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I hate the stress of putting a child through pain just to make hair. Low cut all the way, till that girl child is old enough to go to the saloon herself without me coercing her to make the hair and loosen the hair for a new hair style. Kai!


My friend's daughter at age 2/3, even 6people couldn't keep her in place in the salon just to make her hair, the struggle, punches, cries nko? In fact the male salon owner hear am.

No be by force mbok. The earrings already shows she is female abeg

During your NYSC, why didn't you take advantage of the Saed program? Go and learn a skill.

Rude boy has hits upon and hits with lyrical content just just dance. For me I will choose lyrical content over dance any day anytime. I can't even remember the name of Peter's song that was trending that involving removing boxer shots sef.


Rudeboy it is for me.

Na true the guy talk na

We know that some of these women marry only to birth their babies and after having their kids, they come out of those marriages with speeches laced as inspirational. My question is didn't they court to ascertain compatibility? Nonsense and quotes

I talk am say wizzy go blast Linda with technical knock out. When you know that you always have friction with somebody you avoid it, but no Linda wii goan chook mouth in Wizzy matter.

Linda Don go put mouth for wizkid issue again. Okay wizzy go soon bring up her fishy smell again. Make she no siddon where contain her.

I see no reason why a church will want to use secular worldly music artist to push or advertise their upcoming church program.

Is it that the COZA church has no gospel artist or choir? Will christ embassy leave Sinach, Bushi, Samsong. Frank Edwards to go use Davido for their concert or programs abi? Abi Daystar Christian center will leave healing streams to go use Wizkid or LFC will go use Davido instead of the church choir for ministrations?

These things only happen when the church has become more worldly.

I trust Tonto with her reply.

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

You wife is evil. If she can do this to her own relative who cares and nurtures her two kids in her absence she will do worse with a non relative maid. Chai! How I'm I sure she doesn't starve that child in your absence.

Na wa. The heart of some women is just filled with stone and chaff.

philip0906:
Are you seeing your period

What exactly hurts you in joke 2 friends share?? Have you been bitter all your life??

You are the one seeing your period. You are the one has been bitter all your life. Thanks for quoting me I have noticed you on nairaland.

franugo:
I swear.....see d way landers are savaging the woman I no just understand how people think

Sth wey the person dt was spoken to no carry for mind, una go help her carry am

Actually ask for advice now n u will see them bashing each other instead of giving d advice.

If you had a sister who has been married and waiting to conceive for years and a woman with kids throws jabs at her to go born kids, I'm very sure you or your sister wouldn't see it as a something wey the other woman no carry for mind.

You see eh! Marriage, kids and money in fact all blessings are controlled by God not man. In God's time, it happens to all who desire it.

That her comment was uncalled for.

What a thing to vomit from your mouth to a friend. Did she invite the friend to her wedding to give her that savage reply? Anyway, thank God for the internet that never forgets, let us now watch how the internet digs this her utterance out when the marriage begin capsize like titanic ship.


Some ladies are just foolish, once they get married they begin to talk down their single friends.

It is a ploy to invite Davido fans to COZA. Na meet and greet to sign autograph

Who in his right senses proposes to a female without the knowledge of her parents? How do you even propose marry without necessary things sef. Family never check the things wey dem need to check you carry ring come, tomorrow divorce go dey fly upandan

Hahahaha she no look well? I laff in Jamaican and a Canadian dialect.

Sirk2018:
[quote author=LilMissFavvy post=84940679]How would you have felt if it was your wife who hanged out with her friends and came back by 2am? Any married man or woman who does things without considering the other partner is immature or simply wicked. Your wife's brother should have slapped you back, or is he a weak man? He should have slapped you ensuring that you bleed from your mouth and nose. As for your wife, continue to call her, send messages, give her more time, she will heal and return to you. It's very shameful that her brother was there and did not defend her, by slapping the st-pi---y outta your brains.
Did her brother pay her diary ? Family should leave couples alone.

Clap for yourself. Families should leave couples alone in domestic violence. I eagerly await the day you come here to tell the nairaland community on how your entire family left your female relative alone to face a violent spouse. Till then. Only when it happens to blood relatives do we know what they go through.

Ekene161829:
I did something I really regret. My wife and I have an amazing marriage, 2 years of marriage and we are blessed with a 7-month-old baby girl.

She is 28 and I almost 33. Last Saturday I got invited to go out by some of my work friends , I got home late 2am, so madam wasn't happy. She was yelling at me, throwing hands and screaming at me. I ignored her and left the room to the living room but she followed me and I asked her to leave me alone but she kept going which made me angry.

I took the back of my hand and gave her a slap on the mouth. She cried out and held her face and started crying and her lips was bleeding. I didn't intentionally hurt her, I just wanted to calm her down since ignoring her was not working. I said sorry, and I was literally on my knees begging her. I tried to hold her but she refused.
The rest of the night was me repeating apology or i didn't mean to hurt you. She ignored me . She went into our room and locked the door.

She was in there for a long time and the next morning, her mother and older brother was at the house and she came out of the room with her and our baby stuff and she said she was leaving me for good. I told her how sorry I was but her mother told me to get out of their faces and they left the house.

I feel so ashamed and I've never done anything like this before and I never thought I would. I don't want to loose my wife and baby. I need both of them back. Should I attempt to contact her?

What do I do?

Since back hand slap leading to bleeding of the mouth is the only way to calm a wife/woman you left with a 7months old baby at home to return 2am after a night out with the work buddies, now her people have also come within hours to tell you she didn't fall from the skies. She isn't a deity that doesn't know her origin.

Today is back hand slap, tomorrow it will be kicks sakpaing of her head or stabbing when she can't take it anymore.

Now be sincere with yourself. With the turn out of events, are you happy with that your outing? What responsible man leaves his family for flexing abi outing to return 2am?God forbid in your absence something happened to your family, what account will you give? Nothing.

Your wife reacted the way she did because a woman nursing a baby gets exhausted and would want the support of her hubby who will help even if it's for 30mins alone.

Na you Sabi o! If you like dey follow colleagues Waka upandan till you use your own hand scatter your marriage wey God give you like chicken wey dey use leg scatter him food. A word is enough for the wise. She is your wife, love her and correct her in love. Know what annoys both of you. Love yourselves. Have effective communication between you two that no one can intrude.

He who has an ear, let him hear what the spirit is saying to him concerning his marriage and his lifestyle as the man of his home. The ball is jn your court. Do as you deem fit. If you want peace and a loving home and marriage and parental legacy for your kids, begin to turn things around. If you want otherwise, don't change continue with your 2am and violent attitude and show that to your kids. But remember an apple doesn't fall far from a tree. It is what your kids see you do and mirror to them as marriage, that is what they will pick up and replicate in their marriage hence leading to Generational trend in your lineage.


Assignment: look at some families with divorces, check very well, there have divorces and unhappy homes in those family trend.



The ball is in your court.

New song from cuppy loading, that the sneak peek from the video. Otedola know how to support his daughter's career.

All I know is that we are all products of our decisions. If it turns out good, it favors us, when we make wrong decisions, we get burnt.


Tonto married Churchill thinking he is related to OBJ, na there long throat carry her go enter, come out dey cry scam. Abeg they should allow us hear word. If you marry e no work, you come out and forge ahead peacefully with your life, after all na your make that decision.

Good one, they should extend to other areas biko.

Smithwilliams826:
Why didn't the guy collect it from her fb page. Y did he request for it privately? Its obviously u typed this nonsense without thinking.

And you who quoted me and replying after thinking. Well done. May your brain cell and stem cells never die

Preciousgirl:
A friend requested my picture on Facebook and I sent him.

My hubby found it out and for three weeks he is not talking to me. I have apologised, tried everything but he is not talking. I am so confused and sad. Please what should I do?


Only sensible comments

Your husband found out that you sent a photo to a friend and he has been angry for how long now? Does your hubby not know that Facebook pages have photos of the page owner and that without you sending it, anybody can have your photo from there? Who did you even send the photo to? You just said a friend. Who is the "a friend"? I hope is not an ex? Why is he overly jealous and filled with anger? Did you court this man to see he is highly temperamental? Is one thing to be jealous, but to be jealous, angry and keep malice for almost a month na wa, he will soon control you his wife to close your Facebook and all social media accounts.

Olude193:
LMAO your head is correct...


I just no like this woman....


Since her first husband died...

Permit me to ask, does your liking or hating her stop food from being on her table? She dey progress dey Atlanta with her new husband and three kids dey enjoy winter and drinking coffee around the fire place, you dey naija with no constant light hating on Stella who has got her groove back. Hmm

AlphaStyles:
she used it as tray not an ingredient to smoke just because God doesn't act immediately doesn't mean he won't u might not experience the repercussions now u might experience it many years later or when ur children are born

She used it as ashtray to smoke ba. Who created those lungs of hers? Make we give her 5yrs from now. She go hear am.

To think this lady was married before, now we can say the ex husband must be so relieved. Na wa for some people.

These celebs just want to trend for all the wrong reasons. Thank God the internet doesn't forget. Let's give her say 5yrs from now and see.

Vanity upon vanity all is vanity. A former first Lady was coronated with titles upon titles. I remember one of the coronation was in beads, full regalia, but after she past from a failed surgery, all those titles and earthly acquisitions and possessions were left behind and worthless. If only this Tonto will learn to Shade less and acquire less and flaunt less.

Why do I suspect she is beginning to shop for another rich baby daddy. She already say child/children, make we dey look.

Does he look like he was called by God or he called himself? Na this type dey bury bodies for the Fondation of their church building so maggots turn to crowd.

The girl suppose counter that curse with "none shall lack her mate" and back to sender to his generation.

Is this a recent joke? I know years ago he was blasted for a rape related joke. If it is for that one then people will now know that the internet never dies, watch all utterances and outbursts as they will find you out.

What a shame, basket mouth who has a wife, sisters, mothers, daughter, female relatives will come out to joke about rape. Now he go wise up. Not every content is joke worthy.

Pls make sure you have that friends address always, incase of anything and the banks need to pick him up. So you can get him always if not you will be first arrested as yahoo boy for 2hat you know nothing about.