₦airaland Forum

DanDeeBoss:
I won't date you and won't sleep with you

Simple.

queenitee:
“You mean the actress Eniola Badmus right” would have been better if truly she was trying to make
a connection between the Tv and the actress. And besides I believe whoever was interviewing her would have added Tv if she was referring to the Tv production company.


What am I saying? I didn’t watch the video but I believe the tone of her voice is also a determinant to
Know if she was trying to ridicule Eniola or it was just a a misconception. Again, it’s not always what we say but how we say it(the tone of our voice)


And besides, Someone somewhere would also be like “Who’s Omotola Ekeinde,” that’s life. So Eniola shouldn’t kill herself, she’s equally recognized by certain people. The rewarding thing is to make impact in life not fighting for recognition upandown. Your impact will bring you recognition.

Exactly

Amanda4life:
I pray God touches my heart not to keep malice again

I have forgiven all those who did me wrong.

nikkypearl:
Jesus is life!!!!!!

lol

Stay Hungry and stay humble. My baby just won

mysticgal:
Basically, life has a way of putting human beings in a frying pan so I’d say career.

This is because I have always wanted to be financially stable before risking a relationship aka marriage and also considering how much and bad the country is, career is very much needed.
However, if you choose career, there is a slim chance that Mediocre Nigerian men would come by. They hate overly independent women and have a love hate feelings for ‘gold diggers and slay queens’ I.e, they love subservient women....it boosts their ‘egos’. You may even meet some who think them marrying you is a supposed blessing or people who expect you to work and serve their needs and that of their families.
But then.:::..... you have to choose a succinct path in life.

Then if you choose marriage, forget, career or better still, prepare to work twice, thrice or quadruple as hard as your career mates. Once you give birth to one, two, three or how much you want, mahn, that’s how much hardwork you’d put in .
If you have a supportive spouse, the load becomes lighter, unsupportive spouse, 10times that freaking birth, career load and May God help you.


However, life is all about balance, you can have all. It depends on how you handle it, but then balance is key


Caveat: May The odds be in your favor

exactly

ePoster:
your type is rare.

Sincerely speaking

izzou:
She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

Exactly! I like you.

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

Exactly

congratulations.

DMerciful:
To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Now you know there are 60,000 Patrick Sawyer on the loose.

But some people no go hear.

Exactly what am talking. Leave and get bigger

SoNature:
Nigerians are some of the most complicated people I have ever come across.

I can't believe that houses can be so expensive in Lekki, a mini-island that is vulnerable to flooding.

From time to time, people's domestic properties float on water. Yet, others keep running to that axis to acquire property just to satisfy their esteem.

SMH

The truth is Most Nigerians don't have financial knowledge. They don't even see a need for an investment analyst. They just buy stuffs to show off to people that shouldn't matter.

We need to unlearn so many things in marriage.

sotall:
seriousIy she is a combination of worwor + ugly


In other words she is worgly

Shut up! You are the reason I sometimes consider hate speech bill.Smh!!

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

Are you single? You are what I have been searching for.Am tired of searching. Why are matured in thinking guys hard to find?

NONSENSE

Some people no get fear o.Your brother's wife?

omenka:
Crackheaded buffoon. A bastard calling others dogs yet some dunderheads in here imagine the fool deserves no insults in return.

I don't normally use the word hate when describing how i feel about people. Dislike best describes my feelings. But for this man I HATE HIM WITH EVERY LIVING CELL IN MY BODY.

A useless drug addict who's definition of bravery is being able to set people up against each other along religious and ethnic lines.

I pray the move succeeds so when you put out any of those utterly sacrilegious posts condemning an entire people or religion just for the sake of politics, you'd be called to account and possibly dealt with to the full extent of the law.

Ditto all your dumb followers.

I hope you are not hungry.

moonbender:
Xenophobia chicken

I will beat you for making me to cry.

otipoju:
As I am, I fear Nigerians. The name of God is always on their lips but evil is constantly in their hearts.

You are right

TechCapon:
And police released him...

Am not surprised. Is it not Nigeria?

This guy is so heartless

Arysexy:
I thought Anambra State Govt had banned day movement of fuel trucks?

I doubt it is a law already.

Am not your darling. Did you leave your darling at home?

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daddytime:
Lol...

Your life and everything you live for centers around a book called passport. Unfortunately for you and fortunately for me, heck no, it doesn't.

Who need passport when I sabi the road on foot to the Europe abi you no dey see my siggy?

You too like illegal

abbey621:
I must slay, I must hammer, I must belong but you no fit work, you no fit wake up at 4am and sleep by 10pm, you no fit wait for years to save up because you're trying to be what you're not destined to be....Now see your life?

Success is a ladder.When you climb it step by step,it will last a lifetime

I follow this woman. She is worthy to be my role model.

ursullalinda:
I admire you a lot......I know so many Nigerians can't achieve half of what u achieved as a woman.....I know your parents will be forever be proud of you....but you see in life you can't have it all....so appreciate where you are and be happy.....maybe you made a wrong choice.....but the product of that choice is still a good reason to be happy..... So flex life like there is no tomm....If marriage comes fine.....if it doesn't life goes on....it doesn't guarantee happiness

Exactly

I concur