₦airaland Forum

Poorboy:
you're single and will still be, don't hype yourself. With your mentality when you're ok with runs you will look for an old man to marry.

There should be an age restriction on those on Nairaland. Calling a woman a prostitute because she does not agree with your opinions is for the uncouth.

CSTR2:
Most rich men don't marry liabilities.

Look at Tony elumelu. His wife is a medical doctor.

You can't find an Exxon Mobil engineer looking for a wife in mushin where they are lot of jobless ladies.

An Exxon Mobil engineer would most likely get married to a Female engineer he met in a site or a female marketing executive he met in a business seminar for oil majors or a medic doctor working for his company.

Where would he meet jobless women.?

Who told you that Awele Elumelu brings any money to the table? Tony Elumelu married an only daughter of very literate parents who educated their daughter well. In fact he married up. But, she is not required to contribute any kobo. Real men provide for their families. So please stop arguing on Nairaland and go and work on yourself so you’ll be in the position to provide for your family.

Poorboy:
that's why you're still single

And you know for sure I am still single abi? You are looking for a woman to take care of you while real men provide for their families. That’s why you are on Nairaland writing what you know nothing about.

Women make sure you marry a man who makes good money. Then he won’t be interested in making you a source of income. He will be willing and able to provide for his family.

UnaToto:
Yes, Corona virus has affected the way we greet our loved ones.

On a serious note,i wonder what a lady at that age is still looking for in her parents' house.

And i also wonder the kind of work she does



-- UnaToto, 2020

Ugly hearted baboon!!! Are her parents complaining

SadiqBabaSani:
The Man is nKeepin Fit in The Gymn, Mistake fr a governor, but i m sure the Igalas have leanrt their lesson

Igallas are bent on hating and tearing each other down. They cannot learn their lesson.

Dani-Kayode is a very educated man who thinks and talks like an illiterate tout.

Vega100:
no bro... far from it... u rarely hear parents discussing that with their son whether his bride is virgin or not, no one does that.

There are parts of Nigeria where a white bedsheet is spread on the bed for the wedding night. In the morning, the blood on the sheet is shown to the elderly women as proof of virginity.

In my opinion, even a very private wedding is better than a public one. I don’t get the public proposal thing.

MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

So if her parents live in Lagos and she gets a great job in Abuja, should she turn the job down? A woman who will be loose will be that irrespective of the place and one that will be sane will be sane. Just like with guys. It is a decision that has nothing to do with living alone.

rafhell:
This girl wey my white married boss donn fvck tire.
There r reasons why they will never settle down to marry.

Just shut up!!!! There are so many haters like you in real life. I am positive that you have never met this lady in person. Nonentities always trying to bring down those they can’t reach.

NevetsIbot:
I don't know about who'll win the fight but I wrestle and take other self defense classes.


We'll see how it goes

You really don’t want to go down that road. He is friends with thugs and sounds like someone who is rash. Maybe you should relocate without telling him.

gidgiddy:
Stop talking like a fool. Theres a difference between a Jew and Jewish worshipper. Judaism is a religion just like Islam and Catholicism and anyone who practices Judaism is a Jewish worshipper

Do you have to be from Rome to be a Roman Catholic?

Do you have to be from Saudi Arabia to be a Muslim?

So why do you think anyone has to be from Israel to be a Jewish worshipper?

Too many kids on this forum

I told you I won’t read your ignorant response. Are you dense

goodnessme1:
Nigeria is a terrorist state.



Watch how yoruba
and hausafulanis will
support this injustice.

The only thing that units them is hatred for Igbos.

You are quick to insult a whole nation based on an allegation with nothing to support it. Who is Kanu to come with Two bus loads of Jews? What does he do for a living that he can afford to bring in enough Jews to fill two buses? Or is the plane ticket from Jerusalem now free? While I believe in one Nigeria, I will advice you to move to Israel quickly as this country is not for divisive elements like you. Don’t bother to respond o. I promise not to read any hate filled, thoughtless and ignorant response.

Soulsymbol99:
@wot cost datz wot u shld ask,cos i I knw say na only d benz u dey see. if u ask me i say she us trying 2 put on a happy face.

Sad people look for sadness in others because sadness loves company. This babe made her choice and is living unapologetically happily with it.

Kennedyiheme02:
Damn alot of ignorant women think having first class and the highest degree on earth can get them a quality man, so they waste all their lives doing that.. newsflash, maybe the reason you're single is because we don't give a damn about your degrees, holds no value to us.. you're single because you tend to lean towards your qualification for validation whe you're around men instead of your femininity..

I'm starting a redpill streaming site soon.. I'll post links on NL soon

Are you saying women should not have a first degree so they can attract men? What kind of myopic and lack of self confidence are you steeped in? Have you not heard that shoes have size? Imagine saying a woman is single because she leans towards her qualifications for validation!!!!! So, how about the countless women who’ve degrees, are working with said and are married? Please go and have your brain reset. You reek of �

Davash222:
This is how proposal should be. The lady must kneel to collect the ring.
Kelly handsome, nice one. Na man you be.

They are both sitting on a chair.

azimo:
come out and join the movement for the disintegrating of that British company called Nigeria, that's the solution to ur better life

What you’re talking about is a palliative and not a solution because that’s not even the problem. The artisans who make all these money are often self employed with much needed skills. Getting all the qualifications in the world without adding value to society is useless. People with first degrees have to understand that this is just basic and they need to make themselves relevant then they can get better pay.

Shibaraba:
Very soon she go buy house with Benz. These women are great entrepreneurs. Like this cleaner.
And my house cleaner. She cleans the house everyday. She is so efficient she cleans my body too.
Everyday.
Support Nigeria cleaning people. Patronise them today. Where you can find them? They're here on nairaland. Some are at Allen, others at Ikeja. Near the place.

Are you putting down a hardworking woman just to sound entertaining?

clevvermind:
the best president ever

Nigerians and brainlessness and hypocrisy. Every president who died early is the best. A man who was so sick he was unable to do his job, yet did not have the integrity to pass on responsibilities to his second in command?

youngvikthor:
after she don bleep peru

Go and take two tablets of panadol.

samtol4:
do you alternative jobs for the okada drivers ? Pray idle minds don't engage in crime for survival

Then they’ll be thrown into jails. It is not a government’s responsibility to provide jobs for its citizens. They are to provide a conducive atmosphere to ensure that citizens and their legitimate business thrive.

pmoye:
Honestly I wish I could take it all back. I'll go through our chat and see if it's possible to delete... Even then it's impossible to delete the consciousness and memory of such unpleasant exchange.

I don't exactly know what came over me, but seeing that initial post by the Op, all I could think was what would have become the fate of the woman so robbed of her job. The Lord knows I have had to enjoy too many men while in Nigeria who demonize women in their bid to hide their own moral deficiencies as men. Blaming sexual looseness on a woman's dressing while not asking the man to be accountable for his own actions and inactions. I have had friends and colleagues who are young pastors and apparently attracted to some pretty ladies around them; instead of acknowledging the attraction and appropriately addressing it like normal human beings, they turned round to accuse those ladies of being possessed by spirit of Jezebel...

You definitely don't deserve my attack against you. Apology for also mistaking you for a man.
And thanks for also apologizing. :-)

Please don’t take it down. I believe this forum is one where everyone can express their thoughts, views and learn from each other. I agree we could have expressed ourselves better, but life itself is a learning process. The people including pastors who blame women and not their lack of self control are just products of their upbringing and environment. People prefer to deny the very existence of sexual attraction or blame it on others. Which is probably why they are so susceptible.

pmoye:
Okay this one done do abeg. Oya, ndo. Don't be angry. I apologize for being angry with you. You're probably a pleasant and decent man who doesn't deserve such attack regardless of the contrast in our points of view.

I'm sorry. Please, bury the hatchet. I can't sustain a fight for this long.

I apologize sir.
Cheers.

Thanks! That’s big of you. I’m not a guy though. I’m female o! Oh! And I apologize too.

pmoye:
And you sound like a hypocritical born again tongue-talking christian, quick to flay anyone whose words shake the tenuous faith she has placed in so-called men of God.

You should have in the first place avoided quoting or attacking someone who wasn't even aware of your existence.

I don't give a rat ass if you haven't been to a church in 10 million years. You should keep your version of the truth to yourself, a version that supports the oppression (firing of a woman) of people to sate the unruly lust of the so-called big shots. That perverse version of truth you are free to tell and support, that without quoting me in your nonsensical theology.

I am not just enlightened, I am more enlightened that your entire generation will ever be. Fact. Now, run to your daddy and cry there. Not on my mention.

There you go again; totally derailing and forming myopic judgments. You’re trying so hard to be called savage that you’ve lost the thread of the argument. You are very judgmental and myopic. That you don’t share someone’s faith should not make you vitriolic. A little Mr. know it all who tries to shut anyone who disagrees with him. Adios and keep up the hate!!!

pmoye:
Remember, instead of being pained that I didn't support your silly habit of worshiping men like your daddy GO or clapping for him for destroying someone else's means of likelihood.... instead of suffering your pain-ment alone you can always bite a wooden chair nearby. Your restless teeth can't bite this far.

Zom.bie generation. Delegated thinking faction.

You sound quite uncouth and unenlightened, so quick to jump to conclusions. I am not a member of the redeemed church. I haven’t even been to church in more than a year, but I know to tell and support the truth.

pmoye:
Yes, your daddy GO's son.

You're an ediot, undiscerning one. If my comment pains you so much you needn't have replied: simply biting a wooden piece of equipment around you should have calmed you down.

I was going to report you, but thought not hoping you’ll see how wrong and horrible you are. You’re obviously one of those that hide behind being discerning yo castigate others you don’t even know. You have to desist from your ignorant and wicked ways. Stop with the false and baseless accusations.

Really horrible! And the smell will be equally terrible! The side effects of bleaching one’s skin far outweighs anything.

Mispreeti:
Thank you so much for advice. D baby is 6 months old, I want to leave his house but if I don’t tell my dad the truth , he will not be happy with me. So what other reasons should I tell my dad please ?

Tell your parents the truth and suggest your mother or his look after the baby. Your dad can tell your sister he needs you at home to do something for him. Telling her the truth will break her heart. But you don’t give a potential rapist a second chance. Leave immediately!!!

OcVoice:
She said the association and its partners would do all they can to ensure that the perpetrator was brought to book.

Which perpetrator? Did he force them? They willingly agreed to do it!

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You all quoting me and saying trash, they agreed to do it because of greed. Quick money! The beautiful ladies working as cleaners, tailors, cooks, house helps...are they fools? You all blaming the emeka guy for doing his porn business, meanwhile you go on xvideos, xnxx and porn hub to masturbate to such videos. Do you know how many girls are into the business and they do it with joy? Someone even said it's an offense....why haven't they arrested all those Nigerians on porn sites doing sex videos? Emeka has not committed any crime except that he's still owing them.
Someone even said he promised not to upload it in Jos. This shows how dull you are. Internet is internet. Nothing like different state internet. Once it goes on the internet, everyone all around the world sees it. Why would a married woman go into sex deal in the first place?

Making and selling pornography is actually a crime. Soliciting for sex is a crime. He should be held accountable for his part. It is true that he did not force her, but he enticed her; payment for sex. And his is multiple payments to various ladies. He is a cancer who will be caught and eradicated.

pmoye:
How about you also ban the spirit of sexism and wickedness and the inflicting of joblessness on women in your daddy GO and his son who is incapable of controlling his lust around women?.

How about that?

You know a son of Pastor Adeboye who is incapable of controlling his lusts around women? This is a serious accusation. Don’t hide behind a nameless and faceless forum to say trash!!!!!!!

donstan18:
Her desperate condition awaits 99.975% of Nigerian non-virgin ladies who keep calling men "Scum"

Actually, her condition can not happen to women who call men scum because those ladies are very aware. It usually happens to innocent women.