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Gals! when they want to explore other available options they come up with absurd alibi, after 4 yrs, are you saying you deliderately wasted those years, i dnt believe you, i smell blood, you are nt being fair to this guy.
The stange thing is if a guy shd do a thing like this, it will be all over the internet, you will here all those men are the same, men are wicked, men are heartless stuff.
God is in heaven.

I have come to realize that our major problem is, the media feeds us with fantasy and only very few dudes have great knowledge abt reality.
First, we are different people, there is no stereo-type way to live. We had diff backgrounds, diff body chemistry, diff future and diff pathway to life purposes
Some people wrote Jamb at 29, while my younger sister did her NYSC at 21. Some people by God's schedule will have to learn more than imagined b4 marriage, while others have theirs sweat-less at 23, So we are jst not the same, Some people are tall, some are fat, some are ebony, some are deaf, some are poor, so there is no point trying to live your life live Will Smith.
Psalm 139 says it all. God knows abt your life schedule. He created you and planned your life long before u were born.
Let God's will be done, not your will.

Seriously, if u wanna have a happy home, a fulfilled life, obey wat God said abt love and respect.
We shouldnt allow the media and civilization to guide our lives. People who obey God live longer and have a disaster-free stories.
Bt when u look around, you will cry for the on-coming generation, one needs to pray and obey God.

Only God can save us

When was the last time your pastor preached about heaven and hell?
The devil has taken away gospel from us, what we are doing nw is not christianity
Christianity means christ-like, are we living our lives like christ?
Jesus said it wud be tough for a rich man to make heaven bt wealth is all pastors are chasing.
Thank God the bible is accessible to all of us, its not like on the other side where only 2 people know how 2 read the book.

Dat was in dos days na, in the early 90s, i dnt expect dudes to do this in dis age and time.

People still dey snap picture?

FIFA is making themselves look stupid

Ballotelli and sturridge shd be there na *lol*

La liga team of the year obviously.

Thats exactly why people should be matured b4 having babies

Why is Govt patching almost evrytin, nothing is jst working

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We cant discount the issue of age and seniority from our society, its part of us and except you are trying to be a JUMONG, u cant change it.
But its wise to be diplomatic in your relationships with people
In a working environment, you are nobody's kid brother, as a matter of fact, in my company, u are meant to address everyone by name: kate, Collins, Dare etc. Anyone and everyone.
However, diplomacy demands that you study ur surroundings and subscribe to logical politics.
Imagine a case where your moving up the coperate ladder is directly in the hands of a few co-workers, and you noticed these set of people are the i-am-not-your-mate type, guys, you better call them brother/aunty, or else you will pray from now till 2050, promotion will not come.
Apart from this, to avoid unnecesary beefing, physical, emotional and spiritual attack, deal wit people in diplomacy.
Like i said, you are nobody's yes-boy, you have the right to call anyone by his/her name.

I have neva seen a case where a gal call more than the guy.
Bt its only natural that a guy takes the lead in a relationship
It shd be 70/30 sha

Tgirl4real: Men have it naturally in them to cheat.

Dats an extremely funny comment gal

One common thing with most people at the beginning of a new year is setting out ones new year resolutions.

For some people it usually gives them the ability or opportunity to turn a new leaf and put an end to habits they are not too proud of.

Like smoking, drinking, keeping of malice, adultery, fornication and lots more.

But it has been observed that a lot of the time, these resolutions doesn’t even stand the test of time, as a lot are broken even before the first quarter of the New Year.



So what’s your take on this
Do new year resolutions work?

Are they advisable
Are they effective?


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@ OP, are u sure u are nt reading d wrong signal? It might be a misconception frm u

Your husband and general public must hear this . . . . . . . . . Dnt beg me o.

Traditional, church and registry look lik repetition honestly, y not jst do one and u are married. Wen u consider these events u wil understand wat im sayin.
Wat do u do at the traditional wedding? Joing together.
Wat do u do at the registry? joning together
Wat do u do at d church wedding? They are still being joined together.
So y d repetition?
As for the question, i think the 1st event( joinin together ) shd be d most important since the oda 2 are repetition.
If u do jst one of these 3, will anyone take ur wife away frm u or will anyone nullify d marriage?

Martins why? How cud u have Ballotelli as an in-law, guys dats trouble, u are even sayin he is ur boy, haa. Ballotelli na comfirm agbero, serious one o.

Wait, is dis a comedy or somthing? Someone is even mentioning Taribo.
Bt on a serious note, this is y christianity is becoming wat it is today and frm d look of things it wil only get worse.
Shd u have a favourite man of God?
This is y pastors are doing evrytin 2 upgrade dia status lik politicians, doing advert nd doing one prog or d oda to get more fans.
Shouting abt a particular man of God is wrong, thou natural bcs of our human nature, bt lets nt drag these men of God 2 hell.

Seriously, im a very friendly person, u can neva see me shout, quarrel or fight bt d tot of this scenerio is making me boil, God shdnt try me wit this bcs, kai, let me nt say wat cud happen

For me, it means nothing. Why must i wait till 1st sunday of the year to thank and Show my gratitude to God. It shd be a day to day thing. i thank God evrytime and evryday, monday, friday, morning, night, May, November, anytime. Thats my opinion anyway.

The devil is doing everything possible to take away christianity from us and to a very large extent, we are making him suceed.
Fact is, the bible is our standard, there is no doubt about that, not doing wat the bible says means ur position as a christian is dicey. People have given up on pastors and religious leaders because of wats happening, bt wateva happens God will neva change.
Watsoeva a pastor makes u feel doesnt change wat christianity is all about. If u believe the bible, then u wudnt argue wit
Hebrews 10:25
Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

Attending a church is not the pathway to heaven, its an instruction from God, and how wud u make heaven if u wont obey God's instructions.

The major issue wit our generation is evryone believes his/her logic shd over-rule evryoda tin. Crossing of legs is not wrong in itsef, yea, bt the ethics of the environment you find ursef shd be put into consideration. Pls ask ursef, will u cross ur legs while ur proff is delivering a lecture? In a polite or a formal environment crossing of legs, chewing of gums, etc is considered rude and impolite. You can do it in ur room, in d club, at a bar or any other devil glorifying place, bt in d presence of God or any matured place, its nt allowed, it simply means u dnt regard d people around, u dnt care wat anybody tinks, it cud also be viewed as a sign of pride. Shd u even argue wit ur mum wen she tells u somtin is wrong? Going forward, evrytin must nt be scriptural b4 it can be considered wrong, smoking of cigar wasnt stated in d bible, how wud u feel if ur child argue wit u abt it?

@ Cutejay
Well, i dnt knw how you view things, bt i think we shd alwaz try to learn frm experiences and events. God made you pass thru situations so you can learn bcs u will need those experiences later in life, the journey is really far and thats y i dnt feel bitter towards people and events.
However, permit me to point out somethings

1) It is entirely wrong to generalize when you hv bad experiences, do u also generalize when a man gives a hand wen u needed help? Gals rarely do! you hardly see people come online to say all men/women are gud wen dey were helped bt are very quick to register their despodence wen dey have d bad experiences. Have u eva heard of a gal who comes online to tell us abt hw a guy rescued her frm rapists or kidnappers?

2) Are u aware that some guys also pass tru such horrid experiences? In other words, its gud to have d background knowledge dat it cud happen to anyone, men also cry. Dnt see ursef as a weaker vessel.

3) I wonder why u choose to settle for a guy who already has a child, were you told u cant start your life afresh wit your own man? Im nt sayin its wrong to marry such a man bt gal u are in ur early 20s, a graduate, u hv options, do u tink u are ugly? Explore your options and dont allow anyone put u under avoidable and unnecesary pressure.

4) Move on frm here, make use of evrytin u hv learnt frm previous relationships and if u keep makin d same mistakes it means u hv not grown up, u shd make linear not circular improvements.