₦airaland Forum

oluwaahmed:
U seem like a reasonable person thats why I quoted your mentions for a little bit of education. During the covid19 pandemic, IPOB shared palliative to rural poor villagers in the SE & SS ( something the Nigerian govt did not do). As for gainfully employing youths from his region how many Nigerian graduates have job? Drug barons recruit not only in the east but everywhere round country. Is lagos not the drug consumption capital of Nigeria? Yahoo used to be a thing for SW boys but due to hardship everybody everywhere is doing it now.
Now think of this what is wrong in asking nigerians to sit at home instead of joining the naija @ 60 celebration? Personally when last did u go out to celebrate independence? Since we cannot protest bad governance, isn't it best for everyone to sit at home as a means of protest against the killings, fuel hike, electricity tariff, multiple taxation and other evils bedevilling us? We dont even need IPOB to tell us stuff like this. For IPOB to be saying this to ordinary nigerians then Nigeria is truly lost. Why can't your religious leaders, yeyebrities even say stuff like this? O I forgot with all the killings your celebrities still join coke to celebrate 60th independence. Chai Nigeria is truly gone...

I don’t have a problem with almost everything you have written. Nigeria is not gone. It is this mindset that makes Nigerians turn to vice instead Of doing their own part to move the country forward. Their own part is to remember to always take the path of honor; to Choose to do what is right. Nigeria is looking for the country that will provide jobs for its citizens. That is not the job of the government. The government is to provide a conducive environment for people to create jobs. Quite a number of people are honorable enough to provide jobs for themselves. I agree that our government has a lot to answer for, but members of the government are from this community. We do not import them. Their lack of honesty is a reflection of this community I believe. Please don’t make excuses for drug traffickers and peddlers. They are a curse to any community.

Mozino007:
Na my suya man for omole estate be dis now!...shey na today u dey see rude boy for d area ni abi u people don turn clout chasers ni? anyway u are unseen!.

The suya guy is obviously happy. Stop being a kill joy raining on the parade of another.

paulolee:
just too bad...but why punish the lecturer only?? she wasn't raped and they are both matured to decide next way forward...
modified.....
to those quoting me, pls she wasnt forced to go down with him after being intimidated because i av heard of several cases where girls stood on thier ground and refuse stupid lecturers advances, her best bet was to report him or set a trap and record him instead of sleeping with him because if she didnt sleep with him, they would be no complications..
the eocnomy is too bad and i dnt av a job do not justify my reasons if i decide to take up guns bcoz two wrongs dont make a right and i still think they both deserved to be punished, lets be guided...

The lecturers that sleep with students for marks usually have each other’s backs. If you report one, you’ll find yourself failing courses taught by other lecturers. The best thing in school is to dress like an efico, study while generally keeping a low profile and pray to God for His protection.

I came to read myopic comments and I was not disappointed. This Kanu that is venerated by some people, what has he done to change the living conditions of his people? You don’t have to be in government to alleviate the hardship of your people. He can sponsor brilliant kids in school. He can pay for those who would rather learn a skill. He can sponsor those who would engage in a trade. This way, the next generation of Igbo would be independently and gainfully employed. The so called drug barons and criminals won’t find it easy to recruit anyone. A few years ago, we kept on hearing how people all over the world donated so much money to him or his course. He acted like he was passionate about his people. Passion indeed!!!! Real passion would push him to invest in his people not turn himself into a tin god. A truly committed leader won’t mind how many times he is sent to jail so far he can make an impact. He won’t be looking for accolades the this Kanu does, but let his works fight for him. Anyway, this is Africa where the black man gives a godlike status to people who seem to have money, who live in obodo oyibo, and who have the audacity to bamboozle others.

FuckHomophobes:
I think they don't want competitors to know about their price. Talk about keeping your secret safe.

How about giving you the price and you ghost them? That shit is painful from the client end

If you go to a shop, you’ll see the price of all items. Customers and competitors will all see the price. It does not stop who wants to buy from buying. There are better ways of keeping ahead of your competitors than making buying from you so cumbersome.

MNDY:
You are trying so hard to defend womanhood. But he just told you the plain truth. The point he is explaining to you with the drugs example is that to deal with a situation, you have to tackle it from the source. Who is giving people the drugs in the first place? The dealer. So if you can stop the Dealer, that's the end. The ladies we have now have turned into something else and only them have the solution to the problem.

I stopped reading at you’re trying hard to defend womanhood. I’m sure everything after that will be equally unintelligent. If you feel womanhood is not to be honored but vilified, then you having to say to me.

MNDY:
The fact that there is even a "product" is already a big problem. The problem is from the source my sister and attempts to defend your gender has only continued to worsen the situation. Going out to look for buyers of the "product" as it happens nowadays is a very bad situation on our hands and only God knows what will happen to the next generation. Women need new orientation on respect for their body and dignity of labour. It is a campaign that can be started by the very few women who have not joined the craze. Unfortunately, women hardly admit being wrong and unite to criticize men but disagree on other issues.

Are you arguing for the sake of winning an argument? I find it impossible to believe that a logic as straight forward as a lack of demand would put an end to supply is so difficult to understand. If you’re selling something and no one is buying, you’d probably try every way to make it appealing. But it has been labeled poisonous by everyone, and no one would touch it, you’ll stop selling that product. A prostitute sells a product; her body. If everyone shuns her, she’ll get the message and look for something more honorable to do. Having said that, please understand that whoever sleeps with a prostitute is in no way better than said prostitute.

Poor guy! This is Nigeria where being close to the vicinity of a crime makes you culpable. I can imagine how his neighbors, church members, family members and even people who have never met him would have judged him guilty. Insulted and scorned him for no just reason. Now he is free, there’ll still be those that will claim he got out only because he had money to pay for it. Nigeria is a country where crooks thrive and the innocent get punished. In a sane climate, this poor guy will be paid for loss of income and damages. I pray things will change in Nigeria for good.

zexy2030:
Are u sure, supply will stop? Power, Fame, Money belongs to men but women got Pussy, Firm breast and Materialistic appearance to get the above mentioned from men.

What world are you living in? Are you saying women are not intelligent and so have to resort to their bodies to achieve in life? Are you insulting women because of the small percentage that are prostitutes? How about the male prostitutes? Kindly don’t insult me, my hardworking mum and the billions of wonderful females in this world.

kokaneprodigy:
Yes, when trying to stop the vice of illicit drug, you go after the consumers (patronage) or the traffickers?

You ladies never take responsibility.

Excuse me, which ladies are you referring to? Please don’t equate me with the kind of women in your life. In reasonable countries, if one is in possession of illicit drugs of a certain quantity, they are apprehended. While for other drugs, possession of it at all is guaranteed time in a cell.

alezzy13:
I find it extremely amazing when I see this line of defense, especially coming from a fellow lady.

Not holding brief for the patronizers, but I would have thought a woman's body, her dignity her ESSENCE should be of a higher level than any other commodity (bread, fish, suya, etc) that can be bought once the price is right.

And then they start complaining when treated as objects.

Simple, yet radical idea: What if women should start employing some little self dignity for themselves, and insist: NO MATTER THE PRICE I WILL NEVER SELL MYSELF. And see the difference.

Is that really too hard??

#Sigh

I believe the problem here is your inability to comprehend what I wrote. So stop writing like you’re trying to get likes from people who already bash women. I don’t know why anyone, male or female would become prostitutes. But I know it will come to an end if there is no one patronizing the prostitutes. If there’s a product, and no one pays for said product, production will seize. It is as simple as ABC. It is the law of demand and supply. Without demand , supply will come to an end. Simply put, instead of going after the prostitutes to quit alone, go after their patrons as well. In the US, the client of a prostitute is not let go. He will be apprehended as well.

Welcum:
They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. So, look at this picture and you will know what most beautiful girls out there are inside them. Many of the so-called beautiful girls have been 'opened' very early in life (because many eyes were on them; I hope you understand).

What then is the effect of such early 'opening' of a girl?
1. She'd be sexually loose (just like a dog) but she'd do everything to cover up the decay within her by using makeups and acting sophisticated. So, if you become intimate with her, no Sango or Amadioha can save you from numerous heart-breaks.
2. She'd hardly be reasoning like a human being any more because of the abuses she has suffered. That's why she looks down on everybody (especially men) and has no respect for anyone. So, if you marry her, na high blood pressure you don marry so oh!

So, stop dying for girls because of their beauty. Instead, go for girls who have good character and can contribute to your success in life, instead of the ones that will wreck you. You will discover that every girl is beautiful if you maintain her and every girl is ugly if you don't maintain her (because their body is more or less like flower).

Girls actually see you as a fool if they notice that their physical features are all that is attracting you to them. Do you know why? Because they themselves are subconsciously aware that the beauty worths nothing. So, they tend to think, "so, this guy is so foolish as not to know that what he is doing so much to have doesn't actually exist!".

But if you are ambitious and focused, women see you as someone worth being with (because, the average female naturally feels insecure deep in her psyche). So, if they perceive that you will be a source of protection (such as protection from want), they come seeking your face. You may be going hungry now. But if you have a character that is likely to make you successful in future, ladies will be ogling you. Men can't understand this because they are psychologically wired differently.

Men are often wrong when they think that most women are gold-diggers. No, they are not gold-diggers. Instead, they are wiser than men when it comes to relationship issues: They go for long-term gains unlike most men who can propose a marriage to a girl just because of such shallow considerations as their facial beauty, shape, bums, and boobs. #MenBeWise

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Op, you’re very wrong. These days, the ladies that are wayward Do NOT use make up. They want to be perceived as innocent. They learn to talk innocently and act like they cannot hurt a fly. They praise men like crazy and generally make you happy to be alive. These way, they dig their talons into you. By the time you even get a hint that you’re with a wayward creature, you’d have given them your head on a platter and possibly gone broke.

Gerrard59:
Unfortunately, the male hormone - testosterone begs to disagree. Those who solely criticise females are largely ignorant or biased.

Mind over matter!

Nigsrdumb:
If you think men are the only one's patronising prostitutes, you must be living in a lala land.

We now have older Madams doing it.

Don't believe go to Instagram, twitter.

For me, the salient point is there’d be no prostitutes without patronage; male or female.

Prostitutes can not survive without patrons. I honestly don’t understand why prostitutes are castigated while their patrons are seen as scratching an itch. To stop any vice anywhere in the world, is to takeaway its patronage. Men should stop patronizing prostitutes and they will go out of business.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Those niggars are not real niggarrrz..... pussy asss moda fuckkking niggarrrz every where

A real niggarrr sees women as swimming pool
Go in and swim..then move on... don't be taking videos and pictures

Go in shaperly ....swim your own
Don't give a fuckkk who is swimming with you
Don't give a fuckkk who will swim after you are done swimming
Don't give a fuckkk about who don swim before you started
Just swim and move on

Pure nonsense! While you’re busy swimming, I hope you understand that others are swimming in your future pool sharply and your future femme kids pools. This total disrespect for women and the act of love making is total rubbish! Olympian swimmer!!!

frankyychiji:
Well said

Thank you

Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

If you want peace of mind in this country as a young well to do man don't ever settle for one lady,Marry like 2 or 3 with different concubines and watch them stress themselves out to please you and win your heart. Most Nigerian woken are suffering from low self esteem. They hate competition and always do everything possible to come out victorious among their fellow women.

Really, then women should fight for the right to marry as many husbands as they choose. The reason? so they can watch the men fight themselves to try and please them. Most Nigerian men are suffering from low self esteem. After all, men hate competition and always do everything possible to come out victorious among their fellow men.

nextstep:
You're a woman, and granted you understand one woman - yourself. Don't you suppose that those who have dated multiple women have more experience than you on this topic, and can speak more on it? When you have dated 20+ women, I'll give you benefit of doubt that you understand women. Until then, please don't use sample size of 1 as proof that you understand them in a romantic sense.

We know what respecting a woman looks like, and I agree with your points, but that's not what's under debate. What is - and I'll reiterate - is that Ozo is not displaying respect, he's displaying idolization (aka simping). That is not attractive to women at all, despite what they say... you can see it in Nengi's body language.

It also comes as no surprise that she's catching feelings for Kidd, who apparently doesn't respect any of the women in the house (according to some definitions), but appears to command the affections/interests of several women. I bet you if we were to talk to those women, they too would wax lyrical about respect, like women are doing on this forum.

I don’t agree with you, but I won’t argue with you ‘cos the program is boring and I believe worthless to everyone except those participating.

nextstep:
Fellas, if you want to know how a woman will behave, DO NOT listen to what she says or writes.

Most desired man... does not equate to gainfully employed, happy in a relationship, and living your own agenda. No matter what she says, no woman really wants a simp in her life. It looks enticing to women, but it's unnatural and they eventually will emasculate him, ideally in favor of a non-simp. Happens all.. the... time.

Nengi didn't even bother to peck her simp at his departure, in spite of "he's most desired". Even the other girls (and lady viewer) laughed as she turned face... most desired man indeed. Kidd disappeared with her and was codedly zipping her down, sorry helping her fix her dress, then she came out and gave us that "he's like my brother" line. There's nothing more unattractive about a guy (to a woman) than one who smothers her with attention, gets butt hurt when she's having fun with somebody else, yet continues to take her lamba, swallow it, and drink water on top.

We call men like these women wrapper because she only keeps him around (like a wrapper) to wipe her tears and snot when she can't trick her way into a real man's heart.

I'm not saying a man should be a tyrant, but men should call women on their bull and not just be at her beck and call, just because it's what "women want".

Is that how a man should be? His life evaluated on the approval (or not) of women? Please.

Ba wa o! You’re not a woman, yet you think you know what women want to the point of speaking for us. Women who go for the thugs have been so disrespected that they think it is normal. Someone who loves you can not distract you and want to be respected. A real man will respect People generally because he has been well brought up. He will respect his woman because he respects himself. Being respectful does not make a person a pushover.

femmyapson:
In the presence of those kids "Black lives matters". They are indirectly instilling inferiority complex into the lives of those kids as black.
When will all this black parents get sense sef.. Imagine a kid growing up and having the notion that a white boy/girl life is more precious than its own that they would have to fight hard to resist oppression from them.. Or what is the meaning of black life matters?

In an ideal world, saying nothing would work as everyone would recognize that every life is important. But since the world is not ideal, black ( including Asians, Hispanics...) have to teach their kids that their lives are as equally important as caucasians. Systematic racism is real and should stopped. Skin heads are openly racist, but a great deal of other people, the educational system, housing ... are on the low racists. Since America is made up of different races, every system in place should favor all the races equally. The reason slavery ended is because people fought to end it. Same thing with post slavery treatment and rules. Same with apartheid.
Inequality should not be tolerated in any society. Every human has the fundamental rights to be treated with dignity. When there are laws that treat another less than others, it should be made obsolete.

Op, ignore these Nairalander ‘like’ seekers. You have every right to be upset With him. You with three streams of income and him focusing on one stream that is not bringing in much. Having said that, you married the good, bad and ugly that make up who he is. So, you have to pray to God to help you not only be tolerant, but to love him in spite of his short comings. I will suggest that instead of buying presents for him, you give him the money to help improve his business. Hopefully, the investment will yield good returns.

I believe Christians should run the world. They can do this on their knees to God or And by being actively involved. For a leader or leaders of a country to actively lead a country on the path of prosperity, they have to have a belief system that is geared towards improving the lives of others. Christians Definitely need to be proactive.

Timekeeper:
Then Save ur epistle for the altar

Epistle? I took the time to enumerate so that even a thick skull will understand and you call that an epistle? This is a public forum. If you don’t want to be quoted, then make no comments and keep your negative vibes to yourself.

Timekeeper:
Is ur daddy a pastor?

Who ask ur for epistles

Haba! This is an open forum.

Timekeeper:
Vanity upon vanity.. Futile upon futile.. 5 years after, they will all be useless

Ecclesiastes chapter 1 vs 14

I have seen all the things that are done under the sun and have found everything to be futile, a pursuit of the wind.

What is the essence of 80 shoes when you wunt go with any when u die?

What is the essence of 80 shoes when there are many around you that can't boast of a bathroom slippers talkless of shoe?

Imagine person go shopping for 85 shoes... She could have used part of the money to buy the iPhone I am offering for sale.. Imagine iPhone 7 plus 128gb for that matter.. She just wasted all on shoes..

My iPhone wud av been so beneficial to her... Linda u bleeped up


IPhone 7 plus for sale.. 128gb.. Price is 120k Lagos.. Check my profile..

ONLY MY IPHONE 7 PLUS WILL LAST FOREVER.. ALL OTHER THINGS ARE VANITY UPON VANITY

1. Her choice.
2. Her phone is probably better than the iPhone you are selling.
3. Her choice.
4. She can afford it.
5. Her choice.
6. The Bible says the poor will always be with us. Buying the shoes once a year is certainly okay.
7. Her choice.
8. She did not take out a loan to buy the shoes.
9. Her choice.
10. She has only one life to live.

VEXT:
If he had given out a huge sum of money,the same you people will scream at the top of your voice, saying he is giving out tithe money to market people...

You can't never satisfy human...

But you can obey the word of God. The Bible talks about your hand not knowing about the giving done by your other hand. Giving should be done in secret.

AmazingELixir:
Sweetheart the fish starts decaying from the head....If the head is rotten the body follows suit ..The man at the helm of affairs in this case the Fish head is a disaster.

If the body is equally corrupt, it will produce a corrupt head.

AmazingELixir:
Sweetheart, too bad you still don't know Buhari is the cause of all the problems we are facing in this country..

That’s being myopic. He is not the only one in government. Each state has a governor that should be accountable to the people in their state. We have ministers, commissioners... who treat Nigeria like their personal bank account. We have the governed, everyday people who have no conscience, no compassion. Who rob people blind on their own level. If they ever get the opportunity to rule, Nigeria will have nothing in its coffers.

AmazingELixir:



Buhariiiii this man has finished this country.

Is he the cause of COVID-19? Most countries are facing this problem.

Is04970:
This is an overkill.
Daddy Freeze messed up badly.
Imagine a divorcee, who couldn't manage a family for 2 years, lecturing a man who has been married for close to 40 years about marriage!

That one has been doing something for more than 40 years does not mean they are happy. A divorcée can give advice because he can tell you how not to fail at marriage. Having said these, I actually believe that marriages are as unique as the couple involved and their business alone.

Dailymice:
Can we see the photos of his wife and their loved up photo?

Teaching one thing and doing another. Living and cohabiting with a woman who isn't his wife...

Daddy Freeze should kuku sit don.

Adeboye marriage: 30+ years.
Oyedepo: 30+ years
Freeze: some few years and a cohabiting babe!

Must everyone have a church wedding? How do you know they’ve not tied the knot in the register?