My screen got bad and I told him. He believed and promised to send money for another phone which he's fulfilled. Off course I ain't buying any new phone as the old phone screen can be repaired. God bless his soul

CharisEleos:
You have not really said what you need that freedom and privacy for. I'm sure it so you can be.... Hm. Ok.

See, if your parents are not putting pressure on you, you better stay back and enjoy being catered for while it lasts. Those living independently now are feeling the heat of the present economy situation because it's not that easy. Just in case you think it is "sweeting" them. Being 100% responsible for yourself at this time is no jokes.

Are you ready financially?
Have you thought of the bills? You go run back.

Don't run yet when nothing is chasing you.

Be warned!!!.

Better Don't limit your kids with this mentality. Allow them face life head on and get stronger

22o62021:
My girlfriend has been faithful but I just decided to taste another babe.

Now I have contracted gonorrhoea, i feel pains while urinating and a discharge from my penis.

I couldn’t risk having sex with my girlfriend as I noticed it but she forced me to have sex with her last night.

Now I’m spending a lot of money to treat the both of us.

I feel bad.

So u went outside your relationship to eat raw? You even knack ur gf raw knowing you have gono? Stupido

SeaTrade:
Breakfast today
Been craving this since,but jevenik say them no dey selĺ fried fish,give me beef instead

aLaye talk say na mama put you buy this food and no one will fault you. Jevinik ko

samwillyco1:
This type plenty for my side ooo, if they are willing to buy them, I will get them plenty ooo

Because e easy to catch naa. Catch it and advertise on NL, Dem go buy am sharply

Nigerians for don dey cast and bind.... But d bird is scary shaaa

shopwiser:
Oga go for DNA test...it will even be sweet if the kid ain't yours....cut ties with that Jezebel and her infirments...Walk as a free man... Marriage is a scam...I will never marry...these women always have nothing to offer.. my prayer is let the kids not be urs self.. you just dodged a bullet you don't know what God has done for you sha. Do DNA test on those kids

It's worse if d kids ain't his ooo cos that would mean his kini has been useless and 10 years wasted without nothing to show

Bhus21:
2 days after I found out and going through emotional turmoil. I resolved to do the Christ-like thing and give the marriage a chance. I spoke to her at length and tried to convince her of her folly. I then made a candle-lit dinner at night and bought some flowers. I then extracted a commitment to work on the marriage for 6 months.

So imagine my horror when 2 days later I find out she was still talking to her affair partner for hours. Omo this wahala is even deeper than I thought.

She fell out of love with you and into another man's arms. I just hope she wakes up from her foolishness soon cos she'd come crying it's d devil if the idiot dumps her tomorrow.

Worth it! He transformed Mancity walai

ZorGBUooeh:


But sadly some women see it as an escape from poverty..especially the broke ones.
Yes it comes with its responsibility..But wifes always leave the money responsibility for men to handle.

So you want d woman to handle d money responsibilities?

Good . Make boys chop him money wella without voting him

Kings999:


Guy if you want i go give you her number you can chat her and help her mom in the hospital, we know say you get money....

If na me she go fit help me?
So na because of woman she be na why i go go broke for her, how many people or guys you don help send money for nairaland here, abi you wan pretend say you no dey see guys wey dey beg for nairaland...

Na u Sabi. A woman will choose d comfortable guy first cos if not so, Ruth for Bible for no go sleep for Boaz leg. Be wise

ZorGBUooeh:
Good

That's the way its suppose to be but some men no just gree get sense.

And make sure u guys share the family responsibility 60,,40.No be say after the marriage only u go dey spend money.she go come be burden

Gone are those days some women see marriage as escape route from there responsibilities and escape from poverty.

marriage is never an escape of anything Bro! It comes with it's own responsibilities ABI such term connotes bills and money to you men?

Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....

Toh, she has a sick mom and you've not spent kobo and you expect her to actually give shiit about you and d yeye 'i love you and I miss you"? Those people she posts on her status are her benefactors.

No woman will be with you if you have just nonsense love words to give unlike she likes you genuinely from the onset

The men thought they could cheat anyhow because they have money. A woman will leave a rich man and stay with a normal man who give her attention and care.

Care has nothing to do with money. Remove money from so many Nigerian men and you'll have empty shells without nothing to offer .

zeenaman:
I would like to hear from experienced couples here. 19th of this month made it two months since I've been married, yet my wife has not conceived. I'm getting a bit worried. We have intercourse all through her ovulation, though we plan on seeing the doctor this week.

Could you render advice as well as share your experience here? How long did it take you or your wife to conceive after marriage?

you both better enjoy the peace and quiet you have now before babies start coming. E for better if na men dey born pikin sef mtcheeew

lecoeur:
So I met this guy on telegram and we got going, he introduced me to one group like that where he sells Fake logs and said I should work with him.
I do chat him up frequently and just yesterday he came requesting for my account details that he wants to bless me. I'm a student, really broke in fact I haven't eaten properly for like 2 days straight honestly (Crypto did me sh*t) so I didn't hesitate in sending my details, shortly I got credit alert of #14k.
I informed him of the alert and he told me to give him any amount I wish to give him out of the money, at this point I became confused and was like how
I just blocked him immediately and deleted our chat, right now I feel bad cos obviously he's a scammer and truly I pity the person that may have been scammed as I've been overthinking considering the trauma this person may be going through.
Is there anything I can do?
I haven't taken anything out of the money yet.

Modified....
I went to the bank and they keep telling me to come back, I will be going with my uncle hopefully on Monday.
Thanks everyone for your contributions, I'll update once everything is sorted out.

u be thief. Ole, u don see free money naw

Donlexino:
For those of you that think that i might be lying, check my profile and comments, i have been a member of this forum for 10years now and i have never seeked for help online and offline from anyone before. i was doing very well until this day... i was scammed and duped by a close friend in a business i invested all i ever worked for including selling mine and wife's car... i only decided to do this so i can get advice and encouragement because am really depressed right now and considering giving up everything bcs am tired of this life

Don't give up! The God of Jabez will turn ur story around. But b wise and not blinded with greed next time

Hassanmaye:

They like bad boys na when good guys approach them they start playing games meanwhile bad boys are chopping steady

pls just shut d heck up! There are stratas that some can't penetrate and simply gotta settle where they find themselves.

See wetin poverty dey cause. Shey any mother fit enter rich man house to fight am ni?

And if in an abusive relationship, run for your life and if you wanna go carry your things, do so with Police.

MunchHouse:



You could have asked me to marry her and father the children

Stupid thing

Why? My chagrin is an educated fellow birthing kids knowing her husband is useless. Nigerians should learn how to stop birth when things are rough

MunchHouse:



Smiles. That's the society we leave in. So because I am giving 3000 Naira as a token I can't have 500,000 Naira to pay


Hold on to your conjectures. I won't bother myself over your pettiness. Since you're better than myself, do better than criticise me.

Abegi

MunchHouse:
This is bad.

Are you still working with the government?

Drop your account number make I find you 2000/3000 Naira to manage on Saturday

See person way wan pay person 500k!

MunchHouse:



If you can write articles from home ( Remote Work ) under a contract writing arrangement, I can pay you 500,000 Naira at the end of the project

Too good to be true oshi

Kandeed:


Tell me bro, I can't imagine removing 70k outta 80 for her. like how does she expect I live on just 10k monthly besides dip don blood everywhere

Is the 40k for dash or she's helping you save it? She's probably testing the command jazz sha to know it's effectiveness

Solsix:

There is nothing wrong with you, at the right time you will get your partner

Na so him go reach 40 and alone. Na arrange marriage fit am

9jaRealist:


You sound like someone whose husband/man walks all over her...smh

It’s HER life, HER wedding and HER marriage too (not just HIS)...
Two people in a relationship should be able to MUTUALLY compromise
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But now is a time to manage and be reasonable! No one will fhcking give you any useless mark for d most expensive wedding

9jaRealist:


What would Nairaland be without CRUDE MISOGYNISTS....smh
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A realist who ain't Real. Such unreasonable materialistic ladies will easily b swayed by seemingly young rich dude in camp sha unless she got good moral compass

Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks

Yea well, sha know small boys will fvck her in camp sha.

dominique:
The way Nigerians justify/rationalize evil is astounding. Majority of the people insulting the lady on the first page have sick twisted minds are worse than the government they criticize. What kind to friend are you if your friend can't advise you? So the best way to pay back her friend is to plot her unemployment just because she advised her and people see nothing wrong with this? With all our religion, majority of Nigerians are morally bankrupt! Makes me wonder what all these pastors and Imams are preaching

And you are dumb believing what this friend posted hook line and sinker. I am sure she allowed jealousy to cloud her reasoning hence d need to boot out d threat