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iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Ask her out to a Val date, but don't say you can be her "back up" plan biko. Don't downgrade yourself and it will. Make you seem like you want to play with her emotions and using the term "back up", make you seem not serious.

Just ask her out, enjoy the time together, talk about things and see how things pan out from there.

You are not different from your cheating husband. The proper thing you should have done is divorce him and move on with your life. But getting pregnant while still under his roof and getting sexed by another penis outside is what I can never excuse you of.

The only reason you are coming up now to say he never slept with you in 5yrs is to justify and whip up sympathy since you are pregnant for another man.


It is your life. Do as you please. The ball is in your court.

She looks sickly. This drastic weight loss transformation get as e be o!

Thank God Angelique Kidjoe won that award, burna boy for no let us hear word again for this kwantry. Pride goes before a fall.

This Omashola is a blabber mouth. Foolish uncouth man from delta. First it was Venita now Jackie.

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You are worried? What is worrisome there? He is four years old, he must have picked that up from conversations of adults around him. It is now your duty as father and mother to ensure kids grow up at home with nothing like gender restricted roles. Let the boys do chores and also the ladies.

No such thing as kitchen solely for girls. Get every child domesticated as early as possible to avoid issues thereby raising well rounded kids.

Good. When you don't know what should be private, you will learn by force. Who told her the man stayed? He stayed and then you go wash your disgusting linen in public?

See Omotola complexion in Mortal inheritance and now.

Thank God I saw that movie and so I knew she bleached. Toning is a milder word for bleaching in Nigeria

As much as I support contributions from both parties for the wedding. The area I have a problem with your post is stating how much she earns.

Here is why. It shows that even in future. As the man of the house /home you will say because she earns x amount of money she should do this and that.

Some men are always in the habit of saying their wives earns higher than them or a certain amount so they leave her with responsibilities while they dangle their penis as man of the house.


You have already spend a huge money on trad, so what? Did you guys draw up a budget for your wedding before now and sit down to plan how to go about it from beginning? So because you have spent on trad, she should foot catering services bill of probably #700k depending on what dishes you want for the day and number of guests. Mbannu!


As a man, there is a way, you bring up issues lay the cards on the table and your responsible wife to be will even know what steps to take without you telling her. If you can't communicate effectively now, I wonder when you will when house rent, school fees, and feeding and home upkeep is involved. Then you will say she earns #500k monthly from UN so she should pay rent, okwaya?

Witchersunited:
Lie against a pastor suspension


Lie against the president, you are promoted

If buhari made all the editors that have printed lies about him to be suspended, same oyedepo will be shouting tyranny in his church

All these feeds into the ego of oyedepo, last last his time will come and he will die, chapter closed, history wouldn't remember him, given the way his church is, there will be crises to choose a new leader, church will end up like church of God mission.

Who told you Church of God mission ended? You just display your ignorance online. What a shame

So with all the Jaruma jazz and kayamata she sells on IG, e no fit hold her own husband? Jaruma is a big joke.

He has been radicalized same way Abdul muttalab was radicalized. He looks hardened sef. Heart of stone.

How much is the table at Ay live or Bovi man on fire? These days Christianity, things are for sale. Table 5m naira. Hahahaha wetin happen to waptrick.com where I go download the songs for free? How much was a table at the last supper like Daddy freeze said? How much does Paul Adefarasin charge per seat to attend The experience? Abeg can we do things right in Christiandom?

How many Nigerians buy magazines these days with social media? I can't remember buying Genevieve magazine sef, when last did I buy it with news all over social media everywhere?

internationalman:
Zlatan was in HK until he left to pursuit his music career...

I Believe he is now bigger than his former Oga at the HK.

Instead of scamming people of their hard earned money he left to chase his dream..

Many boys there also have a dream they could chase but the quest for quick and plenty cash won't let them.. Some we're even doing better for themselves before their friend who was below their standard suddenly pull a Mercedes GLK in front of them without so much as a hi... Boom, from there on out the decision to abandon whatever they were doing to join HK was made.

What is HK?

Pls continue to share your nudes about. Keep sending. When you were sending we didn't know now you disturb us now that you are being blackmailed.

Dr Sid eye don clear now. Now let him pick up the pieces of life and forge ahead.

Jeez! Kobe Bryant. Damnit! Rest in peace KOBE.

How can an 8yr old be sleeping with mother? Move the baby crib to the master bedroom for proximity for breastfeeding while the the older child sleeps in his/her room.

The couple's room should solely be for them to enjoy their time and affection.


As a man, who has a home and an apartment with rooms, can you tell what goes on and what shouldn't? Women make the mistake of after having kids, neglect their husband's and focusing on the kids so much and breaking the marital bonds.

Stupidity is when you allow somebody use your property as a collateral to get a loan. What does the the indebted cousin stand to lose in all of these? Nothing. You lose your house and you begin to sleep with agberos under the bridge. Next time you go reason with your brain and not sentiments.

I will never understand how females knowing they ain't ready for responsibility of motherhood will carry a pregnancy to term and throw the kids away to die. How wicked they are.


Tomorrow, a man will marry her now and she will be having delayed conception and they will never confess their sins to the man while he cries to God to bless his family with the fruit of the womb. This is so callous, what happens to their conscience sef?

The same scars she denied having before people exposed her ordeal abi?

I what an unhealthy dose of baggage. Let us give her some time. Even Monique went as far as acting Phat girls to glorify plus size and she went on to lose weight, didn't she?


Lepacious bose for a long time used her weight as punch lines in her comedy, didn't she end up losing weight to stay healthy?

Leave Eniola badmus to fool herself, give her few years from now, let her bask in the unhealthy phase of her life, when she gets the doctor's wake up call to stay healthy to survive or life long, she will sit up and stop glorifying unhealthy fat.

Next time keep your compliments to yourself. Some females bosses are just something else afterall a female interviewer tongue lashed a male who she interviewed for complimenting her perfume.

For females I say, keep compliments to yourself especially those in high rank, some of them dey kolo for head, they are driven and powered by their ranking.

I siddon gidigba on top my ugwu tree dey observe with tooth pick for mouth, make I see how this womb shifter and pant tearer relationship wan end. Some ladies have finally gone nuts in the hope of trending. When the guy go dump her eh!

Ask your mum to get a new partner, abi didn't I read she is divorced? It is boredom that is making her want to
live be included in your marriage life. When you were wedded at the altar, where you joined like this man+mother +wife? If not, get the marriage equation right and let your manipulative mother know she can't manipulate your wife, it won't work.

As foe your wife, when she sees less of your mom interfering in her marriage, a MIL and DIL can be built. Clearly your wife is a choleric who is blunt and won't pretend.