pocohantas: If you keep picking wrong men, then you are a problem. While it might be convenient for you to blame men, you need to enter your quiet place and ask “WHY ALWAYS ME?”
She is heavily pregnant and it would make it the fourth child for a different man. I mean, this lady has four kids for four different men. Two crackheads in America, 1 for Ubi and she is carrying the fourth for Steve.
What would kill a lot of the new generation WIVES is trying to prove to the public that their husbands are modern and tolerant of every bullshit. It is the same demon that is making Janemena keep twerking to prove a point. When she should have retired long ago or at worst, after the Kpokpogarri saga.
You don't test the ego of a man. Not a Nigerian man at that. Except you have where you tied him. In the absence of that, you don’t subject your marriage to constant pressure and ridicule.
You found a man that took you with your three kids and rather than put your head down, your concern is peppering Ubi. Ubi said no man will ever marry you, so you have to rub it in his face every day. Zukwanuike, no way!
Everyday you are fighting with Ubi ONLINE. Any woman (or man) that drags their EX and father of their kids in public is a cantankerous one. One that should be avoided. Some couples separate and tell you IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCE. You think they are stupid? Some things are better left unsaid for the honour of both parties. Not forgetting the kids that would grow to read this nonsense.
The exact problem with lots of single mothers and divorcees - No introspection. No upgrade. No repentance. Just a thirst to prove to their EX that they have been able to clinch another man.
If she has sense, she should try to fix this one. If not, she can stay there and join Tonto in KINGSHIP. Wisdom is profitable to direct…
So much wisdom!
Happy for your newly found wisdom. May it stay with you forever, and may the good Lord grant you your heart desires.
Why can't these politicians reduce their allowances?
Why can't saint Buhari stop globe-trotting and save the country traveling allowance, aviation fuel cost, and jet maintenance costs? Prof Akunyili already told us why saint Buhari is flying around the world — to make easy legal money from traveling allowance. If he's considerate, he would save that money and use it to help suffering Nigerians!
Taxing Nigerians to death to fund your expensive lifestyle is wickedness
CalabarPikin: I'm seeing comments accusing the man of being this and that....
My people, things the happen ooohh
I have a flatmate (a guy) that we do things together like cooking, eating and all of those stuff....even when our babes comes around, they just follow suit.....during this holiday, his girl came around and I was alone....no issues with that, hmmmm Normally I do play with her calling her sweet names and all of that...just like her boo does when mine is in town..
But recently her attitude is what I don't understand......she just keep making moves mostly when I'm alone in the room...I just try to wave it off like say na play.
I guess that's the same situation the guy find himself and took the chance
Exactly. Only God knows how long the guy has been resisting her moves.
If only you know what it takes and what is attached emotionally to have a reasonable woman cheat, you will understand that such a woman is more dangerous than a serpent! Divorce/fleeing such a woman is NOT a punishment to her but a means to a safe end for the man.
So, you know this, and you were asking why the man was more concerned about his bed?
Who knows how long IK had resisted before finally giving in and banging her with annoyance to the extent of breaking the bed. Resisting such a woman for a long time is not easy.
His best option would have been to get his ass together and leave the house.
Bigfish121: Work from home does not actually mean you stay at home all day.you can actually go a standard cafe close by to do your work from there you can meet people.This is what me and some of my guys usually do.its full of fun.
There are sleeping pills for your condition. Just meet a doctor and get a prescription. No need using the herbal version. It's called sleep of death for a reason bro
Sleeping pills don't work for chronic insomnia. Torelance render them ineffective. It's my profession; I know what I'm talking about.
I want to check that leaf out, unless it's only imaginary.
Lol..the so called jazz is a chemical powder prepared from a local herb called 'the sleep of death'. It's less potent in powder form due to its dispersion in the air. You inhale some which makes you sleep off. Every living thing that breathes it sleeps deeply,human or animal or bird or whatever bro. So long you can breathe,then you can sleep off.
It can be prepared into the liquid form too, which is far more potent. A few drops into your water or whatever drink is enough to cause you to sleep and keep sleeping till you die. The chemical apparently binds to the areas of your brain which controls sleep, overstimulated them and induces coma. The consistent pressure necessary to make this happen on such a very short time scale induces a Brain haemorrhage which you sadly won't be able to do anything about, cuz you are dead within 24 hours or less.
The effect is the same as overdosing on sleeping pills which can also kill but no sleeping pill is as fast as this herbal mudafucker. . Switches your lights off like damnnnnnn.
I learned this from an old man who gave me the knowledge in Yoruba version. I know the plant sef. I figured out the science aspect myself.
Yes oh. My neighbor downstairs brought me a big plate of jollof rice with big goat meat and fish!
But as a single man, I had already gone to ShopRite on the 24th and bought 2 grilled whole chicken, 4 plates of jollof and fried rice, and 2 big plates of salad and stored in the fridge, so I would only have to microwave and eat.
I have been fighting with rice and meat since yesterday!
Thandiubani: Two suspected ritualists/yahoo boys have confessed after being arrested in Imo state.
The two suspects identified as Ebuka and Chinonso said that they use the private parts of ladies to make money making charms after sleeping with them.
In their words: “The native doctor who prepared the charm told us to use a handkerchief or a piece of towel to collect semen from the private part of every lady we made love to. He instructed us to put the handkerchief with the semen or towel in the pot and burn it after each time we collect it. He told us that the number of females we sleep with and collect their semen will determine the value of our money we will get.”
When they were asked to disclose the name and location of the native doctor, they said: ‘’We were seriously warned not to disclose it with anybody, that if we do that, we will die’’.
The two suspected criminals were interrogated by residents before being handed over to the police.
BadRadio: As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.
My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate
That's my biggest fear
Having kids with only the green passport. I should be able to afford having them delivered in the US or Canada to become citizens of a sane country.
Why do animals think that once someone isn't fvcking around, he's gay.
What happens to focusing on getting finances right first? What about those who practice semen retention? What about Opus Dei numeraries that are neither priests nor married?
It's animalistic to think that sexual urges cannot be controlled, and that delayed gratification is not noble.
I met this animalistic way of thinking and behavior in Lagos-Ogun axis. I never met in the East of the naija. This punget ideology is so common in Lagos-Ogun axis that I began to think that most males in this area are gay or something — I hate the vibes I get from them.
Imagine talking to a neighbor (a married man for that matter), and he was licking his lips and robing his dick. I spate on his ancestors. So disgusting. This is a fool that's preaching to me about joining their congregation — Latter Rain Assembly or whatever they call it.
Guy stop dishing out your ignorance with reckless abandon, most of tour assertions here were built from heresay and I heard, I never saw where you wrote about doing any independent research to know whatsup about vasectomy.
For all I know you are same person as the OP and these your fictitious story is lame and stale. You are gauging how serious your selfishness and wickedness is; it is way above average and tying up or removing the womb is not life threatening and not even a major surgery. My mother did it when fibroid was disturbing her and she already had four of us, so advise yourself to do same if you want only one child and leave the man alone.
@ your 2nd paragraph, you're right. But I think the fellow is a she, prolly a bitter feminist.
Michelle55: The truth is that you are simply selfish and there's no two ways about it. With all these set rules and regulations of yours, it's best if the guy opt out now or regret ever coming in contact with you later.
You didn't even suggest two kids but one, e be like dem dey worry you. You think being an only child is fun, come to me for classes as to know how I feel most times being an only child myself .
Abeg carry your holier than thou attitude go one side jare, mtcheew!
Not just selfish, the write-up shows her manipulative and controlling nature.
If she's being human and concerned about having more than one child, she can opt for tubal ligation.
If she later want another child or the only child dies, she can opt for IVF.
DamnnNiggarr: Does Excessive Stressing Or Staying Away From Sex For Too Long, Causes Erectile Dysfunction?
I wanted to create a new moniker for this thread but later changed my mind in order to continue with this my main Monika, because I see no importance/reason for creating a new moniker. Please you guys should not insult nor comment negatively on this thread. I know that topics similar to this have been created on this forum but I really want an answer and also a special advice towards achieving a permanent solution. I've browsed the internet about it, but it seems most of the sites I visited were only interested on advertising their products.
Lately, I've been overstressing my self, I combine three things in a day which means combining studies, business and family which makes me to always be on the road every minute of the day, I shuttle between Anambra, Enugu and Bayelsa, most of the time, if I can't find some of the goods I'm looking for in Onitsha, I travel to Lagos or Aba to get them which will be way-billed to my wife in Bayelsa so that she can sale them, and all these make me to be away from home for too long especially my studies.
so, on 18-11-2021, I decided to visit home, it was the day that terrible accident occured at upper iweka, Onitsha. But I got home, and I observed that I can't have an erection, even if it manages to erect, I can't hold the erection for too long, this thing kept happening until my wife couldn't take it anymore and she suggested we see a doctor, on getting to the hospital, the doctor asked me what I do for a living (what I do in my every day life) and I told him, he also asked how often do I visit home, I told him that it takes longer period before I visit home. He suggested that I should get some rest and stay away from too much stress, and also visit home regularly in order to be having regular intimacy with my wife, because staying away for too long from it can also have a negative effect on sexual life. But I told him that, stressing my self is how I put food on my table and that's also how I've been able to pass my exams even right from my undergraduate days.
The doctor made mention of Stress, which I'm fully aware of it's negative effect on sexual health, but staying away from intimacy for too long, does that also cause erectile dysfunction? even the internet didn't mention anything concerning Staying Away from intimacy for too long. I know that most men are down with this particular issue but are too shy/ashame to speak up.
please Nairalanders, how else do I overcome this disgraceful and shameful predicament? all advice would be highly appreciated.
lalasticlala Seun Sissy3 dominique
Oga, get enough rest!
Exercise frequently: run some 5km and do some pushups (50-100). Follow it up with good sleep.
Kobojunkiee: There are people who are genuinely generous and they are known and respected for that. A man thinking his generosity should be rewarded, in this case, with a woman opening her legs up to him simply becude he spent money on her is another breed entirely.
If you don't what to spend on a woman, don't. If you do spend and do so to pay for sex with her, let her understand that upfront or instead go pay for a prostitute.
You're missing the whole point, but I will break it down for you:
A guy going to a woman is because he feels sexually attracted to her. Whether he spend or not, he still wants to have a sexual union with the woman.
If woman likes him sexually, she accepts his moves and will be willing to sleep with him. It would be wrong for a woman to play along if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to him.
Next, if the man is well to do, he can decide to treat the woman the way he treats himself because whether he treats her well or not, he expects sex with the woman because she has shown that she feels the same thing about him too.
It would be insecurity on the aspect of the woman to deny him sex because he treats her well. If she was never sexually attracted to him all the while, why play along that she feels what he feels.
Celebrities / Re: Sandra Iheuwa's Husband, Steve Thompson Sent Her Packing 5 Months After Marriage by studentofTruth: 7:59am On Jan 10, 2022 
. Switches your lights off like damnnnnnn.
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