₦airaland Forum

judgementyard:
The truth is that she might have lost the case,but it will bring out the issues about rape.
We need to discuss more on it and educate each other on how to prevent it and what to do if you happen to be male or female, Boy or girl victim.

God bless you

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

Make una continue to keep malice as a couple. Have you asked yourselves, how many years you have to live on this earth? How many meaningful days into months you have spent keeping malice and being angry at each other? Do you two know that communication is the life of any relationship and that a day without "effective" communication ruins the relationship?

As a man, you mean you can't call your wife to order? Obviously she has been wired that sex settles quarrels. If it isn't that way for you, then call her to order. Na you carry your money go buy/marry her as wife.

Abeg allow us sleep, and spare us your John Thomas folktale.

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think it is bad for a woman to be fornicating and boldly announcing the shameful resultant pregnancy online. Where are our morals in this country? I think the federal government should clamp down on giving birth outside wedlock so as to restore sanity amongst our shameless youths

Keep your born again ism one side. So you don't know Dija is married with 2kids?she is just one celeb who knows how to keep her marriage and family off social Media

No receipt of payment? Na wa for some Landlords and their kids Sha. You collect rent and not carry your father along.

So true. The evicted ones are celebrated, had a party in their honor and big corporations will be willing to associate their brands with them.

lebete3000:
Cos most of you lass think like like an Ass & stink like one...

You must be speaking from the experience you have with the lass you have around you abi?

Is this road construction without drainage at the sides and the road isn't even wide enough. In the next two/five years we will be back to square one, the road will be bad again and is it that our govt never go environmental impact assessment or forecast? Why build narrow road when they know road construction opens up a town? In the next 10years now, they will be enmarking billions to to make this same road into an expressway.

This lady try o! When a man has been married twice with two failed marriages, that says a lot about him.

Why will two women leave him?

lilmax:
All I read is, kemi always dey for "your guys"

This guy advising him will knack the kemi soon

The kemi to me is pretending

God bless you. Like seriously even as girlfriend, why will I enter the kitchen to cook for guys at 3am?

Ladies over do these things just to collect ring, after ring they show their true colors, how many wives will get up to cook for their husbands and his guy friends at 3am?

This friend never Sabi anything say babes dey pretend to marry then show their true colors.

blowjohn:
It's not about being a millionaire.
Nicky Minaj is a millionaire too and she goes unclad.
Same for Lady Gaga.
It's about having common sense.

I agree with you. Common sense is really lacking in Mercy here.

Mumu man, you felt caged? Nonsense talk your penis couldn't wear a condom abi? Accept it you are married. Continue sagging left, right and center, keep chasing after fleeting shadows.

ursullalinda:
Stressing myself just to watch a fashion show....ifa ihear

Together with the Lagos traffic everywhere. Some people get time o!

What advice or suggestions do you want from us here? The man already knows who he wants to marry and he has made his choice whether the desperate girl likes let her come up with your sister has no womb. Guy has made up his mind, and that is the kind of man i like, a man who knows what he wants and goes for it, not falling for cheap blackmail and manipulation by a demon in breast, makeup and butt.

Tell your sis to severe all ties with that her ex roommate and friend before she poisons her ahead of the marriage o! Shame to bad people hossanna(in daddy showkey's voice).

I saw this Photo and I was disgusted. Mercy should have known better. Ike is fully clothed and she is half clad like the video vixen she is.

As a millionaire I expected some level of decorum now, but what do I know? This photo is just trashy.

Mercy no go reason well nao. The game has ended, it is time to conduct herself highly.

And why don't you pray regularly again? Are you a Muslim? If you are and you no longer pray, you should check yourself very well.

At 35, what makes him feel you can't get another husband? You didn't mention children in this marriage. The ball is in your court. You married him, you can either sit up, correct yourself in areas you need to change for your marriage to work or you leave the marriage. A partner who keeps malice isn't it at all, as a marriage thrives on communication, where there is no communication, there is no understanding, no understanding, the marriage or any relationship begins to die.

We Don see the rice chop for country finish dem Wan export am?

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....

I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..

I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

You only emphasized young virgin and not the marriage issues you are facing. How do we know what advice to give? Do I now tell you to step out and when you have aged, you can go back in?

harrikoko:
So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

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Don't almost faint yet. This goes to show you that when a women wants to do. They will do it well without husband knowing and probably bring another man's baby inside for you to train. Not that I support a married woman dickingg outside her marriage, you sef sebi you were sambaing outside too and as you keep telling her she is getting old, continue emphasizing her aging as you are younging daily.

idesylvester:
Even jehovah witnesses now dey use TV for church... I'm not in support of taking the TV off, rather password some adult stations

He is cautious about what imagery his kids are exposed to early in life which isn't a bad thing after all the Bible says guard your heart and renew your minds daily.

pussyjuliet:
It's not always that easy to film those idiots called police o... Talking from experience... Don't be surprised. They do harass ladies like me too

The only reason they let go was because Rudeboy is popular o! Some of the naija police no be am at all. Collossal disgrace.

Instead of telling the teachers, she is telling IG. She forgets that the son will. Mingle with other kids in school and pick up certain habits

Waoh! Agatha looking so beautiful. Peace of mind is key in life o! 50 looks good on you ma

Same way she said she doesn't wear a jeans twice. Liars living fake life everywhere only to be called out and she later admitted to repeating clothes.

I pity people who follow these people as mentors

See the suffer head leprous looking man who even goes ahead to sexually molest young girl again.

All these pedophiles should be done away with from our society.

I talk am am yesterday say David go blast her.

This is it! When you don't shout about your account balance but allow your work and delivery speak for you.

Good one Bella Disu

Just imagine. In Nigeria o! In a state with a governor. When the country is called shit hole we get angry, and then we see things like this that just weakens our little hope in this nation.


I just imagine how the students sleep at night. Insects, bats, snakes and being exposed to the elements. The exposure to cold when it rains. Chai!

Foolish girl like she is from Senegalese and not a Nigerian. Mumu idiot, if not for David who for know her?

As much as Tboss is right, David go soon blast her life cycle in and out. She go soon hear say she be pauper and can't/will never measure up to his entire family's wealth.

subtlemee:
How will she cope with all these endorsements and still have time to breath? Greed won't let her say no to some

Which human says no to money? Even Dangote wants more money. Every business person wants more business deals and more money, every salary earner wants pay increase and promotion, no be so?

He is so annoyed at this country that has failed its citizens. He is doing a legit job over there so I'm happy.

kellypara:
Guys I need your advice pls. I have been dating this girl for a year now and just when I thought I have found someone that I love and loves me back, She infected me with Gonorrhoea.
Pls guys, what should I do now?

I just love you. You come here to blame your babe abi? Who owns the penis? Who owns the brain and pituitary glands that sends message to the brain for sexual activity? Finally. How much is a condom?


Go treat yourself, either you abstain or use protection. Never use eye to gauge the fidelity of a partner. Have you heard some people go run medical test on themselves as partners before sexual activity is done without protection?