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Family / Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Suzie1(f): 10:31pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Rachel98: This is not the best way to present your brother's wife please. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: My 8 Year Old Son's Debate With A 7yr Old Atheist by Suzie1(f): 6:47pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Tetehjewels: Mr, this is unnecessary. You can argue with him, explaining your thoughts/conviction about the subject matter without involving your son. This act reeks of immaturity and a touch of narcissism. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Suzie1(f): 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: Fornication and abortion are shameful acts and sins against your body. However, you're shouting here not because you loved the lady in question but because your ego was broken. You're angry because you couldn't control the situation (as you already perceived yourself as a man and maybe your parents do help you to pamper your ego). That's why you're acting like a victim (thinking it's because you're not rich). In 2 years time, you will stop loving the girl (even if at all you loved her, to start with) you will blame her for being pregnant etc. You have no respect and it contributes to the fear of uncertainties her Mum already has. The girl needs help, a godly mentor to help her see the future using the powerful women's intuition. Conclusively, ask God for forgiveness, pray for wisdom and understanding of situations. Work on becoming better in the future. I believe that before the day break tomorrow, her mum could have a change of mind but YOU'RE NOT ENTITLED TO THE BABY. You know you're doing this gragra too because of your broken "ego". Be humbled, stop feeling like a victim. Have an ambition and be passionate about it first. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: When Will Twitter Ban Nnamdi Kanu's Hate Speeches? by Suzie1(f): 6:07am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Rissamenti: Sorry, this makes no sense. |
Family / Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Suzie1(f): 8:28am On May 07, 2021 |
[quote author=CountVersailles post=101392256][/quote] I wondered why more than 90% comments I read, condemned the wife. Let's break it down and assume that the wife nags about it. That discussion was just a discussion between husband and wife, why would your brother told you about it? It means your brother is not mature enough to be married. The wife might be worried considering the fact that many grown-ups refuse to be independent. 2. What if it's a cunning way your brother is using to disconnect you from his financial life. He doesn't have any budget for you anymore based on the increase in his own needs. He only wants you to find a way to keep getting the house rent paid. Just a manipulation! When would people allow others to live their lives freely, give freely without being a burden or feel entitled? |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Suzie1(f): 6:21am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Ochason: Carrying out your wild imagination? Justifying disgusting acts and putting the blame on your wife? Even when she tried to adjust, you're still not satisfied? What a generation? Does that mean if you imagine how sniper or rat poison tastes, you're going to eat it? What a marital mistake the wife made! I hope she finds unending joy in God, herself, and the children (if you've children together). 6 Likes |
Family / Re: When Did You Resume Sex After Childbirth? by Suzie1(f): 4:02pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
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Family / Re: When Did You Resume Sex After Childbirth? by Suzie1(f): 7:50pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
angelEmade: I don't know what the debate is about but I am just curious to know what Nigeria's Lingua Franca is if not English. Is it French or Arabic? English is the main language of academic instruction from kindergarten to higher institution, main language of communication in official settings. Yet graduates still give flimsy excuses why they are not proficient in it. 6 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Sponsoring EndSARS Protests - APC by Suzie1(f): 10:02am On Oct 22, 2020 |
madridguy: Hey guy, just keep quiet and pray for the country instead of joggling around, defending what is not. |
Crime / Re: Favour Ikechukwu: Lagos Police Commissioner Visits Family Of Girl Raped To Death by Suzie1(f): 8:04am On Oct 07, 2020 |
Yomit71: Is this really necessary on this thread? Do you guys that always bring tribe into everything are that insensitive? Yomit71: I am ashamed of this comment. Not everything should be a joke or where to drag others. Please be a good representative of yourself and whatever tribe you belong. Most importantly, the change we need in Nigeria begins with us! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Suzie1(f): 5:09pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: What's this one saying? Flogging a 26 year old (being it man or woman) is inappropriate even if he's not independent. It's a domestic violence and shouldn't be condoned! That's why the number of broken people keeps increasing (from narcissists to people living with bipolar, PTSD and so on). Dear OP, it is either you talk to your Dad (father to son talk) with respect though or report him to whom he fears (your Mum, one of his "respectable" friends or family members) if you're afraid of talking to him (most likely). I still believe that there're some things to be busy with that could generate income than to be waiting for white collar jobs. Hence, I would like to implore you to create values with your time. Don't just keep waiting for an employer you can sell your time. 35 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Relocate? by Suzie1(f): 6:53am On May 17, 2020 |
Morningstar12: Following your heart is not an advice. You posted here because your heart and mind are in a state of confusion. Heart alone can't guarantee success, mind is needed. The balance between heart and mind is what peace of mind is. Moving out at this stage of confusion might cause you your hard earned money. It would be good if you could calm your mind down. Take control of your emotions being it anger or otherwise. Treat your mind to ignore your brother as if he doesn't exist. If he is at home and your anger is boiling, take a walk to clear your mind. You can train your brain to accept him as long as you have your finances under your control which I think was why your Mum stopped giving him food. What if your brother has gotten into trouble (could be debt) where he travelled to that he could not tell anyone but rather unleashed his anger on his family. Moving in with a friend could be even more disastrous. What if he doesn't have up to what you've saved? What if he also wants to leech on you? He might not have the plan now but you can't be sure of a peaceful living with him either. In summary, don't move out now because you're having issues with your brother. Move out when you have a rigid plan and that the city will give you double income than the current town you're. Move out when you are sure of the better offers the city will yield in return in every ramifications. When you can afford accommodation without borrowing, owing your landlord or losing all your savings on accommodation and feeding. Peace be onto you! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Relocate? by Suzie1(f): 6:30am On May 17, 2020 |
ikh777: He posted at 1:18am, you posted your reply at 1:20am. In 2 minutes, you've already read the post 3 times and understood his pain. You now want him to inbox you in capital letters? Shame on scammers and avaricious people because they will always live in abject poverty. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Suzie1(f): 1:33pm On May 11, 2020 |
rhymesu28: This is strange. Are you really worried about this or you're afraid of the woman you married? What else is the meaning of marriage again if the married can't solve little misunderstanding between themselves instead of coming online. |
Family / Re: Finally free from a Gay friend by Suzie1(f): 10:29am On May 06, 2020 |
I've a [b]friend who's older than me that I just detached myself from. Yes we've been friends for years but I haven't been happy in that friendship all these while though he's helpful[/b], I'll presume that he's not the only friend you have but you stuck with him because of the money you're getting from him. He has used money as a power to surpress me. How did he suppress you with money? He isn't your boss or parents. Everyone wants things free of charge without thinking of the implications. His own monster is demanding disgusting acts. Why are still talking to him. If you can't report him to the police, then run away from him. He even tried asking for my sister's hand in marriage, when she refused, He went awol. You exposed your sister to this. He wanted to use your sister as a reward of what he has been doing for you and also to get close to you forever. Talking about how she doesn't succumb easily, Last week Saturday, He chatted me up that I won't find someone like him in this life again, If you look at his conversation with some guys, It's just totally disgusting. He was disappointed and wanted to manipulate you into believing that you have no other way. But why are you worried? No more access to free money? My Mom have warned me about him ever since but now I've seen things clearly, When I was about getting a new laptop but I wasn't with enough cash, I asked if he can borrow me, He said he'll give it to me freely if he only he can have his way with me, I just shrugged it off and told him not to bother, He was making me see reasons why I need a laptop, but yet I told him not to bother, Free lunch I started opening up of recent that I'm not cool with most of his stuffs, His attitudes toward me has been cold since then, He tried turning my brothers against me saying that I don't care that I might be a threat to the strong union I and my brothers have, He can just call and start saying that assuming he's with me, He'll hold me tight, How he's missing me, How he cherishes me, How he loves me and all of that, He is your friend, why would your brothers believe him over you. Should we say he has been given them money too. My greatest Joy is that I've totally cut all contact with him, I'm now keen on sticking to God and family alone even if the road will be tough. I hope this is so and you won't run to him like his pet. I know some guys might be in my shoes. To you and others in this shoe, I just want to implore you to get out of the shoe. Money is a tool of power that put people under obligation. When someone gives you something for free, you're automatically obliged to them. You are as well disarmed, in that, you're not likely to see what they're up to. If you're not paying for a product, it means you're the product. He invested in you hoping to yield loyalty Everyone likes a generous person. A generous person build more allies to themselves using money (maybe that's why you were worried about what he told your brother). What to do Godliness with contentment is a great gain. Never let greed distract you. Be content with what you have. Manage and struggle to generate income legally. Stop depending on others for your total survival anymore including your parents. Don't be a burden to them. Cheers � 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Suzie1(f): 9:58am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: One day, he will be tired of the home where he has no time to relax or joke but to be up and doing while watching his wife sitting in a spot berekete, getting fatter because she's a nursing mother. Then you will come to realisation that you should have assisted him and made fun out of the chores. |
Family / Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by Suzie1(f): 10:29pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Theclaaa: Dear Aunty, you can't protect the child, please do let her go. Neither has she forgiven your brother, please do not influence her decision. P. S. The child was behaving strangely, yet you couldn't be patient enough to calm her down but rather gave her 2 hot slaps (a traumatised child). She eventually opened up to you, you still slapped her to confirm if she was saying the truth, right? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Be Discrete With Your Moves by Suzie1(f): 5:19pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
[quote author=binarymachine post=84017406 Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/13/be-descrete-with-your-moves/ [/quote] Discreet : careful and prudent in one's speech or actions, especially in order to keep something confidential or to avoid embarrassment. Not Discrete: individually separate and distinct. 4 Likes |
Education / Re: FUTO Lecturer's Message To His Student Who Chose Kaduna For His IT by Suzie1(f): 1:59pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Are we now saying that the lecturer does not know the difference between I am and am, or could not write "separate" correctly? |
Politics / Re: Lauretta Onochie Tells Nnamdi Kanu To Apply For "Zoo Visa" by Suzie1(f): 6:47am On Oct 30, 2019 |
I don't know why I do find it very annoying and awkward at the same time whenever people tag Nigeria a zoo, particularly the same set of people living in the country. How did we manage to get to this level? A zoo is most times locked up to prevent animals from escaping. Are you animals? Please, reason beyond the normal system. Don't rely too much on your certificate. School was made compulsory in the industrial age because there were no enough machines to work. The school was meant to teach you the theoretical basics of the machines, how to be punctual and obey rules. Now, we are no longer in that era. Get up and think. Commercialize your ideas just like Thomas Edison (Read about him, he was here when electricity was not a household thing). Get yourself busy and be valuable instead of ranting around and waiting on government. Government didn't provide you the money you used to buy your smart phone or the data plan. Invest this money into something valuable and sellable. 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: How Do I Evict A Mentally Unstable Tenant From My Shop? by Suzie1(f): 12:11pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Starboytwo: She is probably depressed. I think she needs help rather than threat. |
Politics / Re: N176m Fraud: EFCC Presents Witness Against Fayose In Court by Suzie1(f): 5:30am On Sep 28, 2019 |
IgbereBlog: Isaac Fayose, the younger brother to the immediate past governor of Ekiti State, Ayo Fayose, is presently being arraigned for advance fee fraud. Dear Journalist, this is how it supposed to be... 3 Likes |
NYSC / Re: Corper Shows Her Weight Loss Transformation (Photos) by Suzie1(f): 1:45pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Tolexander: You sounded enlightened (that's impressive) but With a shallow mind (@bold sentence) like those "agberos". Learning is not just to know the terminologies but it broadens our thinking. In other words, it helps us to engage our 2nd system of operation more than the 1st. 1st system : operates automatically and quickly with little or no effort. 2nd system : requires attention and construct thoughts in an orderly series of steps. NB: Don't be offended, please. 1 Like 1 Share |
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Are You A Good Storyteller? by Suzie1(f): 5:51pm On Jun 05, 2019 |
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Family / Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Suzie1(f): 9:12am On Jun 04, 2019 |
sameereinstein: No. Probably because I don't like people manipulating others. |
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Are You A Good Storyteller? by Suzie1(f): 8:54pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
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Family / Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Suzie1(f): 3:48pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
sameereinstein: It's a nice book. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Many Sisters Want To Marry Pastors? by Suzie1(f): 9:35am On Jun 02, 2019 |
If it's outside the will of God then it could be because of fame, power (the office of MGO), myopic vision, no future ambition, laziness etc.. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Replies Sandra Edoho As Sandra Calls Her 'Client From Hell' by Suzie1(f): 8:30am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Women and unnecessary talks. Why can't you get the work done already instead of this defensive mechanism? 1 Like |
Family / Re: 23 Things To Do To Keep Your Husband Under The Control Of Your Love by Suzie1(f): 8:16am On Jun 02, 2019 |
MariaLavina: This finally makes him a handicap. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Suzie1(f): 8:02am On Jun 02, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: Let's treat your case this way, using the 48 laws of power. She used law 8 on you: Make people come to you - use bait if necessary. You knew right from the time that she's inquisitive yet you acted unbothered since you're getting small chops. She used the bait and hook method on you and now you don't want to be trapped. Instead of applying law 40: Despise free lunch. Now let me give my advice using law 5: So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life. I will suggest you stylishly tell your director if he can give you the chance to be doing some of the jobs at your place. Let him know that you do perform better/work effectively when alone. Give the wife space. If you ignore her and you are still visiting the house, you might be called a thief or a rapist some day. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Are You A Good Storyteller? by Suzie1(f): 5:50am On Jun 02, 2019 |
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