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^^^^^^^^^ They just called you a hypocrite [fraud, wolf in sheep fleece]. Thats the label that best describes you.

Hymen forgot she still has her hymen because she is not married, yet. Thats a good thing, until she is married for few months; it will become a bad thing. Is there any confusion or bigotry in this statement of fact? No.

Now Allah made man different from woman, in some aspects and then same and equal in others.

In marriage, while man has to dominate in their sexual relationship, we can see reason a woman can only be dominated by a single man, instead of many, while the man can dominate up to 4 in a single household/family.

The clothing of muslim woman is different from that of muslim man.

The family role of man is different from that of the woman.

Even in salah; there are days a woman can not pray and she will not be a rebellious soul, but truly obedient. And she does not have to make them up, while in fasting she will have to make them. She may make salah in the house while her husband is supposed to go to the mosque.

She may not seek outside employment. She can keep all her earnings. She may not cook, clean, etc for the husband, but concentrate on her children, instead.

While Hymen is criticizing Islam, she forgets that Onisango in Yorubaland will not marry Olosun. Each will go after their own kind of worshipers. The african pagans are very strict in marriage ritual specificity including what they want in spouse[s]. Even the christian bibles have the same concept, except the christians throw all of that in their back, not following or honoring the author of the bibles. Thats some serious confusion there.

Not all that is pre-Islam of Muhammad [as] is bad among the Makkans, indeed the arabs and the world in general. Among humans, we have good people, based on the instinctive nature of man. In Islam we called it Fitra. And many who say they are believer do things of disbelief; Boko Haram is an obvious example of evil deed.

Allah restricts believing woman from becoming a woman to be dominated by disbelieving man, in direct way, if you will [His Command] by His Order as He has restricted us from alcohol, eating of pork, food offered to gods or idols, man not having uncountable women just because of Oju kokoro of Kari Kara, indeed a test as He Only can test.

Who ever this woman that toba is after is, she must a gem. I am not suspecting or even trying to guess. If toba is a believer in his heart, he would have been soften enough to have gone for Islamic salah, learning hard and finally becoming muslim, returning to his Creator, instead of being stuck in giving his life to Jesus, who in turn gave his own life to God.

When toba slows himself up, some strong believer will come for the sister because she is meant for a believer.

plappville makes me laugh, always. Muhammad [as] killed the man? Wow.

please tell me a story or chapter or verse that is exactly like what you have in the Bible, from the Quran.

Last week, I was reading Surah Al Maidah [Chapter 5] when a friend called. I did not want to miss his call and i did not want the ringing of the telephone to drown my voice.

So as I picked the call, I did not answer, until I got to the end of the verse I was reciting. Of course, my friend who is a christian heard me reciting it.

That was the first time he heard me recite Quran.

The guy was so happy that he said that it affected his being; heart and soul. He had to tell me how he as a youth used to love to hear the muslims call to prayer in the morning in his native Akure, Ondo State.


I had to tell him how the heart beats to the rhythm of the Quran. Even the reciter feels his heart jumping and if recite it long enough, you will notice that something about you changed. You may even be tired, exhausted.

It is the only book that will correct you if you make a mistake.


How can this BOOK copy from the ever changing never stable Bible, when Allah says He will Personally safe guard the Quran from ever having any corruption entering it?

Woman. I dey laugh. At you is my laff.

I may need to subdue you, plappville, since you seem game?

don't come alone so that i can subdue many by just a single effort of subduing.

when you read the tafsir of the verses, you may them realize your mistakes. you can still present you and the gang for subduing.

You remind me of the "i am not a witch" and the leader of christianity who slapped her in the public without any remorse.

A christian friend outside DC said she deserves it, even though this friend is a complete gentleman, his action when it comes to Jesus' image is wow.

There is no ambiguity in what Allah clearly states.

No muslim woman must marry non muslim man. Period.

In case you miss the verse of the Quran from Baqarah, here is it;

2:221; "Nor marry your girls to unbelievers until they believe. A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, "


Toba, you seem to be working overtime on the woman.

She will not marry you if you are the last single man standing because I am certain she knows better. When you become Muslim, I will assist you from a, "B" c, d. . . x, y, z of Islamic cooperation of getting a wife. You are not ready by the way you are going.

if you intend to become muslim, then the Word of Allah is Purest and Most accepted than the opinion of the greatest scholar. Did you see the verse that i quoted from chapter 2, telling us who can be husband of muslim wife?


Your heart is like hard following deceit instead of leaning towards guidance.


Which true muslim woman wants rebellious soul and kafr to be her husband?

and guys ate the cow, the fowl, the goat.

he is a bad actor.

2:221; "Nor marry your girls to unbelievers until they believe. A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, "

No exception is given for women to marry Jews and Christians, so the law stands that she may only marry a believing (Muslim) man.

As head of the household, the husband provides leadership for the family.

A Muslim woman does not follow the leadership of someone who does not share her faith and values.

He is freaking out of his hausa mind.

Before the first muslim in Nigeria, I was a muslim and my Islam and or True Islam that Allah completed upon Muhammad [as] does not belong to any people any tribe any ethnicity, including the Qurashi Tribe.

Heck with this hausa idio.t. As they in America faakim.

If I were the president or the military, I would have invaded the boko haram and kill them all and their supporters, big and influential and bury them in a freaking mass grave meant for evil people.


Muhammad [as allowed Christians to practice their religion so much so that they worshiped in the Mosque in Madina. This idio.t with no brain thinks that any evil by Muslim is justifiable. Its a good thing I don't live in Nigeria and i don't see foo.ls like this brainless taut, I could deal with him myself and turn him to a darn coward.

Islam is not by name, alone. Darn freakin sicko blood tasty goon.

May Allah Tabaraka wa Ta'ala not punish you.

Counts you among those He favors and do not do accounting for them, because you are on the straight path for His sake.

I pray that your heart is pure and steady on the way of Success; choosing you as He chose Umar Khattab [ra] as the one of the two Umars. Amin.

its hard to believe that a muslim will touch a pig foot so much so that it is mailed to a catholic man peter king of long island. peter king is not a semite, arabs are and by religion muslims are.

And in the day of Judgement, God will tell the disbelievers which of the sons of Abraham He named, who was also the son that made his father a man who can produce babies.

when you become a muslim, in truth, you will have my support because i will lobby hard on your behalf.
muslims and brothers and sisters of one another.

my alliance is on the side of good deed doing muslims. hurry up and become one.

and shake your head gently because i dont want you to crack your neck.

i do believe that you know that i am far from being brainwashed and the ideology of boko haram is 180 degrees from the concept of islam that i practice.

where i live age is in the mind.

I am not too old or too young. I am just right with a lion heart.

there is a study that is tell people that a husband who is 15 years older than his wife may actually extends his life expectancy by a decade.

you better learn not to say I am old. if you can't hang with young people, how are you going to handle a wife that has appetite?

All these 9ja men get old at 30.

Abeg toba find your own age. I am much much younger than you, body and mind.

so topefisayo, i also hope that you have already moved out of the house.

but you can marry your future wife now. just because you are married does not mean pregnancy has to happen, right away.

but you need to start to make the bond of marriage take root, right away.

and having children is a good thing. it is very Islamic to be married and Allah provides the children.

i wish you well and abundance of good.

My brother, may Allah continue to keep you in Islam. i am certain that your father has no ability to make you a non muslim now that you are almost a college graduate. Soon, you will be too old to be spanked if not already, and become a friend that your father may ask his opinion in matters important to him.

Your father in law to be should not be concern with your father, right now, but only on you and how you will make his daughter a good partner, somebody that will not be oppressed. Again, your good value will be the ingredient, inshaAllah that will tip over your parents and indeed the whole household into Islam. I have seen it happen that somebody brought the light of Islam and sooner than later every heart in the bloodline accepted it.

Joagbaje confused the matter even the more. Why corinthians, when we are talking about jesus as if the 4 gospels are not enough?

if Jesus said out of his own power he can do nothing, is that not obvious enough that he did not have real power? Or is that part of the confusion; have power and don't have power?

Alhamdulillah. Not that all muslims will go or enter hell, as the liars will make verse 71 of Surah Maryam. But then, Joe is saying Jesus was in hell and so were even good people who are not given their freedom, yet, but didn't suffer in the hell like the evil people who will be kept in there for eternity, suffering.

For me, I see to much confusion in a book that they say "the Author" is not the author of confusion. How is Jesus saying another comforter will hear from God and simply repeats what he hears, suddenly becomes God Himself hearing from God and then only repeats it [silently since it becomes holy ghost in form of flamed tongue not burning the heads of those it rested on, but confusing them to speak strangely] to man.

How does the non verbal ghost tell people that Jesus was the christ, led to all truth, correct mistakes on ground when it arrived just so soon after the master have taught excellently good students for 3 years straight [Imagine if the forgot or made mistakes so soon, is it possible that their statements could be reliable much later?], reminded them of what Jesus have said, except they had forgotten and or added lies to it, teach them new thing [since Jesus said they couldn't bear all that he need to say then].

Jesus said he will be returning just one time before the disciples passed. But every christian is expecting him, even there is no disciple alive.

Let talk about the positive, before we talk about anything else.

Alhamdulillah that Allah gave you Islam, in spite of the way you were introduced to it. Please always, on your own for yourself for the sake of Allah hang on that inner conviction that blessed you with Islam, by Allah's Mercy.

It is not necessary that you have arabic name, but a good and meaningful name is Islamic name, just as well. Example is Salman [a persian name] Al Farsi, and many others. Even Abu Huraira [father of the cat].

Furhter, it is not necessary that the muslim father insist that your parents become Muslim before you get married. After all, Islam must come from the heart, not just the tongue.

What you need to do is to display Islam to your parents and InshaAllah before they die become muslims, because that is what will make your relation continues with them after they have passed; your ability to pray for their forgiveness, etc, if they die as muslims.

Maclatunji gave a very good advice of possible hijra [move to another place], upon your marriage. The land of Allah is vast and you are not restricted to a locality of your birth, even, if it is place of evil deeds; like disbelief, etc.

You need good company. Those who will be your support, guide for you against evil deeds and encourages you towards good.

Your potential wife should not be concern about you since you are already a muslim. You should improve yourself in Islam and mingle with more muslims, making more friends from their rank, learning more about Islam, like taking up the learning of recitation of Quran in Arabic.

All of these efforts will be seen as your seriousness in this religion by your future partner.


You should tell her that your parents are not going to be her partner, but are and they have no right to obligate her go to church. You should move out as soon as you can, especially just before you marry so that your Islam, your marriage can have a better chance of getting big and strong root, standing firm and not easy to be uprooted.

Finally, don't act ignorant by getting intimate with her. If you used to do it, she is at fault the reason she is concern about your parent and even you, even after your reversion to Islam. Show her that you care and get to know her father more. It is you that is their primary relation by marriage.

I am happy for you. May Allah make you strong, make you guys stronger and make your love affair last, into eternity in Paradise where both of you will be houri for each other.



@Toba; His story is unlike yours. He is a muslim who muslim woman is permissible to. You on the other hand is a pure nasara, stiff necked man trying to get a believing woman; making her committing fornication each time you get with her since your being a Kufar will not make the marriage legal with Allah.

And holy spirit does not have a voice. we see that as he was being a maim at the penticost. No wonder nothing he heard and or said was recorded.

I guess a woman should wear a long thick gown to bed. Thats religious, even when she is in the showers.

Holy spirit is frisky. he got to mary, even at that. She was not wearing bikini by a turtle neck and scarf.

Wolf is a horrible animal. They are scavengers. You entertain me, even more. I have loads of stories to tell my spouse; you and some people like you.

We will have a few laughs on you.

ABC simplicity is bad counting of thousands of years crusaders/crusade, especially when Islam under Muhammad is only 1400 years old.

And no one born the christians to even make a move in the lifetime of Ali ibn Abi Talib [ra], decades after Muhammad [as].

I see your thousands of years. Yea. Good counting.


All in a day's joke. UI.

Diploma recall.

Today, the crusaders are not christians. Today the spanish conquistadors are not christians. Today the missionaries who committed atrocities are not christians. Today, the orthodox christian clergies fighting in the church are not christians.

Heck. Who is a christian, today? Anyone with you, Frosbel, even mrs?

You are a lone wolf now, unable to catch any sheep. Or maybe you are a lone sheep, easy catch for even a jackal.

I shake my head for these people; ignorant mind.

How is Allah Muhammad [as] when Allah is Unseen God of Muhammad?

How is Muhammad Nigerian, when Islam is a Universal religion, unlike 'sent to the children of Israel'?


Some do not carry shame in their hearts.

@Frosbel: « #9 on: Today at 07:33:55 PM »
[Quote]Quote from: Sweetnecta on Today at 07:21:11 PM
Borrow from 21 century instead of 7 century?

First this is my time. I cook for my wife, among other things that I do

I can take care of ma sef,

Good to know that you have picked up some Western values and skills.[/Quote]Yes, the value of western Nigeria because I saw my father [ra] taking care of himself, without imposing on any of his brides. And some of my older brothers have copied the same value. I guess because we are Omo Ada Aran Bori Iyawo. {get a yoruba man to help you here, because I thin you already forgot all about UI}.

I can't respond to any of your playa responses, above.

^^ I am sure some ears were cut off.

You saw them in full regalia throwing things? Even brooms?

If they took from Hamas after you said Jesus taught them, I now see where he will lead you to all things, including how to raise cane is applicable.

When shall we know he will correct you, glorify me, teach you and remind you of all that i truly said instead of the lies lob on me by mr. paul?

Allah says in the Quran that if two believers are fighting, the other believers should seek peace between them.

After the establishment of peace, if one of them starts hostility towards the other, then all should cooperate with and support the other against the one who rekindles the hostility.

That's even among Muslims.

Based on what the messenger [as] had instituted in terms of respect of religion, ethic and community peacefulness, we see the first caliph, Abu Bakr [ra] building on it, when some believed that the payment of Zakat is no more obligatory. Islam permits the routing out of evil doers among her ranks, the reasons there are punishments prescribed for offenses.

The one one kills especially in a manner that is unjust, wasting the lives of the innocents, such should be dealt with in like manner, to eradicate him and as example to deter others.


Allah is just and those who take lives unjustly will receive Justice of Allah. I truly believe that the muslims of Nigeria along with the Nigerian government should declare war against this evil group. If they are defeated, the other groups will easily cower and give up evil. When the worst evil is defeated, the others with less potency will leave the stage.

@MrBible: « #28 on: Yesterday at 10:16:45 PM »
[Quote]Luke 22:36
(36) "if you don't have a sword, sell your cloak and buy one."

This verse spoken by Jesus should encourage Muslims to become Christains as they are allowed to still keep their swords.[/Quote]What about the nudi.ty since I have no cloth, but only sword?

The indecency is worse in the scale of evil deed that just holding sword. But the sword is not a cultural thing like dagger of the arabs. So the sword was purchase by the disciples for a purpose. What purpose, because a gentle soul does not carry a weapon, unless he intended to use it.

@Davidylan; Start from your God and His earliest message to man. That's is a starting point or you can chose any place in Christianity or Message of your God to begin the dialogue. I commend you for standing tall. The others are ducking their heads.

The swords purchased some 2K years ago are now handy among the peaceful christian leaders, turning the other cheek among themselves.

And it was the palestinian law enforcement personnel that quell the fire at the manger.

But other Gospel says that Jesus said, the another comforter shall correct the disciples, lead them to all truth, teach them more things, glorify Jesus, as this another comforter hears from God and speaks all that he hears. Also it is known that any prophet that Jesus is the christ is of God. And prophet from God will say things that are fulfilled.

Tell me anything that Muhammad [as] said that was not fulfilled.

Unfortunately, Jesus said he will return to his disciples before all of them died. You guys are still awaiting his return, yet there is no disciple alive. Again, Jesus said that John is Elijah. But John said he is not Elijah. Tell me who is right between the two.

But John is the greatest Prophet that the children of Israel ever had, says Jesus. I will assume that John will not be wrong, based on what Jesus said about him, considering that John baptized him, a thing that did not happen among the children of Israel, before.


In all of these between Jesus and John, Moses is forgotten, yet Jesus said that he was under the laws and prophet-hood of Moses.