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unearthed:
Did you just say the quoted?

What guides your reasoning sir?

What's her crime? Having sex outside of the school when on break?

Her privacy was violated. She's obviously a victim. She didn't release the video and didn't sanction the release.

hammerVJ:
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WRONG!

THIS IS WESTERN WAY OF REASONING.

WHERE, WOMEN GET OFF EASY AND THE GUY TAKE THE FALL.

IF U SET YANSH MAKE DEM SNAP, U SET YANSH FOR VIEWING CONSUMPTION.

THE YANSH MIGHT BE YOURS BUT THE CONTENT, BELONGS TO THE PERSON U GAVE CONSENT TO SNAP YANSH.

NOW, IS THE EVIDENCE FOR HIM? NO. HE HAS ALREADY SNACK THE YANSH.

THE EVIDENCE IS TO SHOW HIS BOY THAT MAY DOUBT HE SNACK DAT ASS.

SO U AGREED TO BE VIEWED BY A THIRD PARTY THE MINUTE U SET YANSH TO BE SNAPPED.

And that your reasoning is why the nation is lawless. Two lovers made a personal video for their own viewing pleasure; the irresponsible guy made it public without the consent of the partner. That is a crime, even in this country! If you aren't aware, just know it now — releasing someone's sex video without her consent is a crime!

omonikiba:
It is clearly stated in the student handbook that as a student of the school, you must not carry out any activity that will tarnish the image of the institution. As a new student, you sign a copy of the student handbook and submit, another copy is also given to you to read.

If you can't abide by the rules it's no point wasting your parent hard earned money. That case, no court can win it, because it is clearly stated in the handbook.

How on earth will you allow a guy video your se.x activities with him? Is that not crazy? I blame the girl, this guy has been expelled, you should have cut all ties with him, you can't run your vision with a visionless individual.

I feel for her, like she did it under duress or she was hypnotized.

Accounting is about 800k, ×3, plus the shame she's brought on her family, friends . I hope she won't kill herself.

Girls, please stop being the victims, the guy stylishly cropped his face off the video. Haaaa, wicked, he must have hynotized her. Or her village people are strong.

Since she wasn't the person that released the video, she didn't tarnish the school's image!

BlueRayDick:
She's a student of the institution. She has a contract with the institution which is for her to be awarded a degree after the completion of her studies provided she didn't break any stated rules of the institution.

If you can show me the institution's handbook (which is the official document that guides students' conduct) and it states it clearly or it can be inferred that a student having sex with a fellow student outside the school premises( as confined by the school authorities) is prohibited; then maybe I will agree with the expulsion verdict.

Anything other than that is bullshiiit! The school has already dissociated itself from the video by staying clearly it was not done on premises in their press release.

The expulsion will not stand if the student wants to challenge it in court. But I'm sure if she does, hypocritical Nigerians will say she has no shame.

I agree with you. But as a private institution, they can refuse to accept her. My own is that with a good lawyer, they should be made to vomit all the tuition paid so far — inflation adjusted — and the damages caused by the expulsion!

unearthed:
Let me try to give answers to points you raised.

(1) It is not about the age of the actors in this play sir. It never was. Issue is the name if the institution has been tarnished by this singular act.

(2) Of course it eas consensual as they obviously both enjoyed it. But we do you know the girl or guys name? I believe we all know the name of the school abi

(3) Doesn't matter where the act was committed. If you work at a cooperate organization, try doing this and having your company name on regular porn sites with your face branded on it and see what happens.

(4) The lady obviously had full knowledge of the recording na bros. Why we dey wan defend her sef?

(5) Obviously no one has a right to determine whether they datw or not. But coincidentally, they have dragged the school into their messy affair.

(6) I bet you she won't win the case. Remember the school has rules which she is well aware of.

(7) I like you conclusion bro

Was the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

She's a victim and the right thing to do is to help the victim get justice, not punish her again!

Hypocrisy apart, the girl is a victim here.
She had sex with her boyfriend outside of the school premises during vacation. Granted, the act was recorded with her consent. But it was for private consumption and never meant to be released to the public.
The boyfriend, being stupid enough, leaked the video, which is obviously a crime against the girl. So, the boy victimized the girl.
Now, instead of the public, law enforcement institutions, and the school to seek justice for the victim, they turned against the victim!
This is crazy! The same people who should help the victim get justice for a crime committed against her are now the ones punishing the victim. What a country, what a people; everything is turned upside down!
For those who love hypocritical arguments, my questions are:
Does the school have a rule that says that their students cannot have consexual sex with their partners outside the school premises when they are on break?
Did she commit a crime by allowing her boyfriend record their time together?
Was she the person who released the video?
Did she sanction the public release of the video?
If the answers to these questions are in the negative, a victim is being punished — double victimization, a feature of a failed society!
A good lawyer can make the school vomit all the millions they have collected in tuitions and more, if the judge can't force the school to take her back!

osazsky:
once it's a leaked video,it becomes an issue cuz the girl is thier responsibility,so she carries the image of d sch,if she had gone to America to win a Nobel prize for d sch,even if she won it in secret she will be rewarded openly,no sch will leave her to go Scot free it ,the school is suppose to mode ur character and u must show that character everywhere u go even outside d country its in thier rules and conduct ones y have been caught not worthy of good character d sch has d right to revoke ur certificate even after graduation

was she the one that made it public?

She's the victim. A crime was committed against her. Should be helped to get justice and punished for being a victim!

Brightgem:
yes pls give up, because your energy and that crying out loud is misplaced. You really believe you are making sense? Okay well you can also get her a lawyer, a good move to make. Foot all her bills in the lawsuit.

A school is meant to instill character in you as well. We are still Africans and have values. You can say it's holding us back all you want, but moral decadence is a problem in itself, tied to the bigger jigsaw of corruption.

It's lewd, and barbaric. It's sex yes, not meant for public viewing like in the animal kingdom. But since a girl who's fees is still being paid thinks it's okay to embarrass her family name. What can I say.

Now rules are rules. Wonder if you'll say the same if that school belongs to you, and you wake up to find your investment trending for the very wrong reasons.

We need sanity in this country and it starts from little things. Go to school and face your studies but no. You are making sex videos with an ex student of your school. And you oga are hear ranting. Also imagine this is your sister or daughter and you wake up to this horror. You may not survive the shame. Think!

Was she the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

Show me the school's rules that prohibit students from having sex when they are outside the school when the school is on break!

If the crime is that the sex was made public, she wasn't the one that made it public. She's the victim here. A crime was committed against her, and the people who should help her get justice are condemning her. Unbelievable!

osazsky:
if u are caught in girls hostel u will be suspended too who does that,I regret attending that sch but I had a target,I just wanted to leave with my cert that was d only thing dat kept me going

You're still mentioning school rules inside the school premises. Show me the rules that guide what students do in private outside the school when on break!

osazsky:
what of if there was CCTV cameras inside d hospital,that is y we must learn to b conscious of our action when we are in public,and d hospital is a public place just like the market,in America if u are caught have sex in d public u will b arrested for constituting a nuisance they are not arresting u for d sex they are arresting u for been a nuisance in public

A private room in a hospital is not a public place! It is a private place, and people still care for their loved ones there.

osazsky:
she should be sent to the same rehab for u to bleep a mad man means u are not well,hers is loneliness, lowself esteem which causes depression then metal problem if not tackled at this stage,she may begin to look for a rope,then she should be counselled by a professional doc

So, if your loved one is having some issues — mental or not — you will abandon her to avoid being associated with the problem? You have shown your worth!

What happens to loyalty?

what happens to love and care?

osazsky:
I attended biu ,in 2004 my friend was caught smoking weed and he was expelled d sch defended it,y did she chose a Christian sch she should have attended a public sch,,throughout my stay I was not allowed to enter girls hostel, infact if u don't attend chapel service every Friday, u may miss ur exams ,u can miss chapel service only trice in a semester,I used to envy d freedom my elder bro enjoyed at AAU I envied them then but I had no option and I didn't enjoy my campus year it was hell

You didn't show me what I asked for.

Weed smoking is a crime both within and outside the school premises. A private consexual sex is not a crime outside the school premises. It would be against the school's rules if done inside the school premises, but outside the school premises when the school is on break, a private consexual sex is not an issue.

Now, an irresponsible boyfriend leaked a private affair; he committed a crime against the girl. she's the victim here and not the offender. Instead of helping her seek justice, everyone is condemning — this is beyond hypocrisy, it's betrayal!

Brightgem:
Of course there are people who never had sex in their undergrad days. Do Y'all think everything is abt sex. I tire o. Now secondly even if they did, abeg did they bring it to the market square for the world to see. Only Animals do that. To what end is recording a private act?

It's sad, for all decisions we take. There's a result for it, positive or negative

Was she the one who released the video?

Did she sanction the release of the video?

The boyfriend committed a crime against her, and instead of helping her get justice, everyone is condemning her. What a people!

osazsky:
its a Christian sch and fornication, adultery stealing ,cultism ,their penalty should be well spelt out in their rules and conduct book,are u d owner of the sch,if I say no eye latches or shot skirt in my sch,since u know d rules y did u apply for admission into d sch,if u are not ok by my laws,open ur school now and call it sex sch even if it was a lecturer that was caught in dis mess he would have gotten d sack letter as well not to talk of a teenager,even if d lecturer has mouth to feed at home d sch will not forgive him not to talk of this one that has no responsibilty, rules are rules, when u swore the matric oath u signed a contract and even govt can change d terms on dat contract cuz its binding which sch did u attend .same reason govt can't revoke phcn contract,it has been sold,

I want to see where it's written in conduct book that two lovers can't have consexual sex in their private life outside the school when the school is on break!

AK481:
Define pornography?

This your angle holds no water if she wasn't the one who released the video and didn't sanction the release of the video.

This is a private affair released to the public by an irresponsible boyfriend. The boyfriend committed a crime against her. She should be helped to get justice!

osazsky:
So if a uniben student goes out to rob outside the sch and he is caught by d police he should not be rusticated cuz he did not rob inside d sch,even if u have graduated definitely ur certificate would be revoked, I know this cuz that's where I work rules are rules

Is it a crime for two adults of opposite sex to have a consexual sex?

Was she the one who released the video?

Xisnin:
She wasn't expelled for a private act.

Let us not pretend that we don't know why the school expelled the girl.
It has nothing to do with any crime.

Hypocrisy apart, the girl is a victim here.

She had sex with her boyfriend outside of the school premises during vacation. Granted, the act was recorded with her consent. But it was for private consumption and never meant to be released to the public.

The boyfriend, being stupid enough, leaked the video, which is obviously a crime against the girl. So, the boy victimized the girl.

Now, instead of the public, law enforcement institutions, and the school to seek justice for the victim, they turned against the victim!

This is crazy! The same people who should help the victim get justice for a crime committed against her are now the ones punishing the victim. What a country, what a people; everything is turned upside down!

For those who love hypocritical arguments, my questions are:

Does the school have a rule that says that their students cannot have consexual sex with their partners outside the school premises when they are on break?

Did she commit a crime by allowing her boyfriend record their time together?

Was she the person who released the video?

Did she sanction the public release of the video?

If the answers to these questions are in the negative, a victim is being victimized — double victimization, a feature of a failed society!

A good lawyer can make the school vomit all the millions they have collected in tuitions and more, if the judge can't force the school to take her back!

HowDareU:
Calm down. You either apply simple security techniques or tell your boss to do so. 1. Tell your boss to install CCTV camera: one is OK. It can cost as low as fifteen thousand naira with 2 channel DVR. 2. Make sure your shop has iron door bars in case of forceful entry. 3. Be very vigilant when going home. 4. Know the kind of friends you keep. 5. Don' keep cash in an open area. Have a safe room for important valuables. 6. Always take a detour when going home and look behind you always. 7. Pepper spray is very important too. Have the numbers of your DPO. Check my blog for your security and safety needs at www.securitymattersafrica.com

Don't keep cash in open area? Running an ATM at home is simply announcing to everyone that you keep cash.

Seriously, everything is wrong with that business. I kept wondering when Nigeria became that secure that individuals can now turn to minibanks, announcing to everyone that they keep huge cash at home.

I can't even patronize them for security reasons: who says fraudsters can't device a way to scan people's card details when they insert it?

The business model is dangerous to everyone — the owner and the customers!

Lukmanraji:
That's another Monetary Policy called Expansionary Monetary Policy.

When the government pays back their capital and interest on maturity, the government is technically buying back from the investors. Which means, when the government buys, he pays the seller.

The amount paid to the investor is a means of increasing the flow of credit or liquidity in the economy in order to get the economy running.

This policy is used to fight an economy situation such as recession.

Sure, aka quantitative easing. ECB is still on it!

chloride6:
What are you talking about?

Rate are determined by supply and demand and have nothing to do with inflation...

The primary factors affecting interest rate are deferred consumption, credit ratings and liquidity...

Son, no bank will lend businesses money at a rate below inflation rate, unless it's a government-subsidized loan scheme!

This has nothing to do with text books.

chloride6:
The MPR is very useless, very very..

I hear you. In as much as TB rate reduction may increase bank deposits, banks will never lower their rates if inflation is on the rise!

ntyce:
I expect the MPR to to slashed at the next committee meeting.

With borders closed, increased taxation, and staple commodity prices on the rise (rising inflation)? I doubt that bro! A raise is more likely than a slash.

ntyce:
It will fall, it is alreading falling.....

With the LDR cap of the CBN, it is a must for banks to give out loans....
This increased competition coupled with low cost of funds will bring down lending rate.

Not with the MPR still at 13.5%.

The MPR, much more than the TB rate, determines bank rates.

DEBJOCH1:
I SO MUCH LOVE THAT, EVERY LAZY MEN NOW DO TREASURY BILL INSTEAD OF INVEST THE MONEY TO CREATE MORE JOB AND EMPLOYMENT. A N1M PUT IN USE INTO A RIGHT BUSINESS WILL BRING YOU MORE THAN 20% ROI AND SAME N1M WILL TAKE AT LIST 2 HOME OUT OF LABOUR MARKET, BUT WHAT PEOPLE DO IS TO GIVE THE MONEY TO FEDERAL GOVERNMENT IN THE NAME OF TREASURY BILL. KUDOS TO GOVERNMENT MONETARY REGULATORS ON THIS, THEY SHOULD FURTHER SCRATCH DOWN THE RATE TO 1% TO DISCOURAGE PEOPLE FROM DINING TB. THERE ARE THOUSAND AND ONE THINGS TO INVEST YOUR MONEY INTO, BUT SOME BLIND PEOPLE WONT SEE THE OPPORTUNITY.

Yes, I'm blind. Please, give me examples of good businesses with guaranteed returns, which one can do with N1m.

I'm waiting for your response. Thank you.

Ademoore07:
I've never heard it b4 that the highest CGPA is 7.00. I'm a university graduate too and the highest one can have is 5.00. How did they calculate theirs?

Someone already explained it up there. UI uses 7.0 grading system, instead of the popular 5.0 grading system. A CGPA of 7.0 is equivalent to a CGPA of 5.0.

Congratulations Mary. You're the real slay queen!

freemanbubble:
My uncle who is a pharmacist says lot of people are complaining about this new infection in town that causes severe and intense itching
Even the itching becomes worse at night. It forms blisters( small small bump on the skin) all over the body. The whole penis. and scrotum [itches]
Even after peeling because of scratches still it will continue to itch.

Some say it scabies
Some say it is sexual infection that is inside the body of woman and it doesn't show any symptoms but when a man have sex with a woman who have it then the man will experience the symptoms.

It's scabies, no doubt about that. Stuffy environment and sweating are the culprit.

fairfora:
This is a serious matter. I have a cousin who always complains of itches in her private part. She came visiting us the other day and she was scratching her private part so much that she's opening up her legs wide apart. It happens only when she feels severe heat around that place. She said the more she scratehes it, the more it sweetens her

Shes been to hospitals, run series of tests. But nothing could be said to he happening to her. The doctor only said she's reacting to something. Shes still on medication as I speak. She's not the wayward type and she doesn't mess around from what I have studied so far about her. Her husband was forced to run series of tests too and nothing threatening was found.

It's scabies. Tell her to start using original Tetmosol (Citronella) soap. She should wash all her clothing and bedding with hot water and hot-iron those that can't be washed with hot water.

doctokwus:
Rubbish!
It's neither sexually related,'resides in the body' or is it scabies.
If anyone of those people have scabies, believe me they would wish that part of their body is taken off.
It most probably has to do with the severe, unusual weather being experienced.
By the way what is "a lot of people"?
By d time statistics is taken,your uncle's a lot may just be 5 out of 100 people he has seen.

what are you talking about? So if a disease that used to be less than 0.5% in an environment becomes 5%, you think it doesn't worth the attention? That's greater than a 1000% increase!

crafteck:
I don't own cars on uber or have indepth knowledge of the inner workings but I invested 4 million in a side business 3 to 4 years ago, it gives me 500k to 600k on the average per month now, and I still have my equipments, furniture, inverters worth about 2m now...sold the mikano I bought for 800 and got a smaller diesel gen(not connected to the discussion but excess power means excess waste of diesel)

Please, if you don't mind, can you share the business idea? I'm looking for a viable and profitable business to set up. I haven't seen one.
Thank you

babzo:
Shame of a nation .
The same country that produced Soyinka, Achebe, Chidi Imo, Dangote ,Okocha, Fela, Sunny Ade, Aminu Kano and tens thousands of doctors, engineers , businessmen, artists, and scientists now working in the USA and Europe.
Yet cant produce ONE government that can govern decently for One year.

It's because of the way it's structured. The people who decide who governs can't even read what you wrote here. It's a pity; we're cage in this setup, and there's no way out, until the joke of a nation is restructured!