funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

Must u type rubbish

frozen70:


It's the excess sugar that you are taking from your sugar kane that is causing diabetes in your brain

The sugar in sugarcane does not have effect. it is naturally harmless

When they tell them to keep their stuff in one place they won't answer now see the repercussions.

You went out to buy ur dog feed. Do u know that you are a dog ?

jolak5:


No I didn't,

I apologise for that. I'll delete it immediately

Next time read before pasting

madridguy:
First, May God bless you brother for saving this woman. You have made a huge sacrifice and only God can reward you for.

I can relate with your story brother because I've been in your shoe before both in Lagos and Ogun state respectively.

As my late father used to say, " It can happen to anybody " i used to wonder how people feel bringing out phone recording people in need of help? What do they do with the videos, share on their status or page for worthless likes and comments?

As for the doctors, i don't blame them since majority of them are heartless and wicked. They derive joy in seeing dead people since our government won't question them.

I could remember how God Almighty used me to rescued a woman like that and only for the doctor and the nurses to be abusing me, calling me bad man that i want the woman to die so i can quickly marry another woman. For their mind they think she's my wife, this is a person i don't even know her name. I lied to them that i was away for work when they called me so i have to quickly rush home, one nurse with razor blade mouth still said because am not a caring man reason i did not know my wife is sick....felt like slapping her but i knew if i ever mention that she's a stranger they won't attend to her again so i have to play along for the sake of the woman.

After every every, she was stabilize and she asked what am i doing here, the nurse with her told her your husband brought you here bla bla bla the woman said am a single mother and please let me see the man. Na so dem know, the woman call her children and friends when dey arrive am about going when the doctor called me inside her office and asked me if i know the risk and repercausion of what i did? She asked me what if the woman die? I just told her, what happened to her could happen to anyone and i left.
The risk i have took for total strangers alone, at times when i remember i just shake head for myself.

Again, OP, you deserved the Nairaland BEST MAN OF THE YEAR award.

Are there still people like this on Nairaland ? meaning we still have hope in this country

Good for him

She no even fine self

HenryThegreat1:
I'm seeing two different gown.
She wear the two at the same time

Same question on my mind. I think the story was cooked

Uniqueteco:
Congrats bro.... Please what business can I start with a 100k I just finished NYSC?

Okirika business. but how were u able to save 100k with 19,800 allawi ?

Op tell him to open a supermarket for u where u should also have a sale girls. Yours is to go and supervise return home

BravoDe:
Damilolacoker
U married too early 22yo and you're married, hmm

what is ur own

SBL28:
You have to take some hard decisions. Your parents failed you by not fighting for you, it is now left to you to save yourself.

You should be doing something meaningful with your life. Why did he not marry a stark illiterate instead of imprisoning someone's daughter.

Go and start looking for a job and avoid getting pregnant at this period (that is what some men use to pin down their wives). If he wants to break the marriage because of that, let him. You can't just be sitting on your hands waiting for him to feed you for the rest of your life.


Edited to add for the slow pokes here yarning dust under my comment:

No sensible man will divorce his wife because she got a job. She can't be crying about not being able to do a job when she does not even have one in the first place. For how long will she continue to nurture her husband's insecurities?? She should look for a job that won't be too far, somewhere she won't have to close late so he won't have more ammunition to use against her.

Many older women today regret not standing up for themselves on time. The earlier the issue is trashed out the better.

You are a home destroyer

LilMissFavvy:
How would you have felt if it was your wife who hanged out with her friends and came back by 2am? Any married man or woman who does things without considering the other partner is immature or simply wicked. Your wife's brother should have slapped you back, or is he a weak man? He should have slapped you ensuring that you bleed from your mouth and nose. As for your wife, continue to call her, send messages, give her more time, she will heal and return to you. It's very shameful that her brother was there and did not defend her, by slapping the st-pi---y outta your brains.

Trash must u comment

Sincerely the higher u go in Microbiology the tougher it become. Saying from my experience then in university days

Thegeneralqueen:
You should try using your evil potato maybe it can work

laugh wan kill me for here people they bear name shaaa

Motunemotun:
Looks like you are so pained o , did they marry your sisters off at 10 years old ?? Coz at 23 I’m still very very very young sef some of my mates are still writing jamb so leave me tf alone
Please and please don’t quote me again bro
Go your way , goan marry a 16year old girl na who hold you

Learn how to respect other peoples' decision instead of condemnation. finish

Motunemotun:
Since you know I’ve been fornicating nau I just felt your mum gave you the gist mtchew
If you can’t say anything good just keep your opinion to yourself

Your been 23 and not yet ready for marriage should have better been kept with urself as nobody ask u. Not everybody is ready to be a streets dogs..........

Motunemotun:
Like your mum

Nothing stops u from talking at others mum since u don't have respect for ur mum. whoever will eventually dump this one at home as wife is unfortunate

Motunemotun:
That’s suicide I’m 23 years old and I’m not even ready for marriage
She’s too young for that burden please
She chose the easiest way out
Damn!

But you are jumping from one man's bed to another

Fxwarrior:



You didn't worry before you chose the course. Never worried for 5 years you've been on it. Why now?

I believe you can create your own company that will reengineer the human system to live without food or increase human lifespan by 50 additional years.

I promise you that your money and Bill Gate's won't be mates.

The stupid thing Biochemistry students usually say is that they can genetically engineer anything.

OoniOfIfe:
. Yeah very very handsome nd light skinned, they look like half caste

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Nigeriahomebiz:
Hello Nairalanders,

This post will be controversial but my assurance is that I am merely sharing facts with you. This post is not for everybody but for those who are not desperate to settle for less by becoming underemployed in a job they will resent, otherwise my apologies if you find this post offensive. You shouldn't read any more.

I do realize everybody's circumstance is different and so I am willing to say for those who are destined to work under a boss, don't see this as me trying to discourage you from searching, it is more of a wake up call than a grim reminder of what the job search and employment in Nigeria really entails. Here are 5 reasons why I believe the self-employment path is a better option than the job search/paid employment.

1. High Competition for few Job Slots
This is for freshers in the job market or recently laid off former employees. Even a Master's degree cannot guarantee an entry level position these days. The labour market is just too saturated and competitive. Last year nearly 1 million Nigerians entered the labour market (900,000+). Here is statistics from NBS 21 million Nigerians were unemployed as at July 2018. The economy grew by less than 3% last year and will not likely fair better which means much less than 400,000 jobs will be created this year by government and companies. This means that the jobs are just not there and even when you find them they aren't anything near a decent working experience. It will be like trying to push your way through a stampede just to grab a paltry prize that anyone close to it can snatch at anytime.

2. Low Return on Time and Effort Invested
If you start your job search today, how long will it take you to get a job and start earning a salary? Let me help you out with your guess, more than 2 years. That is the mean time the average employable job seeker takes to secure employment. But if you were to commit 6 months to learn a marketable skill, you could become self-employed almost immediately (I have been making a decent income for 5 years now going to 6 years after quitting my job thanks to a marketable skill I acquired prior to my employment and in fact it was what earned me my job in the first place, not my computer science HND).

3. Most Meaningful Job Vacancies are already taken
Can someone please remind me the last time they saw mass recruitment into CBN or heard of FIRS job vacancies posted in national dailies? Well chances are that a lot of newly employed persons in these very high paying organisations have been called privately and recruited. The less prestigious employers are inundated anyways with too much applications that they have their own databases of candidates who they will readily contact by email, sms or phone calls when there are any openings.

4. Most Employers use networks and recommendations
Employers are becoming weary of employing people they will still need to train after employing and so they opt for those who have proven work experience and skills, because it saves them costs. What are the chances that you fall into their network or may be recommended to the them by someone in a respectable position you know?

5. Career Advancement and Prospects
Let's say you get employed eventually, what are the prospects on the job 5 years down the line compared to a self-starter that aggressively improves his productivity, constantly seeks self improvement and has bagged considerable productive habits that have shaped his work ethic?

Those are my 5 reasons and I am so eager to hear objections and contributions. Waiting on you Pals!

what is ur skill op

donk552:
look for those who sale price in area then ask how much are they selling piece, we sale bale only, the reason why can't tell u a price of piece is because my location is d/f from your's. Okrika business is lucrative and also risky, dnt venture into it without learning.

pls Op I want to learn about the business from u before venturing into it

[quote author=kempreze post=84671539][/quote] I respect ur courage sir. How far are u done with med now

TONYE001:


True. This year, they screened their DE applicants. I gathered the questions were mostly English Language, some sciences and general knowledge.

UniAbuja is a very good choice but it's competitive. Applicants should prepare their minds for a very stiff competition.

Cc: Success410.

Hello Mr TONY001 how is work

hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

Pls are u an Okada rider?

OloladeWrites:
hmm. Congrats on being a 1st degree grad! How's NYSC?
If at 26 you believe age is no longer your friend then I don't know what people at 30, 35+ studying MBBS should say. I understand how you may be feeling. Job insecurities, family expectations, peer pressure etc. If MBBS is all you wanted please go for it. Whether you like it or not you'll clock 35 later in life, you can as well be a Doctor too.
If you still want to go for MBBS, please try both DE with UTME. It will double your chances of getting in without you having to waste the year. Also remember to choose different schools. I don't like suggesting schools so do your homework on schools of your choice. You can later suggest it to the house and students of such schools will tell you loopholes to avoid and other necessary information.

Thanks 4 ur wonderful comment. The school of my mind for now is uniAbuja

oyetunjibaba:



We dey the shoe bro

Bros what is ur suggestion on the matter and which course did u study

I am 26, a Microbiology graduate, presently undergoing my
NYSC. I have been planning to put in for medicine immediately
after my service year (Direct entry). Pls what advice do u have
to render your Boy. Should I continue or i should go in search
of job after the service, as age is no longer by my side.

I am 26, a Microbiology graduate, presently undergoing my NYSC. I have been planning to put in for medicine immediately after my service easy (Direct entry). Pls what advice do u have to render your Boy. Should I continue or i should go in search of job after the service, as age is no longer by my side and I am from a poor family that virtually most are expecting from me. Pls push this to front page for reasonable opinions.

I am 26, a Microbiology graduate, presently undergoing my NYSC. I have been planning to put in for medicine immediately after my service easy (Direct entry). Pls what advice do u have to render your Boy. Should I continue or i should go in search of job after the service, as age is no longer by my side and I am from a poor family that virtually most are expecting from me. Pls push this to front page for reasonable opinions.