₦airaland Forum

Aremolekunowo:
Greetings to my people of nairalanders, I met my wife around 2015 and we dated for almost a year and attended all the necessary church and family teachings.

She told me she was a single mother, and all the men that dated her before I came to her left her because of that,I promise I won't leave her for having a baby outside wedlock.

The relationship keep on growing and I told her about my AS genotype and I made it clear to her that nothing will make me marry AS lady because of sickle cell children palavar. she told me that she is genotype AA. We continue our relationship did introduction and fixed our wedding date, now a month and two weeks to our wedding we went for mandatory test in our church clinic behold she failed the genotype test it was AS, right there I told her I no dey do again, she rejected the result and claimed vehemently that she is AA. second day we did confirmatory test it was still the same thing.

Her parents called me and told me both of them were AA and there is no way their daughter can be AS gene. they later brought some previous test (fake) of her AA stuff. I was bullied by every one around to go ahead since it was just few weeks to the wedding that it was manipulations, though my spirit was not willing again but I was compelled by all to go ahead that the thing has change back to AA she also said so that it has changed back to original AA. We go ahead and marry sha. She took in immediately after nine month she gave birth to a baby boy which I named Ikechukwu though we are both Yoruba's but I love Igbo people so much because I grew up with many of them. After some months after birth, Ikechukwu begin some strange sickness we begin to take the boy in and outside hospitals, spending the little income I was getting I decided to do Genotype test for d boy my wife resist it but I went ahead behold it was SS(sickle cell)

immediately I show her the result she went on her knees begging me, I called her father and informed him about it he invites me to his place and he too was begging me that he was also AS and not AA as he claimed before; now every is begging me again that I should not break my marriage that is based on deception, I have done everything that will make her leave my house except violent she refused to go. Every one is bullying me and begging me again, now non of them have supported me in any way for the boy expensive treatment.

IK is now a year old, am not willing to have another child with her again, please my people what should I do , and what's the best way to make her leave my house for at leat 2 to 3 years? please advice your brother and son, thanks and sorry for the long epistle God bless you all.

247frolicboss:
BREAKING: Mohamed Salah is set to miss the World Cup after he suffered a dislocated shoulder in the UCL final , according to Dan Roan.

http://newshelm.ng/mohamed-salah-to-miss-the-world-cup/


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Misypee:
Mum is a very jovial person, i came home with a male classmate and friend one day and he greeted mum, and before i could say jack, she started asking him when he'll come and pay bride price, i begged her with one awkward look to be cool but na lie, she gave him a seat and they chatted away, its funny and embarrassing

wahleyz:
Professor Asagba and Professor Fadoju of the Department of Human Kinetics and Health Education, Faculty of Education, University of Ibadan. My Academic Fathers

stephenduru:
Read more. http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/05/see-what-nigerian-lady-posted-after.html?m=1

tobechi74:
4Each has its constitution and structured pattern which is used to achieve a goal. They are bodieswith rules and punishment for deterrence. Referees,pastors and imam are thereto remind members of rules and ensure they are enforced.

Euouae:
Alcohol!

Works for me... Most brilliant on stage when am a little tipsy

Bhelamblog:
As a lady, at this point i give up.. lol.. This is just the height of it.. And someone said the boyfriend should wash her face before proposing.. no chill.

News From Ebiwali--
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newsynews:
Comedian Bovi has reacted to the rape allegation level against a Taxify Driver, Henry Chukwuemeka, by MTV Sugar Actress, Dorcas Fapson.

The comedian pointed out certains things he felt she did right in the event that materialized the allegation and also things he felt she could have done better.

Read his words below.



http://www.purplefeel.com/2018/01/comedian-bovi-highlights-dorcas-fapson.html

Jupxter:
story for the gods


story for the gods, ask any woman that ends up with a spouse she doesn't love, they'll tell you the same shyte, they skipped past good men and treated them like thrash, they didn't know o, na devil. Them go use two eyes discard and despise good men, and end up with thrash, who cares. I've stopped pitying women who complain about marital problem here and there, na dem make their choice, they should deal with the consequences.

Jupxter:
story for the gods


story for the gods, ask any woman that ends up with a spouse she doesn't love, they'll tell you the same shyte, they skipped past good men and treated them like thrash, they didn't know o, na devil. Them go use two eyes discard and despise good men, and end up with thrash, who cares. I've stopped pitying women who complain about marital problem here and there, na dem make their choice, they should deal with the consequences.

Rigel95:
1.HIS RING FINGER.
While most married men are smarter now and would not go out with another woman, with the wedding ring on, you should look for the dark spot on the finger where a ring must have been removed hours earlier.

2.YOU CAN ONLY SPEAK WITH HIM AT ODD HOURS.
Does he call only at lunch (when he is alone at work) or late in the night when the missus must have been asleep?

3.DOES HE GO OUT WITH YOU ONLY TO FAR LOCATIONS?
Men who do this, usually chose far locations from where either one of you lives to reduce the possibility of his wife or someone else sighting him on his escapade with you.

4.HE ACTUALLY GOES OUT WITH YOU TO A PUBLIC PLACE, BUT...
He is obviously ill at ease and frequently looks to his sides-which is unlike him. Chances are, he is afraid he might get found out and busted while with you. He may equally prefer you guys sit around corners and darker places.OR he tries to hide his face on seeing some people.

5.YOU DO NOT KNOW HIS HOUSE.
So you have been going out with him for some time but he has never deemed it fit to let you know his house. Chances are he has woman tucked somewhere(probably kids too) he doesn't want you to learn about.

6.YOU KNOW HIS HOUSE BUT...
You notice all the kitchen gadgets....Toaster, deep-fryer,grills, special ovens,grinder, egg mixing machine,yam pounder,yam-peeler etc. Except he is a chef, then the woman of the house is probably in another state or (abroad )and will claim her man from you the moment she's back!

7.HE DOES NOT INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FRIENDS!

8.YOUR INSTINCTS SAY SOMETHING'S WRONG.
Your instints are there for a reason . Most times when you suspect foul play from a man, chances are you are probably right.

priiince:
Citizenship laws differ depending on the country. For example, in the UK, citizenship is not automatically conferred to those born in Britain.

In the United States, even a child born in the country's waters or airspace is a U.S. citizen by birth in accordance with the principle of jus soli (right of the soil) -- that's the right of anyone born in the territory of a state to nationality or citizenship.

Some babies born in an airplane enroute wherever even get free flights for life.

TonyeBarcanista:
@naijaseeker: I am from Okrika, Rivers state not Bayelsa state.


The indigenes don't want to sell/lease/rent land to the rearers due to reasons best known to them...

State government must step in, acquire lands by paying appropriate compensation to indigenes, and then lease this land to breeders. This will be in the interest of all parties.

We must end open grazing but we have to proposed better alternative in the interest of the country.


Aside Taraba state, no state in the Northwest or Northeast has functional ranch... This is an aberration and indictment on the northern leaders.

However, we can't restrict them to the north alone except we are dividing Nigeria.

TonyeBarcanista:
It is either you have reading problem or that of comprehension, else, you wouldn't have wrote this.

In every state there is usually parks for commercial cab operators, these parks are not operated by indigenes alone but by Nigerians of different ethnic groups but they are overseen by the state government or FG (in the case of FCT) and a source of revenue. Why didn't you tell the motorists to go buy lands and operate their parks?

In many states, government build blocks of lock-up shops and lease to traders. This system not only make it well coordinated but also attract revenue to the state. Why not go tell each traders to go buy their own lands to build their shops?

Let us try to address issues holistically


It is not a must to comment...

Boleyndynasty2:
Due process is a thing of the past,nobody follows it anymore... But how do people without knowledge of rearing cows comfortably steal 200 cows at once and vanish with the cows without trace?

AxxeMan:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/01/ijaw-itsekiri-youths-plan-five-million-man-march/

Islie:
And if we don't speak out who's gonna help? Cos as far as I know the president isn't even concerned.....everybody needs to see and know the kinda people we share citizenship with.... We can't pick up arms but our voices can go a long way to save our brothers and sisters











http://punchng.com/fg-urges-restraint-in-media-coverage-of-farmersherders-crisis/

Tmercy:
were me there?

Laitesmart:
Teacher: Oya .. You too join them!!!!

Me: But sir, I didn't there sir!!

anonymousIP2:
@VIVIANGIST

Veteran actress, Rita Edochie's daughter who goes by the name Whisper Amanda Edochie has graduated from the University. Whisper who is also an up and coming actress dropped pictures of herself and her already "Pen stained top" and wrote:

"I could think of a thousand things to say but funny enough I have just a few..
God is God!
God is Good!
Mama, I made it!
Papa, your little girl is now a graduate.
#entrepreneur #craftswoman #entertainer #graduate #whisperamanda"

More pictures below:

SOURCE - http://www.viviangist.ng/actress-rita-edochies-daughter-whisper-graduates-from-the-university/

prinxpalax:
1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and canally minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot

lastchild:
when I started reading this your respond I saw it as one of the stu!pid posts we normally see here but as I went on it started making sense to me,especially the part you said you'll unleash her on your enemies and conquering the world with it which is what a "celestial spiritualist told me

But the issue now is,how do I make this spirit to understand that she's hurting me seriously,I've been to many spiritualists,some suggested taking me to a river to consult this spirit, some said I should bring money for a spiritual work, some wanted to give me incense to burning at home which will chase her away while others wanted to give me incense that will bring her out so we can reach an agreement

This whole thing got me confused,pastors are not even helping issues,always making me to believe that I have to be in prayers for the rest of my life which scares the hell out of me

yomi007k:


I think the spiritual wife /husband thing is only in Nigeria u can find dem....

Cos I neva heard a chinese, uk or american man complain abt such.



.......Buhari sha.

LeksideOLM:
I want to improve my English.
I do speak good english but makes little mistakes which embarrass me sometimes.

I want to improve but don't know how.
I was brought up with Pure Yoruba Dialect.

Prestige001:
Bae has being disturbing me to deflower her since 2months ago, which i have being refusing Cos i just dont want to. Today, i decided to enter her, though I use to finger her before but no blood seen, shes so tight.
As i entered her today she screamed and when am trying to thrust deeper she use to push me. At the end i noticed she cum.but still yet no blood seen. She does not allow me to thrust deep cos she use to cry out of pain.
Since i never deflowered before, does it mean
Only when i thrust deeper that i will be able to see blood?
Or
Shes just faking the crying and being lying to me all dis while?

But one thing that is confusing is that, when i finger her, even when shes wet
My finger always difficult to enter.
Guys please say something before i dump her straight away.

EmyLeo:
really not so cool young lady..

cheaphost:
Nollywood Actress, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde took to her instagram to ask if this albino guy is sexy.

Here's what she said:

"Since I got the script for #tribunalthemovie and started researches on #albinism I have come across some of the hottest humans! Is this guy hot or Not. If he asks you out ... what will you say?"

https://www.instagram.com/p/BYbA44sgKi2/?hl=en