₦airaland Forum

wirinet:
Why will she do that? It's not in her place to tell the bosses wife that her husband is having an affair.
It's in her place to advice her friend or sister the improprietiness and immorality of sleeping with her married boss.

Na wetin dey disturb Nigerians be that! I'm sure she got jealous seeing d boss buy goodies for d friend that just joined..Abegi we know how envious ladies can get

Dhury:
she only advice you which means you can choose to stop or continue but you choosed to bring down your helper. she loves you that is why she help you get a job instead of linking you to a brothel house or to a Yahoo boy to use you for money ritual.

Yimu. So u feel only one soft advice led to that? Don't get me wrong o but I know that helper stuck her nose deep into matters she for free. If mature adults choose to frolic around, that's their business.

9jaRealist:
I realize that “human rights” has become a business in Nigeria (just like religion, etc.)...
Because a REAL human rights activist does not constitute himself into a one-man judge, jury and executioner!
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A lil girl suffering burns far outweighs a stupid grown-up getting slapped for evil. Abi your teachers no beat you Ni? U for drag them for sm na

Slydegeneral000:
As how? Does it mean she should keep encouraging her. She did what was morally right. Advicing a friend when she isn't doing something right isn't a bad thing and let's not make it look like she was intruding. If I see my friend not doing a thing right, I will tell him. If that will cease you from been my friend, then, so be it. Let's stop encouraging and romancing evil. It's disgusting

Minding her business isn't encouragement Mr Man. Nigerians Don't know how to mind their businesses when it comes to certain matters noni and una dey use moral talk deceive una selves

Dhury:
All of you blaming the lady for not minding her business are stupid .an average Nigerian is not worth helping sis this is your rewards for helping a fellow next mind your business by not helping anyone

So because you helped me, you should now dictate who I choose to sleep with?

Yea when it comes to issue of pucci and pricck, it's best to mind ya business.

I'm sure d nosy friend kept on hammering on d same issue like a maggot .

shoprite:
Truth is he goofed on this one . . .yes the woman went over the edge setting that little girl on fire but then as a known Human Rights Activist you don't allow your emotions get the best of you . . .not on National TV . . .this action could as well change viewer's perception of him. He knows the law more than any of us . . .and as such should allow the law take its course. I am 100% against what the idiotic woman did to that little girl . . .but then two wrongs don't make a right !

Abegi the rate of wicked women harming little kids is simply alarming jarey , he did that as a father, human right activist! D slap na to Jog her memory ni

HitlerGaddafi:
In developed and saner climes where there are rules and law, that guy would have been arrested and prosecuted.

And d child arsonist?

Georgejeez:
If I didn't stand my ground the babe would have looted my new hoodie and singlet in addition with the gas cylinder and 3k , I have gotten another gas cylinder today .
Fact is as she collect them so , another woman go replace them in double double folds , she de US ...
If you know ,you have known

Ok. So y keep a broke girl around when u have a rich one?

SimplyFacts:
Lol

She stays abroad.
She's about to be single for 10 years.

Ingredients to lure Mugu-magas

LMFAO. Abi who in their senses would limit themselves like that? Besides if d story is true, d guy probably came for sexx sha. NL guys eh

@Op see it's better you pull yourself together ooo , do not let anyone steal your joy! Single for another 10 years? U must be joking! Common go out and have fun, infact indulge in a safe fling to keep body and mind together jor

seunlayi:
This is deep. Somebody need to tell this woman she need to check herself. She need deliverance

You silly

Ijah92:
Anty tell us why u are still unmarried with your riches.

She's divorced ooo. Ogbeni escaped from her marriage but now dishing out advices

Georgejeez:
One came to my apartment yesterday , immediately she entered , she went for my wallet and grabbed 3k ,she later left with my cooking gas cylinder . If not for strong eye ,she ready carry my new singlet and hoodie join .

All because of kpekus when she give me ,no be say she even Sabi fvck sef , pre-intimacy zero , versatility minus one , Mouth Gig be like Buhari administration ..

Indeed Konji na bastard ,her birthday na next month , I go fall sick that period to dodge billing . That tactic never fail me once ..
I have since learnt to avoid broke girls like a plague but at times ,we need them for instant fornication

Why stingy? What stopped you from standing ur ground if you can afford to give out cheerfully?

So who will marry them? Men should simply devise a way to totally remove just their eye in their money but unfortunately many Men got only Money to offer

Another deranged animal sighted.

Because he bleeped a girl whom he did not rape is the reason why he should be killed?

You blood suckling demon roaming the face of the earth taking lives that you can not create may the anger of the most High visit you soon.

If you think he has committed an offence that why not report him and sue before the law rather than plotting to take his life? I know you may not value your life but others do.

Who b this one

Mtcheereeeeeeeeeew! Women will know their husbands are struggling to cater for d home but will foolishly leave themselves to get pregnant.

Don't mind anyone asking u to keep it cos none will contribute

MALIGNANTGuest:
FRANKLY speaking that woman never loved him.
That's means my wife is a rare gem.
You don't know what you have until you lose it.
I had about 3M when I was marrying my wife.
After marriage she personally gave me 7M to support the project I was doing back home.
Although she's based in the States.
I joined her few years ago.
Despite joining her, her character hasn't changed for one bit, she keeps performing wonders.
She clears bills without any altercation.
Although I give full scale support now.

Yes you are lucky.

Oh well, shit happens. When a woman is faced by different options and earns but still loves and respects you as her man, you should be happy and thankful cos we have sooooo many pretenders who just wanna escape from their parents house without even knowing what marriage is all about

AmuAwusa:
So you prefer to believe her friend rather than first waiting to get the some info from your girlfriend of 7 years??I hope you realize women hates each other's guts.

Be smart, it may not be true.

Thank you. You very intelligent, it's obvious so many Nigerians lack basic sense and it's not a wonder our politicians keep playing them for fools.

princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .

You are childish and immature! So a friend told you this and you believed sharply like a foool? Nawa

OnlyDeCapPlease:
Number of babies dropped is irrelevant if you have good pucci.

I used to know a mixed race single mum of 7. Yes SEVEN. To start with, you will never know that she has given birth before if you see her on the road (that's how I got attracted to her). Her pucci was the same; sweet as f#ck.

Meanwhile, there are some young girls (early 20s), never given birth before but feel like they've dropped 7 babies. They are just naturally wide down there when aroused during intercourse. Nothing to do with number of sexual partners had.

Yes I know that vaginal muscles can be affected by even just one "natural childbirth", leaving the vagina feeling loose. But this does not affect all women. So yes a woman, with the right genetics, can have multiple natural childbirths (especially when she has them young) and still have bomb-ass pucci.

Thanks.

akpunda86:
Ekwulobia pls dis is a delicate situation. I'm married the lady same. She was on revenge mission hubby got sales girl pregnant and sales girl put to bed today. D pregnancy was not intentional was just fun nxt it happened
Pls can two married couples be in love. Iv never loved like this before thou is wrong . D lady makes me cum 6 times with her and once she locks my dk on her ps.. y I go wildlife

A pucci that has dropped 4 babies can lock dicck? Wow interesting

Opemiposii:
pls enough of these nw.. dat could ave happened to any1... instead of judging him here u could have jus ignore d post.. chima don learn his lesson pls do nt judge .. phenkz

I ain't judging but there are consequences for some actions but his friend acted childishly and wickedly

chumaZ:
Earlier thread
https://www.nairaland.com/6403055/best-friend-tried-kill-me

Update

Is been a crazy year, I never imagined I will found myself in a crazy situation like this.

Kennedy used to be my best friend right from when we were little. We attended the same nursery, primary, secondary and university together. We are like family friends and attend the same church. You can't see Kennedy those days without me. While he was the aggressive one, I was gentle on the other hand, I use to see him as my guiding angel � lol, because you'll never hurt me and go free because Kennedy will come looking for you. A girl have once accused us of being gay lovers because we are always together once lectures are over in school and we stay in the same hostel although different rooms.

My family especially my mum don't joke with Kennedy. He's so loved and cheerised in my house, same goes to his family.

Will never forget the day you fought on my behalf after I got myself into trouble even while I was wrong, you stood by me, I did same sacrifices for you as well.

The first ever clash we ever had was because of Esther, a truth or dare game turned to a fighting competition. Lol, I secretly enjoy the fight because that was the first time you will ever have issue or argument/disagreement with me.

Fast forward to 2017, during nysc that's when I realised Kennedy was dealing with the wrong girl, but then I couldn't stand his heart break once again. He is unlucky with woman and always get broken easily, infact the last one was brutal, I couldn't stand my OG drinking and crying like a baby. Took me ages to talk and take him out of depression, even while being aggressive, Kennedy is emotional and softhearted.

October 2020, I mad the worst mistake accommodating his fiancee and on 1st February he made attempt on my life, many people lash at me because they don't know how close I am to Kennedy, and I am 100% sure their advise worked because Kennedy talk less and do more. He's a good listener

Kennedy ndia amagi ebe anyi isinabia ko ka anyi si we kwado, that have always been your favorite Igbo slang, sad it doesn't matter again


On April 9th, I had a brutal fight with Kennedy, I never believed he could ambush me with his friends and I was disfigured so badly, with the help of my family is been from one sugary to the other, I hope to be normal again one day, my fine boy is gone, I have scares on my face or might even remain on a wheelchair forever all because of a woman.... Writing from an Indian hospital, I would've post pictures but I don't wanna reveal my identity.

Kennedy (offorken) stop running, I have forgiven already, God willing I will bounce back stronger and better.

Please becareful of friends who claims to be neutral, is either they are working against you secretly or wanna pull you down out of jealousy, Ruggednoy01(kachi) is example. YOUR FRIEND CAN EITHER BE FOR YOU OR AGAINST YOU period

Ruggedboy01, you rushed to create, lol. You want me dead...... But God pass una
https://www.nairaland.com/6430308/update-best-friend-tried-kill#99357374

Please just shut d fvck up! You stabbed ur friend first cos this is simply avoidable but you chose to eat d bait. A friend that cried over a girl but yet u had d mind to sleep with his fiancee? What stopped you from recording and sending evidences to him immediately d lady started wooing u?

Penpaddie:
God I'm scared, with the kinda stories I'm seeing here, i just rented a self con in Abuja and planned bringing in a roommate to split the bills, but the kind of stories I'm seeing here, I'll just change my mind, i can't pretend talk more tolerating any bullshit.

LMFAO

grossintel:
So their was this my neighbour in Port Harcourt, the guy was living with his friend and had nothing doing. My sister helped him get a job as a driver, few months later I and my sister relocated before she travelled to the US.

This guy lost his job during Covid19 lockdown and had to go back to the village where he has nothing doing. He will always call me begging me to accommodate him for a while so he can look for something doing.

I initially didn't want him to but after a while I considered, he came here and the first few weeks he was well behaved and did most of the chores and cleaning. I also provided food and beverages for him then I gave him something doing and was paying him 30k then the maddens started.

The first 30k and he invited one street prostitute he meet 3 days ago on Facebook to my house, the girl spent 3 days here and was eating my food! Couldn't even wash the dishes, before she came here this guy told me he was expecting a visitor but I never authorised him to let her spend days here. I let that one slide.

2nd salary and he used that one to travel to the village, and came back with his girlfriend. The girl came with a huge bag so I knew this was planned between them, called this guy and asked him what exactly his doing, he pleaded with me that she needed a place to stay so he asked her to come stay for a while, but bro did you tell me she's going to stay for a while? And he said he is sorry but she needs help.

I just free the guy and didn't say anything else, then my expenses shut up like Bitcoins, I couldn't even keep something in the kitchen and it will remain there. They where taking over the entire space, even my babe couldn't even watch her favourite channel because the dude was either watching football or his girl was watching something else.

I just had to find a way to discharge the guy, told him my siblings will be visiting so he needs to find a place to stay with his girlfriend, the fool left his girls big bag here, with the intention they are coming back. I just laughed because they will beg me to Waybill this bag and I won't until after 6 months.

If you see a poor man and want to help him, give am money. Don't teach him how to fish, it's very possible he will push you inside the river and you will drown.

Not everyone is stupid like this dude you helped. Don't let his foolishness change you

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

my dear simply compliment yourself, forget his compliments pls as it's not in his person to do so.

Who get food to share ooooooo?

Femeto:
Most of them no Sabi play the game. Tin Tall Tony was married no body in the house was aware. You have to keep some secrets from your fellow house mates if not they would use it against you.

I tell you and women are fond of that nonsense

Involve my son and age in such manner and I never wose nonsense commot from her mouth? Chai

Pleaded to be forgiven? Na you don't deserve to live. Forgiveness is of d Lord.