning the killings in southern Kaduna

chiddyok:
The one above me said there is more to this story. Rape apologist. The others have avoided this thread, they are busy with the thread of the woman who was presented with a the dna result of her child. Double standards.

God will bless you my dear for this comment. You took the words out of my mouth. I thought I was the only one who noticed.

N

lanrefront1:


You think you have sense but you don't have sense at all.

Children of this generation have no sense.

Imagine you were driving your car and father is beside you. You went somewhere and you are now both heading home.Then your husband called and says you should pick him up at certain land mark on your way home.

When you get there, instead of your husband to get in and you guys continue, would you tell your elderly father to get down from the car and go and sit at the back, so that your husband can sit in the front?

Or would your husband now point to your dad, instruct him to to get down, go to the back and sit, so he can sit in the front seat?

So you cannot see how disrespectful that is? What do people take parents for? You think your mother in law is an insignificant small girl you can tell to get down, go sit at the back because u are the wife of the son.

Some of you girls are very daft, really very daft indeed. Complete zero emotional intelligence

One of the boys spotted. See all you have to say with all your sense. I believe your mother is this senseless as well, no wonder she raised a boy this full of sense.
Ancestor of this generation!

Wait! I am not understanding NL "boys" the ones who have little or no regard for women. It's like when threads like this is put up they go into oblivion, because the way I see comments from some persons on how important their mother is to them I am forced to ask - these women you disregard and see as sex objects especially on NL, are they not going to grow to become someone's mother who will also say these beautiful things about her? Some of you don't know how your mothers related with her in laws or how her past was, all you see is the love she bestows on you as a child which every woman does.

MY ADMONITION
Pls when next you wanna say something unpleasant to or about a woman can you please first see her through the eyes of your OWN mother then if you still feel you can say it go ahead.

ON THE TOPIC
The mother in law was wrong. But, if I was the woman, I will not say a word, I go just go sit down for my back seat jeje BUT I go put am for record. Matters like this are not dealt with immediately and with confrontations. Na cunningly and craftly you go take pass your message to both your husband and him mother.

Nyamuriflathead:


What's his business with the ladies? Is he their keeper abi u nor get sense Ni?
So instead of focusing on the Intrigues in the marriage he attended he should be doing usher abi? How would he even know the ladies would be coming back? And why did they not write their names on the chair before they left since they brought it from home? You women should learn to accept your faults sometimes without trying to shift blames

I can see from your write up that you have plenty of sense.

OP na u cause fight. Since you knew the ladies were the first occupants of the sit, why didn't you let the guys know about it so they can decide whether to act honourably or otherwise ( as they did) you wait make fight start just to bear witness that the lady started the fight whereas you could not bear witness of them being the first occupants of the sit. Are you sure you don't have beef for the girls?

donstan18:

You are referring to your father who didn't teach you anything positive, not our fathers.


It still doesn't change the fact that your parents didn't teach you anything positive.

Below is my proof, a screenshot of your statement on this forum about them.

They failed, ruined and slowed your success, according to you.

Stop forcing our fathers To be like yours!!

Haba! Why are you this harsh. He said Most fathers. If your father is different just state it and not attack his upbringing and parents. you no try at all, as if una been get unsettled beef.

Kaeboy:
I have plenty of lawyers around me and i will tell you spending such years and money to be a lawyer is not worth it. I'm earning far above most of them and I studied a 4 yrs course in administrative field.

My dear, you are just lucky cos if a law graduate has the same opportunity you have, they definitely will earn more than you. It just boils down to the point of connection in Naija

I wish ladies will see all these stories and learn. Of course there are also stories of men desperate to be married for one reason or the other, but na our own plenty pass. See the way men talk about women any how cos of the attitude of some of us. Las las na we dey make men treat any woman dem see without respect and dignity. I wish we can just repackage ourselves. The sentimental talk of "they have sister, mother and daughter" no dey enter men again

Yes o! Be very very worried o. Boys of these days are not responsible o. Later he'll treat u like trash and go for a younger girl who may not even be up to your level cos he will see your love and submission to him as desperation to be and stay married.

Never knew this Lady is up to 35

Is he saying that tithe and offering in HIS CHURCH is not an act of worship?

Gracealone:
The rate at which so many pastors strive to be politically correct and accepted on social media these days scares me.

Thank you very much for this comment.