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Les: lemme tell ya wat i feel is wrong wit ya post..... You didn't emphasize on ur main point...... You didn't use tangible reference to do dat.... Moreso.... It woulda been better you didn't use any reference at ol than to use ur so called 'bed guy' looks to me more like a kidnapped guy you tied on ur bed post, waxed his joystick to be always erect, feed him and perpetually com there to moles*** him..... Or ur fantasy to d above meanwhile I no tok anything o.....

Lol!
And what other tangible reference do you want if not my own personal experience?
Hello?!
Like I said, it's only the wise ones among us will be able to see tha main gist of my post.
Cheers!

Boss13: Concentrate on yourself and deal with your own personal issues. You are no better than other ladies (and that's the truth). Mistakes are pardonable, but your i think I know it all, won't be.

And who says I am Me Where
Did you see where I wrote that my self esteem was once next to zero That I know what pain looks and feels like?

Dopefiend: Lol @ d comments.see tag team omo dis one pass WWE o. But on a serious note tho, lemon I tink ure indirectly rubbin it in instead of d so-called liberation of ur fellow women. U jst had to include ur bed guy.u jst had to lol. Tho ur post makes sense to an extent but its a no-no.

Why is it a no-no? So they won't get jealous Lol!
That wasn't my intention and only the foolish ones will miss the real message of my post.
The wise ones (who have no problem comprehending simple passages) will understand and see that the bed guy was just a passing illustration

Boss13: Do you mean, empathize with them? Are you the next Dr. Phill or Oprah? You don't have the pedigree to advise ladies. You should deal with your own issues. A guy has been with you and never thought of you to be attractive enough. Giving you the excuse of buying a bed. i just think you are an attention seeker. You need to do something for us, save us your fairy tales and dream rhetoric but before you do, get you spelling right.

It was a typo. I make losts of them when I'm filled with emotion.
Thanks for pointing it out.

claremont: Someone opened a thread to give advice, she gets criticised; she opens one to ask for advice, she still gets criticised. This is pure and unadulterated "bad-belleism" at play if you ask me. I noticed that it is the same usual suspects that seem to swarm around the OP's threads like bees to honey, they are obsessed and just can't help themselves.

@OP: Just keep your head up and do your thing.

Aww! Thanks so I appreciate! God knows my conscience is clear and this thread was borne out of the desire to see less threads and stories of women struggling with their relationships due to self esteem issues because I v been there. It was a very painful episode for me and that's why I want to help others with their own struggle because I don't wish for my enemy what I went through.

Mynd_44: Well, her e-life is the opposite of what she wrote which makes her a what?
Hypocite

If you looked well, you ll see that I said that I once struggled with my self esteem. I'm not ashamed of coming out to say that my self esteem was once next to zero. I'm taking this risk because I truly want to help other ladies who are going through what I once went through.
I want them to see that I understand and empathize with them. So it can encourage and motivate them.

Caracta: It's not the thread, it's the OP. Just like DN. If this thread was opened by someone else, it would be embraced by almost everyone. Methinks OP should chill for a while and surprise us with wedding pics in her next e-life.

Nice thread.
*yawns*

It's called NL politics dear.
Many NLers are here to outshine each other and get very disturbed when they see a potential 'threat' check well, notice the on line xter of most of my 'haters' and you ll see what I mean
If only they knew that I have no intentions of outshining anyone and I'm here to learn and to share what I have.
I really regret allowing myself to be talked into that Miss NL thing sha.

xynerise: @op. Dont tell me your guy jilted you?

Oh my goodness gracious father!
Why are youths of today like this?
As in WHY?
Why didn't you READ my post??

Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]Sweetlemon is back again

Bed guy don break heart[/color]

Obviously u didn't read my post well

LMAO!!!!
See as guys dey vex! I jus dey spoil una market abi??

I love my NL sisters and I want them happy! The wise ones among us will find my post useful ok?

Idowuogbo: Lmfao! Dis chick is sick in d head mehn! No wedding gist, no updates but she comes bck talking about some undiluted crap. Attention seeking again? Yea! We af hia o! It's U! u! u!

If you look well, I'm actually talking girls learning to love themselves so as to get their men to love them. The thread is not about me.
There are so many hurting ladies around the place and I feel so bad knowing that while I'm deliriously happy, some other babe somewhere is wishing to die. I feel their pain cos I v been there and so I don't just want to keep my happiness to myself. I want to share it round my fellow women and make them see that they can even be happier if only they can first learn to love themselves.
Cheers!

Girls, women are also gulity of this but men are mostly fond of this.
They hardly realize and appreciate what they have till it's far out their reach!
You guys need to learn that no matter how much a woman/girl loves you, no matter how much dust she has been eating from the ground rolling on the ground because of you, one day and all of a sudden, she's gonna get up on her feet, dust up, look you straight in the eyes and say "no more!"
By then she would have found someone 10000000 times better than you and it will hit you like a bulldozer what you lost.
In fact if I didn't love my bed guy scatter, I wouldav been having second thoughts by now because of the way my exes are suddenly acting like they lost a treasure box and other guys popping up from no where and telling me they ve been admiring me for ages!
Mtcheeeeeeew!
Let this be a lesson for all of you here reading this. If you love a girl don't just tell her, SHOW her! LOVE her! Believe me, you don't wanna wait till you see some other man showing you how to treat your woman right.
As for the rest of us ladies, those of us still rolling on the floor for our men, it's time to get up, dust up, and show him what you ve got inside of you. Truth is he won't see it till you get up and look him in the eye!
Go girl! You are worth it!

Has anyone noticed that this thread is over 6yrs old?? And some people are still giving advice

I'm so glad that people are now seeing my adorable Mercy J for the talented shining star that she is. I'm happy that her ratings keep improving each day. She really deserves it.
That M.J is a role interpreter cannot be over-emphasized

seedord247: I knew it... 3 days time to your birthday... Hahahaha... Just tell him that you dont need his gift and see his reaction.

Birthday + Valentine =

I think I agree with you sha. Come to think of it, so many relationships have been shaky these days...... So many, for no particular reason(s).
But why are some guys like this nau?
Meeehn! My ladies we need to shine our eyes and do away with all this kinds of guys.
But poster, like Binger said, maybe you should dig deeper and find out exactly what's causing his sudden behaviour change. Afterall he's your fiance. Talk to him, read btw the lines.
And if you find out he developed cold feet because of your birthday and vals, drop him. You are better off without a guy who does not derive pleasure in doing things for you

Smh

Fhemmmy: The man did nothing wrong, but i am sure there was no paper signed cos Nigeria do a lot of Gentleman agreement . . .

Exactly where the problem came from. Nigerians do not know the importance (and implications) of signing documents

promire2004: It's not a must, rather it's a necessity. You don't expect the couples to trek down to the venue of the wedding all in the name of been frugal. I don't think a right thinking person would hire a ferrari or phantom for a wedding when u're just an average income earner. It's unfortunate that the couples were embarrassed in this manner. Personally, I see nothing wrong with hiring a car for a wedding. That is why it is good to make deals with reliable car hire companies. Mehn, wedding is once in a life-time affair and it's necessary that everything falls in place.

Abi o!

There's no harm in borrowing or renting cars from your wedding. So far it is rented from a respectable car rental outfit with legal papers to present in case of wahala. Also don't rent what will dig too deep into your pocket
It's your day abegi! You have a right to enjoy it cos you only experiance it once in a life time.

So some people still watch super eagles AND actually HOPING for a miracle come back performance by them?

Interesting!
Well, the truth is that Nigerian football is dead AND buried. The only salvation available is for us to give birth to a new crop of football officials, mentors, and talents.
Chikena!

meenagiggs: I'm trying to.

Sorry ma dear. You will get over it. Just keep your eyes focused on your future

Osareime: Losing my ex boyfriend.

Oh! No wonder........

meenagiggs: My greatest regret in life is telling someone I loved my feelings. I will forever live to regret that bcoz it brought me nothing but self loathing, pain, heartbreak and lot of tears. And now I resent that person so much, I could kill them if I had the chance.

Been there done that....
Just let go of it so it doesn't rub you off the chance to experience the joy of loving someone else who will love yo right back and add so much value to u life

My greatest regret in life now that I'm engaged to a wonderful man is giving my body to men who added little or no value to my life.
I somehow wish I was still a virgin

SimonAndal: [size=18pt]I regret nothing. Now that might sound corny, but that's just the way it is. I live my life without apologies or regrets, if nobody likes me they can cover themselves in Geisha and hug a starving tiger.[/size]

Ouch!

manny4life: All of you saying he's selling pure water, please o, where in that story did it say he hawked pure water? Unless I missed the memo, please someone quote because they did not say what he did.

I wonder o!

NLers una well done o!
When is the donantion ending?

edoyad: You're a proper F00L and thats not an insult. You and your words are a classic example of what a F00L is. You come here and ridicule two beautiful people(who's the girl BTW is she on NL ? I love a devil in blue dress) who took the time to do something even more beautiful.
I know your kind, hope is lost so there's no better tomorrow for you. At least those ones will ensure that orphans don't end up as hopeless as you.

E eya! Oya go and ask the girl if you can buy a bed for both of you

tols4gorgeous: God bless u, i feel dis guy is also cheatin dts y he's beggin of course guys got their EG0 n they wil always use it wen they knw they re right, bt on his part he had to beg becos he's also Cheatin.....Guy stop cheatin n u wil get d best of her, u peeps suggestin d guy shuld break up,i tink its d lady ‎​†нα† shuld break up cos d guy doesn't love her sincerely cos if he really does he won't cheat on her....GBAM

The girl has no rights or solid reasons to go through his phone!!!
What kind of immaturity is that?
My mother tells me that as long as a man is treating you right, don't ever 'investigate' him or else you will only end up imagining things that are not there!