₦airaland Forum

Biafra1stson:
That's e-money house

I don’t like his taste then. I think it is gaudy, ostentatious... But to each his own.

Biafra1stson:
I searched them on jiji those chairs cost more than 10 million. I saw one of 18million gold plated.

Taste and cost don’t always go hand in hand. Somethings are made to look really ostentatious to attract people without class but have a lot of money.

Biafra1stson:
Everyone who saw this interior acknowledged the beauty except you. The only problem I see here is the absence of a smart tv of 75 or 85 inches on the wall.
Well that's your own point of view. Look at this mansion I saw on jiji 1.3 billion it's also electroplated like gold according to u.

These pictures show furniture that is tasteful and understated. The previous pictures show gaudy furniture I find horrible and classless.

Nwodosis:
Cash equivalent would have been better. Imagine adults queing for a meal!

It is done in advanced countries. Yes, even in the US.

iyatrustee:
Bad market! Toke on a good day sef can go naked in front of the camera, how someone thinks he can exploit her through that avenue beats my imagination

That said, the fact that a lot of lazy peeps are out looking out to cash out big from doing nothing, absolutely nothing shows how low the society has fallen.

Have you ever seen Toke go naked in public? Do you even know her? You are the typical Nigerian who tries so hard to make yourself seem grander than you are by acting like you’re associated with your betters.

CoronaVirusPro:
Publicity stunt from inception.

And publicity you have gotten .

Please think of the consequences of your words before you pen them. How can Davido claim his fiancée is sick for publicity?

Babapyro:
It is embarrassing to see how low the standards of our ladies as become,most of Nigerian girls see themselves as a money making machine and they don't mind doing anything to get cash including the unthinkable, I can vividly remember how girls were in the 90s,no one really cared about how much you are worth,it was all about feelings and mutual understanding, I once dated a girl in 1998 that refused to allow me to pay for dinner,she insisted we had to split the bill,that was how cautious and impressive girls were.
Nowadays if you go to Instagram you'll see thousands of Nigerian girls posing almost nude on a social platform.
Look at what is happening currently with gilrs striping naked and doing unspeakable things on a live video because of 20k.
How much more low can this girl's standard get,nowadays you can have any girl you want including the married ones if you have enough money.
They have practically reduced themselves to a sex object,a means of sexual gratification or should I say a means to an end.
Some weeks ago I saw a girl sitting all by herself in a mall and I approached her paid for our foods and talked at length.when we were about to part I asked for this girl's contact and she plainly asked me if I'm ready to SPEND HEAVILY ON HER,BECAUSE SHE'S GOT AN EXPENSIVE TASTE,SHE SAID IF I WAS READY SHE COULD EVEN COME TO MY HOUSE THAT SAME DAY AND HAVE FUN WITH ME,I was embarrassed on her behalf,this girls see relationships as a JOB OPPORTUNITY and it is embarrassing to say the least.
Girls I'm begging you please change and improve on this, have some self respect and dignity because at the end of the day you have everything to lose.

While there’s a lot of truth in what you wrote, there are also misconceptions like saying all ladies do this. There are a number of us who don’t. There are so many young guys who are ready to date their grandmothers so far she is loaded. But it would be unfair to say all guys do this. Anyway, we simply have a great deal of people these days who are shameless and extremely lazy.

DanArrewa:
you're one of those bigot who come online to paint the north black... There's no where in kano... You will speak English to someone who understands and speak English for him to turn you down by speaking Hausa to you! Madam... Maybe the people you meet don't speak English or you just make up this stories to support your ipob brothers!

Oh please stop with this nonsense!!!! Ba turenchi is like the first expression one learns after general greetings. I learned to respond with ba Hausa. This was more common in Kano city. Those in the villages like Kiru where much more accommodating. If your first language is Hausa, how do you expect to experience this first hand? Please don’t call me a liar. I find that offensive.

DanArrewa:
then you're lying... You're either an igbo or a religious bigot!!

I thought you were a reasonable person. I apologize for thinking that. So, let’s put an end to the discussion.

DanArrewa:
that's means the people you meet don't speak English... They told you ba Turanci... Meaning they don't speak English! What that nigga is trying to say is that they use to force people to speak Hausa!

That's what I'm refuting!

Have you ever spent time in the north? You’ll hear two people conversing in English until you ask them a question in English. Then they’ll switch to Hausa and tell you ba turenchi. If you continue to speak English to them because you know they understand you, they’ll ask you for your house address in London.

DanArrewa:
see them... Concocting fake news just to paint the north black!

Now tell us... Where is it in kano that people can't speak any other language except Hausa??

Ipobs will never cease to amaze me!

I did my nysc in Kano. I got lost in the city. Some people refused to give my directions because I was speaking English. I heard “ ba Turenchi’ way too many times. I am not Ibo.

Wike should understand that his position as a governor requires diplomacy always. A man who cannot control his temper cannot lead well.

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

You’re as wicked as your stepmom for even thinking of pouring hot water on her. Your post reeks of your hatred and wickedness. You’re a married woman invading the home of another married woman. If you cannot accord her with due respect, pack out.

Iamgrey5:
Our president is a clown if he thinks people are going to obey the directives this time around.

For their own good, they had better!!!

BabyApple:
I am looking for anyone who can give me Uber or taxify. I can do it sir

So go their office and let them pair you up.

BabyApple:
Please for goodness sake.. I am hungry I swear. All I need is just food.. I stay around Yaba. I can come and pick the food anywhere please.. I am jobless. I have a valid driver's license but I couldn't get a job. Please I need fooodddd pleaseeeeee. I will come and pick the food please.

While I am not disputing your hunger, if you have a valid drivers license why not do Uber or taxify?

AFONAMARO:
I weep for comments like this. You mean he should go do chores for a man with 6 irresponsible fools so he could be taken serious?

I bet you go around looking for people to assist with chores in your vicinity.

Father Christmas!

I actually weep for you. You’re obviously not refined, well brought up or well schooled. Instead of coming to Nairaland to wail, if he is so concerned, he should help the man. Maybe the kids will join. Olofofos who can’t mind their business but keep looking for entertainment in the lives of others. Don’t bother with your uncouth response as I won’t read it.

harakiri:
These "governors" are pathetic. Covid 19 has been effectively politicized. You have little to no ventilators...what's the point of the quarantine really? To think ppl actually support this move is sickening.

People do come out to exercise in countries that are worst hit...we just love playing to the gallery don't we?

Stop this nonsense please! The quarantine is to stop the spread of the disease. The fact that there are few ventilators should be a greater incentive to stay at home. In the US, over 800 people die in a day. Now, everywhere is like a ghost town. So please stop encouraging nonsense.

Cashinflow8:
Intelligence is the capacity for logic, understanding, self-awareness, learning, emotional knowledge, reasoning, planning, creativity, critical thinking, and problem-solving.

People who are Intelligent are regarded as very intellectually active individuals, they are always focused and highly creative people making use of their high intellectual capacity to solve world problems. Below are some of the problems that are common with very intelligent people;

1. Difficulty to Mingle With the Crowd

Intelligent people are always finding it hard to fit in. Because of their intelligence, they find it hard to socialize with other people. They usually find solace in thinking and staying alone most of the times.

2. Intelligent People Suffer Analysis Paralysis

Intelligent people are always analysing and sometimes they overanalyze things. They are too conscious of not making mistakes in life.

3. They Find It Hard to Make Friends

Intelligent people have foresight which usually makes it hard for them to make friends easily. They usually wants their friends to be intelligent and perfect just like them. This usually leave them without any friend.

4. Difficulty to Express Feelings and Emotions

Intelligent people think too much and so they usually don't talk too much. They talk less because the utilize their time doing meanful things.

5. They Are Pressured to Succeed

Intelligent people are always pressured to succeed in whatever they do in life. People expect so much from them and this also helps them by making them equally expect so much from themselves.

6. They Are Socially Awkward

They are usually anti social because of the focus and passion they have for reading, learning and discovering new things.

7. Difficulty to Fall in Love

Intelligent people aren't easily attracted by good looks and beauty but by intelligence too. This usually makes it hard for them to find in love. They have to check whether the person is intellectually compatible with them before falling in love.

Very intelligent analysis, but socializing has absolutely nothing to do with intellect. It has to do with life skills learnt when growing up.

Ask4bigneyo:
Yes.... Why do you think our politicians allowing their children to marry each other? Our leader has turn everything upsidedown only If you understand how people are suffering in this Nation.

Not all of us are born with golden spoon

Why blame everything on leaders? People gave birth to kids they don’t teach morals or self respect. The kids grow up to become swindlers, beggars and 419ers. Is the government supposed to raise people’s kids for them? If the parents teach kids the difference between right and wrong and model this for them on a daily basis, chances are the kids will grow up to become responsible adults. Even the government will comprise of responsible adults because the members of the government are from our communities.

Don’t understand why anyone is blaming the government. Lagos people who love to paint themselves as rich big boys and girls!!!! They have nothing in their bank accounts, squat with others and yet talk big all the time. They will go and squat in incomplete buildings in Lekki 1 until they are sent away. So the government will see them as Lekki phase residents with the capacity to feed themselves. Why should the government feed people who have the money to take care of themselves. Relief should only be for the poor.

What a courageous woman!!!!kudos to you Madam. These days, it is not only men that blackmail people with their nudes. Some horrible ladies will take pictures of a lady while she is in the room changing her clothes. Then they’ll give the pictures to someone else to use it as a means of blackmail.

Lavisha:
Because you've got comfort right?
So, others should just stay home and die?!
common!

What kind of ignorant talk is this? To manage themselves for to weeks so that Coronavirus can be curbed is now a big deal to some of you. Why do most Nigerians think with their bellies and not their brains? S group of people without any foresight.

ajl:
What will you do if you have no money in your pocket and no food to eat or feed your family? You will just sit down and be looking into the sky. Coronavirus is something that is still largely imaginary to them. But hunger is right there, they could immediately feel it in their body.

That is exactly why they need to see the reality of Coronavirus. At the moment it is all abstract to them. How were they feeding before? If the are laborers at building sites, these sites are all shut up. If they are petty traders, there’s no one to buy their wares except those who live in their neighborhood. Hunger, they can sort out. Coronavirus is an unknown factor at the moment. It is not just about them dying. It is about the onslaught of the epidemic that can arise from the ignorance and myopia of some people. I’m really sorry them, but they have to get off the streets and stay at home. The US with all its resources waited to take action against the virus. We allowed returnees in without appropriate checks. At least, we can be proactive about checking the spread.

The government should put large screens everywhere showing people from other countries dying of corona. People will understand better. Nigeria has too many ignorant people.

Adonko:
Oh so you prefer they die of hunger abi?

Is the government responsible for their feeding?

djon78:
The bolded is a good trade off.
But working women still raise up good children. Some still add great value to there homes it's more about the mindset

It is more about choice. Plus there are those who have family that are available and willing to help. Everyone creates time to help raise the kids which frees the women to work. There are a great deal of women who do not have this support system. If they choose to work, they have to depend on strangers looking after their kids. Their others who don’t want any of that but want to be completely hands on mums.

2buffagain:
And how long do you think these children will need your attention for?

This is why a lot of you don't know how to let your children be adults.
It's because you have nothing else occupying your mind.

That is how one so-called mother inlaw will be coming to the son's house to be causing problems with his wife.
It's all a symptom of conc. joblessness.

I don’t have the inclination to argue with someone who is so jaded.

djon78:
This looks more like a gold diggers comment.
Many successful men I know today didn't just start off making big money.
It was all about a progressive increase.
In fact many of them were initially not that buoyant and there wives married them without that much money.

I have sisters married to very wealthy men. But when those men came then, they hadn't much. But today the story is different


So like I said this is a gold diggers comment. Gold diggers rearly end up with rich men. Because they don't have the capacity to attract one. And even if by chance they do, they rearly sustain the marriage because of same lack of capacity.

That was a comment made by an intelligent female. Chasing money at the expense of giving children the attention they need is not what I want.

lepasharon:
So why bother getting a degree at all? Why not be a housewife then?

It is a choice.

Plead:
Is there anything wrong with a woman making her own money? Cuz I don’t know why y’all female folks are angry over the OP.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a woman making her own money. Just like there’s nothing wrong with a woman who decides to be a stay at home mum so she can raise children who will add value to their world. There is no wrong or right way. So, for the op to tell men to run away from women who are not adding cash to the family is ignorant. Some families have a member not working until the kids get to a certain age.

Poorboy:
A woman that eats buy clothes, pay rent etc and has nothing to do( no job, no business, no family stipends like even 25k monthly ) is a Prostitute.

How do you know she has nothing to do? If you’re not enlightened enough to know that a lot of people work from home and earn good money, then you’ll keep shouting prostitute up and down. Anyway, a man who goes about accusing women he has no personal knowledge of of prostitution is either jobless, illiterate or both. Definitely uncouth.