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Bt y some gals dey do dis kind tin, haba

Is this a quote or a question?

Im not going with what the poster said bt you will hardly see a gal who have nt had an abortion and you will hardly see a gal who had not dated a married man.

RedBenson: Ladies of nowadays wont allow men to live in peace for God's sake. Is either they come out wit dis wahala dis time or another wahala another time. Many guys seriously complain abt dis very issue. They complain bitterly how thier girlfriends keep approaching them for money each time they have weddings to attend. We guys dont wear new cloths to evry wedding we attend but our ladies have made it as an obligation to inconvinient us just to wear a new cloth to a wedding ceremony. Imagine a girlfriend who is an outing type and she has a wedding to attend evry wkend and to prepare each of d cloths cost like 10-12k, how much does that be in a month and in a yr?

I dont think it's proper sewing new cloths in every wedding one has to attend and if at all dat shld happen, d lady shld do it wit her own money and not to disturb guys for things dat are not important to us (guys).

Let's hear from u if u think they shld sew new cloths on evry wedding and we guys must be sponsors.

Over to u.

Guy, any dude who does things like dis for a gf does nt know anytin at all. The point is you wont do dis foreva, you will feel enuf is enuf one day, so y start it in d 1st place.

Personally, i dnt date dos kinda gals, wen i discover a gal is a liability, she is gone.

Relationship is not about deduction, its abt addition.

Why do most ladies put themselves at disadvantage in relationships? Are you a sex machine? or wat makes u tink you wont find anoda man?

As a mata of fact, when a partner gives you dis kinda of conditions, its an indication that you are in an unhealthy relationship.

Relationship is all abt love, companionship, tolerance, understanding, compartibility, sacrifice, SELFLESSNESS etc

BedLam: HOW TO REMAIN POOR..

1. Never wake up early...

Keep stretching & turning in bed until you get too hungry to continue dozing if there are no bedbugs,
why hurry to get up??

2} Never plan how to spend your money..

Whenever you get money, start spending it right away and when it's finished, you try to count and
recall how you spent it..

3} Don't think of saving until you have real big money...

How can you save when you earn so little?? Those telling you to save are not sympathetic to your
burning needs..

4} Don't engage in activities usually reserved for the " uneducated "...

How can you a graduate
engage in petty trade or home based production?? That's for people who never went to school.

5} Don't think of starting a business until an angel comes from heaven & give U capital..

How do
they expect U to invest before U get millions of dollars?? Even though more than half the
businesses in your town were started with a few hundred dollar, you as a smart person can only
start with millons.

6} Complain about everything expect your own attitude:

Blame the system the government & the
banks that refuse to lend you money. They are all bad & do not want you to get rich.

7. Spend more than you earn.

To achieve this, buy consumer product on credit & keep borrowing
from friends & employers.

8. Compete in dressing.

Make sure wear the latest clothes among all workers in your offer..
Whenever your neighbour buys a new phone, u get one that is more expensive..

9. Get yourself a nice second hand car that costs more than three times your gross monthly pay..

10. Give your children everything they ask for since you're such a loving parent.

They should not
struggle for anything because you do not want them to suffer that way, they will grow up lazy &
hence poor enough to ensure they can't help you in old age...

Most people will debate Number 8 with you. People take dressing like a do or die affair, its a bloody competition, i must say.

Guy which kind name be dis, haba, so disgusting.
Change it or i go tell El-rufai

This is my judgement, i put it to u dat u, tawakalitu, on d said date, took d life of anoda human, a pregnant woman (2 people), hence, u are a sworn murderer, u shall therefore, 1st, face the firing squad, 2, die by hanging, 3, be electrocuted, 4, be stoned to death, i rise. Court.

cexplorer: How I wish that somebody with a person experience would contribute to this post because this question is helpful to many young adults.

Guy, if i tell u my story, u will laff, cry and pity me.

I will neva advice it, we are Africans na, and in Africa, age means alot. It reflects in everytin we do.

Dating or marrying an older lady is nt advisable. Its nt wat happens at that instance that matters bt wat happens over time, people are so engrossed in the now bt neva imagine what might happen in 10yrs

Diesel1: Bros go ahead and marry her if u truly luv her

Oh oh, you too?

Pls stop saying this thing, marriage goes beyond love, its nt a BF/GF relationship.

Havent u heard that **LOVE starts with a SMILE , grows with a KISS , and
ends with a TEARS**

Be guided

Oghalechic: Sweety, trust me, go ahead and marry her if you truelly love her.

Marriage goes beyond love, its nt abt the chemistry

A gal once told me NO FUN WITHOUT FUND - -- - - - NO MONEY NO LOVE

Dats the language

Have you noticed that WE NATURALLY IGNORE PEOPLE WHO LOVE US AND CHASE PEOPLE WE THINK WE LOVE (and most times these people dnt love us in the 1st place)? This is pre-dominant in women sha.

Thats the reason for unhappiness in most marriages.

Thats the trend bro

Same with some guys abeg.

Bt seriously, i cant cope with such people. I might nt go off immediately, bt if i talk tins out and i establish her mind is made up on frustrating me (dats hw i see it), dat will be it.

Why shd i suffer for what some oda guy did?

The wahala came from our mums, most of them gave their lives for our dads bt they dnt pass on the same virtue (and oda ones) to their children (gals).

I lived with my aunt for 3 yrs and i cant over-emphasize how submissive and respectable she is to the husband and everyone around, bt her daughter, chei! so proud and disrespectful, and dats how most gals are (not all). My aunt believes things are nt how they used to be (and dats wat most mums will tell u), children now pick many things from the outside world, and parents dont care to take care of this.

I think its the issue of trend, people go wit the flow. So many things are wrong with the family setting and thats y the level of dissatisfaction, unhappiness and divorce rate are on the high.

Seriously, this kinda mindset is why marriages are failing everyday. So the reason a gal will consider a guy is bcs of money, job and convinience.

So if 6 months afta u met dis guy, he lost his job and cant find anoda one within 12 months, u are off d relationship.

If he lost his job a yr afta marriage, wat will happen?

RedBenson: Everywhere u go u see guys being foolish b4 some mere shiit girls. U either see a guy who bought suya and put on the table, d girl would be eating the main suya while d guy eats d onions or nothing or u would see another one who takes a girl to eatery, he would spend at least 3k to buy eatables for d girl, d girl would be eating while he would just seat and watch her like zombie. One foolish guy was just behind me dis evening after buying one full plate of fried rice with chicken laps with salad with moi moi wit two pack of chivita juice and a big plate of ice cream for her, d girl was consuming d whole stuff while he was seated hungrily telling her frivolous stories of when his late grand father was d village head and d strongest herbalist of his coomunity as at dat time. I hate guys of this type wit passion. If ur money is not enough to take care of the two of u, better dont take her out at all. It looks like a real fool and d girl knew that. All dis mugu guys sef. I no blame dem sha.

A man can do anything, go any length to achieve his goal, If only dos kinda men can apply such principles to their carreers, there will be more successful people.

You shd know wat a guy wants wen he gives a gal N1

oluface: Please i need explanation on the importance of genotype in a relationship.

Have you eva heard of Abiku?

Culturally, we were made to believe its a spiritual allusion, bt over time it was established that Abiku is SS,

Though, its likelihood can be manipulated from the "spiritual world" bcs the chances that 2 AS will produce an SS is 1/4, bt chance also has it that they might have all

5 children as SS. Let me tell u abt my family, out of the 1st 4 children my parents had, im d only one alive. (And some idiots still call me abiku)

So guy, to avoid stories that touch, dnt let ur present feelings over-rule ur reality. It goes beyond the chemistry btw 2 lovers

Anyone who tells you love is the major thing in marriage (it might be true for a BF/GF relationship), is deluded, Compartibility is paramount in marriage.

Be guided, dnt make ursef a prayer point to people.

A demostration of acute Lunacy

temisukanmi: Most guys go for ladies wif flat tommies, is there any reason for these?

Guys let us knw your reasons, ladies ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ can also comment if ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ fink flat tommy is the best.

Anyone who tries to give a logical reason for this doesnt know wat he is saying.

Its part of media feeds, the media tells us how to live our lives, the media tells us wats good and bad.

Myopic media narcissism.

joyli: Damn too pretty n sexy!!

Do you really know wat "pretty" means?

Degis: You are indeed part of the few that Tithe paying will never work for because you are not convinced in what you are doing. When did Tithing become compulsion or a matter of duress?. Just like do not fornicate or commit adultery if you want to make heaven, so is tithing if you want to be prosperous. If Witches and Wizards pay Tithes in their Coven, and we know that what the devil has are imitations of God's covenant practices, why do supposedly Christian have problems with Tithing?.

Frisbee, Pastor Kun, Goshen 360 are false teachers, who are opposers of the truth. Desist from them and their teachings!

You did not in anyway answer these questions, its a logical and deductive debate

Fr0sbel: The Believers Share Their Possessions

32 All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. 33 With great power the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus. And God’s grace was so powerfully at work in them all 34 that there were no needy persons among them. For from time to time those who owned land or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales 35 and put it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to anyone who had need. - [b]Acts 4:32-35[/b]

This is d gospel pastors will neva preach and i hv issue wit dos blindfolded pastors followers.

The bible is accessible to all of us, dis is nt like in islam wia only a fraction of d congregation can read or understnd Arabic

If u still wait for ur pastor to tell u the next tin 2 do or hw to live ur life, u are nt growin.

Iv wanted to ask some questions abt tithe, pls i will prefer a real tither to respond.

1. Apart from the 10 commandments, God gave moses some other laws, like 87, which tithe is part of. Most of those laws have been nullified thanks to calvary. Now the question is; y does d church or pastors emphasize d tithe issue bt keep tellin us we are free frm d other laws?

2. The 2nd question is if tithe is of such high significance like we have bin made to believe, why didnt Jesus preach it? The only place Jesus mentiond tithe throughout his stay on earth, he refered to tithe as a religious observation.

3. The original or early churches like Catholic dnt emphasize tithes, y shd the new generational make people feel lik dey wont make heaven if dey dnt pay tithe?

4. We are new testament christians and the new testament was very clear abt giving to the poor, widow, etc. The bible says no one shd give under compulsion. Why are the new generation pastors making us contradict d gospel?

Mind you, i pay my tithe every month, i believe is a key to unlocking heavenly blessings

xtrafly: Women fall in love by what they hear. Men fall in love by what they see. that's why most of the women put make up and most of the men lie.

Wow, wat a deductive logic, take a bow dude

If women dnt want men to lie to dem anymore, dey also shd stop doin make up

Make ups is like tellin a lie that u are wat u are nt.

luvmijeje: @Sunny_t, am in agreement with u that u ve not seen where 'less' is used that way,that is why I said most people mind on NL have been programmed to think one way.
What does a girl mean when she says she want a God fearing man?

Ohh, u wanna know wat a gal means when she talks abt a "God fearing man". U tell us 1st or raise a tread on it so u can hv a sampled opinion.

Its a super story, life and strife and sorrow . . . . . . . . . . Wale Adenuga's production

We are nothing bt pencil in the hand of our creator


Anyway, love is not wicked,infact love has no definition, it depends on ur experience

D I S T A N C E

The reason is, it has been historically established that women dnt lik the truth.

For example, if a guy tells a gal he is a classroom teacher, she will rather run to anoda guy, who is also a classroom teacher bt who will tell her he is a lecturer.

And seriously, honest and faithful guys find it had to get along with gals, bt pls take a look at dos liars, dey have strings of LOYAL gals.

I hope i ansad d question

marro: But atttimes I don't blame them.
Dey always think ddey won't meet another guy like dear present especially wen dear lady is gettin to 30.
She always feel it's better to stick with de one dey have and work on it than hop around-HOPE!

Thats exactly the definition of stupidity.

How cud u start sometin u know u will end up regrettin? When one marries wit dat kinda of mindset and under dat kinda platform, its jst a question of time