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obowunmi: proudly a Lekki big boy.

too many options and puhs, sy

This is another one, most matured singles roam abt, explore their options and the end dont know who too choose. Bt time and tide wait for no man

6) Having too many options

GboyegaD: At the right time I would do the needful. Besides, my babe is just about graduating from Med School and wants to do her house job first which implies I also habe mote time to plan well for my future interms of working towards my goals.

Guy, are you sure you are not referring to totalbaby, she ws the only one who talked abt being a medical student here, there is an interception there.

2legit2qwt: Well, just the thought of waking up to the same person scares me, i don't know if i can make it last forever.
Then again, it could be that i just haven't met that person yet that will make me worry less about my concerns

Read this--> https://www.nairaland.com/1157571/really-happy-same-person-forever

Yea, this is a notable point too, especially, the men. The thought of waking up to see the same person everyday is boring to some men, so they delay marriage as long as they can.

5) Scared of being with the same person for so long

J12: I'm following the trend. #No Marriage

Good, thank heavens this was raised by a female, people sincerely go with the trend, since most people are not married y shd i?

Have you heard that those who go with the crowd are lost in the crowd.

4) Its the trend

ik121: Marry??
For wetin nah??
Wen i cn easily co-habit 2geda for so long wit d mutual s.ex given at will y then shud 1 marry wit extra burden/responsibility transferd 2 me by so cald in-laws all in d name of marriage?
Long term relationships suits me perfectly well dat anytm ur tired u cn easily waka jejely wit no qualms on my side.
Taaaaaaahhhh!

(thank God my babe no be nairalander )

Man will alwaz be man, why stress yoursef over something you can get so freely and at no or less cost

And some gals give out themselves so easily, my neighbor co-habits wit a gal and iv been telling myself pe, God will punish this guy if he refuses to marry this gal, men, she is a maid with benefits

3) Co-habiting

2legit2qwt: Maybe i'm yet to meet the right person yet, maybe i'm just scared of commitment who knows

This is the 2nd reason: commitment. To be honest, some men are not ready to commit themselves to any marriage at the moment

2) committment

chikeorji123: Body & soul are willing but the pocket is weak..

Guy, you jst strike the right chord, this is the most cardinal reason why we have so many matured singles.

Financial reason, its not as easy as it used to be in the 70s, it is more difficult to be a man now

So i will call this the 1st reason

1) Money. money and money

chikeorji123: Body & soul are willing but the pocket is weak..

Laffing in Swahili

coolruler: Alright, guilty as charged

I was in a queue about to enter a bank sometimes last week. A lady came out, pretty, fair complectioned, wearing a fitted short gown, great body, fantastic legs.
As she walked past, all of us guys turned round to have a better look and enjoy her "back view".

You also notice that all over the world, anytime a beautiful woman passes, guys turn around to check out her ass.

Seriously, why do we men do it?

The reason is simple: because thats the reason why dos gals dress in bum tightening, curve revealin and bum shaking clothes. So the world can see the glory Of God

Men are only helping them achieve their aim

Common guys, dnt derail this thread, lets rub minds together so we can learn frm each oda.

Why do people get married so late dis days? Why do we have too many MATURED SINGLE around?

Are there still illiterates out there? I mean real illiterates. How do you define it now? Ok, An illiterate is anyone who can neither read nor write and iv nt being seeing those kind of people recenly.

I can marry someone who doesnt have formal education but intelligent, teachable and logical ( havent u met some illogical and rude BSC holders).

Common dudes, its wrong to see someone as a lower human jst bcs GOD placed you in better conditions than them. If u cant marry them, there is no point singing abt it, jst blink your eye and leave, u dnt need to hurt anyone.

[quote author=miss-sweety86]she doesn't have a phone? for what does she need a blackberry? people are so material nowadays![/quote]People?

Joliecoco: Why is it that African men love to invite girls to their office that they have a crush on ? Is it because they want to impress her or show her off to their friends ? Why do guys do this ? and another stuff that bother me about African men is how they meet you two second and they are talking about marriage and being in love with you. Are u serious , It not love its infatuation. Guys , pls feel free to explain why some African men behave like this?

Thats funny, so u think it is men who fall in love so quickly? Your question shd have been y do gals fall for those strategies frm men.

In case u dnt know, a man will/can do/say anything to impress a gal to have his way. Ok, to have a clearer picture, think abt this question, why do most men withdraw after having their ways? Do d calculation

seedord247: Moved out of my mom anuss @ age 18...

I did not fall in those categories u mentioned.

So why are you not married dude?

Babycake: This is for the men. I mean Real
men.Is it possible for a married man to remain loyal and faithful
to his woman for the rest of his life?

You sound like u hv told ursef its not possible, anyway, i think it shd be possible, i think so.

Im nt married yet so i shdnt beat my chest abt wat im nt sure of.

Bt something breaks my heart, i must confess that most married men i know prove to me that its not possible to remain faithful.

I hv so many married men and its sad to say it, bt i cant think of any faithful one.

And iv bin asking y its lik dis

seedord247: I'm 26, am i matured!

Maturity depends on what you are doing wit ur life at a point in time. Like, are u stil under ur parents, do u still depend on them for money? Some people are graduates at 26 and are already working while some are still writting JAMB, So where do u fall?

A topic was discussed on Classic FM this afternoon and i believe its good we share opinions about it here too.

When you look around, there seem to be many matured singles, it was never like this.

In those days, people get married when they logically and traditionally should, but now, hmm, i dont need to overflog it.

So whats happening? Where did we get it wrong? Why are you, being a matured single, not married yet?

Let rub minds, let have contructive opinions please

Here we go .............

Identical twins dey alwaz scare me, i jst cant expain wat i feel weneva i see them

Since Ikpeba missed (or threw away) that penalty and Oliseh couldnt stop crying, can anyone remember that game.

Nigeria vs Cameroun that enden in penalty kicks.Ghana/ Nigeria 2000

tpacalipse: I would rather prefer to be referred to as a STINGY man by women than to be referred to as a MAGA.

Guy, dats my watchword o, having listened to many gals, iv sworn that no gal will eva call me maga

e no go eva happen (again)

[quote author=Mynd_44]And it has been known that "Caring" men don't get the girls as most girls will call them "boring", "too cool", "too slow" and the likes.[/quote]"Caring" has different meanings to man and woman

Wat a man sees as being caring means boredom to some women (not all)

[quote author=Mynd_44]And it has been known that "Caring" men don't get the girls as most girls will call them "boring", "too cool", "too slow" and the likes.[/quote]"Caring" has different meanings to man and woman

Wat a man sees as being caring means boredom to some women (not all)

Exponental: Stingy and maga are not d 2 ways 2 qualify a man........
A man who gives with wisdom can be tagged "caring"!

Maybe u dnt understand what a gal means when she says a guy is caring.

I spend most of my time with gals, im d only boy in my house with 6 sisters, i have more female than male friends, like 10:1, and on my phone, i have more Sandras and Beckys that Desmonds and Lanres, So im not jst sayin this, I know so much abt gals and their mindsets.

When a gal says she wants a caring and God-fearing man, you can neva understand wat she means.

It goes beyond wat men will eva understand.

Our govt need to sanitize the police force, they are a set of retarded clowns. I jst sw a policeman harassin an elderly keke napep rider last nit around 10pm and i ws really riled

Damlesky: U jst dey insult nollywood, merlin nko from season 1-5 he no change his clothes

Merlin is a dirty boy and a semi-herbalist na

bedford101: MIKE EZOURONYE ACTING VILLAGE SCENE WITH WELL SHAVED AND LINED HAIRCUT, CLIPPER DE VILLAGE?

Guy, wetin u mean? Are u sayin there are no barbers shop in the village?
wen ws d last time u went to a village? Even villages in Jigawa state get barbers wey dey use clippers

This people fooled our parents so we shdnt allow them fool us.
Why shd we see them as our messiah?
They are all devourers, only God, only God and not man can save us

Ezeufi: Dad was just told by his father and his aunt, "Hey son, we've found a wife for you." And the rest is history. Mum and daddy are together for 42 years now.

Seriously, dat was how most of our parents met and they go on to live together for years, some of them 50ys, some 100yrs. Bt these days, despite courting and knowing each oda b4 marriage, people still end up splittin d bean, at times punching each oda like enemies, im talkin abt people who claimed to know each oda afta years of bein together.
Where did we get it wrong? Wats going on these days?
How many of our parents did courtship b4 eventually gettin married?
I asked my parents how they met and it ws jst a funny scenerio.

I think you dnt have any reason to back-out yet. You are still at the nursery stage of the relationship
Are u sure you are not asking too much from a friend?
Sure u can talk to her at this point, bt if she dosnt change and u think u cant cope wit dat trait, split the bean.
Dnt eva think someone will change one day or that you can change them. It dosnt wok

Something has been dancing across my mind.

Why is it that when you are the type who give gals money you will be regarded as a maga/mugu (you need to hear wat some gals say at the back), but when you claim to be intelligent by being prudent and frugal, you will be called a stingy guy, and you will be painted black?

Any guy who disputes this, is a sworn maga and any gal who disputes it, is looking for who to devour

Why? Iv been asking this question for years. Why is it like this?

henrypower: How could this happen to me, I never would have anticipated my present predicament. If anyone asked me at 14 if I was going to remain a virgin at 24, I wouldn't have agreed. The sad part of the story is that I have tried in many ways to have Bleep but it never seems to work out according to plan. The major reason for this delay is that I have been trying to make sure my first experience is special, for that reason I decided on having a girlfriend whom I would enjoy that moment with. Unfortunately for me, up till now I haven't yet gotten a girlfriend. I can't explain what the problem is, but most times I simply lose interest. A Brothel is completely out of the picture cause I despise that idea.

My name is Henry, am a 300L student of University of Ibadan. For sure, there are countless no of beautiful women here on Campus but I am just tired of trying to have Bleep. I am not exactly desperate now but am willing to give it a try to anyone out there who is interested.

Heavens! U call being a virgins a predicament, chei, we have lost it

Why is it that we now see the good things as being stange.

It depends on where u find ursef. I can tell u of my friends who are still virgin, 30+ guys, and i have female friends who are virgins

Why shd u be desperate to lose ur virginity? Boy, dnt eva think of goin 2 a brothel, the future is more important than now